Get rid of self-harm scars?

She obviously wasn't happy or she wouldn't be trying to fuck you

I have defensive scars on my arms from a knife fight and people keep presuming that it's from self-harm. What do?

They won't go away. As another poster suggested, this is the only case where tattoos could be a solution. Also avoid exposing them to sunlight for a few weeks/months.

t. have some minor scars on my forearms and calves. I hardly care anymore but it was tough for a year.

challenge them to a knife fight, be really aggressive about it. poke them in the chest and keep calling them buddy and saying huh? huh?

Yeah, that's pretty much how I got the scars in the first place. Well, I didn't expect a knife.

Nah she wasn't that physically attracted to him since he just a normie, goes out partying "with the boys" every week, doesn't care about himself
He was even traveling at that point and she didn't know where he went exactly, but you know a girl need a beta orbiter that will be around her no matter what, she found the guy

But damn i felt like piece of shit , she told me she never wear anything but long sleeve, even on beach

What kind though?
Remember its sideways for attention, down for results.

Yeah exactly she's not happy with him then. She wouldn't be cheating if she was, and fuck that orbiter for enabling it

Got them too, just planning on getting a tattoo over them so no biggie.
Just remember to get big arms first so the tattoo doesn't extend.

i woulda taken a crazy bitch like that straight to pound town down anal street if you know what i mean. i bet she'd be into throat fucking as well, definitely some bondage and spanking shit

Literally no one cares.
I have scars like this too. Most people are too afraid to even ask in the rare case anyone actually even notices. Every once in a blue moon you might get a quick heart to heart nod from some dude who's been through the same shit just to let you know that we're out here. Just don't fucking try to talk to the guy afterwards. It's an acknowledgement of respect not an invitation for homoeroticism, you fucking faggot. And if you do it again, actually fucking do it. You pathetic fucking falure, we'll all be better off without you.

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SS + GOMAD

i guarantee that everyone notices and doesnt bring it up because they're wary of how much of a psycho you are and dont feel like getting closer to you

bonding over self-harm is more cringe that self-harm. i like what you said in the last 2-3 sentences though, and to be honest everyone in the topic should have just done that.

cutting in real life is like posting just for (you), and thus - you are all faggots.

>dude
I thought only chicks did that.

/thread

My dick was also ready, but the BF part got me, didn't wanna ruin a relationship with a girl that used to cut herself

Finish the job coward

>hiding them
Why?

a watch and/or jewelry

You dont.

It takes around 6 months before the red colour goes away and another 6 months for them to turn smaller. But even after 7 years i still have white marks on my arms.

If somebody knows what cutting scars look like they will see them no problemo. Better get used to them or cover them up with a tattoo.

THIS. In 7 years only one person ever asked me if i cut myself. My family didnt ask, my friends didnt ask, my girlfriends, the prostitutes, the teachers, my colleagues... nobody had the balls to ask me.

Which is huge part of the problem. People dont care.

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People will 100% judge you more for the long sleeves in the gym than having a couple scars.

My forearms are covered in self harm scars and there are significant gashes over my upper body from a bunch of drug induced psychotic episodes and mental illness shit I had when I was a teen
I looked into getting them removed and you can get laser surgery where they burn a layer of skin off at a time, but it takes many months as you have to heal each time and depending on the scars they may never dissappear, it's also hugely expensive and if I'd gone through with it could have easiliy amounted to $3-5k all up.
I used to be extremely self conscious about them when I was younger but I go to the gym in sleeveless shirts and stopped giving a fuck a long time ago, it's something you personally should try and get over, nobody cares about how you look and worrying about people judging you is needlessly stressful and crippling.

The most important trait of being 'alpha' is not giving a fuck what other people think. Get over it.

There are creams which you can apply, but they don't get completely rid of the scars. Just ask your pharmacist.

do scarification to make them look intentional
or you could just tell people you were attacked if asked about it

Finish the job you fucking loser. Stop wasting resources for people who deserve to be here.

I've seen worse in gym and I haven't fucked with those people because I'm not an asshole. Go lift, mate.

