What absolutely destroys you at the core of your being? Must me fit related; sexual, hygienic, genetic, social, ect.
My teeth are fucked. Overcrowded, cavities, uneven bite, yellow. Most damage was done in early years, no parental guidance, no dentist, and diet. It can only get worse from here. Teeth only get worse unless I fork out tens of thousands of dollars. I just never smile now.
Social Anxiety
Lack of intimacy but the real answer is probably lack of discipline.
How old?
Dark eye circles. Pisses me off so fucking much
dirtynastysuicide, shit slaps
but for me it's not being able to achieve anything. I'm really good at making lots of progress, but never finishing things.
I'm a college dropout after 2 1/2 years
I have lost 70 pounds with only 30 to go until my goal and i struggling
I always say im gonna do something to improve my life and I fail after the first week
It just feels like I'm adrift in a sea of mediocrity
Also i have saggy man tits and other loose skin from lost weight.
25
Still pretty young bro, don't give up. Pick a class of wizard to be just in case.
I’m covered in moles. I can remove some of the ones that are raised. But I have them everywhere and I get new ones all the time. My goal is to remove the 25 or so raised ones by the end of this year or part way through the next year
I can get over my stretch marks but I can't find a way to deal with my loose skin.
Im almost 27 and never had a gf.
knowing ill kms lol
Injury
Started making some decent gains throughout the last year
Had to be immediately operated at the end of December because of a previously misdiagnosed sinus pilonidalis
Not allowed to do any kind of sports for 4 months
Now in month 3 and see everyone in my peers getting jacked while I see my gains slowly deteriorating + getting a belly due to inactivity
Kill me pls
I have no weed and no desire to buy more
I have severe underlying mental illness but I never address it directly. I just know one day something’s gonna set me off and I’m gonna fucking snap and destroy everything I’ve worked to build for myself, but for now I just ignore it and carry on like a (semi) normal human being.
Im afraid of eternity. Even despite i dont remember what happend before my birth i know that we have been alive for long time. Im afriad that i will forever exist.
Herpes
At the core it's anxiety but that causes tons of other issues.
>leg injury
>taking tons of tylenol every day for the last three months because of leg injury
>liver starting to fuck up because of taking so much tylenol
>have to sleep 12-16 hours at a time but can't because of pain so I sleep 3 hours at a time, stay up for a while then sleep again
>no doctor because anxiety, including dentist
>need wisdom teeth out for at least three years
>constant head pain because of wisdom teeth
I fucking hate myself.
Dermaroll that shit to -10 years on your face
Height, frame, teeth, eye area
>yellow
That's nothing bro. Stop buying into the marketing bullshit about white teeth. Even if you would brush 3 times a day they'll turn yellow. It's perfectly normal.
go to mexico costa rica or thailand, dental work is 100x cheaper there. people get a full set of implants for 3k.
also 80% of bad teeth is yellowness. try an over the counter whitening solution, or go to a dentist and have it done for a few hundred.
Assuming you are afraid of a possible eternity of life (or conscious eternal afterlife?), you would be content with a form of death that is final and unconscious?
In that case I would consider myself lucky on your behalf
In my case nothing brings as much fear as the thought that my consciousness will ever end
I can grasp the concept of death when I see it on other beings
But applying it to myself fills me with so much dread, every time I think about it keeps me awake in the night
I feel as though my life is lacking intimacy, but I lack just that extra bit of discipline to go the extra mile each day
Not my first language
>Tfw no gf
I have my own place, a good job, I’m fit, im healthy, okay looking, dress nice, have a fantastic car... so by internet standards girls should be all over me.
Well, atleast prostitution is legal here.
I went to the doctor for stabbing pain above and behind eye while lifting, doc ordered an MRI. A week later: "user you have a small brain aneurysm, but keep lifting its probably fine, will set you up with a specialist". Stop all lifting, anxious wreck, depression that lifting got rid of comes back with a vengeance. Fast forward a few weeks, the specialist wont even see me until I have a CT angiogram done on my brain (apparently more accurate than the MRI). Fast forward to CT scan, they shoot dye into me, feelswarmman, over in 10 seconds. One week later visiting my GP: "good news user theres nothing there, no aneurysm" I ask him how thats possible. "well the radiologist wasn't sure on the first test, he only suspected there might be an aneurysm" I am equal parts elated and annoyed. Elation lasts weeks until anxiety kicks in and replaced by doubts "what if the first test was right and the second test was wrong". Fast Forward 5 years, all gains gone, out of shape, anxious, haven't been able to lift or workout seriously in years due to self doubt, and anxiety over making an aneurysm (that most likely doesn't even exist) grow larger.
