Self-Help

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Ask me anything, tell me what you're undertaking to improve. I will provide feedback and help any way I can.

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I'm extremely self-concious about my receding hairline, to the point where it sometimes makes me cringe to just look in the mirror. The thought that I will never be attractive no matter what I do is hard to cope with. So far, what I've done to improve is buying some caps and a beanie, but that's not really a solution.

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I just don't like being human

I wish I were a robot that way I wouldn't feel anything.

As a human I constantly make mistakes. Like I chose bad friends in my youth. Or I get unwanted feeling for girls who are nice to me.

How do I stop feeling like a bad person all the time. I've tried everything

Go to a hairdresser, explain, see what they can do. Otherwise get a crewcut and it won't be a problem anymore.

Hair problems for men never are problems for women. No woman will ever care about your hair, trust me. As long as you don't look retarded, you can sport any haircut you want.

Just get a shorter haircut would be my advice.

I'd say you lack self-esteem, clearly, and you need to work on that first and foremost. It begins with loving yourself, being on your side, not shitting on yourself anymore.

Be your own parent and be your own child, at the same time.

Hey,
im kinda lost in life, the job im working isnt really enjoyable and it puts me under a lot of stress which results in an anxiety.
If i chose anyther career path, the years ive studied would have been worthless.
Also ive realized i have a problem with alcohol, which i used as a form of distraction from my shitty job/life.
I dont know where im heading, idk what the fuck is going on. What am I, what am I supposed to do?
I cant imagine myself working for the next 50 years and then dying, there must be something more to life...Atleast i hope so

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>If i chose anyther career path, the years ive studied would have been worthless.
Sunk cost fallacy, or something. It's never for nothing, and it shouldn't be a reason not to try something new. I studied something for 8 years and now I started studying something else. Never let anything stop you, especially if you have a clear goal.

Do you have a clear goal?

>Do you have a clear goal?
Death is our ultimate destination my friend

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Unlike most faggots here i don't even know what are my problems. I don't even know if i like something or if i hate it and i'm indifferent to everyone and everything. I wish i can indulge in any form of escapism but i'm fucking anhedonic so i can't even do that and i feel so empty as if i have one large hole instead of a heart. No, i'm not suicidal or some retard who weeps about his lack of sexual activity. I don't even feel pleasure or seek it. At this point, i'm just trying to fill my time and ease the pain but i can't even do that.

The end is rarely a goal. Nobody's goal is to die. Moreover, nobody knows what happens next. Models vary, and nobody's model is certain.

>No, i'm not suicidal or some retard who weeps about his lack of sexual activity.
In your case, it might be an improvement.

Were you always this way or did something make it happen?

I actually view that as a good thing aswell and i've always been like that. I wish i can enjoy few things to kill time but i never really cared about sex. I find faggots who weep about women each day in each thread very entertaining..

I started learning korean and actually enjoyed it so I bought a few self studying books and Im going to try and study everyday.
Hopefully someday I might be able to express myself in either korean or japanese.

My dream is to go on a holiday to either japan or korea but my financial situation doesn't allow it as of right now.
Im obsessed with east asian tv shows and media for some reason(probably because of escapism) and I don't know if its helping me or making me more mentally ill.
My family doesn't tell my im a fucking loser but I know everyone's thinking it because I never go outside and have 0 friends.

Also I have such a bad case of yellow fever that I can't even nut to normal porn anymore instead I need the dirtiest soapland jav whore to satisfy my needs.

Give me advice frens.

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I don't really see the point to life. Seems to me like I just do stuff because I feel like I'm supposed to or because it gives me some very short term pleasure. I don't expect I'm ever going to get out of this mindset.

im certain tomorrow i'll get up and be very upset that i didnt die in my sleep.

Also, deep down I think I know that my yellow fever is so bad because I have never had a western girlfriend and have been rejected alot.
For some reason my brain thinks that with asian girls I will have a better chance.

You may be a legit psychopath (someone who doesn't experience emotions the way 99% humans do).

That's a clinical definition, it doesn't mean you do anything evil, but you just can't relate to humans at all. Could this be you?

Is this all a way to avoid your own reality?

I know i'm not normal but it just seems so far fetched that i am a psycho. I'm just wandering around trying to entertain myself although i can't even do that and everyone that i see online is so busy whining about superficial things that i never payed any heed to. Talking about emotions i never really knew. I don't really know when i'm happy or not. What is happiness ?

Absolutely, I feel so fucking lonely these days I get fucking depressed because of it.

When I see someone now it's just for small talk, I dont have any intimacy with anyone at all.
Im also have maladaptive daydreaming now where I imagine myself in countless situations where I have a wife, children and sometimes grandchildren and I give them all names, its pretty fucked and im afraid its bad for my mental health.

For some fucking reason I also got insane yellow fever so pretty much all of my daydreams envolve asians.
I've been thinking about suicide too lately but I dont wanne be stuck on antidepressant again, it blows.

Far-fetched? You show all the signs of it and seem confused by things that are obvious to most humans. Psychos typically only feel boredom and anger, mostly. Not much else. They so sorely lack enjoyment out of life that they often seek out extreme stimulation or drugs to get by.

You may never have felt happy, or even any joy.

Some time ago I decided to do something about computer addiction, I drew a impassable boundary between me and the computer and I swore to only use it for something productive. I went two weeks and it was incredibly easy, I thought I had changed my life for good. Then computer usage started to creep back in. Now I can't possibly get into the same mindset as I was my last attempt. I feel like I am in a dopamine whirlpool and can't escape. The exact same happened to me with nofap. Went 180 days and it was a piece of cake. Now, 100 relapses later I have given up. Have yet to find out what it was that made me do it. Any thoughts?

What I could say is this, I think bald men are fucking cool. I think it looks really like peak masculinity. Just look at the fucker in this image. So I guess the problem lies in your perception of baldness

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I guess i'll always be bored then.

>Be me
>I make music (have an actual full time job, don't worry)
>Good singer, good guitarist, constantly spitting something out on guitar or singing something at work
>Really want to pursue it as a career
>Tfw I have severe stage fright when singing

I can play instruments in front of a crowd no problem, but something about being the focal point of it all scares the shit out of me
I've gotten a bit better at being open, but not nearly enough. I think it's probably because growing up I was shit on and treated like garbage by everyone around me. My parents were great, but my mom hates noise so every time I'd ever try to do anything with music I'd be told to stop or shut up. It bothers me to not feel comfortable using my God given talents around people

How do I stop stuttering?