>Have 22yr old gf >Is 'bi' >She's been hanging out with this chick for the last 6mo >Spending the night and everything >Chick has been buying gf jewelry, expensive hair stuff, clothes, books, little letters, etc >Gf wears clothes and jewelry from that chick every single day >I get gf jewelry every now and then >gf says "I dont like jewelry user but thank you!" >She has never worn any clothes or jewelry I bought her >Wears jewelry from other chick every single day >"user, I want to fuck (other chick), it's just sex don't be upset I just crave her, there won't be any feelings involved! You need to respect my needs" >Gf and I haven't even fucked in months
Is this it, bros? Why the fuck did I take the 'having a gf will fix everything' pill?
She doesn't give a fuck about you, her own interests are above your own its time to pull the plug. I don't know the full extent of what happened but ending it is the only option you have if you respect yourself.
Ayden Diaz
They've been fucking, and she's only with you as a cover because she doesn't want to be seen as a homo to her peers
Mason Wilson
>Not asserting dominance first before looking for a mutual gf >not making sure your sexual life is fully satisfied between you two and when your gf finds a gf to be introduced instantly >not taking your gfs gf on a date and becoming her bf as well You got ROSSED
She sounds like a faggot, and you do too. Break it off before it's too late.
Ryder Martinez
hey dude you should dump her. was in a similar situation where the other person "wasnt a threat" but honestly its all bullshit. find yourself a better gf; theres one out there for you!
Isaac Miller
>Letting your gf have sex with another girl before you have had sex with her first Another rookie "My gf is dating a girl that's so hot" mistake
Break up with this chick, 21st century thots are only what we enable them to be
Dominic Stewart
Get better at tongue and mouth stuff and sex in general
Tyler Thomas
Jesus you type like a faggot, no wonder she's leaving you for the dyke, her balls are probably bigger than yours
Caleb Phillips
Piss off, I'm upset you manchild.
Logan Miller
You did good, other than the self pitying "why me?" part
Brody Hernandez
Kek this is gonna be amusing. I hope she calls you a faggot
Jackson Kelly
>actually feeling threatened by a WOMAN you're such a cuck that you deserve the break up this innocent gf of yours will lay down on you. She will destroy you. You will cry (again), because that's all your pathetic ass is good for.
ALL WOMEN ARE BI. They all want to try sex with each other, and who can blame them? Women are attractive. Let them have their fun. They'll come back to you after a brief romp with a lesbo. If they do leave you, it means they were gay and were going to leave anyway. Fighting it only makes you look bitter and emasculate.
Women come back to men because men have things women can never offer, like being a big spoon or protecting her from muggers or, you know, having real sex. Your best move is to straight up tell her you don't care if she has sex with women and let her have some fun.
Ayden Moore
You're the one acting like a fucking child, and your girlfriend is going to dump you like one.
Luis Bailey
It's more than just sex, but rather how she treats this girl as more of a partner than she does me. I'd have no issue if it was simply sex, but I'm tired of being put second to this dumb bitch after everything I've done for the girl.
I shouldn't have done that, you're right. But when I get upset I get extremely emotional and let my emotions take over. I'm trying to work on that.
I'm sorry, user. I'm just really fucked here. I threw my life away for this girl. I made so many sacrifices for somebody who can't even treat me as a priority in the slightest. I put my family second to her, my plans and goals second to her, my job second to her. I've given her everything she could ever ask for and all I wanted in return was to feel 'wanted' and she can't even do that for me.
Liam Miller
Yeah maybe don't be such a fucking wimp that has no life or purpose other than his bitchy bi gf
Jose Reyes
This dumb chicks nevertheless dated bi cunts Op dont listen to him, dump her, women are a meme
Grayson Cox
I fucked up by going into this wanting to fix her, and make everything alright for her. She got out of an 'abusive' relationship prior to me and I wanted to make her better. I conditioned myself, and her, into getting whatever she wanted no matter what. I get 4 hours of sleep a night because I wake up to make breakfast and coffee for her, and then I clean up after her, I work on her cars, I give her all of my time and money and now it's such a habitual thing that it pains me to simply not do it. Which is why I'm in this position right now. She didn't have to earn a thing and now she's taken advantage of me and taken me for granted. Now she wants more from somebody else when I have given her absolutely everything I could give her. What does that leave me with? Nothing. I hate what hole I've dug myself. It's pathetic.