For (you)
aspergers
Body Dysmorphia
Used to be a 240lb fat fuck, went down to 155 skelly, and now have a regular weight at 6'1 (190), so the heavy swing fucked with my internal image
This and the fact that i'm an absolute fucking retard who can't make the first step with girls, since the only few girls i ever had a fling with were super dominant and always played the "you can't say anything cause i'm a soft girl"-card
>Dermaroll
Tell me more about this, I'm curious
the fact that i'm 28 now and my whole dream of wife house kids is going down the drain as apparently even girls 25+ play mind games
this
same as you OP. we're gonna make it one day i promise. try at least to smile and laugh when you're by yourself. its good for the soul
Skinnyfat, so for me it requires a lot of work to get the fat off and then even more to put muscle on. I could spend 3 months busting my ass and see almost no difference
Recessed, elongated midface fucks my breathing and sleep.
also I have a girl butt
skinnyfat here too fuck being that mang i dont know whether to bulk slightly or do IF with less kcals
aaaah
actually achieving my goals and therefore becoming a bad/overzealous parent.
I fear that financial & societal success will feel like that time you finished a 'meh' game, that isn't worth replaying (i.e. starting new ventures).
Family and kids would feel like a much anticipated DLC that you end up powering through to the demise of your kids' well-being.
I don't want my kids to hate my, I don't want them to feel pressured or develop an inferiority complex. :'(
I want to be more confident but I hate everything to do with lifting/muscular culture. The whole
>girls mire me brah look at how cool i am lol you'll never be as cool as me COPE COPE
bullshit really fucking turns me off from the whole thing. I hate how fucking entwined lifting is with sex. Going to the gym and every song being about picking women up from bars and having to listen to nignogs compete over how many women they can fuck. Why does everything have to be about fucking sex? I hate being alive.
first of all you'd need to find a girl who wante to be your womand and then get kids with
that allone is very hard imo in this day and age
I'll give you a real one people will relate to
I missed out on young love and now excessively crave validation, attention, specifically from women, attractive women. Being out of shape and barely dating in my younger years has giving me an extreme need to make up for it now that I am relatively fit and have chances with women. Problem is I'm getting into long term relationships and want to settle down but my inner slut who craves being wanted is too strong. I feel the urge to cheat all the time. It's so unhealthy. My partner is amazing, but on some level I don't think I'll ever be satisfied, even if I did cheat and fuck tons of bitches. It's never enough
Went down this road, met a super fit, smart, kind girl. Loved her like crazy, but that fucking hunger was there. Cheated on her, ended up telling her because girl I cheated with was psycho and threatened to tell my gf when I wasn't willing to keep seeing her. Gf actually fucking forgave me, but I could tell I'd broken her. We ended up breaking up after a couple of years because of it, I could always tell she wasn't over it, and eventually it took its toll. I would literally kneecap my past self if it meant stopping my dumbass from cheating on her.
Why did you cheat though?Was she not satisfying you, did you have a fight or something like that?
My avoidant personality
Big penis syndrome
I recently developed eczema on most of my face which isn't responding to treatment. Makes me feel like absolute shit. Have gone from receiving a good amount of female attention to receiving absolutely none. Why the fuck has this shit happened.
Thanks for saving that, it's helping me
I have dysfunctional life skils and never finish projects. Like horrible self discipline, horrible time management, etc. I'm failing my classes this semester because I got behind and I don't know if I should drop a class or two. I always kinda struggle in school and usually pull through at the end, but this time I'm not so sure
I'm still a bit messy because of my upbringing but I've gotten exponentially better. My old house was so fucking gross and very hoarder-like. Clothes all over the ground you can't see the floor, random shit cluttering any surface. I remember once when I was little I cleaned my mom's bathroom cuz it was fucking gross and it went back to how it was in a week tops.
I'm also fat which sucks. Nothing obscene but still gross. I've started to lift tho (and I'm thinking about more cardio but that shit is torture to me) and diet via calorie deficit
TLDR I feel like all of my late teen and adult life has been trying to undo all of the shitty parenting and trying to build good habits/ideals via "parenting" myself. It's fucking hard, and frustrating.
My crooked teeth, my subpar facial structure, my dog allergies, and my slowly receding hairline. These 4 things combined make damn sure that the highest I can go for is an 8/10, no matter how much effort I put into lifting or anything else. I try and tell myself that it's okay and someday I'll really connect with a girl who likes me for me but that hope is fading with every passing day of failures and missed connections. I've been in love literally once in my entire life, and she acquaintance-zoned me. Some feels can't be lifted away.
the fact that with now 28, i got a cat allergy with 25 thus fucking up every possibility of ever having a cat or getting a gf with a cat
I know... It's easier to make a million $ than to find the one
and i'd love nothing more than that too user, but damn... 2 years til 30 and i'm losing hope fast
I suffer from constant derealization to the point where I'm on the brink of having panic attacks daily, especially in public. It almost makes me suicidal because I hate the feeling of being in "3rd person".
