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My problem: huge drop in libido over the last two years >be me, generally normal horny guy as teenager and in early twenties >start noticing libido decreasing around 24/25 >sex drive decreases more and more over the last two years >sex drive is like 1/10th of what it used to be 5 years ago >rarely feel horny anymore and when I do it's weak and fleeting >random boners nonexistent >have to force myself to fap even after a week of not fapping >rarely watch porn since it doesn't do anything for me anymore >feel like my cum has become more watery and less coagulated >penis still works fine for sex >do weightlifting two to three times a week, muay thai two times a week since years so I'm physically fit at 5ft10 160lbs >generally watch what I eat, mainly drink water What the fuck is this bros, please help a boomer out. Should I see a doc?
Listen, my friend, if you find yourself a true and faithful qt wife, the Lord will bless you with the libido 5o replenish this earth. You are doing well by avoiding porn, it's the devil's temptation. Just keep the good life of working, lifting, and living in Christ's light, and I promise you it will all be alright. Go in strength, brother
>do weightlifting two to three times a week, muay thai two times a week since years overtraining, underrecovery, likely both. reduce your training load and/or incorporate more deloads/breaks. I've been bulking with high volume lifting for the last 4 months, and my libido was declining as well. Did a 2 week deload last week and this week, ended up fapping 4 times in 2 days.
Liam Nelson
Similar situation here OP. We need a solution! How to get sex drive back??
Brody Myers
You might just be homos
Jacob Brown
This lmao for years in my teens I was worried I had a low sex drive and low test, but mysteriously I could get very aroused by gay porn Turns out I was just gay
Oliver Moore
it's kind of a gay thing, but try working in uppers. even just a good dose of caffeine can help with erections
Joseph Green
right there with you
seems like horniness has been declining since 18 yrs old. Now it's just sad. I can be in bed with my oneitis and still struggle to get and keep a boner
Carson Gutierrez
People with low libido, what's your lifestyle like?
Juan Nguyen
Alright I'll try that. Had to take a break today bevause I was too tired from training all the time
Joshua Wood
hookers, yer or no? share experiences
Joshua Rogers
>have high libido with GF >every time we finally get to sexy times my dick won't get fully hard like it used to >can still fuck her alright but it's about an inch smaller than it is at peak erection >can rarely get the full thing when I look at porn either What's the issue here? Nerves?
Jackson Powell
Normal work, a lot of training, good family and friends. Maybe the libidal urges went over into productive energy idk
Angel Wilson
I can’t fuck fast cause ill cum, unless I jerk off earlier in the day. But that kinda kills my libido later on which I sorta need to be able to not be a sperg with a tinder girl. What do?
Michael Hernandez
I lost my v card to one, and went two other times to hookers. My advice is no. Don't do it. Using hookers is a damn powerful drug, user. You will get hooked (get it?) in no time. The experience itself is great. The foreplay, sex, etc. It's really attractive since basically you're her only focus and her priority is to please YOU. But when you nut, you feel like shit. You're there lying in a bed wondering why the fuck did you spend that money when you could have just beat your meat at home, and feel disgusted with yourself.
Then a days passes, and you get hard just by remembering. Then it's the only thing you think about. And you find yourself again there. And again, and again, and again. And your wallet becomes to thin. And you don't recognise yourself anymore
Hunter Gray
I convinced my doc to give me a fertility test. Said there was white blood cells in my semen. What's that mean?
Robert Richardson
It peaks in teenage years, as your graph shows
Gabriel Ortiz
Have you been jewed? If your dick is desensitized from jewish tricks, the yes, it's nerves
Dominic Turner
The reference value is 0, but from my experience in the biochem lab there is ALWAYS some WBCs, i have yet to examine a sample without them. The question is - how many were there? Small amount of WBCs in semen usually mean nothing, because it's normal, but they could indicate infection if there's more of them.
If you have the results, post the picture and i will tell you if you should be worried
David Rivera
Oh, and i forgot the most important part, if THAT is what he mentioned (and not sperm count, sperm morphology, sperm motility, bacteria, etc) then you're probably golden user
Lincoln Jenkins
Thanks, that's a relief. Here's the relevant part of the document
I like going to Amsterdam and banging the window girls. The cheaper ones are best - you can get the full works for €50 without being rushed or ripped off - the Eastern Europeans in the main part will bleed you dry. The Caribbean and Latino girls near the church will milk you dry.
