Why aren't you tucking into some baked onions right now?

Do they still have flavour after baking?

why?

Have you ever cooked a meal

OP post what temp and time should I put them on. I could use a snack rn.
Post full recipe

Just watch that Townsends video for 18th century Onions and comfyness

kill him

>Not just quickly slicing an onion with a red bell pepper and sauteing in butter until soft

wtf!?

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That's where I got the idea from, that channel is peak wholesome and comfy

Fuck that shit looks bomb

Give recipe.
I am a huge fan of onions, but I always get the baked part wrong. Simmer them with a bit of liquid?

Onions are not that cheap bro

>$2 for a 5 lb bag
>In fucking Canada where everything is more expensive

????

t. nigerian

Sounds like me except that it's my mother and sister instead of my dad
>sister says "haha user has bigger tits than me". Everyone in my family laughs
>sister says: "haha dad is so disappointed in you. I mean, why do you think he prefers to talk to me"
>sister says "It's ok that you're dumb. Someone has to be at the bottom of the ladder. There's no shame with low class work". When I was young and just doing school and getting pretty good grades but I guess not good enough.
>"haha dad was talking to me about how fat you've gotten. You're such a failure user"
mfw being berated by my sister and my mom also join in
>"user why can't you be more like your sister? Why can't you be smart like her?"
>"haha I guess [sister's name] got all of dad's smart genes huh"
>"I miss [sister's name]. She was so much better at [insert activity]"
>"haha I guess women have to protect you from everything huh, user?"
>You know I think mixed race children were a mistake. You know I should have never come here. [Country's name] is so boring and crappy."
>Why can't you be like [insert celebrity name]
>"You're such a loser. Go join a club. You're so shy and never had any friends. [speaks in her own language for a bit but is basically just saying I'm a pathetic loser.
>"I wish I never have had you, user."

When I was little and she was walking me home from school she would have an outburst, start stomping her feet and yelling about how she never wanted to have me, never wanted to come to this country, all her life's opportunities and youth is now gone. She would then proceed to run away from me and I would have to run back after her because I was little and not entirely sure how to get back while holding back the tears while running after her.

I remember moments like this so vividly with cheeks running down her face as she proclaimed how much she hated her life and me. I felt so embarrassed bros, and I felt like I was the parent and it was MY child who was acting out.

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What the fuck
Are you a happa by chance? Tell us your story user

I just hate that now after I've lost the weight my mom tells me that I'm a "cutie" now. Not handsome but cute. She still remarks that "I need girls to save" me or something along those lines. I just hate it bros.

Even though she's technically acting nice, if I ever were to put on weight again or got scarred or something she would probably make fun of me again and talk about how I used to look cute or something. I can already imagine it. She already does this sometimes whenever I get pimples.

It's not enough that I got made fun of before, but after I try to change myself she treats me like a woman or a sheltered puppy who is "cute but has to be saved or helped by women". Also now she always tells me to eat because I'm so thin but I know the second I was to get slightly chubby it would be back to making fun of me.

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Half Jap Half Euro living in NA with older sister

Just beat her up lol

why not just do sausage, bell peppers, onions, and garlic in the oven? still get nice onions but other things that also taste good?

why wouldn't you just steam the broccoli?

I won't because it would feel wrong and also I would get disowned. She's technically acting nice to me now but still makes comments about how I don't have any friends and that I'm an anti social loser. If I never talk back or swear to her my dad butts in and says how I've grown up to become a nasty person why shaking his finger. He experienced alot of yelling from my mother as well except that his method with dealing with it is by doing nothing and acting calm. Maybe because he's Christian and that's what Jesus would've done idk.

It just seems crazy to me that if I take shit from her from all those years ago and continue to I can't say anything or I'm some monster. I called her a bitch once and my father proclaimed that I've become a monster and that he would never dare to treat his mother like that. And that I have to respect her because she "just wants to be appreciated". I know that I should appreciate all those times she cooked dinner and walked me home since she was the main one cooking but at the same time I remember all those times her screaming at me, berating my posture when eating but at the same time saying that my cousin was fine even if he did the same thing as me and calling me fat while pushing me to eat more.

