Who here switched schools when you were a kid?
I think that's the reason why I ended up with so many problems. I remember being a good social kid up until 7th grade when I switched schools after some kids stole my stuff and kept threatening to kill me everyday. When I got to the new school I was completely alone and too shy to talk to anyone. Got bullied later on from 8-10th grade which made things worse.
Who here switched schools when you were a kid?
i've been to waaaay too many different school. i switched schools like 5 times in 7th grade 3 schools in 8th grade. went back and forth in between 2 schools throughout 9th 10th and 11th grade and then went to another new school in 12th grade. I was the same way but I didn't get bullied I was just like whatever and didn't talk to anyone ever again and just played video games for the rest of my school life
yikes thats eerily similar to my story.
i was a bit of a weird beta faggot as a kid i admit that but people still liked me a lot.
changed schools in 7 grade and everything went shit. i dont even want to talk about. suicide is the only future i envision.
I switched schools on 3d grade because people were bullying me
now I remember the first time I got bullied it was humiliating for me
All I did was play video games too. My mom used to try to get me to bring people over. She would beg me and say that she would buy any junk food, soda, sweets, video games that I wanted only if I brought one friend over.
Middle school was the worst time of my life. Really all the bullying could have been avoided had I just stood up for myself and actually talk a lot. Standing my ground so to speak. I never had this problem in elementary, got kicked out of 2 christian schools because of my behavior. I have no idea what happened why I was the target.
My first time being bullied was in 8th grade with the Chad calling me names and breaking my pencil whenever her got the chance. High school got worse and turned physical
mine was on my first day on school because a 6th grade kid didn't like and he threw me im a big trash can in front of everyone in school
My family made fun of me for not having friends. Eventually i told them i dont care about having friends then they started hating me for being a weirdo. im glad though it seems much better than having people feel sorry for you
I tried lying to my mom about all my friends but the fact that I never left the house or that she never met them made her suspicious. Now as an adult I'm still all alone but my mom is more understanding and accepts the fact that I don't seek friendship.
yeah but don't you feel lonely sometimes user?
of course but rarely. when im having one of my mental breakdowns I sometimes start crying because im all alone but i don't actually care
I left high school two weeks in because the gangs of spics I had been getting into fights with since 6th grade went to the same high school as me and I didn't want to deal with them anymore. Ended up just taking a test and "graduating" at 16.
awe user you should have at least 1 friend
Yeah. I remember being the class clown/funny kid in my old school. I had a decent amount of friends and people actually liked me, or at least they didn't completely hate me or ignore me altogether. Then I moved and everything was unfamiliar and scary for me. I just couldn't fit in the same way, so I ended up becoming more withdrawn and shy. That only got worse as time passed, and here I am today, a complete spergy fuckup.
Real op here. Ignore the other response. I don't get lonely. Playing video games all day as a kid made me happy and I never really wanted friendship. I used to orbit a girl I met online for 3 years while I was in high school so I did want a gf. But after getting rejected by her and many others after high school I no longer want a gf or anyone. From what I have seen, friends corrupt each other with sex culture, drinking, drugs, degeneracy. And from my experience being an orbiter and being rejected. attraction and chasing women are a waste of time and are distractions from more important things in life like focusing on yourself. Being in love is the most dangerous addiction. So no I don't get lonely. Anime, video games and reading keep me happy and I intend to stay alone forever.
Underage lurker here.
15 and I am in my 8th school.
I mean whatever you like OP but I don't completely agree with you there I have lost some friends too but we have to keep going forward and we can't do everything alone I've tried being like you said and it didn't feel right for me being with friends and having fun with them is one of the best things in life imo
Switching schools does increase the chances of you being a fuckup because you lose all those social connections and have to form new ones. If you don't then you miss out on proper socialisation during a critical period in your life. That's what happened to me in fourth grade, but fortunately I switched schools again in ninth grade and ended up with a pretty supportive and nice friend group. If not for them I'd be an even worse mess than I am today.
Switching schools was one of the best decisions I made in my life, if I hadn't I probably would've shot up my old school
What about a bf user?
Well for me it was different I always had a very good friend until we crossed paths on junior highschool and it was hard for me to find friends but i am glad that I found 1 and he's still my friend to this day
Well I also don't know how to make friends or talk to people. I don't understand how people can talk so easily to each other. In high school I only talked to people the teacher assigned me to do work with. I think I'll be fine without talking to people and that I would be better off without any friends. But in the future if I want to climb the ranks in my career I would try to have some acquaintances.
you are like sasuke from Naruto
I had to move to a new school after second grade. At the first school I went to, I had a ton of friends and was relatively well-liked, for an 8 year old anyway. At my new school, everyone was really hostile and no one really liked me for reasons I've never been able to figure out. I didn't make any permanent friends until middle school. I never really thought that it had much to do with the problems I have today, but maybe it did somehow
>I don't understand how people can talk so easily to each other
I know this feel, I used to be able to talk to people pretty easily but after being bullied really hard I lost the ability completely, it's weird
When was your first time when you got bullied me was when I was 6 and I was thrown in a trash can
>switched schools in 5th grade
>switched schools in 8th grade
>switched schools in 11th grade
>tfw no friends
I'll be your friend user don't worry
I have no idea how you get to this "friend" level in relationships with people. What are you supposed to say and do? How do people hang out with each other? How does it all start? How do you get comfortable around people. None of it makes sense and I don't understand any of it. It's like I'm a person who never learned how to read or write. I never learned these social skills which everyone gained in high school. I just stayed home playing GTA 4 and Black Ops all day and kept to myself. I've worked so hard the past several years to overcome my greatest fear of talking to girls dating one but I failed each time. That was the first time I actually tried talking to people and had no idea how to. I used to go insane thinking about why I can't make friends so easily as others and what I was doing wrong. How are we supposed to live in this world based on communication when we lack the skills to make a friend.
it's not hard to get friends online is easier you need to start by saying a subject that you like and this way you'll keep the conversation going also you shouldn't overthink this just open up to them
anyway we can talk more about this tomorrow if you want OP it's 5 am here and I need to sleep add me on discord if you want to talk it's Nani#4438
christ that sounds fucked. Sorry you had to have such a bitch of a mum user
I would leave the house and go to the park nearby and play vidyas there, id just pretend that i was out with friends
I was switched schools then back. It made more introverted, i still have some friends but because they knew me from before i moved. Tbh movong schools is pretty bad
At least you had some time to be the person we all wanted to be, you ungrateful fuck