Friday Night Jow Forums Feels Thread

Who /incel/ here?

>be me
>28 yo incel freak
>lifetime approach to sex rate is about 1%
>only make 100k a year in LA (aka poverty)
>shit body pic related
>face of a poor man's Sean Connery with same eye brows
>study game

>go out last saturday, alone like most times
>see a latina with one of those retarded half head shave haircuts and horrific fucked up teeth, but a decent athletic body
>she's actually there by herself
>is super excited to talk to me
>things going great, her laughing, about to move and get a drink and really escalate now
>I ask what she wants while she goes to the bathroom
>I never buy a drink unless they are really interested and take time/effort to invest in you
>buy 2 drinks, wait 15 minutes cause line is long
>never comes
>stood up by a horse mouth dyked haircut

>see a thicc jiggly assed happa on the street
>approach and talk a few minutes
>ask her for coffee and SHE SAYS let me give you my number
>she initially texts back instantly within 1 minute
>clear signs of interest
>move to set up date/time/place
>never responds

Rinse and repeat high interest rejections like this a few dozen times in the last year on top of the usual crash and burn rejections

>about to go out and do it all again

S-so how was your week, haha

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I'm so sorry man, I hope you'll feel better

You're volcel.

Is 50 bucks a month worth it for gym membership as a student. I do run a good amount. Not sure if worth. What do u guys pay?

Well done man, you're doing good, now lets do better together

> makes 100k a year
> can't have sex

you make your own misery buddy.

>Be first year at uni
>Went to visit old highschool to visit teachers
>4 grade 12s that had a problem with me last year are waiting in the hall
>The call me a faggot, so i tell them to suck my fucking cock
>One on the left suckers me in the temple
>2 more punches until I regain myself
>Teachers come out at this point and scare them off
>File assault charges against all 4
>Ashamed I didn't get a punch in or didn't run after them because of cameras

Two are suspended and the other two are expelled now, but I feel like a pussy for not trying to fight back.

Did I do right /fit? i've got a little bruise on my head, but besides that I'm not hurt.

Well done on losing the wait, your efforts arent going unnoticed, nice trips too. Keep going user, no matter who you are, you can be loved

nah too expensive man

Been there buddy, its hard, but better times are coming.

Just had one of the best wrestling and jiu jitsu training sessions of my life, shitload of scrambling, told my girlfriend I love her and now I think I'm gonna have a nice drink and fuck around for like half an hour before I start studying

Shit's good today

All incels are volcel

Na dude, dump that shit

Move: to new state for new job, college best friend you moved with is out of town for two weeks due to national guard, so I’m sitting at a bar 30 seconds from my apartment alone. My coworker said theres a bunch of young people here, but all girls are take and no one else seems wanting to talk. It feels lonely, I guess humans are social animals that do need others to make advances in anything. And I’m not bad looking either, I guess I lack the confidence to talk to anyone 1 on 1/group

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Nice arms, what's your arm size?
Also, aim higher, stop going for bottom feeders- they are probably used to pimps and thugs hitting on them so they're turned off by how normal you are. Aim for 19-26 white girls and you'll be good.

I just want a gf who's not ugly nor a roastie nor a crazy bitch. A man can dream.

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I missed my workout today and I'm debating if I should just go late tonight. It was squat/bench day... I don't like missing bench (my weakest lift).

The problem is the late night crew is not my normal crew and I don't know anyone there. It's a tiny private gym.

I'm feeling fine, fellas. Already got laid twice and it's just 04:16 AM (Norway).
Gonna get some sleep and then workout when I wake up.

I feel like absolute trash because I stopped lifting.

Then why stop lifting? I have the same problem except probably more serious as I feel like shit 100% of the time that I am not lifting.

Not sure if I want to lift
Might take a week off

Why?

Not the best. Stressed about a lot. Worried about starting college in the fall. I'll be living by myself and I won't know anyone. I can make friends sometimes. But other times idk what it is but I just fail at social situations. My ex drunk texted me the other night talking about how she missed me and my pretty eyes. And how she remebers sitting in my Lap
and how hot it was. I was doing my best to move on but it hurt to have her message me again. Re opened wounds again.
Then i saw this and it reminded me I still have letters and notes and stuff she wrote me in my desk a couple feet away. So now I'm resting the urge to go get them. I know I was right to break up with her. She cheated but dam occasionally this shit hurts. I wish I could feel more amger towards her. But I don't feel much of anything anymore. And I'm only 18 lol. God I've fucked my life up so bad.

