How the fuck can you ask out woman when you are essentially just asking for sex? No matter how much of a gentlemen you are about it the fact is you would never talk to her if not for the possibility of sex.
How the fuck can you ask out woman when you are essentially just asking for sex...
They know about that, they're not stupid. Which is why you must attack the subconscious, "make her laugh" is not a meme, it's the best way to open the gates of her right brain, they're all about the feelings and will not care if "he wants to fuck me", they just want to feel validated and feel "good".
Don't change her mind, change her mood.
Hey, I resent that. Yeah the primary reason I like talking to girls is for the possibility of sex but sometimes I can just have a conversation.
You might be on to something nigga
Literally grow the fuck up. Women, just as men, like sex and believe it or not, they even feel lonely from time to time.
>me on the left with the same haircut
21y virgin
Get a fresh haircut at a good barber shop, take care of it. 21 years old is nothing, go out and take risks, stop it with anime memes, it won't help.
>Women, just as men, like sex and believe it or not
Yeah, but only with guys they are attracted to. Girls are offended by unattractive guys asking them out because of the underlying fact that you're just asking for sex.
This guy is right
Ive been exclusively pepeposting instead of animeposting these days and I can't stop getting laid!
So you have sex with every ugly girl that talks to you?
No, we all have standards and most people here feel even more entitled.
>every ugly girl that talks to you?
who?
What you mean. My hair is cute.
His haircut is really messy. I keep mine fresh and fluffy.
But how do I risk it. Where can I start?
Im in uni but my course is full dudes. One dudes even hitting on me.
The strawman standing behind every depressed male desperately trying to get his attention by any means possible other than words
No its not cute.
It looks good on anime drawings because theyre drawn that way but you just look like you have no fashion sense. Please cut it
>Literally.
Get the fuck out reddit.
trips wasted on a white knight
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It does look cute.
I wear skinny black jeans and a fluffy white or striped long sleeve jumper.
Took a picture of myself and I looked pretty cute.
I mean pretty gay but what can you do.
sure i'll just get a hitler youth haircut just like every second other insecure beta male who is so totally unique and not at all desperate to fit in with the latest fad and not at all trying way too hard
>But how do I risk it. Where can I start?
Most importantly: you're a student, doesn't matter which university, you don't have to hang with people of your course (CS? Yeah, been there). There are probably tons of open parties for students, I don't know about your country but in mine you have a lot of clubs with priority line for students.
So go to parties, talk to everyone, I mean EVERYONE you can, you'll get rejected, you'll get numbers, eventually you'll fuck, it's basic statistics, you just have to maximize the number of interactions and it'll happen sooner than your think.
Keep it cool, stay clean, don't drink too much, breath, look at them as human beings, be genuinely interested in whatever they have to say, actually listen and don't just wait for your turn to talk, smile but not too much, don't beg for validation, you'll be fine, you're free to fail, most of these people will forget about you before the end of uni.
I used to walk around with a Hitler haircut but the effort of fixing my hair everyday.
I stopped trying to look like someone I'm not.
I know what you mean but I don't live in the college town but actually 2h away from college in a rural area.
My only friend is 24 and he decided to stop partying and drinking. So I have 0 invitations or a place to stay.
The guy making out with the girl is FAT.
I think they are just messing with the poor guy.
That's the thing. They know that, but if they find you attractive it doesn't matter.
Likely none of you will listen but user is on to something.
From the time I got boobs guys have tried to separate me from my panties and have seen every trick. Some of you are very smooth, most condescending, and some scary. With maturity I have to calculate, if I have sex with him and when he leaves, will it leave an emotional scar I cannot handle. You know a risk/reward calculation.
Ever we're in love, user?
Kys, tranny.
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>Women, just as men, like sex
Wtf? Of course they don't.
But if you're ugly then youre a peice of shit rapist who hates women
I can really appreciate the sentiment of purity that motivates your aversion to asking for sex. It is most likely fueled by the sex centered modern society that we know today. You realize something is wrong with this and that's something most people don't even manage to do, much less reject their base desires based on this knowledge. You're going too far to the other side however.
There is nothing wrong with sex. Humans enjoy it, and there is a reason it is one of our base desires. The sex modern society focuses on is a corrupted version though. The reason the modern man craves sex is for quick pleasure. Sex can provide this, but it should not be the main goal. Sex should be between a man and a woman who are in love. They should be 'soulmates' as people would call it. Anything else is of lower value and should be avoided. In order to find your soulmate you will have to talk to women and ask them out though. This is not a bad thing, as long as you are not going out to fuck someone who you don't consider sharing your life with.
It's kind of hard explaining what I mean, but I hope it's somewhat understandable at least.