The better shape I get in the worse my mother says I look. I think she may just be a cunt. Snide remarks when I get a promotion. Snide remarks when I'm in the best shape of my life.

Yeah I get those too bro. When she says I look like I'm on steroids or looks bad I actually feel pretty good cause that means I'm making progress

So youre just going to keep running away? Grow a sack and look out for yourself.
No one is going to give you a map, you got to walk your own path user.

Yeah I'm just bottling those feelings inside for now since living at home is cheaper while I finish my degree. She's not as bad as before with the screaming and hitting but just with the off putting comments about being protected by women or a loser. My dad also tells me just to forget about what she did to me but at the same time makes excuses why my sister was a bitch to me and also used to berate me but it's cause she has depression and was bullied by my mom too.

Tbh I'm just moving forward like you said, but never forgetting. Even if I still get angry I make sure never to show it because it won't be beneficial in the long run I honestly just hate women though and whenever a woman tells me to do anything I get this irrational anger because of the times mentioned above and also when my 5 year older sister used to choke me by pressing all her weight on my neck and chest. She has maybe around 14-15 and I was 9-10 and she was much taller and stronger.

Get the fuck away from your family.
Move out and learn to live life not smothered by psychopaths. Who cares if its cheaper to live with them, respect yourself enough to remove yourself from that even if your life becomes harder.

unironically this I've come to the conclusion the only way to get anything done in the world is to kill your problems

It is normal to feel that way, but make sure to use your anger in a constructive manner. Nothing better than drowning people that act like this in achievement.

Seconds

Not OP, but I enjoy them too. I bake mine for an hour at 400. You could get by anywhere from 45minutes - hour though.

>baked onions
>ready in seconds

>bake it for 50 minutes

That's 3000 seconds bro

You need to show those whores who is boss, user. With rape.

Your dad is a fag. Beat him up first.

These women want to fuck you. Show youre dominant. Make your move before its too late

Sorry for the cringey blog post but I had to get it out of my system. This is the first time I get to mention it to anyone. I tried confronting my sister about the times she used to choke and fight me (she usually won cause she was older and stronger) and she would just say she doesn't know what I'm talking about or can't remember. I also confronted my dad about it and he said he didn't know (that's because it happened while he was at work but my mom witnessed my sister choking me but never did anything).

It just drives me insane that no one can accept that she did it. I feel like I'm a crazy person and now I can't even figure out whether my memories are true because no one else acknowledges them. Am I insane? Where those memories a my imagination? Probably not because my dad acknowledges what my mother done to us but says to just forget it and move on.

But last thing, my Dad always makes excuses for my sister. When she's being a bitch to me or my dad or I tell him that she used to do these bad things to me he either doesn't accept it (with the choking) or with the bullying he says that it's because she has depression and can't control her hormones. He then goes on and on about how we are lucky to have normal hormonal function whereas she has a problem she can't control and that we can't blame her about it and thank god for making us normal. IT just drives me crazy when he says that. He blames mom for pushing my sister to become anorexic which then made her hormones wack but when I get the same shit from my mom plus bullying from my sister I'm just supposed to "forget about it" and he asks why I wouldn't bother remembering such a thing. IT 's even more insane that now she tries acting nice to me in front of her boyfriend when they visited and she acts all goofy and nice to me but I just can't stop hating her. It feels disingenuous when she acts nice to me in front of them but never accepts what she did or deflects by saying "well mom bullied me".

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No, she is just a miserable person who has driven everyone away but me. I stopped contact with her for five years at one point, but she is getting old. I would feel guilty letting her die alone.

user, my mom's mom used to make excuses for her when she was fucking kids I was going to high school with. While they were underage and in high school.

My dad is nice though. He accepts shit from my mom without doing anything but he feels like that makes him more virtuous. He's really nice though even if there's a double standard by accepting my sister's bad actions as depression and my mom's as "well she's a woman" but for me it's my fault entirely.
I'm trying to be constructive
He's a christcuck and follows shit like how even if mom screams he just acts calm instead of showing whose boss and berates me I I try to stand up against her

You NEED to leave. As soon as possible. Once you're doing well and self sufficient, you might think about trying to help her, if you're feeling kind. You can't do anything for yourself or her while she still holds any power over you.