Yeah it goes away but it could take an entire year
Do nofap for a couple weeks and I bet your luck will turn around

I'm very social but have nobody to hang out with because I'm not in any groups on campus and my roomates just stay in their rooms and play video games. This makes me fap a lot out of loneliness. I need another gf. It's been a year and every two or three months I'll fuck some girl who is far too ugly for me. No pussy right now and it makes me sad. I'm tired of videogames, tired of movies and tv, I just want a nice girl to hang out with and cure my loneliness. It's worth mentioning that the hottest girls on campus mire me all the time I just never go out socialize :(

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I stopped lifting....some months ago. This one being the third time I've got back at it and left it afterwards, which makes me fell even more like trash.

Also i can't fucking lift cause of injuries and that was the only thing that made me feel better that isn't harmful for me fml.

Went out drinking and ending up having a long talk with an ex. Went back to her place and just lay in bed talking but it just feels like I'm a different person than I was/we don't have much in common anymore.
Feeling a little drained now but feel like I finally get why it stopped working. Hopefully I got it out of my system

Not him. But I just finished a week of no fap. Then fapped. Didn't feel any more motivation thsn normal in fact considered stopping cause I wasn't that interested and couldn't get hard. I barely ever get hard any more evwn with my gf I don't think I ever got fully erect. Or at least not often. I haven't had morning wood in years. I'm 18 what the fuck is wrong with me lmao.

Trying to get my job back after I abruptly quit. Life is a mess trying to pick my shit back up and started going into the gym again after working out at home for 6 months. My lifts are dogshit because I'm too afraid to push myself because off these plates and screws in my forearm. Now browsing this site again has me questioning my routine. I'm just so lost, I need some quality friends

I feel similarly. I'm gonna sound like a dick but being with girls uglier than me makes me feel ashamed.

Chick was bitchy to me. Spread rumors and now I’ve lost all of my friends because people never bothered to ask me if they were true. They just cut me out of their lives. This may seem inconsequential but I’m not at a point in life where it’s easy to make friends. I’m 30, kids, I had these friends for years and now they are all gone and I don’t know how long until I get new ones but I hardly have the time to invest in new friendships. Shit just sucks. I just thought behavior like this was left behind when we all grew up but I guess ever 30-40 year olds don’t grow up sometimes. Now they all hang out and post about it online just to rub it in.

It takes 3 weeks to a month to reset yourself in my experience. Only thing is that it's really really hard to make it that far. At least quit fapping to videos and porn websites. Also the main perk with women and nofap is that women are extremely receptive and can tell when you are a clean slate and don't see women in a pornographic way. This puts their guard up.

Yeah dude me too. If I'm fucking a girl that's kinda gross I try to hide them from my roomates lmao

>Only thing is that it's really really hard to make it that far.
Not him but It used to be for me when I was a teenager but these past couple years it really hasn't been that hard. In the past 2 years I've done 3 months and 4 months and gone at least 3 weeks over 5 times. It's been more out of habit to fap instead of feeling horny. I've been on 36 days now and I haven't had any urges and I don't get boners except in the morning. Even when I see something sexual on Instagram or on here I don't get boners. Is there some kind of hormone imbalance?

shits fucked brehs. She does not think of me as I do her. How can it seem like one person is made for another, but from opposite perspective it is neutral? World is like flowing river, we all flow towards same fate, but it is the inbetween that is scary. Lots of rapids, sometimes falls. It would be nice if someone was there with me to say they love me and it will be ok, but not everything we can control. I control progress on lifts, this aspect occurs in predictable outcomes. If I lift hard I progress. Maybe if I keep working hard in this the rest will be forgotten?

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Nope. When you're off porn, a lot of times only real human connection with a girl will give you bonners. Everythings normal op, you're doing better than most of us.

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What do you mean why?

