Hey Jow Forums, this is the only place is feel comfortable enough to share and ask for help so
I'm 21 and I don't remember having a "flat" stomach ever, not even talking about abs. I am aware that I have visible fat that blocks the abs but all my life, even was I was in 4th grade I had this potbelly.
The thing is, when I "flex" my stomach muscle it all tightens up and it suddenly disappear. As if my organs just "pour". When I breath it gets even bigger, making me think that the problem is not body fat but maybe lack of muscle in the stomach area?
I weight 84kgs, 187cm tall and work out 3 times a week.
When I was a teen I was extremely skinny(same height, 60kg) and even back then I had this pot belly, it never went away.
Something important to add, I have a genetic heart condition and pectus excavatum, these 2 combined make it extremely hard for me to do cardio but I'm willing to try again even if it's for short distances.
My diet is overall good, it could be better but I don't smoke, drink alcohol or soda and avoid junk food as much as I can.
I seriously feel like my body is fucked up, I'm not aiming for ripped, just not look like I'm fucking pregnant.
If anyone know what the fuck the problem is PLEASE let me know, I've hard the weak oblique muscles might be the problem and I'm gonna train them.
Other than that, is there anything else?
pic related, flex vs not flexed, it's worse than it seems.
What should I do?