Your sister and mother are mentally ill. Stop trying to make sense if their actions, it will get you nowhere.

She's no longer screaming like before but like I said she still does those snide off handed comments on how I'm cute but can't protect myself and need women to protect me.

The thing is I can't decipher if my feeling are justified. My dad tells me to be grateful that my mom used to cook for me and that there are much worse moms. I agree with him but still can't help but feel rage. I mean, how come when I push back (once I pushed her when she was screaming and slapping at me) and another time I called her a bitch and both times my dad went apeshit saying how he would never do this to his mom.

Yeah, I know it's wrong to disrespect your parents, but I just feel like there's an injustice. Why are their actions dismissed but mine are held accountable when my actions are a reaction to their behavior? Am I in the wrong? Right now they're acting pretty nice to me but still occasionally berate me by calling me stupid, useless or the other things mentioned above. I'm just so confused.

Youre dad is a coward. No need to be mad at yourself over that fact.
At any rate you need to understand something extremely important. Listen close.
You will never get a resolution to the problems above. Ever. Never ever user.
Even if you did manage to torture out an apology for that stuff you'd still feel hollow because it literally doesnt matter anymore. You think it does but it doesnt.
Let it go and move on. Youre drinking poison and expecting your psychopath family to feel the effects instead.
You dont need to worry about anything other than yourself and youre own happiness.
Move out asap.

Well my mom was on meds before.
I guess I just try to make sense because my dad pins my sister's actions as out of her control due to depression and former anorexia caused by my mother's bullying. Essentially, he says I have to be like Jesus and turn the other cheek so to speak. I partly believe him because I do love my dad and he did lots of stuff with us when we were kids and still today but I can't help but shake the feeling of a double standard

>but I just feel like there's an injustice. Why are their actions dismissed but mine are held accountable when my actions are a reaction to their behavior? Am I in the wrong?
No youre not in the wrong and your anger is justified.
Reading all this shit its clear to me your just a punching bag that your family uses whenever they please.
Be a man and separate from them. Live your own life and make your own choices. Once you get out you will feel 100000000X better.

The thing is I can't tell if my anger is even justified anymore. Sure there's the off handed comments, still yelling from my mother but it's much much better than before. Also that and my dad telling me to just forget about it and move on. Plus the fact that I love my dad and have a tendency to believe him. For the most part we are much calmer than before, and my mom even wants to give me hugs now and says I have a good face although with the asseration that I'm a wimp that needs to be protected by women.

It's just that I feel bad that my mom does act nice maybe 50-60% of the time now and I don't know what to do. When she is acting nice I feel bad for having those angry feeling but then at other times I feel justified for those feeling when she goes on a rant how I'm pathetic, how the country sucks and just yelling about meaningless shit for the sake of letting out anger

It's a constant flip flop between my emotions that I can't even decide what to feel anymore. When she acts nice I feel bad for ever being angry and when she screams again and feel my feeling are justified but then she apologizes and then I go back to being unsure

Your mom is insane dude you don't need to appreciate shit. Get out of that situation. I don't talk to my shitty parents either and they weren't nearly as mean spirited as your family sounds.

They're basically keeping you around to bully you because it makes them feel better about themselves. Get the fuck out. They will pretend to care for you at that point but don't fall for it. They just want you back in what they see as your place.

do we know this>?

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> I can't decipher if my feeling are justified
This is a hallmark of the abused. You're being manipulated into doubting yourself. What you've described is textbook emotional abuse. I won't try to diagnose your mother but something is wrong with her head, normal parents do not tell their children that they hate them and they ruined their lives. The more time you spend in that house, the more your head is going to get screwed up. Leave. Get a part time job, take out loans, make it work. She will try to make you stay, with threats or guilt, ignore her. Make sure all of your bank accounts and property are in your name before you break the news to her, do everything you can to remove any leverage that she has over you. It won't be easy but a few months from now you will be thanking yourself.
As an aside, consider talking to a counselor or therapist. If you're in school they will probably offer this service for free. It will do you a lot of good to talk to a neutral, experienced professional, it's not healthy to keep stuff like this to yourself.

