>Be me >Be 18 >Look disgusting, manlet, fat, etc >Say fuck it and start running >Die a little more each time >I keep going though >4 months, 50lbs down >Now I look normal, but I don't want to be normal >Start lifting >Now I am 20 >Aesthetic but autistic >In chem class >qt grill asks for help >Light blonde hair and the deepest blue eyes >Get her number >Ask her on date >SHE SAYS YES >Go out >Ask her where she wants to go to get dinner >Says name of a fancy burger place >Fuck.jpg >Eat nothing because I don't want to lose gains, and my cut >Go to watch movie >She picks Infinity War >Buy like $50 worth of snacks >Eat nothing again >I need calories >She eats some >Visibly perturbed by my lack of eating >Asks if I am one of those "gym obsessed losers" >Say no >Asks me to eat popcorn >Butter dripping from my hands >Literally nothing unhealthy for 2 years >Still a virgin, so I do it >Audibly gag >She now thinks I am one of those guys >11pm >Drive her home >Says I should focus less on the gym and more on having fun >Leaves my car >No longer asks me for help in chem
What can I do to get another date with her? I honestly don't know what the fuck I did wrong. Why are women like this?
She's retarded user. If you've got a think for retards, hit up Hannah hayes
Gavin Bennett
You let what a female's opinions about you determine your identity and self value. You lack confidence and self knowledge. Is she right? Why do you go to the gym? What's it for? You need to make that decision for yourself. And when your certain, it won't matter what a girl thinks about you. Because you will know. Chances are, she'll recognize that and respect it.
It was a good learning experience for you. Put it behind you and move on. You're still young as hell. There will be other girls
Zachary Gonzalez
>She now thinks that I'm one of those guys That's because you are. You know that, right?
Bentley Perry
I don't go to the gym for pussy. It is a side effect. I go because I wanted to look in the mirror and be proud.
Luis Perez
>Coal burner >Pornstar No? And? So what if I care about looking good? Shouldn't she like that?
Hunter Allen
If a woman says some shit like that you need to have some spine and conviction and say ''no you're fucking wrong bitch my ideology is better than your lack of'' Of course you are an autist for thinking an unhealthy snack well ruin your body, all you have to do is exercise a bit extra the next day Either way, always stand by your convictions, never let a woman be right she will be dryer than the Sahara if you visibly swayed by her words
Camden Richardson
You sound like a narcissist, and not the confident attractive Chad kind. If you have a nice body, but the personality of wet cardboard women won't like you. Eventually you'll find a girl who is slutty enough to fuck you, but any relationship that is only skin deep won't last long.
Eli Brooks
Lots of guys say that. I sure as fuck got into weightlifting "for pussy." But only you can know your own motives for sure. Know thyself, and act accordingly and without fear. Self discipline and self knowledge is way, way harder than impressing 18 year old girls. Girls are always, only the perk, not the goal. YOU have to be the goal, the focus of your own life.
Joseph Collins
Also you were beta for going to a burger place FOR HER and not eating. That was fucking weird. Should have just eaten a fucking burger and pretended to like it. The fact that you weren't eating makes you look not only beta as fuck but socially autistic. When you date women you have to make them genuinely think you are doing what you want to do and she's just lucky to come along. Kind of like when you walk your dog
Jason Parker
Yea. I literally only take women to restaurants that I like.
Henry Johnson
When she says you need to focus less on the gym, she means:
>How can we be together if your whole life revolves around gains >You don't have any spare time
Women are retards, they want you to magically be strong and fit without actually spending more like 5 minutes per day because all your time should be dedicated to HER HER HER.
Honestly, not a big loss. Any reasonable human being understand dedication and sacrifice and admire it.
Tyler Clark
What exactly did you think you were going to do if you dated this girl long term? Never eat around her?
Evan Taylor
phaha spergstories like that are funny af
Josiah Russell
I think the whole burger / snacks thing was a shit test from her to see if you'll stick to your diet or not.
Nathaniel Adams
I just want somebody to hold. This girl is smart and cute. She seems like what I want. She laughed at my jokes, and actively pursued me. I don't know why this was an issue. Ok. Sounds like good advice.
Grayson Clark
You dumb nigger. Eating a fucking burger once every four years isn't gonna have any negative effect on your body. I can understand wanting to be healthy and fit, but you've lost the plot if you let those goals prevent you from living your life.
