I’ve had sex 15 times (twice with current gf) and have never had an orgasm during sex. How do I fix this? I’ve gone two hours straight without even coming close usually the girl calls it quits or I just get bored and fake it.
I can’t cum during sex
stop watching porn you cuck
and quit touching your little ding dong
John?
Phil?
You jack off to any super fucked up porn? If you do stop right now.
If you still can't cum you should see a doctor.
Do you feel intimate with the girls you have sex with? Or a emotional connection?
This used to be me. One day it just fixed itself. I think I fixed it by not jerking off and then only having sex to cum. The first couple times still took long but I eventually did cum. Ever since then it’s taken me way less time to cum. I think it’s causes from a weird way of jerking off. Like u conditioned ur brain and ur penis to cum from a specific way of jerking off so it’s not used to cumming from regular sex.
I miss the days I used to take 3 hours to cum. Now I can’t even get it up an I gotta fuck bitches half limp sometimes. Gotta quit smoking and do more cardio :/
Find a hotter gf. It's not your fault you cant cum. It's hers.
How do you fake it without semen spurting out? My oneitis was a good girl and would let me pound for an hour or two until I could cum. She wa usually pretty sore afterwards but was a good sport. I miss you, liz. I think it may have had something to do with being a malnourished skinny fat with low test. Not sure what you're issue is though since we dont know your diet, health, or habits.
Same. I lost my virginity rather late at 20 and my first time was like 2 hours or so. The next day we tried again and I came in like 30 seconds. I eventually leveled out at an even 10-20 minutes.
stop taking your anti-depressants
I always cum during sex. My problem is that I never cum from blowie joeys
lol sucks to be you nigger!!! wanna punch ur throat and stomp on the back of your skul;l till you pisds and shit your pants and u die from a siezure you pencil neck nigger
you need to stop watching porn, and stop jerking off. you have a desensitized dick. you can fix this but not easily.
No porn, no fapping, no edging, no looking at thots on instagram for at least a month. Might even take 3 months or more. You will go through a "crash" about 2 weeks in where your dick will feel limp and lifeless, and your libido is low. that's normal, your system is rebooting.
After about a month or so of no stimulation, you may begin jacking off again, but only 2x a week MAX. Preferably less. And when you do it, use lube and a soft grip. None of that death grip shit. This is very important. You have to retrain your dick to what feels good. You can't come right now because your dick is used to your hand so much.
That's her (or his fault) if you cant cum from bj's.
holy cringe
Multiple girls, like 20 of them. I've had this problem since I was 15. It's not a huge inconvenience overall, I just had them lick my balls while I jerk off when I'm ready to finish
I had that for a while. Turns out it was my mind rebelling against meaningless degeneracy. Stopped being an issue after i met my wife
>I lost my virginity rather late at 20
tfw i'm 30 and virgin
Congrats on earning your wizard powers
You have no one to blame but yourself.
You broke your dick you stupid weak little faggot goyboy
I don't have any powers though
Not true actually
You have no idea what I've had to overcome
>tfw cant cum unless the girl is breathing on my neck saying she loves me
Anti depression meds can fuck you up if you’re just getting on them.
eat more onions
I was the same way back when I fapped daily. I couldn’t cum and had to search endlessly during sex like solving a fuckin math equation. Eventually after nofapping long enough I figured it out. But you probably need to go through a huge recondition process where you forget what it’s like to masturbate your self and instead associate that sensation with her pussy.
As a tip, try relaxing your dick. I used to flex it like a mad cunt and couldn’t cum from that
I feel like people who write stuff like this are people who haven't actually done nofap yet. I've been scouring forums for testimonials and success stories about nofap and I see a lot of posts of people who do 90+ days or even much longer and still report no results with ED and libido issues. Or, they will say things like that their ED is 70-80% cured. Whatever that means. I'm not sure I've seen any testimonial where someone says nofap completely and 100% cured their ED or other sexual dysfunctions.
>fake it.
Literally how?
Jacob?
>twice with current gf
How long have you been with your gf dude
Don’t feel bad. A lot of guys that lost it were also those that chase female validation (insecure). Do what you want
Also realize that a lot of chicks nowadays are not that great. They are boring, dont really have good hobbies, and don’t provide much outside of sex; so you’re not missing out on much
leave sex for the black men. Black men have the BBC, the Big Black Cocks. Black Men are just plain better at satisfying the women *shrugs*
I have the opposite problem. I fuck a lot of girls (sorry dudes just the truth) and I can't really last more than 15 minutes max, usually only 10. I'm pretty big and know how to fuck so it's not that big a deal but some of the sluttier hoes want round two and I can't do it man. More practice doesn't seem to help either. Happens with and without a condom. Another problem I have is I can't fuck the same girl twice. Once I do it I just want a new girl. What the fuck is my problem?
dont beat your meat for a week
Are you circumcised or something?
Ahmed?
stop watching porn and jerking off
and also realize that your eprobably still too nervous to orgasm. it took me a couple months to cum with my first gf too because of nervousness
Try prostate stimulation
Are you on anti depressants? That can be a big factor.
On a side note, anti depressants nuke your fertility while you're on them, but dw it goes back to normal when you have stopped for 3 months.
Im going to dump a girl ive been seeing because shes so selfish, she stays at mine and screams in pleasure when i touch her, lick her out and rub my dick on her vag but is so selfish she touched my dick for like 5 second and put it in her mouth for one second and i get so bored n wait for her to leave then i wank as soon as shes gone. Saturday night was the final straw. The problem is that shes disabled and really innocent and niave and is always crying and shit about all the bad stuff in her life so i genuinely feel really bad for her and dont want to be mean to her but im do tired of boring nights with her and constantly havin to look after her every second were together
im writing from experience man. Lost virginity to gf but couldn't come. fortunately she thought I was amazing for lasting so long so it didn't weird her out, i was able to play it off like it wasn't a problem. We had to start doing long distance for my job for a few months so I read some other men's stories with similar experiences and i followed the regimen i posted and it worked. Just google death grip syndrome if you don't believe me. If you spend years jerking off to internet videos several times a week, before you ever have sex, that's all your brain knows. Don't be surprised when the real thing doesn't "cut it". In many cases men masturbate with a specific grip or frequency and the vagina can't replicate it.
Samuel?
Condoms. It's the condoms.