Have a committed, loyal, sincere, and supportive woman who will do whatever he wants

>Have a committed, loyal, sincere, and supportive woman who will do whatever he wants
>Cheats on her anyway

Woman here. Why do men cheat in happy relationships?

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Genuine question: Why would you think anyone on this board would know?

>men
Chads*

His definition of happiness is not the same as yours. Alternatively, why does anyone cheat period?

Maybe it's because one woman isn't enough and they just want more. They just can't say no to the desire.

>Woman here. Why do men cheat in happy relationships?
You didn't have to preface it by mentioning you're a woman - your stupid question would've told that adequately.

They don't cheat in happy relationships.

Cheaters are selfish and feel entitled to what their partner gives them and more. But on the real, the uncomfortable truth is nice people tend to get treated like shit in the world. Respect is golden and to be respected, you can't be a person who gives someone whatever they want. People will take advantage of that, and will also think very little of you in reality. You may be liked, perhaps even loved, but you won't be respected. Any relationship worth having is nothing without a mutual respect.

So you may be understandably offended by his cheating (as you should be) like, "All this and yet he's not satisfied with me?" Naturally you think you're a great girl, but he may have considered you boring, naive, oblivious/lacking in awareness, and too submissive. And he may have a point. You don't have to be a bad person to have flaws in need of overcoming. Evaluate yourself and evaluate the nature of your "happy relationship". Obviously he's in the wrong for what he did and what he failed to do, but there may be cause for you to mature as well.

Pussy feels good and women are annoying to everybody but thirsty Disney watching betas

Adulterers are scum that much is true. But i would go as far as to say that adultery makes you scum even in unhappy relationships. If a relationship is so bad that you need to seek physical affection from others then break it off. There is no justification for cheating even if your partner is awful. Break up with the awful partner and then seek companionship. If you are willing to cheat on them then you clearly hate them enough to break up anyway.

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ask my ex that then, she got pregnant with the guy and I don't fuck around. Left me to go back with him even though he abused her and pulled a gun on them both one time

I've never cheated on a woman in my entire life

People cheat, both genders.

Find a partner who is commited to you, though it's impossible for a man to guarantee that he won't find another woman interesting, those who have character break up instead of playing with their partner feelings and cheating behind their backs.

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Because hes always been an asshole your friends warned you many times you just didnt wanna hear it

>who will do whatever he wants
Do you?
Or do you simply think you would if he ASKED, but for real you already nix certain things by you reaction and 'eww wtf?' face before they even get clearly said?

A good portion of the time its just primal cravings for women, but there's many different reasons out there

Because men are programmed to fuck a variety of women but they also don't want to ruin the long term commitment they have, so cheating is the best option.

woman:
>goes after dudes with more female attention than he can handle
dude:
>cheats
woman:
>nonplussed_thunder_rat.jpeg

Women cheat because their man doesn't give their pussy tingles anymore. Men cheat because they like sexual variety.

Nobody knows why men or women cheat. It just happens. Studies have found no correlation with any factors with who will cheat and who will not.

>date unattractive guy
>cheats at first women that shows interest because his ego is fragile and built on his sexual conquests
I'd rather be cheated on by a hot guy, less humiliating. I've been cheated on by a fat single dad with acne, crushed my self esteem for a while, fuck that. Best to always punch above your weight in relationships, we're only getting uglier with time, not like an ugly dude will get more handsome

>not like an ugly dude will get more handsome
Wrong actually, Men are more likely to go for self improving stuff and aged is better at least for some womens taste.

How's that approaching wall feeling, roastie? Btw men can still father children in their 70s

Married man here. Gotta go with this. Still have never cheated, but this would be the reason.

>commited, loyal, sincere, and supportive woman

Kek, the amount of men that believe they have this in a woman only to have the rug pulled out from under their feet.

I'm talking more about the face, not physique. I'm not attracted to old guys though, I'm happy my bf looks young for his age. It's freaky, his buddy is only a bit older at 30 and has deep crows feet. I don't care how fit you are, I don't want to date a crypt keeper looking ass. I'm partly shitposting but I pretty much feel this way

I will gladly slice the throat of cheaters, you only pretend to be people .... and I am an artist. I hate you. Protect yourself you bitch.