I basically discovered some life changing shit recently. Not really thinking about hitting the gym right now and want to take a week off. I've been reading a book on reality transforming and this has unlocked keys in my life

That's incredibly vague you homo

Lmao

Yeah, I don't even want to be in pictures with them. lmao I need a qt gf

Quiet night at home. For some reason I have always been attracted to Taoism so I am watching and listening to some lectures on it

2 weeks until I'm done with the semester and then I'll graduated in the fall. Pretty surreal. Feel like I havn't been here long at all. I'm not sure what thing's will be like after I'm done but I hope I'm okay.

Lifting is going well. Feeling pretty good about myself, down 60 lbs, I think another 10 and I'll actually look half decent. Good feeling, hardwork paying off. Lifting is definitely just something I enjoy doing now, glad it has finally got to that point in my life.

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Yea I dont know how "vague" that really is. To me it explains my situation clearly
I need to take a week off from the gym. I've been going hard for 5 months now without stopping

op here. just got a number on the street of a thicc white girl with a 5/10 face who seemed enjoyed to talk to me

already setting up the train to ghost town
>"ok, but I live in Santa Monica"
>only 30 miles away but traffic makes it longer (tfw if you don't live within 5 miles of a girl it's over in LA)

FUCK THIS GAY EARTH I'M ABOUT TO SNAP

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Man I'm going through this right now, I wish I could see it like that. I just sent him a meme because we're "friends" right now idk what I'm doing. Having so much in common and then so little

It’s one of those times where you don’t exactly know what you’re feeling, one one hand I’ve felt isolated and miserable but in the other I finally go the balls to ask ‘the one’ out on a date, but I have no idea on how to get her to fall for me aside from showing interest and not being a nice guy. Any tips on that?

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11/10 from HS has been snapchatting me recently, no idea if she's interested in me or not. Doesn't really make sense why she'd bother doin this since I was a total geek in HS and we never really spoke. Now that I'm fit and a qt stuff is weird

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This is the probably the 100+ friday night in a row that I have just stayed home. I'm 23 years old, I'm not sure if I should be accepting of this, or if I should be going out more. I guess I'm confortable with the idea with saving money, not getting high or drunk, and trying to have a better mindset. Help bros?

>living in LA
>Living
Choose one

nogf is really getting to me. I am average looking and a little smaller than ottermode. Only got 3 matches in a week on tinder after trying to improve myself a lot. I see people on Jow Forums with a gf and it makes me think there's something wrong with me that makes me a permavirgin. Haven't been into lookism and incel stuff for a few years but idk anymore. Maybe they were right.

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Eh certainly doesn't feel like it but I guess. Not sure if other people are exaggerating but they make it sound like going more than a few days is so hard and they feel like fucking every woman they see. Makes me feel like I have a extremely low libido.

Bro never do anything with girls from old HS. Just feel good that you are getting hit up by an 11/10 but dont pursue it, they usually just end up using you.

>Broke up with gf of 2.5 years back at the beginning of 2016
>Oneitis still raging, noone compares
>Have smashed so many sloots since
>My emptiness inside is a widening gulf

f-forever isn't so long, bros

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based and redpilled

What makes you say that? She's basically a stranger to me. She's doing most of the initiating too. A lot of girls apparently find me cute but I'm too depressed and awkward to do anything about it (not bragging at all couldn't care less)

Hermit mode needs to be broken sometime. Ive been hermit mode for the past 6 months and Im doing my best to get fit enough where Im viable to just smash some random thots puss on tinder or some shit.

I think I’m falling for a very good friend of mine. It has never happened to me before and I feel it’s gonna make me crash. She wasn’t my type but I’ve been thinking of giving it a go. What do bros?

>go on holiday with tour bus
>get badly sick and spend half the time coughing
>even when better, girls avoid me because contagious
>over the next year cancel on multiple dates because of lingering cough
>mostly better now, feel confident
>dream about talking to oneitis
>she is revulsed because i'm sick too

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Good advice for a Chad with a million options

Shit advice for someone trying to leave incelville or any non-Chad desu (aka all of fit)

Smash that shit. Don't be stupid with muh pride. Fuck pride.

Bro if shes going for you, then do the basics of asking if she would like to go get coffee to catch up since HS, set up a time and place. Then go from there.

