So, for the past year and a half I haven't had a sex drive. Porn doesn't turn me on anymore, imagination doesn't, I dont feel the need to have sex or even masturbate. I feel asexual, really. Have no problem doing nofap, I went about 3 weeks before jerking off last, and its been over a week and a half since, no urge to do it again.
Im 22 and my test is at about 630 ngs. Was only 580 last year. I have mild depression, high functioning I guess you could say. And a generalized anxiety disorder, no triggers or anything, just rarely ever feel completely relaxed. So I know those could be part of the reason, but still....
And when I say my dick kinda works, what I mean is I can get like 80%-ish hard. But only if my hands are on my dick. So yeah, very little arousal and the erection quality is meh, though I'm not sure I would say I have ED.
Any advice or ideas as to why this could be guys? Pic unrelated.
Eh, I'd say a bit. I could lose maybe 20 pounds. I weigh 190 and I'm only 5'11. Sure I have some muscle but uhhh... that doesn't account for me being quite a bit above the average weight, lol.
During my teens I was like friggin 230 though, rarely worked out, still had a normal sex drive. So idk if fat is really a part of it.
Dominic Murphy
How much sleep do you get every night? Be honest
Luis Hughes
Ehhh... like 7 on average, I'd say. Used to probably only get like 6, for the past year-ish. Ive been working on fixing my schedule, instead of staying up till 2 or 3 like a fucktard, I make sure I'm in my bed by 1. So I'm doing better sleep-wise. I'm sure I got even less in high school.
William Peterson
If you're on medication for gad or depression that will do it.
Owen Reed
I have been on sertraline, for about a month and a half now. No negative effects but also none positive, I don't think. Probably gonna get off that, *may* try something else. Maybe something like wellbutrin? But idk how that is for anxiety. I take small doses of clonazapam as needed (maybe like 2.5 mg ever few days if I remember the doseage correctly.) Only half a tablet. Been having that for maybe 4 months if I had to guess. No negative effects, and while I still have anxiety, no big panic attacks anymore.
But yeah, started having sex drive problems long before I took either.
James Nelson
Theres your culprit. Ex girlfriend went on it for anxiety she went from being dtf all the time to barely wanting to bone a few times a week. Needless to say I got rid of her.
Luke Wilson
Like I said, problems started loooong before I got on the SSRI. But yeah, like I said probably gonna quit anyway. It's not doing anything for me. May try an alternative. I know wellbutrin doesn't have sexual side effects but I think it may be bad or can be for anxiety.
Angel Morris
stop watching porn you fucking faggot
Kayden Hill
Been a few weeks since I have. Despite having no libido I still get the urge to watch on and off, but havent.
John White
I went to the Mayo clinic. Literally considered the best hospital in the world. I saw an endocronologist and she looked at my old blood labs. The only thing she was interested in was my testosterone level, which is average. So she reffered me to the urologist. They injected my dick with drugs to induce an erection and then did an ultrasound. They found bloodflow was normal. He told me that my dick is healthy and I should keep using viagra. I went to three endocronologists prior to the mayo clinic. None of them had any answers or even any ideas. Unless your problem is caused by sub 300ng/ml serum total testosterone levels, the American healthcare will not, and will not attempt, to help you.
Go ahead, do noFap. It wont work. Trawl through the internet looking for an answer. For every authentic piece of information you find you’ll have to sift through 40 blogs and forums telling you it’s because you’re anxious or that it’s due to leaky gut syndrome.
There’s a very real chance you will never get better.
Julian Rodriguez
>There’s a very real chance you will never get better.
Aut inveniam viam aut faciam you pessimistic fuck
Josiah Peterson
One self bump before I head to bed.
Zachary Reyes
pee pee problems thread? who else here premature ejaculation? ]
I'm on a 41 day no fap streak. Just came for the first time in a while just to check up on myself. 3 pumps. what do? Current plan is to stick out to 90 days and try again sometime. Can porn give you premature ejaculation?
