I need help talking to 7/10 trainer at my gym. She's allegedly into me and I don't know how to talk to her without spaghetti falling out of my gym shorts.
Last November my girlfriend broke up with me after dating for 2.5 years. I'm not fully over her, but she's over me. I've never been good at talking to girls and she just kinda happened (was one of the guys and just a friend for a year before we started dating. also first and only female I've slept with)
Right after the breakup, the Navy moved me to a new station. I didn't know anyone here and didn't want to just wallow in my sorrows so I decided to get a gym membership in town with a trainer. Over the past few months, my trainer has become my (only) friend in the area. He's a total bro and natty body builder.
Anyway he's been getting me some major gains and I'm looking better. During one of our sessions few weeks ago he told me that on two separate occasions that one of female trainers has called me cute/handsome.
Last week my trainer was running late, so I went up to the counter and introduced myself to her. I asked her if my trainer was around and made some small talk. She didn't seem too into me. Fast forward to this past Friday and my trainer drops "ohh by the way I'm not supposed to tell you [qt3.14 trainer] said hi."
I asked what he meant and he said she told him that I introduced myself to her and that "I'm not supposed to tell you she says hi."
>What does this mean? >What should I say to her when I see her this week? >Am I going to make it?
It doesnt mean much, so dont go sperg max. But if you talk to her more and act like Chad you can score. I believe in you user
Jonathan Reyes
> "I'm not supposed to tell you she says hi." WTF?
Anyway, Chad here. If I were you, I'd just chat her up again and ask for those digits. Then 2 days later without contact, call her and ask her out. Then after a few drinks, take her home, fuck her and go no contact. Laugh at her at the gym and share her nudes with the PT. lmfao
But since you're not Chad, I'd just be upfront with your PT and tell him your situation, the fact that you really want to talk to her, but don't know what to do. Sounds like in this situation, he'll talk to the girl and possible get you two together.
Lincoln Foster
"Hey I'm dickface. What are you doing later? Maybe you wanna grab a cup of coffee or something?"
Why is this so hard??
Matthew Cooper
>Anyway, Chad here. If I were you, I'd just chat her up again and ask for those digits. Then 2 days later without contact, call her and ask her out. Then after a few drinks, take her home, fuck her and go no contact. Laugh at her at the gym and share her nudes with the PT. lmfao I enjoy that 'Chad' now means 'I'm proud to be a bad person'.
Charles Robinson
>fuck her and go no contact. Laugh at her at the gym and share her nudes with the PT. lmfao
>ask her to coffee I can do that. I'm not a total sperg and have a good personality once I am warmed up to a person.
I just find it strange. I am 6/10 physically right now...maybe a 7-8 if you factor in my job. she's around 9/10 and 10/10 guys all day. Why would she say I'm cute? also Why was my trainer not to tell me she said hi?
Jace Hernandez
Good grief you are a creepy little coward asking these buttfuck questions. I bet if you received 100 answers you would still be mumbling >yeh but whys she like me whens ders others around? >yeh buts why she says to not say hi? you creepy little wimp I wish the worst for you and yours. Nothing is going to happen with her because you're not going to initiate anything and after a month it will be too late and she will move on.
Grayson Rivera
Fuck you. I'm going to talk to her tomorrow.
Aaron Wright
who cares why she's attracted to you. just ask her out. whats the worst that can happen? she says no?
Colton Rodriguez
Dude, I had this hot 19 yo female gym employee find my number and called me to see if wanted to do lunch sometime. Had great sex for a few months but it went down in flames. Had to leave my gym.
I miss my gym more than her by a landslide. Remember if it goes south, you’re going to have awkward times at a place that is supposed to be an escape for you.
Evan Murphy
lmao nice blog loser
Hunter Nguyen
I second this opinion. There's being a good decent person. Then there is being a absolute cunt to someone.
Fucken faggot
Wyatt Cook
Yeah don't shit where you eat.
Caleb James
What naval base you at, OP? I'll be your fren
Jaxson Smith
I understand that conversations can be hard if you're not a natural smoothie. Let me help you out my dude I hope it works out for you. Just try to keep on topics that are conducive to keeping a lively conversation. Things that someone can have a strong-ish, but not absolutely insane stance on are good. Ask her who her favorite Batman is. Ask her if she'd rather make out with Conner Oberst or Seal. Find out what shampoo she uses and then drink some of it in front of her. Share theories about mothman with her. Plant a tree. Ask her if she wants to buy some bones. I really hope it works out, just cool out bay-bee.
Ryder Diaz
Chad here, just be yourself bro.
Jace Ross
might be the fact that it's 2:30 am but this post made me cackle
>a fucking squid in blueberries >female anything Youre not making much sense to me
Bentley Adams
jus be urself
Anthony Martin
HA I FUCKING KNEW IT, ALL YOU BLUEBERRY FAGGOTS ARE ACTUALLY GAY
Jackson Ross
>What does this mean? that people are complicated
>What should I say to her when I see her this week? greet her normally, if she initiates a topic then go with it otherwise move on and focus on your training
>Am I going to make it? possibly
Levi Smith
Do every exercise in a bad form and let your trainer do her job Women love being helpful
Jackson Thompson
She could like you should may not. In the end you will just have to work up the guts to ask her out for a coffee.
There is good reason to think that she doesnt want to make a move or make any obvious advances towards you or anyone because she may lose her job.
On the otherhand its a good rule to not talk up girls working as they are being paid to be nice to you and if they do want to reject you they dont have a way of escape since its their workplace.
I would just go talk to her again and read the situation. The people at the gym you have to play slow as you see them every day anyway.
As for not knowing what to say, it usually doesnt matter. You just have to jump into the deep end sometime and eventually you start to get comfortable treading water. Do not make the mistake of memorising lines or what to say as that usually blows up when they dont react the way you think they would and then you spill even more spaghetti.
