If only you guys realized how insecure women are about literally everything, you would never hesitate to approach them, or take the reigns in a relationship again. Stop whining so much, be a man, and go after what you want.
Also, favorite pull day exercise? For me, it's the weighted pullup
You think woman are insecure? They got tons of guys on IG texting them daily. They go out clubbing? Many guys will jump on them. And that applies to ANY average girl.
The 5/10 thot is more secure than a 8/10 male
Angel Miller
lol at actually thinking women are ever secure about anything
Christopher Hall
They know those guys on IG are thirsty losers who hit everyone up, and would take anything - that doesn't make them feel better about anything. Same thing with the drunk guys at the club. They want a sober, normal person to make them feel special, and they are all worried that they are not worth that. But you can keep making excuses for why you won't talk to that cute girl you see if you want
Caleb James
Those women all know they will have no value after 30. They get off on the attention, sure, but deeper down they are hopeless without permanent male support and they fear getting ugly while still single.
Alexander Torres
You do realize that receiving validation doesn't inherently solve your insecurities right? Imagine you bust your ass at the gym ((You) obviously dont, but for the sake of this example humor me) because you want to meet the masculine ideal thats been burned into your brain since basically infancy. You're not there yet because it's been a number of months and you've hit stalls on your lifts, which hurts your sense of accomplishment. You're feeling particularly troubled now, when you notice the water in your shaker cup start to ripple. A noise that sounds like 2 sledge hammers coming down on concrete grows in volume when you notice a contender for a future season of 600 lb Life approaching. She gets up next to you and says she likes her men strong like you and asks if you want to "hang out" some time.
Is that a personal validation, or a highly disappointing outcome?
Good thing the guys on Jow Forums aren't insecure about literally everything
Elijah Baker
This place is like a death cult - totally insecure people trying to "blackpill" others into their cult to make themselves feel better about their utter failure as men. As men, we can help each other the most by giving each other positive encouragement
the fact that you equate being secure with just having sex is pretty sad
Landon Martinez
God shes fucking perfect Why do my dream women have to whore themselves online
Kayden Butler
Op is right. You think just because a girl acts like a confident bad bitch on social media that’s how she really feels? Acting confident and actually feeling it are two wildly different things whether it’s a man or a woman. Grow up.
Hudson Mitchell
She actually looks a lot better with a bra on.. Just leave that bra on trick
Carson Phillips
>women get 100x the validation and support that men get >education and opportunities are handed to them on a silver platter >still manage to be insecure Somebody remind me why we let these creatures vote
Christian Fisher
Women are definitely insecure around attractive men. I'm a complete autist but I have had women in my life that made it clear they thought I rejected them when in reality I was just clueless. Anyone who automatically assumes rejection can't possibly be that confident.
yeah cause they fear going back to whatever broke them last time.
you ain't jumping heads first into relationships a litlle insecurities is cute and valuable.
retards will send retards signals and be retarded anyway.
Daniel Collins
That dude was ugly because he was fat. He always had good features
Carter Price
Still applies You will look 10x better if you lose weight and get a good bod
Elijah Smith
I mean most people don't respond to streaks
Julian Thompson
Yup, women are like super-betas. Low test, high est, super apprehensive,waste time overthinking social cues etc. There's a reason why they almost never ask a man out directly, unless through friend proxy or while shitfaced/no inhibitions from drugs. Go up and confidence mog them, good chance you'll succeed.
i dont get that vibe from thus place at all. why are you such a whiney homo?
Connor Roberts
the reason they are so insecure is because they get all those things
Christopher Myers
>grab her by the nape and kiss her >sorry I'm hitting a DL PR also you probably can't get on my level and keep up with my cutting diet >girl soaks wet yet bitches about how you are an insecure prick who assaulted her that's why you lift for your self expectations not anyone else's
Carson Russell
mostly decent advice (not that I would know) but coming from a place of seeing women as some kind of alien creature
Levi Miller
>positive encouragement
That's not how Jow Forums works. We just take every conceivable insecurity to an absurd extreme and shitpost about it to laugh at each other and make each other mad.
And then eventually, one day, it clicks: It all really is stupid. My insecurities I seethe over are just as stupid as their insecurities that I laugh at. It's all a meme. A meme within a meme. And then you REALLY laugh, because this time, it's laughing at yourself. And the worry stops.
That's the secret that most women never figure out. You don't dispel insecurity with encouragement. You learn to despise it with laughter. You don't make yourself safe from it in your hugbox circle of besties. You triumph over it in a hurtbox of shitposting assholes.
It's been a long time since OP delivers good reasoning. You're right, but the losers on this Malaysian bakery forum have barely left the basement a few months ago.
Yeah, true desu. In my circle of friends pretty much all girls are very insecure about their looks.
Be a guy who is at least decent looking tho and they'll have the ego and self-esteem of a planet. Then good luck for girls trying to form a relationship with those said guys who essentially only love their own self and thinks no one is good enough for them.
Carter Reyes
What does he mean by this?