I feel like my dad loves me though. I mean he's nice to me 90% of the time and we're peaceful when my mom is away. I just hate it how when I ask him why she holds her actions and at different standard to me he just gets annoyed and says "huh so you have an answer to everything, user!?"

Also that and him reminding me that my mom used to clean me and cook for me when I was younger. Well that and the fact that my grandparents and relatives from both sides are nice to me

Your dad may be kind to you but he is not giving good advice and he is not on your side. He is ignoring an obvious problem, maybe because he doesn't know how to deal with it, maybe because he is scared to, maybe because he's just gotten too used to it, I don't know. What I do know is that his inaction has zero consequences for him and many consequences for you, and that isn't right.

You just think that because your dad isn't actively abusive. But he still enables it. He may think he loves you, but would you let someone you loved get the shit abused out of them for their entire life? Not if you're a good person.

Ghost your family, make your own life and get therapy. I know it sucks man cause I had abusive parents and stepparents growing up but when I left I could finally move on and become my own person. My mom still keeps in touch with my sisters and she'll write me gay ass letters every once in a while trying to guilt trip me into restarting a relationship with her. But I'm old enough to realize she doesn't actually care about me, she just can't reconcile having a son that hates her with her own narcissistic self image.

>Im still their punching bag but they arnt hitting me as hard as they used to, its all cool now!

Respect yourself. If you dont why should anyone else? Move out and live your own life. Fly free user.

Also cooking and cleaning are literally the bare minimum of being a parent. They literally did as little as possible to keep you alive and they're demanding you be grateful for that? Fuck them. God dammit hearing about this is bringing back so many memories. I put up with shit for so long. Do yourself a favor and start making a plan, man. And for real get therapy because you're likely to get into an abusive relationship because of the way your family treated you.

Loving a child isn't just about being nice to them. It's about protecting them, and giving them guidance, and raising them to be happy and independent adults. He's letting you down user. He is giving you surface level kindness and at the same time allowing his crazy bitch wife to ruin you emotionally. There is a time in every young man's life when they have to stop seeing their dad as a superhero and start seeing them as just another flawed, fallible human.

Thanks for the advice guys. I'm still planning on living with them until I finish my degree but I was wondering how I should communicate with them when I'm off living by myself?

I truly believe that my dad is great though. Despite the things mentioned, he still took me to sport practice, he'd help me with my math homework along with other things. That and I know he had to work hard since he was basically the only one working in the household for the longest time before my mom get a min wage job 5 years ago. So it really was my dad holding it together. There were so many times when my mom wanted a divorce and wanted to leave back to her own country but he never fought back (good or bad) and they're still together even if that may be a bad thing. But I mean we probably wouldn't even have a place to live if they split since the housing market is so expensive.

So how should I maintain communication with him when I'm older? I know my grandmother likes me too apparently and I want to keep those relations together but I fear I'll still have to talk to my sister and mother even if they're much nicer now than before

Sorry to hear that mate. This is to white guys, don't fuck an Asian woman, Asian woman hate Asian men, and if you make a boy then good luck to him. It is literally better to reproduce with a black or Hispanic than an Asian if you have a boy and you race mix.

Yeah I'm unironically against race mixing now. There were so many times when I heard my parents arguing or my mother arguing with me and she would suddenly break down in tears because she hated speaking in english and complain how she hated us and living in this country

>Also that and him reminding me that my mom used to clean me and cook for me when I was younger
No shit, this is a fucking parent's job. Yes, you should appreciate it, but it's not an excuse to abuse you emotionally or physically. Fuck both your parents dude.

>I'm still planning on living with them until I finish my degree
Why? You know what the problem is and yet you refuse to act. Have you ever moved out on your own? Are you scared to do so? Is that why you make excuses to why you need to stay?