Wyatt Evans
No, obviously I would eat. How often would a couple eat out? How can girls eat all this shit and still be fit?
Juan Hall
Because cheat meals literally don't do shit.
James James
If you know who you are, where you're going, what you want to do with your life, you don't need to worry about 'trying to be normal so dim witted superficial people feel positively about you.' Maybe when you first meet somebody you've got to go through the motions, but mostly you can literally just be yourself. And if people don't like it, what does that have to do with your goals, your discipline?
Ayden Gomez
That was the reason I was fat. You don't tell a recovering addict to take more heroin. OP, good fucking job. Stick with your convictions.
Jackson Hall
My fiancee and I eat out about every other week, we try to do it every month. She only eats one real meal per day, that's how she stays fit.
Wyatt Peterson
Compromising your goals because you're afraid of looking abnormal is not necessarily what it means to "live your life."
Realistic goals and self discipline are the important things.
Juan Lee
It doesn't need to be every day, and you don't have to have three burgers a day or anything like that. It's all about portion control. If you know you're eating something like a huge ass burger and fries, then eat less of whatever else you would be eating that day. Or just get a smaller burger.
Landon Perez
That's fine but then you have to have the balls to be like ''fuck that place it's gross''
Jack White
>How can girls eat all this shit and still be fit?
They aren't? When women are young their fat just goes into places that makes us want to fuck them. If they fail to adjust their eating habits as they get older they balloon up like everybody else.
Jack Williams
You could have asked for just the paddy with some salad and a diet coke. I mean, Im very conscious with my food, but how the fuck can you take a girl to restaurant and not eat with her. Thats just fucking wrong dude. You should apologize.
Ian Green
If you have self-discipline you can eat a burger on a date without breaking the damn and eating Mcdonalds every day after. He made her feel really uncomfortable by not eating anything.
Owen Price
With that autistic behavior, she can tell how extreme and obsessive you are. That's a red flag for any mentally stable individual. Now she will stay away from you.
Wyatt Wilson
Alright. I'll send her a text. What should I say?
Landon Hughes
Yea, despite my argument I probably would have had something. A first date is a good time for a few exceptions if needed
Gabriel Lopez
You shouldn't do that. Just wait until class to talk to her.
Robert Baker
Sorry about your autism, bro
Benjamin Hernandez
Fair enough, i dont believe that having a rigid diet that doesnt allow for a single deviation ever is a realistic or healthy goal. Youre like a car collector who buys a classic roadster and then wont even take it for a sunday cruise because hes afraid the paint might get damaged. To each his own.
Thomas Morris
>What should I say? Don't ask a complete stranger to script it for you. YOU figure out how to say it. It's an apology, and you're not a real robot. You can do that on your own. Take at least that much initiative, damn
Lucas Cooper
Ok. Sure. I'll pull her aside and apologize. This time, we'll go somewhere I want, and I will eat like a normal person.
Tyler Brooks
Dont give a fck about her opinion much just do what you like
Brody Thomas
The food isn't the important thing you retard. You're supposed to be getting know her. You're talking to a hot college girl who in all likelyhood has dozens of other guys checking her out, so there is no guarantee she will even put up with your autism again.
You have a long way to go.
Jaxon Walker
>Says I should focus less on the gym and more on having fun
she is still young and she wants to ride the cock carousel with fun guys.
Leo Bennett
Also this. She probably expected him to try to fuck.
Angel Torres
You already blew her chances with her and if you try to apologize, you're just going to weird her out. Give up and be less retarded next time.
Jayden Russell
Show her a photo of you before you worked out. "Would you have said yes to this guy?" Then call her a shallow whore.
She knows how I looked before. I have old photos on IG.
Jack Long
Dude you're in college. There are literally thousands of other bitches to talk to. She isn't worth the your time.
Jonathan Sullivan
I can see how this is gonna go. ''ok fine'' means she was offended and thought you were being rude. This means you can still fuck her because if you can make her emotional it means she cares, and being rude is alpha
Jackson Rogers
>Ok. Fine. Prepare for disappointment my man.
Blake Scott
She is cute, and I think she is a virgin. user, I will make this happen. Hope so.
Mason Harris
>I think she is a virgin.
LMAO
Adam Bennett
We'll see in 20 minutes. Jeep the thread alive until then, lads.
Joshua Fisher
>I think she is a virgin Please, please get off of this website.
Evan Flores
Actually i can believe that. Forget what i said, this guy has the right idea maybe.