Isaiah Thomas
Good pun but also, it's funny because it's true.
William Myers
There's usually 3 or 5 types of grading >3 looks like: 0, +, +++ >5 looks like: 0, +, ++, +++, too many Either way you're only +, the lowest possible. Don't worry, it's normal. If your doc wants you to take some medication for that then he's a sellout
Ofc it's true. Foreskin bros are struggling with premature ejac in teen age, and jewed citizens are struggling with getting hard after 25yo. Judge for yourself which is better/worse
Alexander Garcia
Does it matter that you have a low libido, as long as you’re still regularly fucking?
Sebastian Brown
I'm thinking about getting on finasteride but am worried about the sides. I used zinc for a couple months and my sex drive was absurdly high so i'm thinking i should just take both at the same time. Anybody have any experience with this?
Joseph Green
I have a fetish for sex workers, expensive hobby but once you find good matches the sex is something else. Best sex I had was with a really skinny Russian (like Gina russian) who fucked hard and was really spontaneous like biting, anal play, let me cum whever I wanted for no extra price, I get hard thinking about her. Last girl I saw reminded me of her, cute thicc Latina who liked to just pound away. It's a great destressor imo
Leo Stewart
Cure for PE: 10% xylocaine (lidocaine) dental anasthetic spray. Squirt on your dick 30mins before sex, itll numb your dick a bit, then wash off. Wont stop you getting pink steel or cumming, but gives you control. OTC in most places. Good for toothache too.
TL:DR My mind and body is more ready for sex than my dick is. I want to have sex and can cum definitely more than my dick can keep good erection. What can be the problem?
So to make it short. I'm 24 and almost never get morning wood, sometimes have problems getting good hard erection.
BUT I get morning wood if I won't cum for couple days, and my erection after such abstinence will be very good. But the pressure to cum almost instantly will be HUGE.
BUT the quality of my erection after first time drop a lot and I would again need to wait couple days to have it perfect. To make it more, my libido is rather big, I'm aroused around girl want to touch, kiss, fuck her a lot, can cum easily from her blowjobs the second round same night and third in the morning. But my erections second and third time are definitely worse and I'm losing them quickly, not enough for normal sex.
Any tips? I've been on nofap and noporn entire 2019, so almost 4 months now
Daniel Hughes
OK, that one hit a little too close to home.
Juan Nguyen
It can be a very pleasurable experience If you find a good one, her full attention will be on satisfying you, best blowjob you can get as they literally are professional, and its the easiest way to fuck a 10/10 of your choice. You can get EVERYTHING you want sex-wise as long as your willing to pay. Its like a being in a porn. But, most of the times, its pure physical, passionate sex with a hooker can happen but its quite rare in my experience. Good sex with someone you have a deep connection with is way better. Before I met my gf I fucked about 50 hookers within 18 months and lost my virginity to one, no regrets. One of them even wanted to date me after fucking her.
Kevin Gomez
In the dairy industry, we call that mastitis. Best you get a calf to suck it out, or antibiotics.
Carson Myers
Listen to this guy, luckily I got out of it earlier before I could spent a fortune. It's really not worth buying a hooker. I lost my virginity to a hooker and I never regret it because I was getting old, and after a couple of hookers I then realized that sex is nothing special. I'm already lucky enough that despite renting dozens of hooker services, all I got was a single herpes labialis that never showed up ever again years after I got it.
If you want to have sex, then do it with the woman you dearly love. Never listen to anyone who thinks that losing virginity is a big deal because it really is not.