>I was wondering how I should communicate with them when I'm off living by myself?
>how should I maintain communication with him when I'm older?
Its impossible to try and resolve issues with people who will never acknowledge they did anything wrong. Its like talking to a wall.
You cut yourself off from them and learn to live life not being smothered. Time apart should give you and your family some clarity.
Accept the fact that there is a good chance this will never be resolved.

1- Once you're out, you don't have to communicate with anyone you don't want to. I suggest you don't communicate with your mother, but if you feel like patching things up eventually make sure she understands that there are conditions: that she treat you civilly, apologize, get back on her meds, whatever. It's up to her whether she meets these demands, and in the likely scenario that she doesn't do not compromise. If you want to maintain contact with only your father, then make that offer to him. Again, there's a good chance he might refuse and demand you speak to your mother as well, and again: do not compromise.
2- Your dad is not as great as you think. A little time away will make this clearer i think, but he let you down big time. Being a doormat is not a positive quality.

You don't have to talk to anybody you don't want to. You don't owe your mother or sister anything. Tell them outright that they're toxic people who hurt you and you don't want them in your life anymore.

>There were so many times when my mom wanted a divorce and wanted to leave back to her own country but he never fought back (good or bad) and they're still together even if that may be a bad thing
Let me clear this up for you: these are both bad

>Why?
Healthcare coverage. If I'm a fulltime student I get to be in the same account as my parents.
I feel like I still should talk to my dad though. Really my only qualms with him are making excuses for my mom and sister, the double standard and never really standing up to her. Sure, I guess he keep the marriage intact and they never had to split and lose the house but whenever I hear my mother's footsteps I always feel my heart race or get irrationally angry because I'm scared she's gonna burst through the door and yell at me or something

What they said. Don't talk to them. Go off on your own. I hope to god you have some friends you can hang with or something because loneliness is a killer. I highly recommend getting therapy. You need to learn how to express your own needs and set healthy boundaries. Your family has abused you into thinking any expression of needs on your part is too much. That's very very bad for emotional development which is why I also recommend you don't date until you've been on your own for a while. Victims of emotional abuse tend to be codependent and get with people who take advantage of them because they're used to it. I've done it and it sucks ass.

Your father constantly excused your mother's abuse by reminding you that she did the absolute minimum that a mother should do (especially considering he was the only one who worked). If you do feel the need to continue your relationship with him, you need to call him out on this bullshit and demand some explanation. Before you do that, you need to personally acknowledge that this was, in fact, bullshit. Stop making excuses for him. Every person in this thread is telling you the exact same thing, you need to wake up a bit dude.

Dude, come on. youre making excuses. Obama care still exists and youre state should have low income insurance plans.

Ill say it again, your dad was a coward who refused to stand up for his son just so he didnt have to receive your mothers anger.
Choosing to stand by and do nothing is still making a choice user.
Move out. Get some brathing room from your family. Talk to your dad on your terms. When you are your own man you get to make adult choices about who you want in your life. Be as close or as distant as you want. This isnt rocket science.

Join the fucking military. I mean it.
Be around other positive roll models and actual masculine men. You will learn a little responsibility and self respect too. Itll probably iss your mom off which sounds very amusing.
Plus you get free health college and that free healthcare youre so worried about.

Those are BIG qualms dude. It's not a minor thing that you should brush off.

yeah and? it's ready in seconds just like he said

>Healthcare coverage
Your school will cover you for dirt cheap, sometimes free if you can prove you're not being supported by your parents. Figure it out dude, you need to do whatever it takes. Pick a date (within a year) and stick with it no matter what, otherwise you're going to find more reasons not to leave.

I asked him a few times and when I got really pissed I asked why he never stood up to her. He said that he's not that kind of person and that he believes he ultimately did the right thing by being calm. He wants me to be like that too. Being calm and respond calmly in order to not further provoke my mom.

Yeah when I call him out he shakes his head and insinuates that I'm ungrateful and stuff like that so I don't think that will ever work. He'll usually just shake his head and groan or sometimes he'll get upset and say how I haven't contributed anything to the family.

