Fembot thread

>Okay I'm ready to settle down now, who wants a gf?

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Whats your original chromosome pair you were born with?

>I'm ready to settle down, who wants a gf?
pass, i only want a whore to fuck

same. a girl i was best friends with literally a year ago tried being my friend again but this time i just couldnt enjoy our time together. I cant enjoy time with anyone. im literally happier alone

Relationships suck, don't do it. I thought I wanted a bf, but every relationship I've been in taxes my reserves and I want to leave the minute I'm in one.

This is exactly how I feel. I've researched the prices of adoption and artificial insemination for the day I do decide to have kids. I want a family, but I don't want a partner. Other people are miserable, but I seem to love being around children.

Hey ... :-)
This is gonna come off as forward but could I take you out for dinner

Why not natural insemination? Woudn't be hard to find a willing donor.

>settle down
You wouldn't give me the time of day before you became used goods. Why should I have anything to do with you now?

I don't know any guy that would be up for that; I've also read that getting the rights is a pain, but if it can be done I'd do it.

I'm in a 4-year relationship and it's pretty great. I've never dated anyone prior to this guy and I really enjoy it, my life's been wholly better than when I was single. I wonder if it just takes a certain disposition to be capable of forming a deep bond with someone

> no one wants me, does anyone want me?
> I would but you wouldn't want me
> nah uh you dont want me!
Sad fucks

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I know it's a meme thread but I would marry just about any fembot.

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>certain disposition to be capable of forming a deep bond with someone

I've been completely honest and emotionally open with all of my partners, but they were not the same for me. I had to fight to get more than one word responses from them. I made the effort: I tried to stay interesting and give leverage for conversations, I texted first, etc. The other person just became quieter and quieter until there was no reason I even wanted to be in the relationship. Yes, not talking a lot is normal, once you've been with someone long enough, but this was always in the beginning. My relationships typically fizzle out in the first weeks when the guy is no longer in the honeymoon stage.

Where do you live? I have the same desire as you. I want to sire children, but not be around after.

Tell us about your relationships.

Get off our board you cunt.

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Stfu you fucking worthless whore

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If 1 person has to feel lonely in this world, everybody should have to.

Anons are going to fight each other to get a fembot gf

Do fembots have more self-esteem than pic related?

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United States, though not for long most likely.

What do you want to know? For me, it was mostly an issue of commitment. The guys I was with wanted to "browse" while we were together.

I don't know if I'd ever date a girl who browsed this board. Recently my self esteem has gone up a bit and so have my standards. I'm confident that I'm a decent person but I can't say the same for people who browse this board, male or female.

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What do you mean by "browse"? Try to hit it up with other girls?

>I'm ready to settle down
Translation: I've had a bunch of dick in me & my biological clock is ticking

>who wants a gf?
Translation: Who wants to be my betabuck?

BTFO Roastie

>Try to hit it up with other girls?
Yes, this.

I'm in a similar situation myself right now, what would you recommend I do?

>I'm ready to settle down
If you even have to say this you've probably had too much dick in your for me.

Just find a guy that wants the same things you do, marry for convenience and forgo the actual relationship.

hit me up if any of you need a boyfriend in aus
i've been told I have a nice dick pls i'm so lonely

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It really depends on what you want out of a relationship and what your boundaries are. In one of those cases, I allowed the guy to date openly while he was dating me because we both didn't know each other well and he wanted to find his best fit. After an allotted time, I would move on from him if he hadn't picked who he wanted to make his official girlfriend. While I was okay with that, you might not be. Set firm boundaries; tell him that the looking around makes you uncomfortable. From there you can tell him "no more," give him some space and allow him to look with a compromise, or cut your loses and move on. You have to be strong enough to cut off completely if need be, otherwise don't get involved in the first place. the minute someone shows wandering eyes now, I leave.

Fuck you faggots you are all worthless faggots encouraging these shit threads. There should be a rule against these kinds of threads on this board, fuck "fembots" the ruin this board

Nothing you can do except find a loser who won't care that you are used up

>Just find a guy that wants the same things you do
Easier said than done; I've yet to find a guy who wants to marry and have children, while being separated from me for the most part. Adoption seems like the route someone like me should take.

>marry and have children, while being separated from me for the most part
What? You want a family oriented guy but don't want him to be a part of said family? Not surprised you haven't found any takers.

Just marry some cuck and divorce him like every other woman. Then you even get alimony

>The guys
>they wanted to browse
user, are you fucking retarded? or did you accidentally imply that you were banging multiple dudes at once and were pissed they weren't interested in committing to you?

God this thread is pathetic. Women literally need to develop some really important but relatively simple skills in getting a decent mate. 1: genuinely finding guys that are interesting(this doesn't always mean chad who will rail you into the dirt and leave you in the mud after)
2: Make an effort to reach out to them(yeah, you're going to get rejected sometimes and feel the pain.
3: ACTUALLY TALK TO THEM. Spend a really decent amount of time talking to a guy and LEARN LEGITIMATE RED FLAGS in determining if a guy is a decent person and genuinely good long term partner. Your only chance is to sucker some poor pathetic sap into getting you pregnant and taking him to court for child support in the future and getting single mother social welfare programs.

