>keep a diary because I read on some blog that it helps with a bunch of cognitive and emotional problems and because it gives me something to do when I'm bored >most of it is either normal stuff, whining about being a virgin, not having a girlfriend and about being lonely >few pages listing weird sexual fantasies or fetishes >put it on an external drive, mostly because my main drive is full, but it also seems more convenient >sister needs to borrow my external hard drive >make a separate folder on it for her tell her to use that folder >forgot diary was on there >get worried that she might read it >get the external drive back 2 days later >figured she wouldnt bother to read a diary that's spread over 15 word files and is over 250 pages in total >stop thinking about it, go back to writing on in the diary, move it to my new hdd and stop using the external drive >several weeks later >tells me she read the entire thing and is worried about me >tells me that she wont tell anyone, but she wants me to get a therapist >also tells me she might be able to get me a few dates, but she wants me to "get better" first
I have exactly zero idea how to feel about this. Yes she is nice to me and I'm thankful for that, but I have already tried most of the things she proposes and I'm not at all comfortable with her knowing all of the weird things I wrote in my diary.
Tell her to stop get into others people's things. Besides sister's advice are the worst advice respecting to other women.
Carson Cooper
Tell her that maybe she can be your girlfriend
Levi Gray
Yes I already got ultra angry at her, I'm mostly worried about her telling my parents, because that would mean I'll never hear the end of this.
Jackson Barnes
Accept her help, my dude. It's a woman who knows your problems, isn't judging you as weak, and proposes to help you. I would take it.
>sister's advice are the worst advice respecting to other women Why so, user?
Kayden Nguyen
based incestfag
Matthew King
Ask her out on a date instead, have sex with her, marry her, turn her into an inbreeding machine, lead the war against reddt and tumblr with your self-made army of native Jow Forums members.
What would you have done if the situation was reversed: She was the weird one, and you had read her diary. Wouldn't you try to help her?
Asher Moore
you probably shouldnt date someone who has not morals and respect of others property
Daniel Sullivan
I'm not a 100% against it, but like I said, I already tried most of the things she comes up with. Other things she comes up with is just her projecting things onto me
Justin Johnson
I see what you mean by the projecting thing. My mother does that to me too. Do you think she would eventually understand it if you kept explaining it to her slowly? If she did, she may prove to be of great help to you. In fact, the only reason why I don't recruit my sister for that task is because she is literally more introverted than me, and also I'm deathly afraid of showing feelings in front of women, because every time I've tried they judged me as weak.
Luis Jackson
>Recruit Why
She read 250 pages of my rambling so I wonder if she would understand anything lol. My sister is probably more extrovert than I am, but only because she isn't depressed.
Honestly my sister seems kinda clueless.
Nathan Bennett
> I'm mostly worried about her telling my parents That's a risk that you have to take, but either way you have to stand up and confront her and your parents. That's just a personal interest and the shouldn't judge you and if they love you they'll understand. >Why so, user? Because she doesn't see you as other women see you, she probably see things that other women don't see in you, it's like your mother. Besides they tend to give the "nice guy" advice, and that you'll eventually find the "correct" one.
Brandon Lopez
>Why One of the biggest problems a man can have in the pre-approach phase is seeming creepy. However, if he is seen having female friends or a gf, this creepiness factor is removed, since he has been approved by another woman. If that is so, he could not possibly be dangerous (so the logic goes). Having a sister serve as your female approval towards other women removes the creepiness factor. Now all that's in your way in this phase is the repugnance factor, which you can't really do much about except trying to find a woman who isn't repelled by your looks. Besides this, a female friend or a sister can help you meet more women.
It wont help you in the rest of the phases though, so if that's your problem (like it is for me), you will still be screwed.
>Honestly my sister seems kinda clueless Regardless, now you will end up talking to her about this frequently, so try to be patient with her. Normies have a very difficult time understanding our social problems. Make sure to show her practical examples of them.
>Because she doesn't see you as other women see you, she probably see things that other women don't see in you, it's like your mother. Besides they tend to give the "nice guy" advice, and that you'll eventually find the "correct" one. My mother's advice was literally: >find a drunk and and get with her. Then you'll be confident and will be able to do it again So I find that the type of advice varies from woman to woman. With non-family members they will either take women's side (in which case their advice will be bad) or take your side (in which case the advice will be good).
Luis Wilson
It's happened now and you should be grateful that she didn't tell anyone else about it. Accept the help.
I keep a journal because I thought it would be good to create some routine in my life. I read back through it recently and I sound like a man who is simultaneously tired of life and afraid of death.
I think most people's inner thoughts, when written down would cause concern from others.
Camden Martin
Any sauce on perfect-eyes?
Ayden Gonzalez
Let her get you some dates man. She sounds like a based sis.
John Long
My sister has ignored me for over 15 years now.
I'd say just tell her you appreciate the concern but that you're fine.
Henry Young
I'm not ugly. I'm just really weird in my behavior. Aside from that I feel extremely lonely, yet I always try to be alone when I can.
The dates sound more fun than they actually are. I'm sort of happy that she gave a therapist priority because I can just do whatever there without wasting anyone's time.
Isaiah Turner
:/ Can't you just call her or something?
"I appreciate the help" probably won't cut it given what I have written down.
Jayden Cook
>I'm not ugly. I'm just really weird in my behavior Same problem here. I've recently found out it was due to OCD. I start obsessing about fucking it up, or about her thinking I'm a creep for even approaching her. So I get very uncomfortable talking to women, and inevitably fuck up even if I get past that, due to showing more interest in her than she does in me.
