Hey user, can you talk about times youve done permanent damage to your relationships? What was it like afterwards?

Hey user, can you talk about times youve done permanent damage to your relationships? What was it like afterwards?

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There was no afterwards

Wow this retarded faggot actually made a good post.

I erased you. Enjoy the brain cancer

>get a gf a month ago
>go to another country for new years with 2 friends (to Finland)
>friends are on tinder, I was on tinder too before I met her
>decide to try it out
>get a shit ton of matches for some reason, get almost none in my home country (England)
>sending totally ridiculous messages because we're quite drunk/high
>one girl gives me her address even though the messages were like "What am I doing right now? Dipping my cock in some noodles"
>friend orders me a taxi, don't want to go
>take a few shots of vodka and decide to YOLO it
>turn up and she's high
>we fuck
>leave in the morning by taxi
>tell gf what I did over text
>she calls me in tears, cries for 2 solid days
>she takes me back when I get home
>we're still together a year later

Welp, she must love me. Would not have stayed after that if she didn't.

She has been very bitter about the whole experience. I can't mention Finland in front of her. She hates my friends and mainly blames them for it. Also if we argue, or if I'm unhappy about something she usually brings up tinder, and tells me that if I don't like something I can go and use that to find a gf there.

It's clear why she is upset and I deserve to pay for what I did. I never thought I was such an awful person.

Why dont you just part ways? Feels too easy to constantly trigger this one mistake over and over. Remove the strain by setting both of your lives free

There is no damage if you never had one to begin with

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This was whilst I was at uni.

>have gf in different city
>get high with flatmate and his friends most nights
>get particularly out of it one night, could barely even keep my eyes open or move
>one of flatmates female (and pretty ugly) friends helps me back into my room
>she randomly starts kissing me
>have the absolute best sex of my entire life, even though I could barely move or do anything
>wake up the next morning next to her, realise I have fucked up beyond belief, kick her out and cried for hours
>called my gf and confessed everything, she dumped me, blocked my number etc
>never spoke to her or saw her ever again
>turns out roommates friend is crazy and messages me non stop
>being very sad I slept with her a few times, wanting to kill myself after every encounter
>eventually just ghost her entirely
>she tells everyone I have a small dick and am shit in bed

Really an awful few months that make me want to kill myself whenever I think of them. I wish I never fucking went to uni.

I had the audacity to be upset when my gf told me she had a crush on her boss. She dumped me for not trusting her and I spent the next 3 days calling her and trying to get her back on day three I couldn't get through to her and on day 4 she answered and told me she spent day 3 with her boss and she fucked him.

I was broken by the whole thing. A few days later I was visiting a friend and there she was on a date with some random other guy. About a week later I get a call from a friend I haven't heard from for a while and I am asked if I am still with her because she fucked one of his friends.

So basically I got dumped for being two jealous and not trusting her to not fuck other guys and then within the first two weeks of us being broken up she fucked 3 guys that I know of. Possibly even more.

It was devastating because I really loved her. Changed everything I believed about females forever and made me a different person no longer capable of loving. Traumatised.

You didnt get dumped because you weee too jealous, you got dumped because your ex was a whore who wanted to sleep around. Dont let her swing this around on you.

Because we love each other. She deals with it more than me. It's not like I grovel on the floor apologising every day.

I love her, and she me, and we can look past this mistake.

Yeah obviously. She wanted to "find herself".

She told me she wanted to fuck her boss to upset me on purpose and then used me being upset as an excuse to dump me and go fuck her boss.

Manipulative sociopathic behaviour.

Aren't you worried that she will use it as an excuse to cheat on you one day?

Damn, thats terrible. But like previously said, don't blame yourself, u dindu nufin.

Reminder that robots can talk about permanent damage to family relationships as well. Since most of us never had gfs

I dont blame myself. I just don't get that feeling since that happened. You know when you are young and you see a girl and she is so beautiful and you feel lile she is pure and the one you are meant to be with and you want to marry her, have kids, you would do anything for her and when you are with her you get butterflies in your stomache and you eant to be around her 24/7. That's how I felt and then she got a new job and all that happened and I have never felt like any woman was pure since. I can't really love like that anymore. Completely over it and jaded. Thinking about that girl just makes me feel disgust and loathing.

>be me
>be retarded
>starts a relationship by web
>we gonna still do this till we got sufficient money to buy a house and live together
>month laters
>find someone really cool in weebs
>she become my web gf's best friend
>we talk a lot
>her city is even more close over my gf
>she become even more confidential
>she have never told me she liked me
>year later, she did everything to break up my relationship
>get angry, blocks her in every social midia
>years later she take another number and says its my last chance to try to understand
>i accept
>we start back talking
>months later i realise i'm in love with her
>she likes me back, but she got a bf
>bullshit, not much happens till a month
>month later i was too blind trying too get free from every bullshit
>said i would give her a bday gift, and we could finally hang out someday
>she refuses the gift, for some crap reason
>in tears, i get angry
>"you would accept if was the loser of your bf instead"
>she get mad at me
>stop talking
>depressed
>weeks later i apologise for stupid shit, i become too fucking addicted to her that i couldn't stop to talk to her for a minute
>she accepts, but i can see we are slowly moving away
>her bf doesnt pleasure her no more, she start abuse shrooms
>didn't want to, but at tears 3AM typed a text like "I love you af, but don't want to see you slowly dying no more"
>blocked her again
>year later regret
>I'm never going to be able to talk to her again.

She was pretty much the only girl that i could talk and be confident. Wasn't like a random thot, that bitch really broke me apart, since her voice still echoe in my head. Pic related is she..

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Wow. I can see how that traumatizes you if you really loved her.

mate... she raped you...

Are you even speaking english you normal nigger sack of shit. Fuck off and die back to reddi.t you fucking retard.