What's it like having a depressed gf?

She tried to one up me on everything when I'm just explaining how my day went badly.
I'd try and tell her that I'm just trying to vent a little and she should stop cutting me off to try and one up me and to stop trying to guilt trip me everyday.
It never worked she was just a cheaky cunt I guess I'm glad she's gone but I'm mad she was my first gf ever I feel ripped off and I want a refund even though it's been two years.

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Bad.
It wouldn't be too bad if they were ONLY depressed, but usually a bunch of other shit goes with it.
>issues at home
>other mental health issues (BPD, Anxiety are common and a 99% guarantee)
>because they're literally mentally ill they don't mind fucking up your entire life

Here you go
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Just post her here afterwards, I wanna see your depressed gril

it is fucking horrible

The happy times are great and the bad times are really bad. It makes leaving her hard when we go through good times. Everytime we go through hardship I start thinking about leaving her and say to myself "after this I'm putting my foot down and ending it" but then things start to get better. Also everytime I think about breaking up she is going through something like exams or family issues and I worry about what would happen if I left her and if she would hurt herself. I feel like I'm stuck and I care to much about her that I can't just up and leave her. What do?

It's bad because if you also suffer from mental illness, then you feel bad for not being able to help her and being powerless. If the girl is nice and she loves you, she feels the same and feels horrible for not being able to heal you. You then either take the step to force yourself to improve or you drag each other down and reinforce each others bad behaviors, such as avoiding responsibilities.

With a depressed partner you don't need to just improve yourself, but make sure the other person is improving at the same time, or less you will always fall back and feel worse together.

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How was it frustrating? Was she annoying? Or is it cause seeing her sad makes you sad?

FUCKING ANNOYING
Tip for anyone about to date a depressed bitch or is already dating one: FUCKING DUMP HER
I had one and dumped her within 2 weeks (I was planning to just use her for sex but she was just way too annoying after the first week)
There is way too much hastle... having to comfort her... her feeling insecure for no damn reason, despite being at least 8/10...getting texts/calls at random times at night (even 4AM multiple times).... the list just goes on. Dumping the bitch is one of the best decisions I've ever made.

I have a friend that's depressed. She breaks down crying if I try to hard to make her happy and it feels like I can't do anything to help her

We had sex once and she kept muttering really depressed things to herself like "this is all I'm good for"

Really sweet girl, just in a perpetual cycle of putting herself down. I love her so much

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Do depressed people need happy partners?

Dump her you mutt
They need a sad, fat submissive faggot who's willing to wait on hand and knee for the bitch.

Let's see your fedora

It fucks you up when she gets distant.

I was with this one, it was a great relationship until she decides she wants space, I tried to help every time only to get pushed the fuck away for it, stay away and watch her trying to act normal, wait two weeks for her to start talking to you again, rinse and repeat.

Your partner's depression can actually cause you depression. It's horrible.

I'm a depressed person and I feel I need an understanding, non-depressed person. I think two depressed people will just make each other worse.

Depressed gf are a fucking chore
I broke up with my depressed gf of 3 years two days ago.
I still really love her to death But it's really annoying.
Depressed people don't do anything all day and I study and work all day so I feel guilty for never having time.
She had a low libido because of meds
We couldn't really do anything because she felt overwhelmed every five minutes
Overly clingy and gets mad that I don't have much time
Her happiness depends on me so I can't feel down when I do and that gets unhealthy at some point
It sucks because she's really beautiful and I love her so much but it just doesn't work

Do depressed girls want cuddles?

what's it like not having a depressed gf?

>mfw my gf is always depressed since i'm around her

Depends on the moment
Depressed girls can go from overly clingy to emotionally and physically distant in a heartbeat
Really hurts sometimes

Depressed girls are most likely to have BPD, which is worse than having ball cancer.
Stay the fuck away.

easy fuck but hard to maintain anything worthwhile. great when its good but fucking awful when its bad - will probably cause you some negativity, overthinking and bad mindsets yourself and while you can try your hardest no amount of love, affection etc will fix that chemical imbalance. one day things will be great and you think it'll last forever and the next it'll be the complete polar opposite and it can come and go for days or even weeks at a time and that shit will fuck with your head and put you in a spiral of is it me? is it them? did i fuck up? and so forth. they don't necessarily mean to do it but they'll make you feel awful and useless sometimes over minor things. been there, done that and still doing it because i do not learn from my mistakes. current girl i've been seeing on another one of her disappearing adventures and one half of me wants to believe what she says and the other paranoid part of me really thinks im being played and she's actually still fucking with her ex.

tldr save yourself the headache, don't do it.

>tfw not worth love because depressed

like bags of sand which constantly complain

This.
You know it's true
Also this.
Aaaaand this.

It's the same everytime
Sorry you had to go through this bullshit as well user

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i should've just ended it the first time i realised i was being played back in november but alas i thought i'd see where it went and it went pretty good but now i wish i hadn't but i also want to see how it plays out

WHY AM I LIKE THIS

humans dont like change

I was with the same depressed train wreck for 3 years
We do it because puss
Also because even though it sucks it's somehow interesting idk
Also I guess one feels like the good times outweigh the bad ones but after our breakup I realised that the good times were to few

i'm not even fucking with her yet but it definitely felt like it was going there to the point up to last week she was flat out saying she wanted me to ask her out. cue to a few days ago and she wants to put us "on hold" whatever the fuck that shit means. she has her reasons and i'm sympathetic but overall i just feel like i'm generally being fucking played. it's a shame considering i'm not great socially/always been a bit anxious around girls etc but with her i felt absolutely none of that.

fuckin life.

Man that sucks
Sorry user
But don't let it get to you because it's not on you
And maybe it'll work out good who knows
Just be careful and now your own worth

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not holding my breath for it to work out although i am meant to see her on sunday or monday potentially so we'll see how things go. thanks for the kind words user

The reason I ask is cause I kinda want one. I a had a depressed gf I'd love cuddling with her and making her feel better

Yeah, for like a few days/weeks and then you also getting depressed because you can't help her one bit and you're about to go insane because you feel completely helpless about everything.

Been there.

fuck, why am I into redheads so much? and I'm not even Celtic, I'm fuckin Dutch.

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heres my "make urself" one from yesterday's thread

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What's it like to have a gf? Original0

>Human ears
>dog ears
Wut

didnt notice that fugg

I've always thought this was stupid but it looks weirder when they don't have human ears

Guess I made one of "me"

God, this feels like absolute weebshit.

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I, user, do solemnly swear to bump this thread, on threat of it being archived. Orig

Depressed people are a waste of time.

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So, we're all anime girls now, right? This was a gift from god, right?

was it, though?

*was* it, though user?

....

Honestly, a tiny part of me wants this.

Are we posting our oc's now?

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it's frustrating
I wish cuddling a girl and cumming in her and letting her further into my life than anyone else would be enough to actually make her feel better but it never was

AWOOO~~~

Original Awoo

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>boys on r9k with gfs

Sorry?

good Awooo

I was with a depressed girl for around 6 months. After the initial rush wore off, it was just emotionally draining.

She was always looking for reasons to "prove" I hated her and thought she was ugly. I don't miss those days at all.

There is no future for you people.

thanks for speaking the truth to me user, now fuck off this board and let me be depressed.