Social Media

How much am I crippling myself socially by not having a Facebook/Instagram/Snapchat? I ask this in a self improvement sense. I get weird looks when it comes up and people think I’m sketchy/hidingsomething/secretdrugdealer/etc.

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Read the fucking sticky

It's true that people expect you to have some sort of social media if you are dating.

literally not at all
you can fuck whatever you want without even owning a phone if you're Jow Forums

I just pull the hipster bullshit card with chicks when they ask why I don’t use social media

>The influence clouds my self thought
>Political nonsense

Chicks eat it up, just gotta make it seem like a good idea to stop using social media

In Scadinavia it's a big self-cuck.

Can't even talk to people here without Mesenger, it's all people use.

> Hey user, what's your FB so we can chat?
> I don't have FB
> What do you use?
> W-w-wire and signal.
> Huh?

have you tried telling them that it's jewish mind control propaganda though?

>Facebook

I am literal 30 year old boomer and I say Facebook is for old people.

literally just ask for her phone number you dumb zoomer retard

It's not a big deal. Like the other user said, just say you had one but deleted it a while ago. I'd recommend getting snapchat though if only for dating chicks. and if you have insta and have a nice bod, posting on that, could lead to some lays.

If you're pretty young then Snapchat is pretty useful, a lot of college girls use it.

No, never say anything like this OP. The fragile mind of woman is typically overly influenced by bullshit on media. If you say anything race related you’ll instantly be shunned

i'm a zoomer and have never used that shit
real life still has primacy over dumb app of the month normalfag bullshit

I'm a senior in high school (18) and I can say that after deleting all my shit and not looking back I'm a lot happier. People ask me all the time why I don't have a Facebook, Snapchat, or Instagram and I just say it was a distraction, because it was. I just supplemented all that time doing useful shit like using Duolingo to learn different languages and reading books. I haven't read in fuckin ages but I'm getting back into it and it feels good. So I wouldn't say you're crippling yourself at all, especially because social media is corrupting younger people's minds in all kinds of bad ways

i was memeing fren

Only the mentally crippled use facebook/instagram/snapchat/whatsapp

> Duolingo to learn different languages

It's so autistic to randomly try to learn a language that isn't spoken in your daily life.

You'll fail regardless, anyway. And it's legitimately boring drudgery. Why don't you learn something interesting?

I live in Switzerland so its pretty useful

you absolutely need it to fuck 80% of decent looking women

>Snapchat
>app of the month
Ask me how I know you have very little contact with young girls.

Facebook went to shit when they changed the algorithm to favor images over text posts. Now it's basically a meme sharing website. You're not missing out. Snapchat and Instagram are worth it since most of the content you see comes directly from people you know and is therefore more socially valuable than and endless newsfeed of your friends re-posting memes that hundreds of thousands of other people have shared. I keep a Facebook around but I'm hardly active on it, it's useful for event planning and not much else.

This. Nobody gives a damn anymore about social networks since most people have messengers on their phones.

>speechlet

You can tell who's a textbook kissless virgin Jow Forums poster child here from their responses. Even the fugliest uggos occupy 90% of their day with social media. If you're unironically not using social media, you're that weird kid that nobody talks to that everyone thinks will snap one day

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>bro fortnite is a fucking sensation and definitely not a stupid fad bro
kys dumb zoomer
literally just ask a grill to go out with you
this moronic notion that you need to be connected with all the newest niggertech to get a gf is retarded

Mystery makes wet bagina. Women are like the feds and providing something as rich as a social media footprint to audit will most often backfire.

nice projection normalfag
go take some adderall so you can play your fortnites and update your aim profile picture

do women really go through your social media?
i thought only thirsty dudes did that?

This faggot gets it.

If cursory interest appears, she will search for reasons to withdraw or confirm interest.

Unironically if the girl is stupid enough, she'll be mind blown if you hit her with NWO-pills and think you're fuggin Einstein

I hope you aren't dating "smart" girls, user

Just tell the bitch you dont have one. The fuck’s so hard about that

>tfw no qt gf that knows of the kike agenda
how to get rid of this feel anons?

I’m not saying you can’t, im just saying you’re a dumb motherfucker for thinking that the most popular social media app for the last 5 years or so is “app of the month”.
Maybe it’s just here in the uk but literally every single person under the age of 25 has snapchat. Including females. I usually find that people prefer talking over snapchat than text anyway.
Makes it very useful to have, no?

that was literally the case for aim you dumb fucking zoomer
where's aim now
do you honestly even know what aim is even?
i swear to god you people deserve to get stabbed by the rabid pakis

Vehemently.
>last year
>unfollowed crazy girl February
>ffw to may
>she messages me and notices im not on her list
>slope gets slippier between us
>go ghost and and get on with my life

>It's so autistic to randomly try to learn a language that isn't spoken in your daily life.
Based retard. Learning a new language is associated with travel. Travel is S tier normie hobby. You can bring up your future travel goals and normies will lap it up

Drop Facebook and Twitter. Snapchat is apparently the thing in my city

dude fuck this zoomer shit
i unironically hope we go back to amish times
or at least 90s internet

>listen to prog metal and anything not on the radio
>Cannot connect with people because I don't know any normie music, even from the 90s and 80s
I just added Earth wind and fire to my library. Maybe that will help. So difficult to connect with normies sometimes, and there's no woman out there that likes metal that isn't some heroin addict alt goth girl thing.

