How do I get rid of a deep-seated inferiority complex?
How do I get rid of a deep-seated inferiority complex?
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Stop gawking at pictures of women who are way out of your league, for one.
She's in my league if she lowers her standards.
By that logic she's in everyone's league
listen up chestlet, they make these things called breast implants to solve your exact problem, just get them and stop crying
I'm not a woman. I just used that pic to get more anons to click on this thread.
that's really optimistic for a guy with a inferiority complex
How inferior are you user?
>implying I would look like this with implants
Extremely. I feel like everyone looks down on me and sees me as a child. I cannot conceive of a woman having any positive feelings towards me, and the only reason they interact with me is because they're too polite to tell me to piss off. I feel like none of my friends actually like me, I'm just that cringey weirdo that always shows up. I hate myself more than anything, desu. If it weren't for my mother I would've committed suicide already.
you can't. your inferiority complex didn't fall out of the sky. you developed one for good reason. you really are inferior. just accept it and stick in your lane in life you will be that much happier.
t. actual subhuman
First, find out why you have this inferiority complex. Did your dad tell you that you were shit? Did you grow up getting bullied? You had no friends? Did some girl you like reject you? Write it down. Now figure out how you should've handled it at the time. Your dad was mean, the best thing to have done was to realize your dad is probably a piece of shit, moreso than you, and he was projecting his insecurities onto you. You got bullied, the best option would've been to fight back physically. Join a martial arts gym and learn how to fight, you'll never be bullied again. You grew up friendless, the best thing to do would be to get some real friends now who actually like you. It's not gay to talk to guys at bars and clubs. The martial arts gym I mentioned before would be good to meet other guys. Some girl broke your heart, the best thing would've been to find another girl or girls to take your mind off of her. Watch a few YouTube videos and go out and try to at least have a conversation with a girl that goes well.
Put effort into your appearance. If you're ugly, you're ugly but there are things you can do to appear more attractive. Buy nicer clothes that fit (they don't have to be expensive, everything in my closet excluding shoes are under $50), get a nice haircut, maybe lift weights and run, etc
Work on your personality. Read up on charisma and confidence and attractive personalities. Focus on having fun conversations where you make people smile and laugh and feel good about themselves. You feel better about yourself and more confident when you see somebody react well to something you just said.
Also, stop believing in things like "out of your league". This kind of thinking only perpetuates an inferiority complex. Literally everyone is in your league, it's only a matter if they like you or not. I've had girls who I would've thought would never be interested in a skinny funny looking cunt like me but some model-tier girls found me cute. I guess I was their specific fetish. Never pass up on a girl just because she's better looking.
>Literally everyone is in your league
no
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Pack it up, anons.
Yes. Everyone has seen that gorgeous girl out with the ugly or fat guy. You never know what someone is attracted to.
>leagues don't exist
That line of thinking is intellectually dishonest and divorced from reality on a fundamental level. When you look like an ogre, there's no point in approaching stacy. You know what the answer is as soon as you lay eyes on her.
>You never know what someone is attracted to
Money, which is what those guys have.
One offs are irrelevant. We're talking general terms
>Money, which is what those guys have.
Lol nope. I'm skinny broke and black and I've fucked some girls way "out of my league"
They're not irrelevant. There's no telling which girl is a "one off" so you may as well try like I do.
The trips do not lie. Except the part about going to talk to guys at bars
How long can a person be expected to keep beating their head against a wall? With that logic you might as well be expecting to win the lottery.
>They're not irrelevant. There's no telling which girl is a "one off" so you may as well try like I do.
If there's a one in ten thousand chance it will work out, i'd argue it's not worth it to waste your time for such a slim chance so it is relevant
Not By Raping.
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Precisely this. How am I not supposed to have an inferiority complex when I'm a shit eyed underweight, crooked-spine manlet with a recessed jaw and chin?
The first thing you should understand is that women are not visual as men. Women are attracted to your soul, and that should have a firm ego to back the content of your soul. Men want the beauty of women, women want the mind of men. If you are insecure certainly it wont add to ur situation. You need to understand that despite your physical appareance, theres something that makes you desirable to women. You are born a MAN!. But a man man, a real man, is determined by his will and confidence, cos he has ambitions that put ur qualities to work in real life. That is hot for a woman. Improve your physique and looks as much as you can. Stop thinking about women, and think about what makes you better and improve yourself in every area you can. When conficdence comes, ull see women react different to a confident man than to someone that oozes "inferiority". Anons here, you and me, have seen many times the smoking hot girl with a hideous looking shit, and wondered; How in the actual fuck? Well, this guy had an iron confidence and a critiques-proof vest for skin, and probably hes lucky at some point. Thing is most of those are just unaware jerks that get the girl for some time until she realizes he was just a narcissist jerk and she didnt see it at that time. Of course after banging her which is no use as relief for you. You need to read some good source of social dynamics, pua, manosphere etc. But dont give up, believe me, itll pay eventually. Strenght and honor brother.