I have this girl that is in love with me but I've never had feelings for her. She is always texting me and always wants to hang out but I don't have any attraction to her and our personalities clash. Having this happen to me after wanting a gf for so many years and after all the time I spent being miserable because I thought no one would ever care about me has made my self loathing transcend from hatred of my physical appearance to hatred of my shallow personality. Is there any hope? Am I retarded? Can anyone relate? I just need someone to talk to about this and I have no one in the real world to vent to
How about you talk about that with the ducking girl that loves you.
Another tard wrangled
Ryan Perez
I don't know user, I'm afraid she might do some crazy shit. She's always telling me I'm the best thing in her life and what not. And if I told her the whole truth she would have to know that I have a oneitis that I cant get over
Jayden Sullivan
you have a beta orbiter now so leave this place you're literally incapable of being lonely fuck off
Wyatt Campbell
have you guys actually went out and kissed and done all the steps or is she just orbiting you?
Noah Fisher
You shouldn't feel bad for not feeling attracted to someone. It's not your fault
Ian Gonzalez
first of all fuck you I miss when people on this board could have genuine heartfelt discussions when shit was serious weve spent time together but shes basically just kind of orbiting me I guess and I dont have it in me to tell her Im not attracted to her because I know what it feels like to be in her position
I agree that I shouldn't, but I do. Even though my story plays to the contrary I'm an ugly piece of shit so I know what it feels like to be rejected by everyone you want to be like and it fucking sucks
Anthony Gray
Ive been in that situation. It isnt your fault, you cant force attraction.
Blake Carter
I've been the girl in this situation; just break it off. I got more attached as I got strung along.
Camden Hall
I was in that situation, went along with it and learned to love her. Now I miss her. But no female would ever consider such a thing so you should do what they do and friendzone her hard, then continuously tease her and lead her on until she kills herself. that's what women do to men, give them a taste of their own medicine
Brody Evans
>my self loathing transcend from hatred of my physical appearance to hatred of my shallow personality. AHAHAAAHAHA. She's ugly isn't she? >Can anyone relate? Sure can. That you're shallow is a realization a lot of people go through. In the end you'll still be your same old "I want a gf" self, except you'll make a slight addendum. "I want a pretty* gf" At least you won't blame all those pretty girls for not wanting you as much as you used to. You're finally in their shoes.
Colton Powell
Either she is ugly or you aren't as ugly as you thought. Spend some more time with her and maybe you will cultivate some feelings for her
Aiden Cooper
Thanks for the advice I'm gonna sleep on it While that would be an epic win for us gamers I'm not so sure Its fucked because I've heard other people talk about this and thought it was retarded but before I knew this girl and especially before she told me she was in love with me I thought she was attractive, but you're not wrong about the pretty gf thing. It kind makes me fucking sick because its so contradictory to my way of thinking but I cant help it.
>While that would be an epic win for us gamers I'm not so sure I'm older than you, you zoomer little shit if her personality is salvageable just settle for her, if she's some boring braindead normie girl then friendzone her. even if you let her down gently because you feel bad for the poor defenseless female.
Julian Hughes
>I'm older than you woo so ebin :DDD >settle for her I think this whole scenario has made me realize I would much rather be alone in life than be with some normie I can't relate with
Camden Butler
I feel you annon. Seeing love disgusts me. I'd much rather take care of myself and maybe have some one night stands
Kayden Myers
Oh I've had moment where I've thought "my girl" was attractive too. It's basically a psychological thing. What you don't have looks more valuable than what you already have in your possession. Some people refer to it as the "thrill of the chase" but if she just isn't your thing then she just isn't your thing.
She is a woman she will be all right without you. My girl went ahead to date other dudes later (more desperate ones) but at least I'm grateful she wasn't attached to me and she was happier with them too. **And more miserable when they dumped her than she was when she lost me.**
Christian Turner
No user I didn't mean seeing love disgusts me, just I can't picture myself spending my life with someone like this aforementioned lady who I truly don't feel for. I hope you're right user, I often think that women are just crazy and emotional and that in a few years time if I let her go she wont even remember me
Juan Morris
last night I bought my in-n-out burger from a LITERAL Chad
Jaxson Flores
>LITERAL Chad >LITERAL >literal You don't mean to say that he was in fact, without a doubt, actually... named Chad?
>It kind makes me fucking sick because its so contradictory to my way of thinking but I cant help it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You thought you were a good boy and you weren't like the others. What you need to realize is that the world is governed by one single force that was both the source of all your misery as well as something you yourself ALWAYS participated in: Lookism.
Just make sure to looksmax yourself. Life is a game where you must make sure you're as attractive as possible and your aim is to get with the most attractive partner you can possibly get your grubby hands on. If you're lucky you might cause a glitch in the system and get with something way out of your league.
When you're looks deficient it's a gamble where you'll either remain alone forever or get with someone you're happy with eventually. AND ALWAYS, ALWAYS SHAME WOMEN IF THEY DO THE SAME. FUCKING WHORES. Never settle, you'll just be miserable.