I guess I'm that annoying, Disney watching beta. Like CWC and Ted Bundy, I prefer the company of females, and cheating would literally drive me insane. Not that I'm virtue-signalling here, I don't give a fuck about the nasty-ass BPD roasties here, they're true scum and if I was ever unfortunate enough to date one of you lurking bitches I would cheat on you just to hopefully make you feel something other than my dick in your ass.

Yeah, but chances are the people they cheat on are also pretending to be people... which is why they get they're shit fucked like that.

There is no feeling better in the world than busting a fat nut in a girl knowing she's married or has a boyfriend. The cucking factor just makes the orgasm so much better.

i used to think cheaters were the scum of the earth who only did it as a coping mechanism for their own insecurities, shortcomings or relationship issues. People that are too scared to break up in their unsatisfactory relationships so the cheat, using the gf as the safety net. Mental gymnastics to justify it.

After getting sucked off by a korean chick while my gf was home i can confirm all of the above is accurate.

I'm suing you for the multiple lacerations I received whilst replying to your post.

That's fine. Just know that you're part of the problem by enabling the cheating of hot guys while shunning the less fortunate.

Because it is hard wired into men to fuck as many people as you can. If you are good looking and have women hitting on you all the time it must be difficult to pass up on it.

Because guys who are pursued and wanted by women aren't held down. They can get lots of women.

It's the other 80% that women ignore that won't cheat. If you go for a guy who's as hot, or hotter than you, he's going to have the opportunity to step up to a hotter girl than you are.

Same with women. If a guy dates up, he has to deal with the consequences of not dating that uggo that's in his league.

At least you're not a hypocrite. The natural thing is to try to excuse oneself.

What you described does not exist OP. That man definitely did the right thing. A relationship is meant to be purely sexual and its cheat or be cheated on. - I'm always proud to cheat and it's a race before she can do it to me.

>If you are good-looking it must be hard to pass up the attention

Yeah, unless you're socially retarded like me. Holy shit, the amount of times I've turned around to a friend and said "She was really cute" and they just shake their head now and say nothing... because I always say it after they're gone and I treated them like a business associate.

Lucky him, looking too low on year can be a terror for babyfaced males, been there...once.
Keep him well, if you can. Youthful faces depend a lot on no stress.
Lots of faces get a more male-ish look when losing the 'babyfat' many modern people carry so long now though, so training or plain age can still become a saving grace for many males imo.

>a roastie cries with crocodile tears before divorce rape her partner

*before divorce raping

That retarded "hurr stay in your league thinking" does not work well for relationships at all, it is a best somoething that matters hookups.

>'babyfat' many modern people carry so long now

Bull huckey, people are more fitness and diet-obsessed than ever before. You want to see unfortunate aging, look at people born in the 70s' or before. Terrible habits like theirs turn them 50 by the time they're 35, and you'll be lucky to be stress-free as a pre-Millennial who hasn't realized the utter futility of modern life and just gave in to memes and gymratting as a lifestyle.

I kinda agree, depends on the relationship though. I've had girls fall for me who were quite out of my league and I even hurt a few of them later down the line for various reasons... if girls truly like you, it definitely doesn't matter much, but a relationship built on shallow morals like trophying one another is bound to go another way.

>fitness obsessed
>obesity and drugs are ticking higher ever year
Look less on your instagram-links and more into the street

>Have a committed, loyal, sincere, and supportive man who will do whatever she wants
>Cheats on him anyway

Man here. Why do women cheat in happy relationships?

The streets? Fuck the streets. Of course people on the streets are gonna look like ass hamburger, always have, always will. I'm talking about the presentables.

The easiest way to make your bitches pussy ovulate like a chicken farm is to fuck another bitch, fess up, be all sorry and shit, then smash. Women love it when other women approve of their man, and they love that relief when you rescue her from her fear of being abandoned. Just don't cheat with an uggo. If you're with a 7 you cheat with 6-8. There's a lot of strategy and shit you can get fucked up on.

