Met up with ex/former oneitis last night

Trust user, I got the same situation. Don’t go for it. Completely ghost her. It will fuck with your head man if you let her back into your life

That's the problem, idk if I'll catch feelings again. By most measures my life has gone better than hers since we broke up and I feel almost sorry for her

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Then dont do it. It sounds like you have nothing to gain from it then a nut. Either fap or try to find someone else.

ouufff I have an ex like that and I'd never go within 10 feet of her. You definitely don't want to hook up with a ho whose life has fallen apart.

Sympathy is how weak women bring down strong men.
I would not do this OP

But if you do, protect yourself. Physically, emotionally, mentally and nowadays even legally.
Does that seem worth it?

OP fap before you decide

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buddy of mines story
>whore gf cheats on him
>he gets the clap
>he breaks up with her but she didnt mean much to him anyways so no real emotions involved
>he gets this std fixed
>3 months later she comes around and just wants to fuck
>hits it again
>gets the clap again

If you want to indirectly taste the dick of 13 other guys then by all means do it shoyuboy

OP fapp before you decide

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I met up with and almost fucked my ex/oneitis last year. I'm glad I didn't, because turns out she had been riding the cock carousel and got knocked up by one dude and got a subsequent abortion, and caught HPV from another dude, all in the span of less than a year. There's no telling the full extent of her degeneracy but I dodged that bullet at least. She's still with the jobless auschwitz escapee that knocked her up, and maybe she and her haunted womb will die of cervical cancer.

OP fappp before you decide

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hey, if you want to be a cuck, go for it.

Not worth it, mate.
Even if you're in a draught, don't do it. It might imply much more than benis in bagina. However, I do not know you or her but based on your posts I'd recommend you don't give in.

OP fapppp before you decide

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she will sink her hooks in and drag you back
be smart, steer clear

OP fappppp before you decide

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Ask me how I know you're an r9k incel

lmao what a cuck

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So she got laid less than once a month?

OP again, thanks for the input boys. I think it's definitely in my best interest to chase pussy elsewhere.
However, I don't wanna just ghost her. For better or worse, I still enjoy her company and don't have the heart to go radio silence. Is an acquaintanceship still possible without getting trapped into oneitis?

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Always masturbate before making a serious decision involving a women.

OP fapppppp before you decide

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>Always masturbate before making a serious decision involving a women.
smart user is smart
OP fappppppp before you decide

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Yikes

It's possible but I don't know if you are capable of it.
If I want to get over a oneitis I just raise my standards until she doesn't look attractive anymore

I'll fap if you gimme the sauce

Meet her for coffee and tell her how great your life is without her, then leave her with the check

Impregnate her and leave the country

>What do fit?
dont

>coffee
>check

u wot

Yikes

Remember how guys used to protect their daughters from being another notch on the belt. Congrats you're about to be a notch

sadly I don't have sauce on that one :- /
I just saved all the images I could find.

Just do it

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Since we're on the subject, question for those more experienced:

What do you do if you have a FWB/someone you hook up with that you know you can't date (due to her being a slut) and you catch some feelings for her?
She wants to date me badly, but while also seeing other men and not admitting (slut behavior) and she's starting to notice she has some power over me with her typical female games, trying to pressure me into relationship while enjoying every display of jealousy I show.

Should I keep fucking her trying to distance myself emotionally to show myself that I can? Or just jump ship and cut physical contact? She's a good fuck, but ultimate has those stupid fucking games only females pull out since they're so easy to attract males.

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Well, if catching AIDS is your thing, go ahead and fuck her. If you want to save the little honour you have left, I'd suggest NOT fucking her.

Keep fucking her but find some other girls too.

I already do this. I have about 3-4 others. But this one's bullshit still gets to me. She was with some guy those days and I made the mistake of implying that bothered me. I don't even hunt to see who she's with since we don't have any relationship with each other (although she gets mad if I imply i'm with other girls, yeah, the hypocrisy), I just knew it by mistake. Yeah, it's a whole lot fucked up.

implying she didnt lie about 13. Probably way more my guy

Don't cut contact - that's like giving up. Stay strong and just make sure to nut before making any decisions

Lmao good story

This user speaks the truth

So, just keep fucking her, and never, ever show any kind of non-sexual affection?