Luis Carter
>hey can we talk >ok. Fine. Jesus. You autists sure know how to make the most minor things seem serious and awkward
>if you can make her emotional it means she cares, and being rude is alpha
He went on ONE date. And an awkward one at that. She has no feelings for him. Women are cold as fuck dude.
Nathaniel Lopez
She asked me, and I asked her. We both said we were. Maybe I am being naive, but I don't think she would lie.
William Cooper
Exactly. He's gonna go apologize to her for not eating on the date like a retard. He oughta just talk to her like a normal fucking human being instead of like the arbiter of dinner judgement.
She is probably lying OP Girls minimize their sexual experience because they dont want to seem slutty Of course, it doesnt matter Youre in college Get your dick wet so youre not a virgin after college
Noah Russell
That's an awful idea if you can't phrase it in a way where no isn't an option
Jonathan Martin
About to talk to her. Wish me luck.
Owen Thompson
It is literally a Canadian university.
Tyler Rodriguez
>I will be blunt Yeah, but you didnt need to send her a text like >hey can we talk Youve been on ONE date. Just talk to her in class/after class and say >hey lets go out again >I really like this place Now youre going out to eat somewhere that you like so you want sperg out about a burger
Ethan Jenkins
good luck homie as said you need to phrase it as a proactive and clear suggestion not a weak "uhm do we wanna t-try again?"
This times a million. Once you're allowed to drink going on dates isn't so awkward. You can just get trashed if things don't go well.
Austin Edwards
Oof, yeah. These fellers are right That shouldve been your first date
Maybe after a little liquor in ya you wont be so stiff
Aiden Peterson
Go to a bar, if you're having fun you'll probably get to about 3 drinks (more or less) and then your natural flirtiness will come out if you two are getting on well. Will be less scary trying kino and getting a bit touchy after a few drinks. This will set you up nicely for a kiss.
Personal tip: I'd try and kiss who I'm with in between bars (walking) or after we leave if it's a shorter one. Helps that half of us in the UK are alchies tbf
Jason Perry
>File name Her name is fucking Britt. user, she can probably suck a golf ball through a water hose.
Evan White
We spoke. I literally said "Sorry for acting like a dumbass last night. I'll make it up to you." I invited her to my flat tonight for dinner. She said yes. I'll put on some movie afterwards.
Adrian Robinson
Enjoy not getting laid tonight man.
Hudson Lee
We'll see. My pee pee is only 6.75" long, so eh.
Evan Sullivan
What are you going to cook?
Maybe some oregano?
Ethan Williams
Probably some seafood and pasta dish. I will make a thread later tonight about how it went. I don't drink.
Alexander Phillips
>Sorry for acting like a dumbass last night. I will make it up to you Jesus user. Why dont you just write DOORMAT across your forehead
Isaiah Fisher
Bruh, unless she's a turboslut (she's a virgin according to you), she won't fuck you on the second date. You're supposed to be getting to know her, and her to know you. Also you're as smooth as a box of rusty nails. I would suggest getting some alchohol because you have almost no chance at this sober.
James Martinez
>I don't drink.
This is why you have no friends.
Ryan Thomas
Yeah bro I'm with your date on this one you need to learn to loosen up and have fun. Being so serious can be a drag. Genuinley consider this. If you don't want to drink have something else fun about you.
If you're that concerned about health drink spirits mixed with diet drinks
Look, she said yes to a second date. At the very least I will get some head.
John Evans
You know dude, even Samson let Delilah cut off his hair.
Lucas Davis
I have class now. Will make a thread later tonight. Wish me luck lads.
Matthew Walker
Not to sound like a chick here, but why do you think she would give you head? Until 30 minutes ago you thought she was a virgin.
Justin Gonzalez
I dunno. I am hoping, I guess. I am probably retarded.
Benjamin Sanders
Or LARPing Something is fishy here
Levi Howard
You are. You have to understand that at this point you are completely unaware of the game. Women love going out with dudes, and not fucking them to inflate their egos. A woman will gossip with her friends about how your were awkward and lame or whatever. If she doesn't fuck you it's because in her head, you weren't worthy. When it comes getting sex, women are almost entirely in control.
I'm not telling you to be a friend zone nice guy, but you oughta try to have fun. She'll start to touch more and more if she feels your vibe. You can also throw out touches, but nothing inappropriate. Just realize that you're starting from square one road that many people never make it on.