It takes effort to put the peen in the veen

>getting relationships and intimacy takes hard work and requires pulling oneself up by ones bootstraps
>unless you're a woman, then you'll just get these things by default
>feminists and left wingers see no issue with this

>Having le good personality is a meme, it will you friends at best.

Personality is everything. The thing is you that a "kind and friendly" personality isn't what gets women to fuck you.

Only you can decide. I'm a typical nice guy, and all of my friends and most people I meet tell me I'm a good person and that they enjoy my company. With that being said I get no bitches because I don't try to talk to them anymore. Being a friendly dude doesn't spark romantic interest in women and I don't really care too much about finding a gf, so I don't bother anymore. The only thing that will get you laid is practice. You're gonna have to start going and making attempts, and you'll basically learn what corrections you need to make through trial and error.

>meet a girl who looks like a slut
>she doesn't let me fuck for an actual year
>meet a girl who looks prude
>fuck right away

Women are mysterious

Chad with a "kind and friendly personality"(except he will taken advantage of but that's beside the point) will get laid regardless. Stop coping man.

>she doesn't let me fuck for an actual year

This is the paradox. I don't want a girl who lets anybody fuck right away, but at the same time I don't wanna listen to her talk about the same bullshit for months on end with no progress.

What is your definition of Chad?

Attractive male 8+/10.
It's simple as that

how much effort does it take to put the peen in the an0.0s?
is it more less or about the same?

The definition of "attractive" is far less consistent for women than it is for men. Aside from the guys who are built like models, women vary WILDLY in what they consider attractive. There are a lot of decent looking dudes who get not pussy because they don't know how to talk to women. They are nowhere near as visual as us. Charisma is infinitely more important than looks.

Ugly people get laid every day.

There's no paradox. You're just a retard.

t. roastie

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Depends on the slut in question. I've had 2 out 3 offer me their ass. Only did it with one of them

Charisma means absolutely nothing if an attractive guy makes her pussy tingle man......

T. Virgin

Women aren't as shallow as men thankfully

>this is what redpillers actually believe

probably more since real women aren't like in porn

Everyone is a fucking liar and I don't know why
>get better personality!
>be Chad!
>lift weights!
>just be yourself!
The incels AND normalfags are completely fucking wrong.

The REAL solution is to have large, and multiple, circles of mixed-sex friends/acquaintances.
This is why it seems like even short, fat, and ugly guys gets girls; they have enough friends they can play the numbers game
This is why it seems like above average introverts can't get girls; if they don't have any friends they aren't meeting women, if you aren't meeting women how do you get a gf?
This is why criminals are nonvirgins; drug dealers have a huge social circle as part of the job
This is why STEM students are virgins; STEM students tend to be introverts with small, all-male social circles

Cold approaching women for sex/relationship is fucking stupid, don't do it
If you're going to cold approach at all, you should be doing it to get into a new social circle.
The reason this seems like a recent phenomena is because the internet has practice strangled peoples ability to make friends. Why try to meet up with people in real life (especially in america where you need a car to get anywhere) when you can go onto the internet and talk to people who share the interests you already have and can talk about other things you might be interested in.

Did none of these and put peen in the veen of 2 women. I'm not attractive or high status either.
>practice social skills and fix your personality
Ok kinda did that, but it happened naturally by being more outside and growing up enough to realize nobody gives a shit about you.

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>T. Virgin
Boy I've fucked until my dick was raw. I was fucking during Obama's first term

what you say is true. but I will not put the effort into getting into a circle of friends
too much work. younger me could do it. but older me see's everyone is shit

Canine Brap is like the OG BLACKED.

nah bruh. you're probably average looking or you fucked some uggos
you eating frost flakes when people be talking bout fruity pepples
ya feel me?

desu guys actual sex isnt that great. I keep craving it but when I do get some it isnt that good. A cheap fleshlight feels way better then a vagina and it has 0 chance of STD's or children.

Don't hate the player, hate the reproductive game.
There is no solution to that, if you want a more traditional society it will require hard work and shit also, but to win approval of parents. Then you'll be stuck with probably average or below woman who won't even love you for real and you won't feel much for her either, she'll be just a household appliance most likely. That's best case scenario if you are from good family, if you are low caste you'll be treated as cattle, you'll be killed for daring to lay hands on any girl until society decideds you are good enough, most likely you'll die as a suicide bomer or other cannon fodder before that happens.
Finding someone you'd feel genuine attraction to for prologned periods of time is still possible, you just have to play by unconventional rules, but that takes some courage and robots have none.

>chadfriend talk to me about how to get girls
>is "just personality and be talkeative :)"
>when we go to public places almost every girl take a long look at him
Damn

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I might get one of those. can't now unless I get a personal po box

>you eating frost flakes when people be talking bout fruity pepples
Not really, if you listen to robots they'd be fine with anyone. If that's not the case then you can't cplain it takes basic effort, these stunning women usually work out and spend hours on make up.
The women I had were in my league btw, not attractive, but far from ugly. Gotta say there is lots of competition to beat in that category.

not wrong, the intimacy and cuddling after is nice though

which is why I don't play the dating game. like 9/10 women spend a lot of time on their appearance
I'd never even do a fraction of what they do! THEY'D HAVE TO DRAG ME BY MY COLD DEA-

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So the problem here is wanting the top place in a race, without willing to put any effort into it. That's just retarded and you have to either grow up and put effort into life or give up fully and stop whining on the internet.