Fuck her. Say: “Wow, that was terrible.” Get dressed, never speak to her again.

and stay out, faggot.

Obviously cut contact /thread

I'm in a similar position. lost my virginity to this girl im good friends with - she told she's been with 15 guys, and she's 19 years old. yet Im catching feelings for her, I'm always thinking about her and everything. she's a very nice and caring person, and is a qt as well, but the fact she has been with 15 guys blows my mind. its a huge red flag isnt it?

like thats ever gonna work

>t.cuck
Smash, then cut contact. That way she knows the only value she provides is with the hole between her legs.

Bruh I'm gonna go against all the incels on fit and say who fucking cares. I had a great relationship with a girl for several years even though I considered her number of men before me as "slutty"
>she's a very nice and caring person
and that is all what matters user. As long as she wasn't fucking around in a relationship that shit isn't as important as these LARPing faggots think.

this

>good friend
>that you fuck
As long as she's not fucking other men, who cares? Not like you're going to marry her. She's a fuckbuddy, you lost your virginity to her, and you apparently get along outside of sex.

If you're even considering marriage then you're a fucking lunatic, and you ARE certain she's not fucking other men, right? Because if you're not dead certain that she's not fucking other men then there's literally no point in staying with her.

abundance mentality, you have OPTIONS. Go full no contact, if this bitch is playing games that is a clear sign that you need to stay away from her, she is not good gf material and has shown to be a whore.

Hit that shit till you're bored of it and dip.
Wear a condom.
Done.
Next thread.

Pump and dump you fag.
Lol

OP final post. Texted her, basically said we could hang on occasion but I'm not gonna be her bff. Shout-out to the user who said women use pity to manipulate men, it's definitely true in this case.
Thanks for the advice frens

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>I just need closure

Sounds like if you do it you'll not enjoy it properly. Too complicated. You know in your heart it's a bad idea.

You dumbass omg. You showed you still had some attachments if you had to make a statement.
If you wanted to hit it, should have just done so with a condom and kept your distance. Or just not fuck with her at all, or if you really wanted to be friends and just "hang out", then just do so without making it something more.

>earth dwelling animal likes sex
Thinkman.jpg

If y’all weren’t together then how can you blame her? You were free to bang dozens of people as well.

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If you just stay celibate till marriage, you never run into weird nonsense like this
>I know sex is for procreation and pair bonding. She's on the pill so I'm not worried about procreation, but I'm looking to really remove all meaning from the most meaningful act a human can undertake. Any suggestions?
That's how you sound

Hit it user, her baby needs a dad, its time for men to step up

It's because we live in another type of world than what you're thinking. We have no value as men without experience. This isn't a world of pirates, discoverers and soldiers, it's an overly comfortable world of backstabbers.

I want to have a family someday, with a decent pretty-ish cute wife. But until I meet her, I want to become experienced in a lot of things, including sex, because for me a man should know how to please his woman in more ways than she can remember. As much as I hate those casual-types of things in the long run, they're helping me develop skills and resistances to some bullshit, like the one this slut is trying to pull on me.

may be an incel but he aint wrong, very few women are "pure" and being "pure" is an outdated standard. everyone fucks. i dont expect a woman to expect me to be a virgin so why should i care

haha, i put my finger in my ass now what?

Cope
You're part of the problem

thank you fellas

Don't

kek

OP, please heed my words of advice.

My oneitis literally ghosted me after about 8 months of being best friends, and in a new city, each other's only friends. Just up and fucking vanished one day after mentioning a day or two before that she never really had time to "just be single" after she left her last bf to be with me. So yeah, she rode the cock carasoul, no doubt.

A few lonely, depressed, suicidal months later, she came waltzing back. I resisted at first, but then finally gave in. We were "back on" for a couple more months. At first, it was like I was in heaven, it was the exact thing I wanted! HER BACK IN MY ARMS, ON MY COCK. And of course, she said she was sorry, she cried, and she even had a few cuts on her thigh. So I took her back. But then, after those couple of months, all of our unhealthy relationship problems resurfaced... and SHE FUCKING GHOSTED ME AGAIN.