Also sluts? Yeah, no good guy is going to want you. Sorry, just how it is. And there is no hiding it either! A decent guy will be smart and not pathetic, which means he will be able to figure out you're a slut and will have enough self respect to not accept you as a partner.
>inb4 what happens before you meet some one doesn't matter.
This is purely just untrue, a decent girl will have a decent enough sense to anticipate a quality partner in the future and not lose her absolute shit going through the effort of finding him.
>inb4 guys can be just as shitty and slutty as girls
Yep! Good luck dodging them you actual retards! Remember girls, you're competing with girls that are able to be manipulated and molded into what a decent guy wants so you actually can't just spread your legs and expect him to fall for the trap!

No, read my earlier posts. I WANT to be close to a man and have him in the center of my family, but I can never get emotionally close to one. The men I attract seem to love flirting with other girls and talking about how hot they are in front of me.

Why don't you find a wholesome guy? What level of effort do you put into talking to guys and communicating with them? How do you go about doing this?

I know plenty of girls thinking they'll get their chad husband off casual sex from tinder, I doubt you're one of them, I'm just saying people can do some really retarded shit.

>I WANT to be close to a man and have him in the center of my family, but I can never get emotionally close to one.
You know what they say, if you keep having the same problem with different people, maybe they aren't the problem.

You're looking in the wrong places then. I can tell you right now, none of my friends in long term, happy relationships found their bf/gf on Tinder and none of them browse this shithole either.

>I want to settle down but in just so unhappy with another person

I'm sure taking care of a kid will work out great for you

Are fembots actually real? Are they trannies or LARPers?

Actually asking

>Are fembots actually real? Are they trannies or LARPers?
Yes.

Are YOU retarded?
I'm talking about people I dated individually over the course of several years.

1: genuinely finding guys that are interesting(this doesn't always mean chad who will rail you into the dirt and leave you in the mud after)
There's an issue, because I find most men boring. I feel a nerve pinch every time a guy tells me his hobbies are anime, vidya, and gym.
2: Make an effort to reach out to them(yeah, you're going to get rejected sometimes and feel the pain.
Not an issue. I talk to people regularly, am a part of sports groups and charity. I've asked guys out before.
3: ACTUALLY TALK TO THEM. Spend a really decent amount of time talking to a guy and LEARN LEGITIMATE RED FLAGS in determining if a guy is a decent person and genuinely good long term partner. Your only chance is to sucker some poor pathetic sap into getting you pregnant and taking him to court for child support in the future and getting single mother social welfare programs.
I've never dated a guy for more than 4 months. When the red flags don't resolve; I move on.

>Also sluts? Yeah, no good guy is going to want you.
Well, I guess this isn't an issue because I'm a virgin. I feel this is partly why the guys I was with lost interest because I wouldn't put out.

>You're competing with girls that are able to be manipulated and molded into what a decent guy wants
You mean I won't get a guy because I won't let him do whatever he wants, so he'll just find a girl with low self-esteem instead? Do you know what it's called when a woman is submissive all the time to the point it affects her health is called? Codependency. It's a mental illness, and the men who provoke it are called narcissists. I've been in this relationship, and I will never again. Any man that thinks a woman needs to be a dainty flower 24/7 is not one worth marrying. He's the ultimate beta.

It sounds like you have standards and are actively looking, so just be patient or lower your standards?
Also
>I feel a nerve pinch every time a guy tells me his hobbies are anime, vidya, and gym
Why are you even on this website?

>Why don't you find a wholesome guy?
Where are they at? Self proclaimed wholesome guys are manipulative control freaks.
>What level of effort do you put into talking to guys and communicating with them? How do you go about doing this?
I do sports, go to charity events, play in a band, have a male dominated job, etc. I talk to people every day.

I can't figure out what the issue is, other than getting attached to early to someone who doesn't feel as much as I do.

I've never once used Tinder, but you're right about this website, I should probably get off of it.

There's nothing wrong with having those things as a hobby. I liked all of those things at one point as well, but most guys seem to place their entire identity around it, and don't do much else.

Ok, that's a lot more understandable. Still don't know why you'd come here to complain about it though. Personally I understand your frustration and sympathize with your struggle. You're doing everything (seemingly) right so why haven't you found someone? However the average user of this board is going to be hostile to you and overall just make you feel worse. I genuinely recommend you just keep up your search, and do your best to persevere through your failures. If you're a decent person (and I get the impression that you are) you'll find someone who appreciates that eventually.