Honestly, though I really want to contribute to the family. It's just whenever I try doing something they quickly rush in, say how I'm doing something wrong and then do it themselves. After they finished doing it themselves, they ask why I couldn't do that specific task and get mad at me. This always happens. I try helping out my sister and make a tiny mistake and she goes apeshit and complains how I can't do anything without being told and that I really don't know.

I really wish he could see my point of view because he is by far the nicest person in the family but he always shakes his head and never accepts what I'm saying or brings up some counter argument how I should be grateful because my mom cooked for me and used to care alot for me when I was little

Last Christmas I had to give my mom like 600 bucks because she couldn't afford Christmas gifts for my younger siblings and extended family. Then like 2 weeks ago my car had to get repaired and it cost 700 to fix and I tried to pay it but at the auto shop she payed before I could. Then my dad flips a shit at me because she used their joint account (unbeknownst to me, I thought she payed for it with her own money) to pay for it and he didn't have enough money for the (((mortgage))) and I told him that it was because I gave her money at Christmas time then he just went silent. We were in the car alone with each other t the time and I almost cried. Felt like a giant bitch. Felt like a little baby, a little helpless faggot child. I hate being subordinate to these people. I just want to be normal. I was seriously going to ghost them and become homeless, but they're getting divorced so I'll see how it goes from here. This has been gnawing at me since it happened and I'm just venting about it.

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>tfw you're allergic to onions

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I don't live in the USA but the country up north. But I have considered the army but I have some money for tution saved up and it goes to waste if you haven't used it by the time you're 24 or so. So, if I don't use it now or soon it's all wasted

>owning the internal combustion jew

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>whenever I hear my mother's footsteps I always feel my heart race or get irrationally angry because I'm scared she's gonna burst through the door and yell at me or something
Fuck, I get the same thing but with my dad. If I get home after work and his truck is in the driveway I lose my shit and sometimes I just turn around and go drive for hours just so I don't have to go home. It's like just being in proximity with him is a drain on my soul.

Last reply im giving you because I seriously want to slap the shit out of you.
You know what the problem is and you know how to fix it.
People that find themselves in this situation arent actually looking for advice they just want sympathy which is what I suspect this is now.

MOVE OUT. Stop crawling back to your family like a beaten dog just because they didnt kick the shit out of you as had as they did yesterday.
YOU are the one who has to wake up and live your life every day.
You dont owe anyone shit. Join the Army, and learn to take care of yourself before you worry about how your garbage parents feel about you.

Thanks for letting me blog post and derail this thread. Really you're the only guys I have ever talked to about this and have actually listened.

I know this is just some alt right chinese image board but it really feels good to mention this with someone. For once I don't feel like I'm crazy or delusional with false memories since my family members seem to deny some of the stuff but you guys actually listen and give me solutions

Really I can't say this enough but thank you for reading my posts.

Ok I'm looking into the army right now. Really thanks for the advice user

good goy

Remember that Jow Forums exists. They give pretty good advice and have helped me out a bunch of times.

He didn't do the right thing and you should not try to be like him. Until he can admit that he did wrong by you (and his daughter, and himself) you're not going to have a meaningful emotional relationship with him. Maybe in a few years, after the inevitable divorce and you have both had some time alone to think, you can really get somewhere with him. Until then, he is a nice guy that you can go fishing with occasionally, but do not go to him for advice or emotional support.

Yeah yeah I get it fighting for Israel. But I'm gonna take that user's advice and at least try to spend some time away from my parents

Either military or I'll try to finish my courses at CC and get into an Engineering uni and live on campus.

they get sweeter. natural sugars release as the cell walls break down during the cooking process.

Good luck. Remember, every time you want to make an excuse for their behavior, or for why you can't leave, or for why you owe them something: just fucking don't. Be a man, have conviction, do what is right for you.

>Asian women with no soul
not surprised bro

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Right. Thanks. I won't take shit but at the same time I'm not going to be an asshole to them because that does no good either.

I also noticed that I'm scared to even succeed or talk to other people because I'm afraid of comments my parents will make. I think it's time to stop this train of though

Glorious nippon bride

Ur dad is a faget

Yeah I guess my dad fell for the qt asian gf meme

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