IF I WERE TO ALLOWED TO RELIVE MY LIFE, I WOULD HAVE STILL GOTTEN WITH HER THE FIRST TIME, MISTAKES AND TRAGEDY AND HEARTBREAK INCLUDED. BUT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, I WISH I REJECTED HER THE SECOND TIME. I WISH I PULLED SOME SORT OF TEEN MOVIE 'you had your chance' OR EVEN JUST A SOLID, HONEST, 'I'd rather be with someone who deserves me" BS AND JUST WENT SOLID NO CONTACT FOREVER.

I WOULD HAVE MOVED ON AND NEVER LOOKED BACK.

IT WOULD BE HARD, BUT THAT SATISFACTION WOULD LAST MY WHOLE LIFE, I PROMISE YOU.

DO NOT DO IT DO NOT DO IT DO NOT DO IT

FIND SOMEONE ELSE. FUCK SOMEONE ELSE. AND IF YOU HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE, THEN DO NOT TEXT HER BACK UNTIL YOU'VE FAPPED 1,000 TIMES

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>high odds
To be precise, he has a 0.01220703125% chance of NOT getting an std. Some cucks will take those odds

What is your ''solution'' to this problem, and how you're working on it?

The solution is to stop normalizing and encouraging casual sex. It leads to nowhere except the fall of society.

dubs of truth, very nice

The solution is catholicism.

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>Still wanna hit
pathetic

0-2 before 24 is tough to find but doable in larger cities

You're all a bunch of retards with too much feelings.

>"ohhh she's my oneitis"
>"ohhh I caught feelings"

You absolute fags.

These women are garbage and need to be treated as such. Pathetic cucks like you are why society is falling apart.

Fuck your feelings you sissy cunts you all make me sick.

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I'm a Catholic.
I don't encourage that to good girls, nor I validate the sluts. I just use them for experience. Now, what are -you- doing about it? Abstaining from sex? But are you doing it voluntarrily?

I'm not the best of Christians, and in fact I'm a bad one, but I want to become a good, experienced man. You have no right to judge and your methods are questionable.

Tell us her response.

Think back. Ask yourself why she is your ex. Did you dump her? The problems are still there. Did she dump you? Then she has already told you that you are not worth her time.

yowieee

Don't ever fucking say you're a Catholic if that's your attitude. Repent

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The cock carousel is like losing a limb. You can hide it or try to replace it, but you're changed forever. The damage is done.

If you like theatrics though, reject her in person. Think of all the better girls who you'll miss opportunities with if you catch oneitis again, and say no. You can do it, la.

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I am. I go to the Church. I trust in Jesus Christ with my life, His Father and The Spirit. Unfortunately, I'm not worthy, as I'm a sinner. Hence why I'm not yet ready for Him, and perhaps never will be. That's why I ask for His mercy, while I still prepare myself to be a man I deem worthy. A Man worth of what I was put in here to be. Not an Idealist. Not a Priest, but a Soldier.

>become a good experienced man by laying with women who aren't your wife

You aren't a Christian at all, just a godless degenerate making excuses for sleeping around

Who gives a shit about the cock carousel? Doesn't 99% of Jow Forums lift for aesthetics so they can get more female attention anyway? We all want to be slutty. It's just not that everyone can pull it off.

Just want a good wife desu. Shagging tarts was shit in high school and it would be even worse now.

Cringe. You realize what you're doing right? You don't get to just say "I'm a sinner" and use that as an excuse to go sin as much as you want. You don't get to hide behind a veil of false humility. You have no faith in god if you really think that that's okay. You have no faith that he will help you to not sin. You aren't even trying to not sin, you're blatantly disregarding god's word and saying its okay to go commit adultery so you can gain "experience" when really what you want is to get your cummies like every homeless fucking heathen out there. You have no honor and you set a horrible example for any young Catholic man you would ever meet. It's not even that you go around sticking your dick in whore pussy, it's that you think it's okay. So shut the fuck up and go to confession and repent or fucking stop going to church because it won't do you any good if you don't actually believe. Pick one or the other. Be a degenerate scumbag, or be a Catholic, there is no in between.

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The fact that you're even considering this makes me want to neuter you to save your life OP, that's the only way that vagina will lose its power on you

yes this