can we have an honest discussion about vr porn?
is it better than regular porn and are there any downsides to it as long as you actively self-insert as the POV?
just want to make sure that i dont cuck myself into only being sexually aroused watching women get fucked by other men
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I feel like most people would start finding it hard to differentiate vr porn from real life and start pretending the girl was their wife or something. Probably why vr porn hasn’t really caught on.
It’s probably worse than normal porn
Imagine getting so excited and realizing after climax it’s all fake
How about dont watch porn and just look at pics of nude women
Dont get into it.
For a while, i would exclusively take dabs and masturbate to VR porn on my samsung vr using my phone. Shit was immersive as fuck when you are high AF.
Lost ability to maintain errections when having sex with wife and started cumming real fast. This led to her becoming unsatisfied with sex and even telling me she doesnt find sex satisfying anymore.
I resolved to get back in shape and fuck my wife properly. She had grown to be +200lb with 34DD and a AAA ass (from an anorexic 120lb with B cup), it was going to take some work, but challenge accepted.
Get a fleshlight, ditch the porn.
Use your sexual tension/frustration to do things that matter (i.e. work on strength so you can actually fuck harder, work on cardio so you can fuck longer).
Fap to your imagination only.
If you cant reach climax, thats ok. Its part of the de-escalation process. Eventually masturbating becomes less rewarding (because not aroused enough to cum) and sex itself (and having better sex) becomes the goal....which should have been the objective all along.
porn fapping vs going to escorts/prostitutes
whats worse
Porn fapping is worse
I havent done escorts (though my wife wants to try one next time we're in Vegas), but i do frequent strip clubs every once in a while.
Some strippers are actually pretty cool people. On slow nights, you can just talk to them. If you tell them you're looking for pointers (foreplay, turning girls on, etc), she'll gladly take some money to take you to the backroom and show you secrets. You're basically paying for her time and at the same time, she shows you cool tricks and things you can do.
Its basically like paying someone whose job it is to turn people on to teach you how to turn other girls on.
Since i started going and taking lessons/tricks back home to try....the wife has been pleased.
wait what do you fuck them
No. I dont fuck them.
My wife is cool with me going because she trusts me not to fuck them (or other girls)...unless its an arranged threesome.
Its more about erroticism, learning how to be more physically dominant, and general techniques.
One stripper who was into BDSM taught me how to choke properly. I literally checked off the top middle "motivation" picture in pic related.
Anyways....Just have to squeeze a little, its about the illusion of choking. Only use fingertips and avoid the windpipe....havent used it on wife yet...but next time it gets kinky, i have it in my repertoire.
The same one also taught me how to spank better. I was always pretty good because my wife likes to be spanked (its all in the wrist)....but she taught me its better to cup the hands. It makes a louder noise, doesnt hurt, and doesnt leave marks.
Feels better while you're doing it but it has the same negative effects as regular porn.
>how to choke properly
The only safe way to choke another person during sex is for them to provide the pressure against your hand, not you. This way if they lose body control due to lack of oxygen or circulation (extremely unlikely), they will slacken automatically and cannot continue to be choked.
Doing it any other way than this, while it might feel "hotter" or whatever, is factually dangerous.
You can use your fingers on the side to increase the sensation of your hand, but if you're actually bearing down with your grip you're gonna hurt her or have a very close call eventually.
If you've never tried it, and you're trying to quit porn, I would recommend that you don't get into it. It adds new novelty to the experience that makes it much harder to quit. Took me an extra 2 years to quit.
Completely this. Fuck vr porn, that shit is just going to lead to worse degeneracy and sexual fixations. Nofap will become an impossible task, if it isn't already, for some of you mongoloids
>You can use your fingers on the side to increase the sensation of your hand
This is what I meant by the "illusion" of choking.
Its more of just broad hand pressure over the throat from the fingertips (spread widely across fingers up to 2nd knuckle).
Its one of those things thats easier for someone to do on you, then guide someones hand to do it on them.
But I agree nonetheless, thats why ive never choked my wife or gf's before, didnt want to risk hurting them.
>She had grown to be +200lb with 34DD and a AAA ass
And what about your satisfaction?
That's why it's so good. Everytime after sex I just want to get out of the bed but girls always want to cuddle and shit
Inferior and more expensive then whores.
Pornography and constant exposure to the most beautiful, sexy, and emotionally/personality wise perfect women on the earth alters the way you see the world user.
It ruins you on a level that can never be truly fixed. That and combined with the pourposelful destruction of the viewers self esteem to sell them more shit and keep them addicted to their electronic poison because they think they weill never be happy IRL or fit in...
It's just horrible.
It's so bad that truly unique flawed women and thus real and attain are a novelty that most men seek out now.
She carries like all of her weight in her tits, her ass, and her thighs.
Shes been working on PhD for a while and binge eats to cope. Ive been trying to replace with heslthier cope. We've started doing HIIT classes together and she is starting yoga.
But in general, she has an undeveloped stacy body. Genetically, german and irish w/ pale skin and freckles. Im a native texan+spanish, so she's like my dream.
She'll get there...shes like a 8/10...could be 9/10 if in shape.
And if she gets inshape, i promised her liposuction/cryolipolysis and a boob job She seems especially motivated by these stripper stories i come home with (i tell her everything, it turns her on when i retell).
I can get lapdances from strippers all day, but i am 100% honest when i say she has the finest of asses and fantastic tits (i cant fit them in one hand).
Strippers feel like toys in comparison.
Once again, i made it my goal to fuck and nanhandle my 200lb wife. I can now do that....so handling "normal"/non-thicc girls feels like goku without his weights. I pinned one to the wall (with her legs wrapped around me) and she felt like holding up air. I have to actually watch my strength on them....whereas my wife can take a good strong fucking that sends my bpm to 190...i feel like I would break normal girls at this point.
It's kind of crappy because while you can look around, the cameras are never made with that intention and clearly have a central focal point so looking anywhere else becomes a blurry mess.
VR porn can only be good in CGI porn because the head tracking can actually work as intended.
Pro tip, prostitution is illegal in Vegas. Legal outside of it though. The "girls to your room" services are mostly a scam although she might be a hooker. She might also be a cop.
Pics of your wife man for fucks sake
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The screen door effect really fucking sucks.
My sexual stimulation rank is probably as follows:
Sex:
Kinky sex>anal>makeup sex>fetish sex (lingerie, rapeplay, etc)>Sex>quickie sex>bj/handjob>titty fuck
Masturbation:
fleshlight/hand with groping>fleshlight with VR when high>hand with VR>fleshlight/hand with porn> fleshlight/hand with chaturbate/cam girls>fleshlight/hand with images>fleshlight/hand with imagination>no hands (errotic hypnosis: m.youtube.com
I successfully deescaled from VR porn to Wet Dreams.
When i do fap, its usually while i straddle my wife and cum on her tits (if shes on her period).
That's not true though, most vr porn simply has a 180 degree viewing space but nothing in it is blurry at all.
>Lifting for women
>A bunch of basic looking thots
>Taylor Swift for some reason
Never going to make it. God I hate these women's faces.
I disagree, the setup itself is annoying and it's much harder to jump around between tabs. Plus you have to pay money for the good shit because there are only a few good torrents.
Ass
Keeping in mind she didnt start working out yet at this time. 100% untrained raw genetic potential booty.
Each ass cheek is like a fucking cannon ball. When im balls deep from henind, i take a massive hand full in each hand and massage my dick with her ass. This stimulates her as well.
Ignore the freddy krueger sweater top.
I life for a single woman, my wife.
I actually find the pictures of guys more motivational than the generic bland girls.