Normalfags always skip this detail when telling stories.
"We flirted and then we were kissing", what?
How do you flirt?
Tyler Smith
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Elijah Gonzalez
Here is a primer on proper flirting behavior.
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Levi Fisher
But it went all wrong. She didn't want him, only the old roastie did.
Matthew Long
Anonymous, everyone gets old if they don't die first.
Some of the most successful flirts that I know give attention to old ladies, too.
Tyler Hernandez
>Some of the most successful flirts that I know give attention to old ladies, too.
I have seen this in action too. This turbochad I worked with would flirt with all kinds of ladies, old and young, fat and thin, hot and ugly, etc.
I think it was just that he had an outgoing personality and was very good looking so all the ladies naturally flirted back in stead of answered harshly, but still, it was pretty interesting to see.
Nicholas Bennett
You just talk to them. If you show interest that could be enough sometime. Personally I'm sarcastic and tease girls I like.
Hudson Foster
But what was said flirting? What exactly did he do that consisted of flirting?
Ryder Butler
he would tease them, but also be very sexually suggestive, very hot and cold. I only worked with him at a summer job, as a mover, so we were generally lifting heavy shit and being sweaty and looking tired.
Women would very often say something like "that must be heavy,, you look tired, you should rest a little bit" or something, and the absolute madman would reply with things like
>"yeah, some rest would be nice, do you have a bed i can use?"
>"nah, this is nothing, after I steal you away from your husband I will show you how sweaty I can really get"
>"well, you look tired just from watching me, so at least I'm in better health than you"
The guy was absolutely all over the place, but the best way to describe it was a combination of playful teasing and sexually charged remarks. I would not recommend if you are not a chad, though, you will be peppersprayed for saying shit like that.
Asher Long
Talk to them like this.
Luke Jones
This is a good question but it's hard to answer because it's not any one thing. I'm no stud but I do ok. I'll try to break down what I do but in practice, I'm not running through steps in my mind or going through a system, this just comes from personal experience. It doesn't work if you overthink it but unless you have some practice and experience, you probably will overthink it, like you would when you first start driving or learning an instrument.
The first thing is you need to be able to read people and gauge their reactions. Sometimes you can see right away that a woman is attracted to you and you can escalate fairly quickly. Otherwise, start with eye contact, see if they hold it and even let it linger a bit. I often smirk or suggest a smile just to see how they react. If you're not good at reading people's facial expressions and body language, then you won't know what's working or not.
Second thing is to realize that flirting is like verbal dancing, it's an interactive process that helps display your fitness as a mate through your conversation skills. If you don't have good conversational skills and get anxious in conversations with women, that will show. I used to do laps around stores due to anxiety about interacting with the store clerk but now I'm comfortable speaking with anyone. Whether you're pushing or pulling, it helps to do it with some wit, a casual and confident tone of voice which generates an open conversational atmosphere.
Ultimately, you use your skills at reading people and conversation to playfully slip in indications, jokes, suggestions, that the two of you could be lovers. That gets her thinking about it and you can again, gauge their reaction and either push or pull the conversation based on that.
Wondering how flirting works and saying normies skip details is like asking how driving works and saying normies skip over details like ignition and operating the window wipers. Learn by doing, it comes with experience.
Cameron Wood
I have no idea. I haven't had sex in years.
Gavin Ross
WTF are you even supposed to talk about with woman when you are a probable autist/social retard who mostly sits in his room all day outside of going to gym and doing uni shit and who doesn't do things like drink alcohol, smoke, etc.?
Dylan Turner
>when you are a probable autist/social retard who mostly sits in his room all day outside of going to gym and doing uni shit and who doesn't do things like drink alcohol, smoke, etc.?
bro. that's exactly me, literally exactly me.
I am pretty sure I have flirted accidentally before though. Chicks sometimes show interest in me because I am fairly good looking, and my complete autism and social retardation sometimes passes of as playful teasing. It never goes anywhere though.
William Peterson
Specifically for the transition to kissing from flirting, you should be gauging their attention over the course of the conversation. It's best if she gradually gets closer to you physically, but it's also a decent sign if she accepts your closer physical presence. Just don't loom or ever block her exit route because that's creepy.
It absolutely helps if you're in some stereotypical moment for kissing like there's a sunset or some shit, but it's not necessary. If I think a woman is attracted to me, I'll start looking from her eyes to her lips and back up to her eyes to let her catch me looking at her lips. If she looks at my lips, smiles or blushes, then that generally means a green light.
Jackson Ward
Oliver Bennett
I've had same. It never goes far though because outside of me asking 1000 questions about her, the conversation almost always hits a lull. I've actually been on a few "dates", one of them went pretty well, but the other 2 were just super awkward and none of them went anywhere. Maybe it just meant I didn't have good connection with those girls, but if that's the case, I don't have a good connection with like 99% of all females. I legit have no freaking idea what to talk about.
Lucas Thomas
If you're talking to her and making her laugh, then you're flirting.
Jordan Torres
>I legit have no freaking idea what to talk about.
yeah same here. Girls never share my interests, and whenever I try to ask something it just comes across like an interview where I jump from one question to the next like I am doing a survey, it never flows together like an actual conversation. We are doomed.
Chase Sanders
I think flirting means something along the lines of "lighthearted and fun conversation/smalltalk that has compliments in it" or something like that. I think I've done it like once or twice, but I'm not sure. Also the picture you posted can get you b&.
Samuel Garcia
>whenever I try to ask something it just comes across like an interview where I jump from one question to the next like I am doing a survey, it never flows together like an actual conversation. We are doomed.
Pretty much. Just feels like you are annoying them at that point and not getting anywhere.
Carter Sanchez
Bleh!
Just talk and ask em out like it's nobody's business, not even the person your asking outs business.
Works 45.5% of the time that's basically a fifty fifty shot.
It's a yes or no simple as that you wanna get deeper in the talkin do it at a date which is why movie dates are autistic and you shouldn't do them first.
Matthew Collins
Ur out of moves
Andrew Morgan
>nah, this is nothing, after I steal you away from your husband I will show you how sweaty I can really get"
That's reminds me of that one smashfag who had a slew of autistic sayings like this. You're either like through your teeth like the incel you are, or it's just further proof that you can literally be autistic if you're Chad.
Ethan Davis
This. I thought of the same autist instantly
Elijah Gomez
Whatch AMS.
that nigger explain this shit well, a little edgy, so dont believe everything, but the basics are ok.