/sfg/ - Sexual Fitness General

The thread is not about /nofap/ and is generally not about solitary sex life.
The thread is not about relationship Jow Forumsices.

Here, we will talk about our sex life, our issues around it, and what can/should be done about that.
ie: libido, erectile dysfunction, sexual performance, premature ejaculation, techniques, psychological blockage, physiological issues, etc.

Protip: Try /nofap/ and /noporn/ for a month. It’s often enough.
Protip 2: Don’t treat the symptoms, but the cause. Ask yourself what the cause is.

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the only issue i have with my sex life is that it doesn't exist

I think i might be gay, bros

How do i fix this?

Imagine hugging a girl. I bet they smell nice haha

how do people actually do nofap and noporn? I've been trying and failing for years. i have discipline in all other areas of life

You're not in the right thread then, go back to /sig/ threads to better yourself, so that women would want to be with you.

The current scientific hypothesis is that homosexuality is mainly from neurological sources.
Chances are that you can't do anything about it. Maybe you can though.

Try to be with a man, see what happens.

>how do people actually do nofap and noporn? I've been trying and failing for years. i have discipline in all other areas of life

>i have discipline
>but I can't control my hand nor what I watch on my computer
You don't have discipline then, you're a slave to a habit.
The thing is, most people fap out of boredom and habit. The easiest way (but not the best) to get rid of a habit is to replace it with another one.

Find something else that could plug the time during which you masturbate. Watch something, do pushups, read a book, go for a jog.
If you can starve your neurological pathways associated with fap for a month by not doing it, you'll be free from it physiologically speaking.

There is nothing wrong with being gay

Weird seeing a couple of the same race these days

You just watch too much cuck porn user kek

>There is nothing wrong with being gay
Well, let's not lie to him either. It's _okay_ if he is gay, but let's not pretend that there is nothing wrong with being gay.

>Weird seeing a couple of the same race these days
Stop watching only commercials, TV, porn and Jow Forums.
In the real world, people have an overwhelming preference for their own race, that's the norm.

I agreed to be a chubby girl's dom because my gf has a bunch of weird hangups about sex, and I'm sick of fucking in 2 positions.

Now I feel bad because I don't fuck her as much, and I definitely don't have the time to be this chubby girl's dom.

Thinking of ghosting everyone, but I've been with my gf around 3 years. We hate each other.

>I agreed to be a chubby girl's dom because my gf has a bunch of weird hangups about sex
Wait, so you're cheating on her? Or is she in on it?

>I've been with my gf around 3 years. We hate each other.
What is wrong with you? Try to fix your relationship and if you can't, leave her. It's for the both of you.

I’ve never had an orgasm. My BF has never made a girl cum, it’s not like he even tried. I think his skillset when it comes to handling girls is just very poor. Any tips for him?

>My BF has never made a girl cum, it’s not like he even tried
>Any tips for him?
Maybe he should try.
Why doesn't he try to please you?

>I’ve never had an orgasm.
Even with masturbation?

I remember one time he tried really hard, but he wasn’t very creative with it and he did two things over and over..
He is very selfish (he’s working on it) and he’s used to getting what he wants from girls and not really giving back

Tell him what he should do then, and maybe promise him something after that, so that he'll stay motivated.
Take his hand when he's touching you, take his head when he's licking you, put yourself on top when you're fucking.
Take control too, you don't have to be a pretty starfish.

I don’t masturbate, I just don’t get aroused when the boyfriend isn’t involved. I never used to be interested in anything sexual but when he came around I got used to it and started to like it.. basically I am slowly becoming way more sexual than I used to, but not when I’m by myself

are you on SSRIs?

I’ve always been shy and felt bad about telling people what to do, just pleasing everyone and not taking much for myself.
I’ll try to take control for once, thank you

Yeah, like you said, you weren't very interested at the beginning, but you started to know the stuff and to like it.
Sex is an learned taste for some people.

You should try for a while. Watch porn or read an erotic book or whatever, and start masturbating. You'll learn your body, what works, what doesn't, if you're more of a clit or a penetration girl; all that.

Sound like your man needs to realize sex is a team sport, but it also sounds like you need to learn and mature a lot sexually. Work on it.
Men love a girl that knows what she's doing.

No, I’m not

Daily reminder that Angion Method 2.0 is literally magic for your dick

I only do it every now and then, but fucking hell my penis feels amazing now -- best shit for erectile health

Thanks, I’ll try to learn about what I like and such. But I live with two girls in one room 5 days a week, there is never much time to try to do that.. I guess the weekends will have to work

When I read about it, it seems like voodoo shit for people that are desperate about their dick issues.
Would, in your opinion, normal people with normally working dicks gain something by doing it?

Yeah 100%

my dick is fine but I fancied trying it out, now wanking feels 10x better and my erections feel firmer -- you'll feel the benefit after just doing it for 10 minutes

Whenever my girl blows me I can't move for minutes afterwards and I'm soft for the rest of the night no matter what we do, I just get so restless. Because if this she doesn't even give me head anymore, wat do

>this is your brain on America
Glad I'm from Yurop.

Here’s the best advice that I can give. Go out on a hunting or fishing trip that includes a lot of camping and hiking. You’ll be surrounded by dudes doing very masculine things, pretty much the nature of a man. If that is a sexual turn on for you then you’re a fag, if it’s a life experience and an awakening then you’ve just been corrupted by the internet

I'll look into it then, seems fun.

Maybe you breathe too hard. Sometimes I ended up seeing black when cumming because of hyperventilation or whatever.
After all, your body doesn't know if it's a mouth or something else, so it's something you do.

And why don't you ask her to blow you after making her cum? Like so, everyone's happy.

That's honestly a pretty good advice.
I've met people who craved the feeling of being with other men and doing men stuff, like sports, physical stuff and all, and they thought it was gay thoughts.

It's Jow Forums, everybody knows that a male body can be a beautiful thing, that body against body can be great, wresting and all, that it's fantastic to do stuff with men, but that it does not have to be sexual per se.

I think that a lot of people become so disconnected with evolutionary roots that they mistake the longing for male companionship and brotherhood as a sexual desire. The internet does a very good job at reinforcing this negative behavior.

Don’t fall for “go on a date with a man” or “watch gay porn and if you get a boner you’re gay lol”

I actually don't breathe hard though, I breathe much harder during sex and can last longer, and I still have energy after coming from sex

Except if your woman is a literal succubus, there is no reason biologically speaking for you to react that much differently from a blowjob compared to a handjob or sex or whatever.
Next time you do it, try to be more conscious about your actions, maybe you tighten yourself, get self-conscious, or whatever. It has to be something you do IMO.

Go to a men's group. Learn what it means to be a man and have normal relationships with men.
If you're still gay after that, well, you may be gay.

The source of this method is a youtube video? I googled it and now i am a few minutes into some ugly motherfucker explaining dick anatomy. I just need to keep watching, or there is a better source?