Carter Richardson
look at this gremlin LOL
Julian Morris
You're a fucking beta for doing that and that makes women lose interest you know that
Jonathan Foster
you never show vulnerability, come on man. Just send her a brief message about how you do not date carpet munchers and to crease and desist, or you're breaking up. Long messages imply you respect her even now. Don't. Your time is too valuable to waste on even talking to this whore.
Jonathan Nguyen
All that shit you do is supposed to be done by her. Women enjoy treating their man and you took that away from her too. Only until I lucked out and got a gf did I realize; I respect her and think of her as an equal, but she doesn't. Women always want to be put to work, to sacrifice for you. Instead of being the fearless hunk (or trying) that she wanted to work for, you fucked her up. I know it's counter intuitive but it's true. At least you realized. Just end it all, it's obvious that she won't accept returning to normal dynamics anymore
Jose Myers
Well, you made it clear that you don't want her to mess with this other girl, and she's doing it anyways. Dump her. Cheating is messed up.
Daniel Sanders
You should have a zero tolerance policy for her having sex with anyone other that you, and you should leave her dude. Like holy shit.
Ethan Cox
Never put your career or your family before a woman.
Honestly man, don't get too down on yourself. It doesn't seem like she was really going to be a great life partner anyway. You've learned some valuable lessons and can walk away from this alright.
Samuel Jenkins
Any reply from the gf yet?
William James
Op got cucked by a woman everyone point and laugh
Grayson Anderson
Left on seen right now. I'm trying not to let my anger take ahold of me so I don't end up throwing a tantrum and breaking her shit.
I appreciate that, user. I feel so naive because I blindly led myself to this position.
Blake Jackson
my mother cheated on and left her fiancee, was fucking the other guy right before the wedding. he was just like you, "did everything for her, worked on her cars, woke up early to get her breakfast and coffee" girls talk about wanting a man who does this shit but in the end a partnership in which you want the girl far more will just end up in you losing it.
get out of this relationship, find another girl and try it for the other angle. Let her work for you and act like you don't care. sounds like dick move but leads to a far more rewarding relationship.
Wyatt Young
I realize that now, albeit too late. Why are women like this? Why do you have to treat them shitty to have a relationship that's worth anything anymore?
Julian Williams
Genetics, and mental stuff I guess. The moment they begin thinking they're worth more than you they will start looking for someone else. They have to settle for someone who's worth their while.
You don't exactly have to be shitty all the time, you just have to establish who is on top by showing them you care less than they do. Shorter replies, taking more time to reply than they do, not complimenting them back when they compliment you. You can still tell them you love them and compliment but on your terms, not theirs.
Dylan Bailey
>Career second to a relationship This is such a mistake. Never do this.
Easton Rogers
The hard part is while I'm doing that, what if the girl finds somebody to fulfill her every wish and need whereas I'm not. Then she'll leave. So I feel obligated to do every little thing or else she'll leave.
Xavier Bennett
>getting cucked by some lesbian dyke user, you are utter pathetic kys
That's where your mentality is going wrong. That's why you're in this pickle in the first place. "What if she finds someone who will do everything for her? Therefore I HAVE to do everything for her so she won't find that person."
If you be that person, the girl will LITERALLY go and find someone who will treat her worse. She will literally be desiring someone who won't give her everything. That's genuinely how it works. My old ex was the same. Guy treated her like a queen, dropped him for me because I was slightly more alpha, albeit still fairly beta in general.
Hence, I'll say it again, the only way to keep a girl is to let her be more interested than you. Throw her that rope of you doing good things for her every once in a while, then she thinks "wow user is so sweet!" Do it every day and she gets bored and leaves. Simply how it works.
William Ward
>typing out all of that junk instead of calling/talking to her in person Women are way less brave when they aren't texting. She's just going to stonewall you if she has the option to hide behind a chat box and take her sweet time.
William Clark
>so far into this game that you're getting cucked by Stacy
You're something else, OP wew
Landon Adams
Honestly I don't think I'd even feel bad in your situation. I don't count kissing or fucking another girl as cheating. I'd laugh it off and tell her to go at it on the one condition she records the fuck session and I can join them for a threesome later.
Landon Murphy
I really appreciate this user. If this is the route I have to go to get any type of success in a relationship then so be it. I've been over-analyzing the entire thing. She's at work right now, or we'd be having this conversation in person.