Nathan Hernandez
Bump because I'm on the same train, user. For the last two-three months I've been having trouble getting my dick hard and sexually aroused. I fuck like a rabbit when I see my gf but getting a full erection is almost impossible, I would get around 80% hard, enough to have proper sex but it's annoying to know that I could get harder and it won't just happen. I have thought that maybe it's due to having a lot of shit in my mind all the time, would meditation help unJUSTing myself?
Not enough, but I do on and off. Maybe twice a week or so I'll do something like run on the treadmill for a minute, rest 2, and run again. Do that maybe 5-8 times (not much I know.) Been thinking I'll start walking for a half hour every day at a moderate pace; maybe run a bit to get my heart going and then walk a half hour. Thanks for keeping the thread alive guiz
Xavier Butler
Pee sitting down on the toilet for a month.
Parker Barnes
keep it up then, give it 6 months then come back and tell me you're not horny. also eat more meat and lift weights.
Ryder Brooks
I've been having this issue the last few months. Zero sex drive. Porn does nothing. It's a struggle to get even a shitty erection. I never had this problem back when I was drinking daily and eating like shit.
As an extra fuck you, women seem to respond more positively to me. I guess I'm not giving off an anxious vibe since I have little interest in fucking them. Inb4 faggot.
I do a good amount of HIIT and I'm easily sub 15% bf now. I'm thinking of chunking up to see if that fixes the problem.
Thomas Kelly
gotta shake more
Isaac Garcia
Depending on the angle of your dick when you are peeing some per might be "caught" between your bladder and the end of your urethra due to gravity. This can be caused by a too-high zipper for example.
Nathan James
same whats happening
Charles Harris
wait a couple seconds after shaking and start from the back of your dick and squeeze the last couple piss drops out of your shaft. sucks but that's the only way i've found that gets it all out.
Brandon King
Same wtf
Easton Hughes
I have been having these issues for a while too, I was fine a year ago so idk whats happening.
Aiden Torres
use OK sign and push to base then pull out whilst kegeling, should get any last drops out
Charles Long
I'm 150 pounds at your height and still want to lose weight user. Horny as hell though.
Nathaniel Anderson
Oof. Isnt the average weight for 5 11 like 170 pounds though? I know it's kinda hard to say and it varies to person, but 150 sounds really light. But idk, I'm saying that as somewhat of a fatty myself.
Robert Diaz
DO NOT ASK THIS GARBAGE SITE FULL OF RETARDS GO TO AN ACTUAL DOCTOR FOR MEDICAL ADVICE YOU FUCKING IMBECILE
Kevin Thompson
Exactly like OP except I dont take depression drugs. I have low test. I cant get 100% hard when I'm with my gf but diamond hard when I look at degenerate porn. So I'm gonna try viagra. I wanna ask, do any of you fags with this problem ever watched BBC videos or trap porn? I assume many of us did, myself included. Were just discussing this subject anonymously, where else? Those who didnt might wanna go get checked out and maybe discuss here and just get an idea of what to do at all.
Seriously what do you think a doctor’s going to do? The only clinically recongnized cause of low libido is low testosterone. If that’s not the cause of your low libido then they will not help you.
Noah Harris
maybe overtraining/burnout. back off on the cardio to 30 mins 3 times/week. maintain for a few months before cutting again. aim for slow steady weight loss like 1lb a week. lift the same as always.
Parker Long
Start running daily, drink lots of water, take zinc, l-arginine, lecithin. Stop taking the setraline, was on it for a bit myself, absolutely and totally broke my dick.
Zachary Jones
Dude just stop watching porn. NoFap/NoPorn is kind of a meme but it honestly works to make your dick harder for actual sex.
Elijah Hernandez
How much zinc and l arginine? What's lecithin do? Yeah I'm gonna see my psychiatrist in a few weeks, it's not helping me so I'm gonna have him wean me off of it. MIGHT go on wellbutrin then, that's the only anti depressant I know of that increases libido, if anything. But I've also heard that's not good for anxiety, can make it worse even. Just do noporn? Or is nofap worth a shot as well? I dont see anything wrong with jerking off once every week, or two to my imagination. Might try the angion method as well.
