Did getting fit help you with girls?

-it boosted my confidence
-it makes approaching girls easier because no matter how good your game is, if you're sub 6-7/10 girls will feel repulsed and offended by you trying to get her number
-girls will make it clear to you that they want you to pursue them
-everybody in general is friendlier and more helpful if you're attractive

It's unreal how differently people treat you if they think you're attractive and fit, both men and women. This is the real redpil, I'm not going to be a fatass again

Technically? He texts me to let me know he's at the gate. You have to give them a callback number when you order the pizza.

>It's unreal how differently people treat you if they think you're attractive and fit, both men and women

This x100

No. In fact it made things worse since I'm 5'5". Some of my acquaintances also started to respect me less since I was "over-compensating", but I don't care about them. The talk behind my back got annoying, though.

Generally, everyone around me looks at a fit manlet with confusion or disdain, but goddamn did working out clear my brain fog and make me feel healthier. I'm no longer tired all the time and constantly taking naps. It also feels great to be stronger than some 6'2 guys, even if women don't look at me. I was gonna be an incel either way, so I'll be a fit one.

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Most people are a bit intimidated, mostly scrawny dudes
Girls think i’m more approachable. Good convo skills but too autistic to follow up and make a move.

That's a good attitude you got there, kid.

Based

Based perspective, buddy.

Just give him the old pepperoni in the shithole trick user.

>skinny fat
>lots of charisma and friends
>out drinking and socialising all the time
>gf cheats and leaves
>lose friends
>go to gym
>get ripped
>socially stunted
>get laid once in a blue moon

>short guy turn tall after training

One of the shittiest cartoon tropes

I imagine it would if I didn’t have social anxiety

>big titty redhead
fuck that's my ideal ;_;

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It's good for the ego, that's for sure. I felt like a King at the office the next day, barely got work done. Just went around chatting with people and feeling great. If I married her I'd be fired by now.

Not mine but it’s something to read

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>anime pictures
I dunno bout that chief

Damn Alex, that's a great outlook!

I feel you. Just keep lifting regardless of what people say.

Maybe one day you'll find a short girl that will like you. Though probably not.

This confidence also attracts women

>complaining about anime on a south east asian rice farming site.
I bet you like 3D girls fag.

What's strange is that it feels like it was written by a women.

It is all about confidence and humor.
It doesn't matter how you look like.
What matters is how you behave.
Women can smell fear and selfdoubt miles away.

Well written user. You're gonna make it brah

You're gonna make it, bro.

Telling yourself this when you're over 300lbs doesn't help you get girls

I started going out with my current gf back when I was 305. It's true.

Although getting fit was not met with complaints at all.

based

I feel you buddy, Jow Forums is a home for us

augh! ignorant

HONK HONK!

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I lifty for the titty

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I never noticed before how the thots laughing are just like pic rel. Yes I'm a brainlet.

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sauce!

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Says someone who likely has no martial arts experience. Keep paying your taxes and being subservient to your government, you aren't capable of protecting yourself like I am.

Or a hideous face

>lose friends
How why

You’re too good for this world user

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For everyone who denies the power of muscles in getting girls hot and bothered, read this:

reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/b4nacw/i24m_think_my_gf24f_is_insanely_sexually/

Even the comments are gold. One of them says " One is incredible muscular (works out constantly) which I don’t like and wouldn’t want to be with in a relationship, it would annoy me. But it’s just somewhat primal."

I remember when I was a kid there was this picture book about a nerd chimp who kept getting picked on so he got worked out and got huge.
The moral was he was still a nerd in the end.

autism

Go back and stay

> lonely
> Literally no one I'm interested in

This is a weird and awful feel

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nah.

Well they certainly say yes to anything I say, regardless of ideology or opinion, so there is that.

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I got better with girls after I became fit, but I don't think it was because of it.

A manlet who finally learned

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My confidence went up but my face is 5/10 and I don't groom myself so eh. I don't get mired but I'm happier overall and my self respect has improved so I'll take it.

I think this stuff is too complex to ever put into one neat and concise theory, but I really like this one out of all others I've seen. This one is almost anti-blackpilled, it's really kind of heartwarming, and the notion that there's a realistic alternative to being a jaded pessimist about love is extremely relieving.

Maybe. I'm pretty sure a girl was almost begging for me to hit on her but I did nothing. Face not too good, maybe a 4 or 5 at best but she had nice, pale skin and a pretty good rack while skinny. Pretty stupid of me not to say anything

>started to respect me less since I was "over-compensating"
It's called jealousy

wtf this manlet is going to make it

Stuff that genetic lottery winners say for 500

"Just be yourself"

This true and it just made me hate humans. The worse are the fat or ugly people that do it to each other.

I've known shorter people in relationships, don't lose hope.

>tfw no patrician fox personal trainer
why live

>get fit
>realize the women you lusted after are actually all braindead whores and not at all worth your time
>become a hermit

It unironically made it worse lol

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You would've never known that if you didn't get fit, you would've never known the difference between a whore and a wife.

Yeah it helps because you gain more confidence. Keep in mind that bodyfat % is everything though. Never exceed 15%.