>I can't figure out what the issue is, other than getting attached to early to someone who doesn't feel as much as I do.
Well, have you tried doing more "scouting" with people? Maybe instead of meeting potential boyfriends, try just meeting guys in a situation that doesn't imply that you intend to date. That way you can try to find out if the guy would be interested in a serious relationship without having to actually get into a relationship with them first. That way if the dude doesn't seem like he wants what you want you can either stop talking to him or even just stay friends.

>Are YOU retarded?
I'll show you retard you fuckin roastie.

>There's an issue, because I find most men boring. I feel a nerve pinch every time a guy tells me his hobbies are anime, vidya, and gym.
You can seek out guys that have the interests you deem "not cringe".
>Not an issue.
Great!
>I've never dated a guy for more than 4 months.
How the fuck are you running through guys? Maybe you're having an issue with number 1 skill to develop?
>I feel this is partly why the guys I was with lost interest because I wouldn't put out.
Often guys in modern hook up culture are just looking to do what guys in modern hook up culture want to do. They don't want to rail a virgin because they don't find it fun and because there is the responsibility/expectation of commitment afterwards. So you're probably right.

>You mean I won't get a guy because I won't let him do whatever he wants
Not at all what I was implying. What I meant was that there are things you should bring to the table other than being a blank NPC, if you're an interesting person that brings happiness to your partner(and of course they should ideally do the same for you) than you have an upper hand in getting that guy!
?Do you know what it's called when a woman is submissive all the time to the point it affects her health is called? Codependency. It's a mental illness, and the men who provoke it are called narcissists. I've been in this relationship, and I will never again. Any man that thinks a woman needs to be a dainty flower 24/7 is not one worth marrying.
How in the fuck can you claim to have been in an abusive codependent relationship with a narcissist when you said you've never dated a guy for more than 4 months?? You really need to stop making reality murky and develop those skills I mentioned. I'm not suggesting for you to be a push over at all, I'm suggesting the opposite actually.

I want to touch an uncut weiner once in my life but all american guys are cut :/

Oh and in case you don't understand how I'm suggesting the opposite of being a push over I'm telling you to develop skills, take control of your shit and stop claiming you're a victim because you're not helpless. Which is what you're doing btw, making yourself the helpless victim with your typical woman logic.

>Self proclaimed wholesome guys are manipulative control freaks.
Have you ever called out a guy on his bullshit and tell him to not do that shit and how he's being a dick? Have they changed their behavior when you did?

>been on many dates
>virgin
This isn't the 1980s anymore. Nowadays girls are "giving head" on dates.

I have learned to recognize a girl who implies she's a virgin & been on many dates as a giant red flag.

>tfw uncut American who probably won't ever meet you.

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Yes, fembots are real

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Thanks user.

This is good advice, I'll try to apply it.

>how in the fuck can you claim to have been in an abusive codependent relationship with a narcissist
I never said I dated him. I was a codependent daughter of a narcissistic father. The dynamic I have with my father is the dynamic I see with a lot of "traditional men" and their submissive stereotypically-feminine partner.

How old are you and where are you located? You sound cool enough that I'm willing to shamelessly ask.

>I'm telling you to develop skills, take control of your shit and stop claiming you're a victim because you're not helpless
Good advice, and it's something I'm working on. It's called "learned helplessness." It's a hard mentality to break when you were abused as a child and approach your relationships with fear.
>Have you ever called out a guy on his bullshit and tell him to not do that shit and how he's being a dick?
Yes.
>Have they changed their behavior when you did?
No. They said they would change, but went right back to their shitty behavior within a a matter of days, so I left.

>I never said I dated him. I was a codependent daughter of a narcissistic father. The dynamic I have with my father is the dynamic I see with a lot of "traditional men" and their submissive stereotypically-feminine partner.
ohhh good lordy lordy lord. You're projecting your daddy issues so hard onto your partners and people in life. I truly hope he was unjustifiably narcissistic(and also abusive), which he very well could be, but otherwise it means you're so deluded by your dad trying to be a dad that you think he was a narcissist. I'm sorry, but why are you even here? You sound like a tumblrette, did you abandon your homeland because they banned porn or something?

My dad beat the shit out of me as a child and locked me in the closet like those kids you see on the news. I'm done with this thread. Bye.

>They said they would change, but went right back to their shitty behavior within a a matter of days, so I left.
Look, I don't want to encourage anyone to be in a relationship that allows them to get suckered along and abused. BUT changing deep characteristics of a person, even when they're both willing AND capable of genuinely changing them, takes longer than a couple days AND requires proper encouragement to do so. One of those encouraging things means not ditching them when they relapse a few days later. There is definitely a line, I don't know your exact situation so I can't tell you where it is, I'm sure you don't even fully understand your own situation though.

>busting out that quick at even having to mention your dad
Yeah, I'd say the guys who you broke up with were pretty lucky. Try becoming sane before finding a husband.

Those are issues that are going to take more time to sort out than talking about it on an r9k thread.

I'm not this user.