Asher Flores
I'm not talking about the same kind of encouragement you are. I don't mean that we should act like women and tell each other that we are all amazing and great and wonderful and anyone would be lucky to have us, yass kang slay.
People are wallowing should be looked down on. People who are being insecure for stupid shit should be made fun of. What I mean by encouragement, is that there still needs to be positivity, encouragement that people should get their shit together, help for getting our shit together, and that once we do get our shit together, we can be successful. This board is negativity after negativity after negativity. So much so, in fact, that there needs to be a dedicated "good feels" thread, that usually dies with around 30 posts.
What makes women sensitive and insecure also makes them capable of love and genuine caring for another person.
Whereas men will only look for an extension for theirselves and they are not able to truly love and care for someone. They are always looking for the next best thing. A man who has options never settles for one woman.
Jeremiah Bell
>there still needs to be positivity, encouragement that people should get their shit together There is all the time faggot. Take a look in /fat/ they are all helping each other. But no you go in shitpost bitching threads and cry about not seeing enough encouragement. I’m not evening meme when I say you should go back
lol at actually thinking women are ever insecure about anything (pic related) >They want a sober, normal person to make them feel special Yes. Someone who has looks, money, and status. They want someone with who has looks, money, and status to make them feel special. Yep. Which is why they ride the cock carousel as best as they can and then settle for a betabuxxx by age 30. >You do realize that receiving validation doesn't inherently solve your insecurities right? Except women don't have to do anything to receive validation. Also just lol @ comparing a woman's life to lifting. And yet unironically they dress like sloots. They love the attention. >what is faking it Says the whitekniting faggot
So many low T low IQ s o yboys today. Am I not aware of a r*Ddit raid?
You're either gay or you don't like tits. Or you have no idea what tits actually look like. Her tits sag a little but they're huge, what do you expect?
Juan Foster
Are you going to counter any of his points or are you just going to ad hom him about sex and run away?
that is valid and good, but not everyone works like that, not even all men it's not a pure thing either, most people have a bit of both
Jordan Price
>takes naked photos and posts them online >"why is she cutting herself?" Gee I wonder user
Joshua Lee
that jaw and cheekbones were always there and he is an exceptional example
Grayson Sullivan
>Except women don't have to do anything to receive validation. that makes it even more hollow, it's no wonder they treat guys as disposable >Says the whitekniting faggot not an argument or even a real response to the concept of sex != security
Ryder Flores
anyone on this site has a ridicously low chance of ever being confident, normies are more likely to be successful in achieving relationships than you, this is a hive for sociopathic woody allens, so woody allens
Michael Cook
It's almost as if girls differ individually in terms of how confident they are...
Jokes on you, this board made me more confident, humorous, stronger, self-reliant and basically got me laid a ton of times.Gonna get an aryan wheatfield QT anyday now.
>sex != security Actually, sex DOES equal security. If a woman wants to find a rich handsome man, she will need to be sexually attractive, or cute by the very least, to attract such a man. Men judge women based on looks, women judge men based on resources (and looks too), but if a woman barely gets any attention from men, then that means she is subhuman and will have less chance of getting a secure husband. A man with resources and security won't settle for a 4/10. He will settle with whatever his networth can get him and often times it's eyecandy that he can attract.
Christopher Young
True. However manlet memes are true, short men are subhumans.
i say this completely unironically that Jow Forums may be the single biggest group of insecure guys anywhere on planet earth. the level of insecurity this place has every single day is beyond belief.
like, i get that most girls are super insecure, but holy shit this place is something else
You need to put yourself in a woman's shoes. To a woman success is not having tons of dudes hit you up all the time for sex - that's what success is for a man, except being able to be with tons of women rather than men obviously. Success for a woman is being able to attract a quality mate and keep him around, to extract committment. This is where a woman's sense of insecurity is in, not "oh boy, can I bang a random dude tonight?" any woman has been able to do that since time began. It's "can I get a good guy to stay before I hit the wall?"
Samuel Wilson
wtf katya still exists
Aaron Roberts
Jow Forums is a literal cesspool of autism and insecurity beyond conceivable measure
James Nelson
you havent been to /lit/ or Jow Forums then
Nolan Scott
>/lit/ What? They just talk about books and philosophy all day. Here is where the real insecurity is although I don't doubt r9k.
Matthew Campbell
we're talking about emotional security
Liam Rogers
Aye, good way of putting it
/lit/ and /out/ are the only two boards on this site not infested by Jow Forums retards
Angel Green
Same thing. >but if a woman barely gets any attention from men, then that means she is subhuman and will have less chance of getting a secure husband
James Walker
this is the essence of Jow Forums bois, its the fruit of true anonymity
Brody Cook
what a meme attention whore. two years ago i self admitted myself to the looney bin for pretty much the same diagnosis.
panic disorder major depressive disorder generalized anxiety disorder ocd etc, etc.
the last thing i wanted to do at that point and for the years leading up to that point was interact with others or tell people