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>that image
>"bitches pussy ovulate like a chicken farm"

...How is it you make me agree with your degenerate outlook so handily?

Because he wants new pussy. The same old pussy gets boring after a while. /thread

Which are a minority that have shit all impact on RL and is the exactl reason why retards like you are following them like a doggy.

You're a fucking retard yourself if you're trying to be "salt of the earth" in this generation. How old are you, even?

How do you combat the sort of women that dumps and doesn't forgive cheating though? Has that ever happened to you? I guess it wouldn't mess you up too much if you were cheating to begin with but seems like a big risk

Too old to think that someone who makes his money off his/her looks and get practically stuck doing nothing else is in anyway relevant to me.

Not him, but I would think if she was the type to dump you for it you probably wouldn't be with her in the first place, as an experienced cheater.

all women go for one type of guy so he has endless access, sort of like me asking why you complain about being lonely when you hundreds of guys are a swipe away at any moment. ALSO WOMEN CHEAT TOO DUMB PRIVILEGED BITCH.

That's awfully reductive. You're definitely older than the social media generation, it painfully shows, because you sum up everyone who uses those platforms to create false images of themselves as being tied only to that kind of existence. It's more symptomatic, in my opinion, of a new paradigm of social living. It's not all about getting paid for being attractive, it's also about how people my age seek constant validation (Yous) through groomed images of themselves that are worthy of sharing. I don't disagree that it's problematic but it's about as usual as any other paradigm of living previous young generations went through. The 20s' had sybaritic lifestyles due to a deliriously failed economy, but there's always a snapback to something else. Watch our 20s' be all about "getting back to our roots."

tl;dr Don't date yourself by being overly reactionary to the current scene

Withholding sex at all gives your male partner a legitimate incentive to cheat (they need to get what they should get with you, elsewhere).

However, only trash men would actually act on that intentional, rather than either just dumping you and moving onto a more affectionate woman, or withholding something in return (the genius move would be sex at all) to help you understand how it actually feels.

The relationship obviously isnt as fulfilling as it appears, then. I think most people, men and women, get stuck in dissatisfactory relationships that make them unhappy, but dont end them either because they dont want to be alone or have actual commitments together, IE kids. So many people look for satisfaction elsewhere. Its pathetic but its just how it is.

I also think men are just slaves to their dick. Pretty much everything we do in life is in persuit of sex.

>people my age seek constant validation
Ain't that the truth? And it is frankly hilarious to see.
"I snap therefore I am"

Well I actually am a bit of a faggoty boomer myself, so I see your perspective, but speaking as someone who tries to fuck 20 year olds still I gotta keep my kicks fresh

Because I can't bear to hurt anyone. My gf broke up with me and I got with a new girl, but a few months later the ex-gf wants to get back together. So I cheat with her and eventually break up with the new gf, but again a few months later she wants me back (she knows I was cheating and why we broke up) so now I'm in the same situation just with the position of the girls reversed.
I don't know what to do. This is why polygamy needs to be made socially acceptable, it's practically torture to be forced to love only one person when more than one loves you.

Biologically we were meant to be polygamous... it is kind of fucked-up really, to the point where I can't even accept being in a polygamous relationship despite knowing it's probably for the best.

Same here and it IS crazy.
Twenty-something girls will suck your dick, sleep in your home for weeks and do all sort of sexual and gf things.
But before it is a RELATIONSHIP in her eyes, you have to reactivate that damn jewbook and set it to "in a relationship with dadslilgirl" because she thinks she isn't really your gf before.

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Because its the only time we can, the opportunity presents itself. Admit it, you find guys in relationships attractive. Whenever ive dated girls other girls surround me and want my attention. I personally think its the girl goo that gets left on you which makes other girls go nuts for you.

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Its biology and its or privilege to do so.

Yeah I don't get why their lives seem to truly happen there, for the benefit of the audience. Some things are too sacred for sharing with everyone.