>>only make 100k a year in LA (aka poverty)
shut the fuck up you asshole

the boners will come, brother

good distinction

Gonna go ski tomorrow, throw sick licks and drink beer with the bros. Gonna be fun

In other news theres a decent chance I lose my job on Monday because of a dipshit customer

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Why are you posting the same story in multiple threads?
If you're seeking validation then you know you "didn't do right"

I did all that in my 18-21's though, and to me it wasn't worth it. I'd rather find a girlfriend honestly, but that requires work and I'm not sure if I'm willing to do that lol

That was the plan

Thanks user

One of our managers at work is a legit bodybuilder. He's Filipino so he's not that tall, only like 5'7" or so, pretty sure he's gay (he has hair dyed light grey and i think wears colored contacts) but he is massive (probably roids) and diets extremely autistically like Jow Forums does. Avoids all carbs, only eats spinach salad with avocado and I think ground turkey for lunch and all that kinda shit and mentioned "competition" this week.

Meanwhile, my other coworkers make fun of him behind his back and laugh at how creepy his instagram is with his nearly naked and frequently oiled up body all over it (i guess competition photos or whatever). I'm not Jow Forums in the slightest, I'm an emaciated skelly, but damn I want to call them out for this

I got a full time job that I've been fucking dreaming for, but I'm in 4th year of university and struggling tremendously with classes.

Do I finish later or just find a way to get it out of the way, no matter how many semesters it takes?

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Been there friend. Those times will never go away and you can keep em, but shit gets better.

Don't tell her your feelings. Just keep being friends and hide your real feelings, that way you feel better. Just live with the regret of not asking in order to avoid any embarrassment. It's not worth taking a small chance for a possible great outcome. Better to just get old and never find out, trust me.

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Call them out, you don't have to be a muscular chad to tell them that they are acting out of jealousy. Anyone that make's fun of someone for bettering them self is a clown and definitely envy's those who do.

Same shit happened to me
When you can't get it up, you get inside your head making shit worse
I was going out with a girl for weeks and couldn't get it up
I've never been that angry in my life
I cut out porn completely and my dick slowly started returning
After 3 weeks my dick was raging for her pussy
Just give it time user

I keep letters from my exes (the serious relationships) so I can wallow in my feels. I miss the good times too

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I had letters for a long period of time. Only threw them our a few months ago, felt good to let go.

Thanks man. I think it might be the fact that it’s been two years since I’ve had a formal relationship and that has fucked me up.

its not that he's bettering himself necessarily, i guess they just find bodybuilder culture really weird. feel like if i call them out i'll just get even more outcast

>letters
fucking boomers

Finish now
A lot of college dropouts don't return and end up working dead end jobs
Surviving paycheck to paycheck isn't a comfortable life
Look into trade school or apprenticeships if you want to do something different
Some will pay you while you learn

He was being sarcastic. Man up and tell her dumbass

>seemed enjoyed to talk to me
Remember, girls will error on the side of being nice and friendly. Try green texting your interaction, maybe us anons can help

Just part of the healing process

I can't tell if you understood my post or not so I'm going to assume you didn't. Tell her and tell her directly to her face, girls like that shit. Don't wait, don't think, don't plan it. Just do it. JUST DO IT. 1 (ONE) LIFE ONLY - NO REGRETS - JUST DOING

>go to bar with handful of coworkers after work
>just play a few games of pool with them, don't drink anything (infrequent and lightweight drinker, anxiety about drinking in public) and leave without speaking to people outside of the billiards games

im such a classic autistic incel

Hey sound like a non jobless version of me

Even wet dreams? Usually takes me around 21-27 days and it's already been 36. I'm just trying to get to the point where I can fap without porn (never done it before) and only when I truly feel like it. I guess I'm just over thinking this, maybe I just need to calm down.

exactly my dude :)

>they make it sound like going more than a few days is so hard and they feel like fucking every woman they see

im like that because im a 27 year old khv. literally like 80% of girls especially chub/thick ones i want to fuck all the time. too bad im too much of an autistic incel to even speak to anyone

Girl I started talking to is genuinely nice to me and honestly marks everything off on what I want in a girl. Turns out she’s in relationship, doesn’t matter I guess, she keeps talking to me sexually/romantically. Some time along she says that she can never love me romantically. She has emotional problems. I understand. Just wish I wouldn’t catch feelings for girls randomly just because I want to help them because the best they can be. I just hope I didn’t hurt her at all.

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It's my birthday so I worked out in the morning then just got back from seeing Endgame and had a platter of sushi for dinner.

Comfy night but still sad.

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