30 for me
Based
>pretty young
>turning 29 next year
i'm done
My stutter and my hair loss
I can't have a normal conversation without overthinking too much because of it
and on top of that I'm losing my hair really quickly, so when I'll probably be bald by my 30's
but who cares, I gave up on women and love so I don't really care that much anymore
If you can't overcome a little bigger music and high test banter you'll literally never make it and should give up now. You honestly sound pathetic
Honestly she was great in bed, but thats not what its about. For whatever reason my mating instincts are on fucking overdrive, it doesn't matter how happy I am with someone, the urge is always there to fuck more women. Its messed up to think that something which was probably the reason my ancient ancestors were successful in producing offspring is now making it impossible for me to settle down and have a kid with anyone.
Why the fuck would you want a cat? Disgusting söyboy creatures. Get a chad dog instead
What the fuck does "bigger music" mean? It's top 40 shit for 5 years ago you dipshit.
"High test bant" you mean idiotic who can wave their dick the highest shittalk? Fucking apes.
my god complex is just a weird fantasy. my life is not as special, its the same as every human in on this planet. i will experience old age,losing friends and other hobbies that require good physical health then just died..... all the knowledge i have gathered will be nothing. and i will grow old and ugly and my wife does too. beside that there is this dreadful thought when i achieve my goal. when i achieveit, its become meaningless. training to be muscular but what do you do next after that? the what to do after completing your goal idea keeping holding me back. to me all my goal are meaningless when i completed them
dogs are loud, obnoxious, stink and in all honesty act like a 4 year old on crack
t. every person who brags about sleeping with women on this board
Big nose. Can't bring myself to fork out for rhinoplasty though
Hairloss in my early twenties. I've just became 22 and I'm already at norwood 3. Finasteride is pretty expensive here and I'm spooked that my dick will stop working if I start taking it. Also I'm chronically depressed which is fucking with my cortisol levels like crazy, the antidepressants I take only accelerate the hairloss
The reason I even came on fit was to look for a decent cardio regimen, just finished the first run. I'll get back to being healthy/happy or die trying lol.
the ED people get from finasteride is usually a one time experience that is temporary even with continued use. The sooner you start the better chances you have of saving your hair.
Lack of intimacy and validation. Kind of like But instead of feeling like i'd cheat, i'm more afraid that no girl will want to satisfy me. In the sense that they wouldn't have the understanding of where i'm coming from and what i require from a relationship, or maybe they'd understand but wouldn't bother, or worse deliberately use this to attempt manipulating me (which would be an instant dump from me, i refuse to play these games).
I've had a couple of relationships, they generally didn't want to do that, and the one that wanted to couldn't because of her own problems.
I'm reluctant to try again, whenever i think about asking a girl out i just see it going wrong in a million different ways.
I know it's a meme but
>there will never be a first love ever again and you will always miss her
Its been 3 years since it was over and I still have the dreams.
Yeah you deserve what ever bad is coming for you. People who don't like dogs are subhuman
Not him but not everybody wants an oversized shit machine that stinks the place out and won't stop being annoying
this
thank you user but i'd like a pet which can feed its own, shit and piss on its own and you can leave for a couple of hours alone a day without demolishing the whole place
The first love isn’t really that deep honestly.
Seconded. It feels that way because you've never experienced it before.
When you eventually feel it again you'll know why the first one wasn't right for you.
My lack of self control and self esteem:
>Always assume I'm wrong and that people hate me
>Can never muster the discipline to improve my life and go in the right direction
What do? How do I get past this?
>Teeth only get worse unless I fork out tens of thousands of dollars
What kind of bullshit is this
Damn literally the exact same thing I went through. We all have to master self-control user, let's discipline ourselves so that we never have to feel that urge again
I have a stutter which i've dealt with my entire life. My problem wasn't the stutter though, it was that when high school started, people started to avoid me, or if they didn't, i felt like i was never liked and just tolerated. I know this was due to the stutter since i overheard it and had been told by a few people who i thought were friends.
During k-6 i was popular because i was nice and good at activities. Like i got school captain and everyone seemed to look past it.
I have mostly fixed my social confidence and i'm no longer Jow Forums about people in general but i still struggle to bond or relate with people.
I'm lonely, i want friends outside of MMOs, yet anytime i meet someone there is no sparks outside of hobbies.
just rock that soviet assassin look bro
go to the doctor damn. you have an easy solution and you are avoiding it out of fear, that's sad. just go do something about it, have no fear. how can you lift with a fucked up leg anyways?