>he listens to music produced in the last 3 centuries
heh cuck

>retard luddite absolutely seething that he can’t get any snapchat nudes
Fuck off boomer. No one under the age of 23 texts anyone. And it also happens that

Honestly I'd argue not having a Facebook or twitter for years on end is a huge plus. Every girl remotely interested in you will go through absolutely everything, analyze it, and forward everything to her friends to analyze as well. There's a lot of cringey shit I'd rather leave buried.

i'm a zoomer too you stupid fucking nigger
also who the fuck cares about nudes
i want to have sex with the women
if i wanted stupid images of naked women i'd just type porn on the internet
kys you pathetic normalfag

100%, Go on something like Twitter and argue about something inflammatory like politics, then sit back and watch them go through your entire social media history in order to character assassinate you. Same idea applies to romantic relationships.

Women operate on group collectives and social proofing. They will dig through your social media as a way to form an opinion of you as a person. Men are much simpler, as they generally just creep on women's photographs since they are primarily focus on physical attraction. You can gain an advantage by either being A) very active on social media or B) not engaging at all, since you remain a mystery in the woman's mind and she will naturally project her interests onto your personality

>SEETHING luddite
I bet you’re “that guy who doesn’t get invited cause he’s not in the group chat”

>try to focus more on life by deleting social media
>tfw spent a couple hours a day browsing Instagram, Facebook, etc.
>mundane job that allows me to just sit there and look at my phone all day

wait for it

>now am browsing Jow Forums for multiple hours a day

The only solution is to buy a flip phone

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are you me

>SEETHING
stop projecting mate
>“that guy who doesn’t get invited cause he’s not in the group chat”
>having a group of "friends" (read:acquaintances)
>not having a couple of best friends that would help you bury a body
you're underage aren't you?

>not having both a small tight group of friends and a larger group for going to parties and getting laid
Shiggy

Read a book nigger. Install an appblocker. Self improvement is possible always.

I didn't have any at the beginning of March, made one, now I'm going out on the weekend. Still dont know what I'm doing but it's working. Think of social media as a tool not a service.

>having twitter, facebook, instagram in 2019 YIKES
>not having snapchat as your only social media, yikes
If you’re ugly, dont bother
If you’re not ugly, then snapchat is all you need

Just have an empty fb with like 2 -3 pics she can show her friends/ your job/school and have a snapchat

Dont post anything dont spend time on there just messages with ur friends

Prove this isnt rhe best strategy

>oh em gee american pie is soooo my life XD
your life is an inauthentic parody of jewish movies
you don't need to go to le ebin spring brake parties to get a with ebin XD booze XD to get a gf
this site is 18+ my guy

You need to be 18 years old to post on this website.

>you don't need to go to le ebin spring brake parties with ebin XD booze XD to get a gf
fixed sentence

I don't use any social media and I'm a 30 year old virgin, take from that what you want.

Who else here /nosocialmedia/
I love running into people and they act like it’s a miracle I’m alive.
Getting pussy is a bit of a challenge though not gonna lie

Having an active Instagram account is a huge red flag unless you actually do something genuinely interesting that deserves sharing.
For both men and women btw

>all those dark soulless eyes and mongloid faces..

is this peak america?

I got cold approached last week and the chick asked for my insta, so I think it’s easier with one
I’m 20 btw

I havent had a social media account for 5 years now. In a healthy relationship and go out with friends fairly often. Doesnt affect anything except I'm last to hear when someone does something retarded

Dane here, iktf. Not having snap and ig is cucking me really hard, atleast I have fb, cause you can hide your friend list

This guy is right

I have been having this dilemma for a while. Back in HS when snapchat was just starting up I was gonna get it but didn't because some dickwit convinced me out of it. Now if I go in I'm gonna have a low snapchat score. The dilemma in my mind is which is the creepier guy the dude with a low score or the dude with who doesn't have an app which is literally used by everyone around it. I might get an insta but not twitter because its run by jews. I fear getting on insta and having a small amount of followers which will lead me to the same dilemma. Who is the creepier guy the dude with 56 followers or the dude with no insta?

Whenever I get asked if I have snapchat or insta I just say "no its too mainstream" or "I'm getting an insta soon" but never actually do it

I dont even use a phone and still get gfs, so yeah, its not the end-all of human relationships yet.

>How much am I crippling myself socially by not having a Facebook/Instagram/Snapchat? I ask this in a self improvement sense
Quoting web presence seminar from work
>SocMed is mandatory but is only your storefront
>You have to have your name owned by you in any SocNetwork sonobody can steal your identity even if it's the only thing you do (like domain name)
>Never post anything at your disadvantage, it's on SocNetwork where you should look your best.
>Don't cross SocNetwork, don't go on tinder with your facebook account if it contains your work colleague

Don't remember the others but those one help me a lot

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In Germany everyone has WhatsApp which is a chat app. I only have WhatsApp and deactivated Instagram + Facebook like 6 months ago. I will say that I met my last two GFs via facebook (lmao) but right now I'm concentrating on my law degree so I have no time for shenaningans on social media. If you have the common messaging app of your country (WhatsApp, LINE, FB Messenger, WeChat) or a texting plan/iMessage if ur a burger then it really doesn't matter, that's all you really need to talk to ppl and organize to hang out

I'm more concerned about the identity part of the whole ordeal, like mentions.
It seems that you need to have a "presence" online, and most people do have one as consumers of mass media (social media).

A more professional, as it appears, route would be to have a defacto presence in the form of a blog (I use medium for this);
and to rotate social media fads as they fade in and out (as all consumer media does).

I might be wrong.

Ask me how I know that you're American.

most of the chicks who care about that are mentally fucked in the head.