Why do women cheat, user?
>tfw girl im seeing is off at her best friend's birthday party
>tfw wasnt invited as a plus 1 because she's "not ready for that just yet" and "we organized the party months in advance, would if i could, sorry user"
>tfw she doesnt want to introduce me to her family
>tfw she doesnt want to be officially in a relationship because she's "not ready for that just yet, only had 1 relationship" when she's gone and fucked 64 dudes before she was 20 because she's a fat whore.
>tfw probably getting cheated on tonight.
meanwhile i've got a date with an islander girl tomorrow, so that's pretty cool.

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hAN solo GR37test

Like nothing can't be real unless soc-media stamped
And more mind bending, if it was seen on there, most take it as a truth to be swallowed whole and taken as real. Even considering otherwise is 'tinfoil think' For all the talks of fake-news and media bubbles, nothing seems to be doubted if there are likes on it.
You could seriously conjure a hot new celebrity up in 10 min if you had full access to fb, twitter or insta databases.

Eh, but enough of dinosaur worries. Not like TV didn't pull an equally scary number on us.

Well just because things snapback doesn't mean one day they won't. It's healthy to question what's new, but equally as healthy to embrace it or at the least accept it in order to stay connected to the pulse of modern life.

Because the woman you settle down with will nag and her looks will fade. Meanwhile a man retains the same sex drive he had at 20 for most of his life. It's nothing personal.

Do most women even care that much if it's just an affair?

I remember reading a study that said that men in happy relationships are more likely to cheat than men in less happy relationships. This is something I've seen irl also. Let's see if I can find it.

>Fisher has found that 34% of women who had affairs were happy or very happy in their marriage. 56% of men who had affairs were happy in their marriage.
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So if you want a faithful man, don't be too good to him. Be a bitch and a nag from time to time.

Imagine thinking people couldn't do whatever they wanted, from the people I know, and in my relationship I've been cheated on myself, it's pretty obvious that it was likely to happen.

It's no big deal if you don't rely on another person for happiness, and chances are, if you do, you're the person who's likely to be cheated on

He obviously wasn't happy if he cheated. Men are hardwired different from us. They need the physical aspect of the relationship to feel loved and bond with you. If there's something lacking they'll always stray. Try having more dialogues with your future partners and make it your personal policy never to refuse your mate physical affection. After all, they make sacrifices for us too.

That's bullshit, I'm in a happy relationship and cheat, because I can, because I like fresh pussy, you are very naive

>I-it's no big deal

Cucked beans

You don't speak for everyone though. If your partner actually satisfies your every need and you still have time to cheat, that means you probably care about having orgasms than more productive and enjoyable pursuits. You're like an incel, whose whole world revolves around sex. Is it because you have few other interests or because you need constant validation? Real men have interests above and beyond orgasming.

Why do women only give attention to Chad when there are lots of other decent guys they could choose from? Because they can. People are only as moral as their options. If a man can cheat, he probably will, and you can't blame him for it.

Lol men are big children. Channel that strict mother and you'll set them straight.

Incorrect. Just look a few posts above you and you'll see that the majority of cheating men have a happy relationship.

>Channel that strict mother

Mmm, yes please, you will definitely set me straight

Does anyone have that pasta about how women suck and are posers, using gardening as an example?

A person who cheats can not be disuaded from cheating. It's a morals and personality issue. They are incapable of thinking beyond that particular moment and are driven by base emotion.

A cheater will never change. This is something both men and women need to understand and accept. Two cheaters are happier together than a cheater and a non-cheater. If you are scum then get with scum, and both of you be honest about it.

This.

Normal men don't cheat. Only chads or manwhores cheat in happy relationships.

so by that logic not all women cheat and normal women are nice?

More like the 80-20 split again. Those 20% of men will cheat. 80% of men will cheat if it gets them a night with one of the 20%.
Women are more likely to cheat. Men are just more likely to bury their heads in the sand and ignore it.

Is there a source on these numbers? All i've seen were a liberal community college study and okcupid.