>Yeah, that's pretty much how I got the scars in the first place.

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I wasn't the smartest 18-year-old.

Got some scars myself, only way to get rid of them is surgery I believe
I personally do not give a shit, people look at me weird every and then but its whatever

People do care, it's just people rarely feel comfortable enough to talk to you about this stuff because they think it will only open some wounds. Both side don't really dare to start talking about these subjects, even you I assume?

please be in london

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thinking about getting a tattoo myself for these longways cuts down my forearm, i sut myself up one night after getting blackout drunk, and now i dont drink anymore. scars arent going away though

>Every once in a blue moon you might get a quick heart to heart nod from some dude who's been through the same shit just to let you know that we're out here.
The state of modern western men

People do care, most just don't want to bother you or even worse offend you with questions and shit since you're presumably having a shit time already (cutting is not really an enjoyable activity)

Unless you've planned to get a tattoo nonetheless I don't see why anybody would choose that over surgery
Hope you are doing better these days, alcohol is poison.

Jesus op I'm sorry about this thread. If you're not in therapy now it would be enormously helpful to start. Also don't discount psychiatric medication, it can be extremely valuable.

It terms of your question, probably bear with the long-sleeves for now, later get a tattoo.

Life can get a lot better if you make the right decisions. Life doesn't have to be a constant struggle like some of self-loathing morons think in this this thread. Good luck op. You are valuable. You are capable.

It's pathetic you've let your own self-loathing grow to such intensity that you've lost basic human empathy and morality. You are truly sick and congratulations you've survived but what kind of miserable existence do you live? Posting this shit on a board dedicated for self-improvement is abhorrent and pathetic behaviour.

Stop projecting your own mental illness

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>In 7 years only one person ever asked me if i cut myself.
Strange, you must look fairly intimidating or else someone would've at least tried to make a remark if they were feeling like it or saw you as an easy target due to harming yourself and could easily abuse or manipulate you due to you lacking mental stability

vitamin E oil

Can someone finally explain to me what the fuck is "tried" to kill myself? You either kill yourself, or you are just an attention whore, no between.

Easy there, guy. A little harmless trolling is what makes Jow Forums a fun and safe place for the otherwise intolerable.

Come down off that high horse of yours, the temperature is fine. We obviously all care about OP, the attentionwhore faggot that he is.

Go back in time to before you attempt suicide.
Kill self to stop it.
Buried without scars.

Yw

Get a tattoo that says “they’re from a knife fight. Try me, bitch.”

Back to le reddit moron

>I hate wearing long sleeves. How do I get rid of them?
That's easy, bro, just get some scissors and cut them off or buy short sleeves. You can use the long sleeves for rags
Don't do it while you're wearing it or you might cut your wrists again

I know how you feel. I cut off my toes and now they won't grow back. How do they not respawn? In all the video games I've played, I get at the very least regenerating health, and so I figured, that if I take a knife, and just slice myself up a little willy-nilly, that there wouldn't be any long-term consequences out of that. I mean who's ever heard of "permanent scarring"? What's that? Consequences in real life are weird. They're not like in video games. Help!

sweatband wrist

are you retarded op?

what an interesting post

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this

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Would be so funny if instead of a "quick heart to heart nod" from the other guy, he leaned in and whispered "try harder next time, faggot"

ouch owie owww the edge

just live with them. other people and what they think doesn't matter. you don't have to be ashamed of having hit rock bottom, you're stronger for standing back up.

even more cringe than edge posters are "the edge" posters

sauce

literally this.

Coconut Oil
Bio-Oil

Microdermabrasion

They can fade but never fully disappear. I did use Bio-Oil but I don't think it helped as lots of people claim or maybe I have shit genetics for skin healing.

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Pro-tip, if anyone comes across a girl like this. Don't fuck her. She's a Goddamn lunatic and an absolute mess, and it's 100% going to end poorly. But if you're going to anyway, because we all know you are, look her straight in the eye and pull her sleeves up, then slowly kiss every scar she has. Look her in the eye again and tell her she's beautiful. She'll probably be crying at this point, but she's instantly devoted to you and wetter than Niagara Falls.