>meet girl couple of weeks ago (I would rate her as a 6.5, when I showed photos to my mates they all said they would bang her)
>invite her to my place
>she sucks my dick but I don't fuck her, despite her literally begging for it
>keeps sliding in my dm's
>in the meantime I fuck a prostitute and whack off to porn

What the fuck is wrong with me?

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Are you me? I get mires a lot since I lost a shitton of weight but I never really believe it and I just go to the prozzies. I guess it's true you'll always be fat on the inside.

I only get mires from my bros and my mom

>I guess it's true you'll always be fat on the inside.

Sucks to hear that bro, but that's not really what I meant. I've actually never really been fat in my life (well maybe this once I probably was at 20% but that was only for a short period of time).

I don't really know what my problem is. It's probably porn related. I don't it's confidence related because everyone describes me as a charismatic person

>5'4'' dude reading this post
>Know that I'm gonna better myself anyways, but pretty desolated
Is it just an american thing? I've never seen someone really comment bad on anyone because his height desu
Most chads here are confident yet smoll people

Literally me.

Being fit only slightly helps me with girls, but my personality is so fucked I quickly bore them.

Maybe try noporn? Nofap is obviously retarded but there's some truth in porn corrupting the mind imo

Yes. They approach and will hang around on occasion. I'm still a schizoid mess who will die alone inside my own mind, but there has been tangible positive progress. Cheers!

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>had a crush on a girl friend
>go Jow Forums
>got closer to crush trough a group of friends
>talk to her and she turns me down
>still dont want to lose friends so still hang out with the group
>she actually hates me now
i dont want to lose the friends i made but damn, i wasnt even autistic or anything

>start liftan
>get some noob gainz
>be more confident around women
>finally meet wife 4 years ago
>continue lifting exclusively for her

Srsly bros, it's the best feel.
>get mires by other women
>wife notices
>never act out on it

Wife still crazy about me, compliments me a lot

Absolute based

Yep. 4 months of on point dieting, powerlifting, enough sleep, and cut out alcohol completely. Since a few weeks, I noticed girls are friendlier to me, and guys usually less dominant or also friendlier. My confidence has shot up and as I'm mentally ill it really provides me with an emotional anchor. First time ever in life of lifting for months with 0 alcohol and I really recommend it. it's insane how much booze can negatively affect yourr hormones, especially when you are on the lower side of the testosterone range for your age.

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I'm also dating multiple girls at the samw time whereas I was basically incel when I started out.

Thats a complete American mindset, around here girls are really fucking short, like 5,7 is giant tier for women

No, apparently that requires that I not be a shutin and leave the house, which is 10x harder than lifting.

why have so many people on this site given up all hope of having sex

I don't get it, why they have such a cultural obession with that, when even northern countries do not have it, even when they are taller on average

unironically memes (social ideas that just get repeated)

Get fit and still cant get laid.
I decided to go to hookers to get virginity over with since im 30 and its never going to happen naturally.
Hooker Girls think ima chad because of body but Im a beta inside.
Pretty much get sexually assaulted by every new girl I see because they always want to grope, slap and squeeze my ass. Had to stop seeing one girl because she wanted me to go down on her till she got an orgasm which always took like half an hour mind you this was time I was paying for my pleasure not hers.
I had another girl try to get me into watersports and tried to fuck me in the ass with a strap on. Ive backed off on hookers for now but i still keep asking myself if getting a gf is even worth it?

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Better to have stayed a virgin
All the sex between now and then has made no difference except for more of a reliance on pussy instead of my hand and regret. Staying clean until I find a proper girl.

Plus when you do find a girl that doesn't mind an ugly manlet, you'll have better odds cause of a nice body.

I need to withdraw my skinnyness.

Get that dick user

how do you even try to compare your shitty hooker experiences with having a loving relationship between two stable and happy human beings?

you're just too fucking far gone i swear.

Manlets truly can never learn in the eyes of society. But they can learn... FOR THEMSELVES!

I have fairly passionless, vanilla sex with my girlfriend about once a week. This is despite her often commenting on my physique.

This is so true.

I was fit and attractive in high school but when i moved away for uni i got fat and wasnt taking care of myself. People treated me completely different, they didnt smile at me when i walked by and smiled, it was crazy and reallt fucked with my head. But i lost the weight and im looking like myself again. its really like life on easy mode again.

My girlfriend just broke up with me and all my confidence is gone. I don't know where to go from here

Go to bed cunt

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Kek

blessed picture

fundamentally correct but the reason is wrong. women have the same capacity for sensing self-doubt and fear as the rest of us. they just live life with $10,000 between their legs. everyone wants that 10k, so they don't really need to hang around people or situations that make them uncomfortable. they can just use it to jet any time.

learning how to tolerate uncomfortable/stressful situations is something men have to do when they lack options. you see it in your occasional fat girl or late bloomer, too. but for the same reason rich kids will go to the manager because there's not enough mustard on their hot dog, reasonably attractive girls aren't gonna put up with even the slightest amount of anything they dislike - including self-doubt and fear, but also things like sadness and poverty.

once you know the reason for their behavior, you can work it. and it works if you work it.