Robert Price
My sex drive is high but i have ED issues, sometimes my boners are just not hard enough and other times they go soft quickly after i stop touching my dick I secretly take viagra whenever im with the gf and that sokves the issue but i still cant cum except from a BJ or handjob
Luke Thomas
>23 yr old v >take lady out to movies >do 1 shot of tequila (disgusting) >making out so I'm hard the whole time >leave theater >go to car >20min of me teasing her into the backseat >lose erection once I get my pants off >couldn't get erection at all the next day
>few days later >at the park >get into the backseat again >erect this time >put it inside her no condor >can barely feel anything >can't finish >eventually give up and go home Can I really get whiskey dick from 1 shot or is my dick just fucked? and why couldn't I feel anything
Spinal damage? n. erigentes dysfunction? Try some ginkgo and other nerve repairing shit, see if it helps
Jonathan Gray
A day later seems like a stretch. You can't get permanent whiskey dick from 1 shot
Cameron Anderson
Fuck this shit I'm cut, never get spontaneous erections anymore, almost never get fully hard, but even with a 60% boner I'm ready to ejac in 40 seconds or less. Only thing that's ever helped me with lasting longer in the past is antidepressants it sucks
Landon Anderson
It was your first time, if the girl knows this then she’d probably be more understanding of it. You were nervous and it’ll improve over time, just keep trying to hang her and don’t over think it
Luis Thompson
I'm swiss
Luis Harris
>can rarely get the full thing when I look at porn either >when I look at porn
There's your problem bud. Cut it out forever. It causes issues with getting & maintaining an erection, and with orgasming, because of how much it desensitizes you to sexual stimulation.
Nicholas Clark
>but mysteriously I could get very aroused by gay porn >Turns out I was just gay You are high IQ user, right ?
John Cooper
You did get your oneitis in your bed ? Fuark my oneitis I forgot about her long ago... But sometimes I still dream about being married with this bitch. FML
Xavier Clark
Should I start doing nofap? I can’t get it up for my wife but I have no problems on my own. I go to the gym and lift so I think the problem isn’t physical.
Logan Roberts
>almost 4 months now how often do you have sex then? I find it's more difficult to get an erection when I go too long without cumming
Do you know how embarrassing that is? Stop masturbating you loser. If you’re going to cum it’s going to be because you fucked your wife, anything else is embarrassing
Nathaniel Wood
>played with a girl >rub my dick outside her vag for a bit >didn't put it in cause 2ez and didn't have protection >pus from my dick 3 days later If I knew I were gonna get gonorrhoea from rubbing my dick outside her vag I would have went all the way.
My oneitis just told me yesterday she suspects her husband is cheating on her. Once she gets evidence I'm gonna fly over to fuck her.
Jackson Baker
You're stupid, dude. Your piss hole is the most (only) vulnerable spot, and you rub it all over that mess thinking you'll be safe.
What a dumb retard.
Kayden Scott
Yeah I learnt my lesson. Sorry man.
Jeremiah Hughes
4th day doing angion method
Cum is more and spurts farther but no notice gain in dick size. Am I doing something wrong? Am I suppose to squeeze the whole dick cuz I usually just massage it in terms of pressure.
Also do girls really care about men being fat? I can converse well with womens(at least cashiers)
>Also do girls really care about men being fat? they care more about the way you make them feel
Blake Green
They care less then us men but you still do yourself a disservice in terms of dating by being a fatso
Ethan Edwards
Based imbecile.
John Jenkins
I’m in the flatline period of nofap man. I feel fucking free from the addiction of flesh. I don’t know how you can complain about this, I can do whatever I want and not waste any time on whores.
Camden Morris
>want to fuck >condom too tight >don't feel anything at all this is the worst condoms were a mistake
my bf is fat (he's trying to change that currently) and i love him indifferently but only because he's my bf. i wouldn't fall in love with someone who is fat right away, probably, at least it never happened. so the answer is both yes and no? i know there are chubbychasers out there but fir the rest you eighter ought to lose weight or have a REALLY bombastic personality to conter the fact. or maybe not. different kinds of women exist.
Nathaniel Walker
Glad you got the better end, and I'm glad you're ok now, man
Carter Bell
30 year old here. This is what I do for my libido. I have a gf at home who I obviously fuck. My new strategy is I have an ethot I met through World of Warcraft. I just sext her all day while I'm at work and she sends me pics/videos then I take that pent up sexual energy and rail my gf at home. Works great
Charles Baker
Until your gf finds out
Leo Myers
I'm 28 and a virgin. Things are looking up and it looks like I'll have some opportunities to lose it. Should i tell them I'm a virgin or just have bad sex and pretend I'm just bad at it lol
Sebastian Myers
That would be not ideal
Justin Murphy
Tbh we're so wired to fuck different girls, the concept of monogamy is just doomed to fail.
Andrew Lee
>Should i tell them I'm a virgin How does this fucking play out in your head >Dont tell them >Have sex >Could be good, could be bad >Either way, doesn't matter, experience, or >Tell them you're a virgin >Instantly have a chance they terminate all contact followed by telling everyone they know >Or you have sex, and its exactly the same as if you didn't fucking tell them
Keep your fucking mouth shut.