>I tried to kill myself two weeks ago.
No you didn't.
You made a couple of scratches on your arm because you're an attention whore. No one who is serious about killing themselves fail.

Now fuck off, you pathetic cuck.

Girls like that are always, 100% of the time, victims of abuse or incest.

Hiding yourself and being ashamed is part of what got you here and you want to keep hiding? You want to keep letting yourself feel ashamed?

Open your heart and drop all the bullshit already.

People may interpret it like you're out for attention but fuck that noise.

You will make it brah

>OP tries to mask his mistake a go forward
>obese armchair psychiatrist tells him to fuck off
Speaking of pathetic cucks.

Totally obese.
Now fuck off. Anyone who claim to be suicidal are fucking pussies. Either DO IT or shut the fuck up about it.

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>A little harmless trolling
get real loser. There's a time and a place to be serious, when somebody's in a hole, trying to get out and asking for help. If you're one of the people I responded to you're a piece of shit.
>We obviously all care about OP
Horseshit

You don't understand Jow Forums newfag. Fuck off back to your shit life.

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this

this again

>t. mfw thinking about you hurting

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>or shut the fuck up about it.
Here's a little challenge genius, try to rephrase the OP without mentioning suicide or heavily hinting at it.

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
I LOVE BREASTS SO MUCH WHAT THE FUCK

Stay alive friend. Was suicidal 3 years ago. Almost all of the things you tell yourself to make you hate yourself are lies. Odd thing about depression is that the self destructive part of your brain gets more capacity than the one thinking clearly. You will reach clarity of mind in time. Love yourself. Keep lifting.

hahaha
>eat the eggs

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Tattoos

Scars will fade dude, don't worry. The first few months you'll have to wear long sleeves or deal with awkward conversations, but they'll all get to the point where people won't notice them unless you point them out.
t. former faggot self-harmer

Attention faggot
I'm permabulk bloatmaxxer with more scars on my skin than hair in your pube face
I don't give a fuck

who cares if you cringe? Your opinions are worthless.

? isn't it past your bedtime ?

Wear wrist wraps like crossfit fags.

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A common way of suicide is by overdose, but alot of people underestimate how much the body can take. So they dont take enough and "failed" the suicide. Or they cut themselves to bleed out, and the bleeding stops after they pass out from blood loss, but still fail the suicide. Or they fail with carbon monoxide poisoning. Alot of the times it is just for attention though

CRAWLING IN MY SKIN

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Of course there is a possibility of “trying” and failing.

I got hit by a train.
I lay down on the tracks in front of it but got impaled by something on the front instead of going under the wheels.

If I only wanted attention I could have done something less severe than that.

Lucky I did SS + GOMAD beforehand and survived.

Blaire Ivory

way past mr whiteknight

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>whiteknight
is for chicks child it doesn't apply here

Read pic related you might just learn something AND once you look it up on knowyourmeme you can act like you're not an obvious newfag

>Rule 33 especially

Goodnight

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>Implying BF% scales are accurate in the slightest
>Implying 80 kg means anything without height or pic
You could still be a fat fuck
Don't care about the scars, you should get rid of the problem that drove you to a suicide attempt OP. Seek professional help friendo, keep lifting heavy and eating and you'll make it.

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tl;dr

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well the scars will never really go away, i'd use silicone oil on them as silicone is the only thing really shown to actually improve scars

try and keep silicone sheets or silicone gel covering them 24/7 and they will heal about 4 times faster

start massaging the scars after 3 weeks as long as they arent oozing/bleeding, try VERY hard not to get your scars infected, i'd still be taking antibiotics

if they get infected the resulting scars will be huge

other than that it will take time before you become less self concious of them

i'm working on that too

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Holy shit are you 12 dude
Chill the fuck out reddit

You don't. You wear the scars till you die, to remind yourself of what position you don't want to be in. Improve.