>Avoid eye-contact
>"user, you should really look at people when you talk to them, stop being rude"
>Make a genuine effort to keep eye contact while talking
>"user, stop staring, you're such a creep..."
I understand I'm a retard, but this is normies trying to tell me that I need to kill myself, right?
I can't understand this other than it's a hint from them that I'm unacceptable no matter what I do and I need to kill myself.
just give up, if you haven't mastered socialising by the time you finish high school you are doomed for life to be an outcast
I was told that high school "socialization" isn't real, that the real world is a different place
They arent telling you to die, just that your face is ugly
Well, they lied to you.
You have autism so you everything you do is in extremes. Make eye contact for a few seconds, slowly break eye contact (look down or to the side or the person's nose/ears/lips, etc), then make eye contact again. Repeat. Remember to blink and try not to look so intense.
>You have autism
Says who?
what I do is look at them when it's important, look away when it's not as important or you're thinking
God, this stuff is so hard and complicated for no reason. I fucking hate normalfags
you have to understand the context that they are thinking of when they say this. people think of eye contact as an indication that the person is paying attention and/or showing some interest, which is something that people like to see when they're doing business with you or simply telling you what to do. for the undesirables such as myself, this is the only acceptable case where they encourage a small degree of eye contact. In any other case though, it will be regarded as creepy and disgusting for the undesirables such as myself; they don't want anything to do with you, and they certainly do not want to be aware of you taking some sort of interest in them for whatever reason if it doesn't appear to benefit them greatly. they want you to exist as a ghost who is available to aid them when they need. ultimately though, it comes down to power. If the animal in disguise recognizes that you hold some form of power; being capable of producing consequences to their actions then they will most certainly think twice before any action they commit to. If you can punish them to a certain degree, then you wouldn't being hearing that so often, so long as the degree to which you maintain eye contact is below some threshold. Don't kill yourself just because animals in disguise don't like you. break free from the shackles and chains that which impairs your ability to exist meaningfully; it's just not worth it to suffer and feel bad because of others. don't fall prey to the primal & instinctual emotions, desires, and reactions, we don't live in a reality anymore where not being apart of the group means you do not survive. and if they don't like it or you, then fuck them. take your life back, bring it back into balance that brings both happiness and purpose. the path towards self-improvement and progress starts now, user.
Jesus, user. Learn to format your fucking posts.
reddit-spacing normie fucks need not apply
>taking the reddit spacing meme literally
Lurk more
whoever told you that is an idiot
Don't just fucking stare then. Focus on something on their face, but don't look directly into their eyes. They want to know you're invested, but not psychotic. They live in some weird world where you have to hit a sweet spot for everything. I don't like it but it's how it is.
My mom was giving me shit for this earlier, not looking at a waiter when she asked for my order, but the truth is you're under no obligation to do so unless you're trying to invest time into them socially.
The fact that you can't make proper eye contact says that
It's not that hard once you actually do it. Just look a person in the eyes with a relaxed look for a few seconds, break eye contact and make eye contact again. It's like driving. Press your foot on the pedal and when you start going too fast, let it off. When you start going too slow, put the pressure back on.
I'm a girl and I'm not lying/trolling/memeing I had a fetish for guys who do what you are describing. when they cant look me in the eyes it makes me so wet trying to get them to do it (in a nice way).
Just don't ever think a trait is bad when it could be good to someone else.
Love yourself.
>girl who's apparently really into shy guys
Neat. So unicorns are real after all
You call people redditors for making paragraphs then talk shit about their wall of text when they try to please you. Reddit spacing is a myth.
Use the three-one-three rule friend, it's how I fake it among the normies. Keep eye contact for three seconds, look away for one second, then repeat.
Works.
>Reddit spacing is a myth.
No shit. It was just a shitty meme that a bunch of retarded newfags took seriously.
Just don't
Do shit like that.
It look stupid.
Shit like that
is fine.
Not necessarily. Anxiety has the same effect.
Normies dont actually hold eye contact. They just occassionally look at your forehead.
You were told right, but you're still associating with normalfags for some retarded reason.
I do this and people tell me that I keep looking away and ask me why I'm doing that.
Only advanced forms of life that can parse blocks of text belong on this site fag
Reddit spacing is adding a space you fucking retards, normal formatting is adding paragraph breaks.
you have to understand the context that they are thinking of when they say this.
people think of eye contact as an indication that the person is paying attention and/or showing some interest, which is something that people like to see when they're doing business with you or simply telling you what to do. for the undesirables such as myself, this is the only acceptable case where they encourage a small degree of eye contact.
In any other case though, it will be regarded as creepy and disgusting for the undesirables such as myself; they don't want anything to do with you, and they certainly do not want to be aware of you taking some sort of interest in them for whatever reason if it doesn't appear to benefit them greatly. they want you to exist as a ghost who is available to aid them when they need. ultimately though, it comes down to power. If the animal in disguise recognizes that you hold some form of power; being capable of producing consequences to their actions then they will most certainly think twice before any action they commit to. If you can punish them to a certain degree, then you wouldn't being hearing that so often, so long as the degree to which you maintain eye contact is below some threshold.
Don't kill yourself just because animals in disguise don't like you. break free from the shackles and chains that which impairs your ability to exist meaningfully; it's just not worth it to suffer and feel bad because of others. don't fall prey to the primal & instinctual emotions, desires, and reactions, we don't live in a reality anymore where not being apart of the group means you do not survive. and if they don't like it or you, then fuck them. take your life back, bring it back into balance that brings both happiness and purpose. the path towards self-improvement and progress starts...
^formated, not reddit spacing. Fucking retards
I have a hard time looking people in the eye sometimes worried they're judging me (they are). Just look at them for a couple secs then look away, try not to read into what they're possibly thinking and not care. Its hard but it makes you pass as normal.
I have this problem too, although I found a solution. Slightly pace around when you're talking to a person, he or she will focus on movement more than eye contact.
t. Fagetcyborg
Remember, movement is the first thing the eye notices and has attention towards.
Idk man just looks like a massive faggotty wall of text to me
Maybe you should allow your ideas a little room to breathe