Aiden Gomez
some women fetishise it as much as men
Jason King
>23v >1 shot >whiskey dick >give up user, I have some bad news, you’re a bitch lmao
Dude get treated ASAP. I had some shit like that and was a retard about it. don't be like me
Andrew Ortiz
Does it rub off on girl?
Justin Watson
>35 >libido is higher that ever >can jack of without porn 5 times a day >morning bones so hard it wakes me up before 6am Dunno guys, do you drink like onions milk or whatever?
Caleb Price
Vitamin deficiency. Go to an endocrinologist with a good reputation and have your blood tested, then take wherever he/her recommends
Luis Hernandez
I'm on day 7 of AM 1.0, I'm basically following a 2 days on 1 day off routine. My flaccid size has improved a lot (I was an extreme case of grower, like 1.5 inches flaccid). I don't think I've gained hard size but my erections are far better. But keep in mind you and me have been doing this for a few days. I'll definitely give it a month or two and then I'll move on to AM 2.0. I just apply a little bit of pressure, always trying to be gentle. I do 3 sets of BE, 3 sets of PR, and then 3 more sets of BE and 2 sets of PR. I don't know if that's how it's supposed to be but it's worked for me thus far. What's your routine like?
Christian Scott
Just close your eyes and pretend you're fucking someone else, how is that hard. >mfw I can only cum when fucking my wife if I imagine I am fucking someone else, be it the random thot I saw on the streets or the hot co-worker
Connor Gonzalez
I kinda feel I'm using the sexual energy otherwise, through working out or working, but my libido crashing so hard seemingly without reason has me concerned
Noah Moore
I do that sometimes with my gf but I find it sad asf.
Carson Thompson
It's either that or cheat brah. We've all been cucked by women's rights. At least you can still break up with her and get someone else, but I'm sure you're with her for her other non-sex qualities.
Grayson Young
How have you been cucked by women’s rights? Would you feel happy about your women getting dicked down by other dudes while being with you? If so, there is no issues - have open relationships. Trust me, your girlfriend would love to get fucked by other, better looking dudes as well. If you can’t handle lusting other other women then you shouldn’t have committed relationships.
Parker Wilson
I don't think you know anything about managing expectations
John Collins
I would say 4 times a week is average
Gavin Miller
*dies from STD*
Hunter Sanchez
Also I forgot to mention, I have a mild varicocele on one of my testicles. Since doing AM1.0 the occasional pain I feel has ceased, though take this with a gran of salt since it may not be related.
Gavin Anderson
What exercises/lifts help with sex? And most importantly, do kettlebell swings help? I was wondering if doing the kettlebell 50 swing a day would help improve me. I'm currently starting SS and I'm an aushwitz
Tyler Edwards
user I'm kind of in the same boat with you as in I've fucked at least 20 or so hookers. I'm starting to see this girl and wondering if you would ever mention anything about seeing hookers to her? I personally wouldn't tell anyone but to each their own.
Thomas Morris
Thanks. I'm legit just gonna fuck around . Real talk how do you get around the cups? Just smash your face into that shit? I legit just open up a tab with karmakut playing insurgency and then some porn and a timer and follow along to what Mr angion said to do.
It's actually therapeutic as everything drowns out and I'm beating my dick with my thumbs. >its basically a hangout desu >dudes are laughing >I'm watching some pretty lady get dicked down. >sometimes mr angion gives me guidance >2 minutes of BE >5 minutes of PR >gonna add on 2.0 and 3.0 later
there is no way to physically tell the difference between a virgin and non-virgin male
Jaxson Jones
went to hookers 5 times, this is true
Jack Gonzalez
could someone give me some tips on shaving my ding dong?
for some reason I always get razor bumps on one side of my dick. I'm pretty sure it's razor bumps and not and std because they start to go away until I shave again, and because they're only on the one side. How do I stop this because it makes me very self conscious, especially if I'm getting a handjob
Benjamin Mitchell
Buy an epilator It's a rotating head with a row of tweezers that rip out hair Exfoliate your crotch, trim to a mm or so length, then let er rip Enjoy perfectly smooth base of dick, scrotum, taint Lasts 2 weeks or longer depending on how long you've been doing it