I was a wizard's apprentice until 25, then finally got a girlfriend, only to find out that all those years of beating my meat took absolutely all pleasure out of sex. Since finding out that sex doesn't feel good to me and never will, I've become completely apathetic, because - let's be honest, the drive to have sex (i.e. reproduce) is the primary motivation in every man's life (as well as in any living creature's life really). I feel like no matter what I achieve now I will never be able to enjoy the spoils of my efforts (sex) unlike other people, so my motivation for any kind of improvement has been at zero ever since. It's been quite a few years. My girlfriend loves me and wants to marry me and have children with me but I'm completely indifferent and get no joy from anything. The only reason I'm keeping myself in good physical shape is because I consider it moral duty.
Don't get a dog if you live in a cuckshed. Dogs are meant for people who have a house with a garden so they can roam around while you wageslave, not for peasants who live in flats.
I sweat a lot.
“Intimacy” you see from afar isn’t really real. Just two people afraid of being seen alone. Most women are encouraged nowadays to act like sluts and have a high body count before they even turn 20; before settling down after they hit a biological limit for a person they would have laughed at 10 years prior
Love yourself.
You retards can’t do research can you? Ffs
I’m glad people like you end up getting in shitty marriages, desperate to “avoid feeling alone”
I live in an apartment, where you have to go to the ground floor and cross the street to let it out to pee. I sit on my balcony and I see so many people taking their dogs out at all hours to let them pee. I feel sorry for all those dogs cooped up in apartments...
My fucking pilonidal sinus on my tailbone. I would say I had a pretty nice life going for me before a colossal cyst showed up out of no where above my ass and gave me the most unbearable pain I’ve ever been through. Cyst drained, but now I’m left with a tiny hole that doesn’t heal and often leaks blood so I need to keep gauze in it every day. There’s no pain, but it’s messy and definitely an odd conversation to have with any girls I may get with. Worried about the surgery on it because I’ve heard horror stories about the recovery process, and I have school and internships I can’t miss... So for now I’m stuck with a second asshole
I don't like being around people or talking to them. Also I have 0 motivation or drive for anything in life except lifting. Other than that, I'd prefer tighter hips because wide shoulder+tight hips+big quads are peal aesthetic.
Idk dawg, that's a cope from me. Imagine being this worried about what other people are doing that it ruins your day. Man up lift ignore what bothers you profit. Also most of the stuff on here is a meme.
A pair of decent wireless headphones is 20$ on Amazon, you know
>wireless headphones
And you get free brain tumor gains.
I like to think it isn't. There is a girl in my class who's boyfriend catches up with her or vice versa on breaks. They look happy and comfortable with each other. There is a couple who hooked up as freshmen, who must enjoy each other's company as they kiss and hold hands and talk to each other.
It's not just romantic intimacy, I'm talking about friends. There are two girls who met each other in the course and are now best friends, going out, sticking together. There's two guys who drive to school in the same car, head to class together, chat with each other. Must be close friends.
You may be partially right but surely people don't just want to be seen alone, they don't want to be alone. Problem is, I've gone so long shutting people out, I don't know how to open up. Nevermind having a gf I can do sappy romantic shit with, I don't have a friend I can trust to have personal conversations with. I wouldn't know where to begin to even start letting people in.
And yes, I gotta love myself I know. But it's a long tunnel in the dark before I fix my life and I cant even see the light in the distance. Things aren't good at all and the real kick to the ground is not knowing if they ever will be. I don't doubt for a second loving yourself is the only real pathway to happiness but surely, others loving you must make it easier. Maybe that's intimacy. Accepting each other, having a fondness and desire to see success and happiness in each other, and loving each other in the way we'd like to love ourselves.
I've lost 100+ pounds 3 times now and gained it all back each time. I'm 27 and trying for number 4 but my heart's not in it and I feel like even if I keep it off this time, I'll have missed out entirely on my middle school and highschool years, i.e. the supposed best years of your life. I have never had a gf, I'm still a virgin, and am truly miserable about what I cannot change down to my fucking bone marrow.
All because I didn't know how to into nutrition at s young age and I've been living in a body that doesn't feel like my own since I was 12.
I'm short, stupid, ugly, weak and I give up too easily.
>middle school and highschool years, i.e. the supposed best years of your life
People who peak in that period are the classic sitcom fatso deadbeat American with a nagging cheating wife.
Same but I'm 26. I wonder how my life would be if I wasn't fat. I lost lots of weight now but I'm feeling you about the missed years. My weight made me shy around girls, yet I didn't bother to lose weight at my young age for some reason. I feel like I missed the essential years of learning about relationships which is why I'll never be able to form a relationship.