Nathan Watson
>is this it? Obviously >Tell her you have to be involved in threesome >Smash until ready to dump >Disassociate feeling for her, she's just a fleshlight now
Evan Fisher
Leave and leave now, don't be a cuck
Carter Ortiz
>Telling her you feel insecure and were crying
Well if it wasn't over before it sure is now.
Benjamin Butler
STOP!
You don't tell her how you feel, stupid. Just ghost her if you've decided you're done. Take this advice for next time and I hope you're young and inexperienced to pull this shit.
Ethan White
>Second to her
Sounds more like you're nothing to her desu senpai
Jonathan Powell
>She's at work right now, or we'd be having this conversation in person. probably should've waited but hindsight is 20/20 I suppose
This is basically the only other route besides breaking up at this point. Maybe not the threesome necessarily but I'd just be a lot more demanding about sex while not caring about her anymore. Easier said than done, I know.
Gavin Jenkins
I wish my mother's ex husband could've realised the same thing. Next woman he's with will probably hurt him in the same way because he's too retarded to learn from what happened to him. But I'm glad what I've mentioned is helping.
The next step, of course is to cut this bitch out. It's gonna hurt and you'll have to be a man about it, and it's a lot to trust a bunch of faggots on the internet on a chinese basket weaving forum's advice, but you'll definitely be better off in the future. It'll hurt like a bitch for a month or few, but after that you'll be ready to actually win at life. Right now, with this woman treating you like she is, you're definitely losing.
Brandon Flores
op, i'll be honest with you: extremely bi women are the worst. i've had my own experiences with them, and they either just always want sex or are the most unreliable and untrustworthy filth this world has ever seen. however, women are lesbians by default, and this is pretty well known. the choice of a polygamy over a monogamy is yours to take, however you (along with myself) seem to like the monogamy route, so drop her and find yourself a straight chick. if you don't find one, weed cures everything. that, or get in on the action and try to get a threesome going.
Isaac Russell
manipulative, as expected. get a threesome or drop her op she ain't worth it
when you cry because of a woman, you become the woman
i assume youve cried to her in the past?
Ryder Young
>cucked by a lesbian sounds like she's based and dykepilled
Nathan Fisher
It's obvious what you need to do user. You need to make the best of this situation by encouraging a MFF threesome.
Turn that frown upside down!
Carter Morgan
>Getting cucked by a girl. You should take the jewelry and throw it in a river or something.
Zachary Rogers
>looking for relationship advice on Jow Forums therein lies your first mistake
Matthew Perez
Hey man, user from the future you's perspective. Meaning I'm a few years older than you.
I was in the exact same situation you're in now. Do yourself a MASSIVE FUCKING FAVOR and get out of the relationship, and ghost her permanently. It might already be too late, especially if you love the girl, but you're in for a lot of pain and it will only get worse.
Forget she ever existed and move on. She's toxic.
Anthony Rodriguez
>my gf loves a woman more than me
well this is a no brainer. just become a woman. DUH. HRT isnt even that expensive, and youre in the perfect age to do it. youll get to live a brand new life, AND your gf will love you again
Oliver Hernandez
The only acceptable answer is "threesome or gtfo."
Wyatt Martin
if op considers suicide, he can do this. pratically the same thing
stop fucking LARPing perhaps, we all know you're too much of a pussy user...
Tyler Wood
do the thing you just said
Samuel Foster
Oh dear, you are a cuck.
You are literally the actual definition of that word. You are almost certainly supporting or helping to support your """girlfriend""" who is just using you as basically a roommate for lower rent and free stuff.
If you dumped her today she wouldn't even blink, she would just start """dating""" this other girl and use her too.
However, the sunk cost fallacy is strong in this case. Cut anchor and get over her.
Nicholas Cruz
I have a feeling the thread died and we wont get to see the outcome of this shitstorm OP has gotten himself into.
You are absolutely right to feel upset user, if I was in your shoes I feel just the same. Now instead of trying to convince her through arguing why do you not look better after yourself?
You are way to good of a person for her obviously, judging from your deep caring towards her you must be a very compassionate person.
Perhaps you might consider relieving yourself of the situation. It seems like she does not want a lot of jewelery she is getting. Maybe you can give yourself a great with that?
