Big problem—can’t cum from sex. Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend, I can’t cum. I know people want to last long in bed, but this is a problem and it really frustrates me. I am straight and very comfortable in my sexuality, and I have no trouble getting or being aroused, but when it comes to mashing pissers, I can’t cum.
I started to fake it to give my gf that “made u cum” satisfaction. Fucking unheard of for a dude to fake an orgasm for a girl. Now, sex is one-sided, tiring, and frustrating, and I can’t enjoy it.
I am on SSRIs, and I know those can fuck things up, but this is fucking insane.
I just need advice, and I don’t want to (can’t) pay a fortune for a therapist. Please for the love of god help me.
Why can’t I cum?
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Chances are, your death grip is tighter than your gfs pussy. Stop jerking it.
everything in your post is unrelated to fitness you fag
Fuck her hard and fast doggiestyle while imagining peeing inside her pusy
This and/or too much porn. You've conditioned yourself to only cum under very specific circumstances. Do nofap/noporn for awhile and see if things improve.
>I am on SSRIs,
>I don’t want to (can’t) pay a fortune for a therapist.
How?
auto refilled prescriptions I’ve had going for a while.
It happened to me with my ex, the problem was her, she was awful in bed and I ended like you, with one sided sex until I decided to break up and I realized that I didn't like her and wasn't in love.
Josh Potter?
Aside from the discussion of sexual health, you cuntbucket
It's definitely the SSRIs, bro. Try changing medications, sexual side effects are more common with paroxetine and fluoxetine than with desvenlafaxine or Escitalopram to give you an example.
I really don’t want to say that’s it right now, but some part of me says it’s it.
Get off your meds! Read every fucking self-help book you can find if necessary, try every diet you can find (your gut bacteria has a huge impact on your body/hormones), go to self-help groups or some shit, but stop taking those pills as fast as possible. It is not only you sex life that is affected. Your whole daily experience is getting numbed. Every feeling, good or bad, horrible or awesome, is getting numbed.
SSRI's definitely but try to focus on what your dick is feeling when you want to cum too
shes boring
I was on Prozac, had the same issue. ask if you can get your meds changed.
also don't jack off if you do, the change in hormones really fucked me up bad when I was taking the meds.
Yeah I’m on Fluoxetine, but it might be difficult for me to change prescriptions for reasons I’d rather not get into.
What the fuck? How common are those meds in Murrica? I've met only one person in my lifetime taking some SSRIs.
Shut up you hippie I have actual depression not just “I’m sad” meme depression
Beats me, I just have depression.
Could be the jew drugs but i had the same problem until i met my wife. Turns out I just didn't have a connection with the other chicks and my dick knew it
Doctors are paid to push them on the gullible, so every girl is on them especially every girl that uses dating apps. If you meet a girl on tinder, she is in mindvirus drugs.
SSRIs destroy your brain.
stop watching porn, stop death gripping, jack off no more than twice a week, wean yourself off your ssris
Can’t be doing that much harm, I’m already retarded
Yeah, that's what 90% of our generation tells themselves, encouraged by pharma, media and the whole victim society today. Depression today used to be a bad week for my grandpa. Nowadays people act like they have PTSD for life because some weirdo sat next to them on a bus. Fuck you, I was serious about my advice because I know how this shit fucks up people.
You being so flippant about SSRIs is concerning but not surprising. Sorry you got jewed, watch our for "brain zaps."
>I am on SSRIs, and I know those can fuck things up, but this is fucking insane.
You may have permanently eliminated your ability to orgasm by taking these kike pills.
I wish I was joking.
*out
it's either the drugs or too used to fapping
stop taking the drugs for a few months and see if it helps
so is Jow Forums always this bluepilled and retarded? I'm seeing shilling for big pharma SSRIs and unironic support for trannies in other threads. wew
It's the SSRIs. I have been where you are. As long as you're on them, forget orgasm.
can confirm. really hope you can get off them OP, some of my darkest days were when I was on SSRIs.
Ok I get it I’ll just flush my pills down the shitter.
SSRIs fuck the brain up OP. Drop them and just start light running, it works wonders.
Literally everyone is telling him to stop taking them dipshit
Stop taking SSRIs you absolute brainlet
Stop being a depressed pussy and fuck the pussy.
i am trying my best
If you don't carefully, slowly taper down your dosage you will end up in a bad way. Do not flush medications down the toilet, look up how to safely surrender meds to approved disposal sites. We don't need any more crap in the water.
>Taking medical advice from morons on 4channel.org over trained medical professionals
fuck them fish
YEEEAAAAAAAAH BUUUUUUUUDDDDDYYYYY
It will fuck you and people along with the fish.
>flushing anti depressants into the water
Great idea you fucking moron, guess what your children will be drinking in 20 years?
I have wanted to stop them for a while this is just the last nail in the coffin
>big problem
debatable
no, take them if you need them, these niggers aren't shrinks, but at least make an attempt to do better on a lower dosage. you don't want to be that numbed up forever.
No porn is a good idea as is no jacking for a while
But this is a known and obvious side effect of many Ssris, in fact sometimes they are even used at a low dose for premature ejaculation
t MD hear about this all the time
Just because you don’t get laid doesn’t mean those who do don’t care dawg
I've had this problem since forever. If I go a couple weeks nofap then I'll cum, so I have to anticipate the sex. Never came from a blowjob before though which is annoying but I've been close.
have you tried going cold turkey on porn?
Yes, I can do it for a few days then it gets tough. Tried to save porn at least for weekends or stick to vanilla stuff. But I never manage for long. Best thing I can do is be in public as much as possible where I can't just spend hours looking at porn.
I dunno use Hentai so you aren’t used to actual women? beats me
there's no mystery to these sex issues. everyone's tired, addicted to porn or taking psych meds.
people need to learn to masturbate without porn. jack off once or twice a week and cut porn out permanently.
Gravure m8
this thai fisherman net fix forum has helped a lot of people
>listening to dr noseberg and his zombie pills
i couldn't cum at all on ssris, it took like 5 hours.
stop jerking off. i had to nofap before i could cum during sex
I agree with what you say but try to not come off as a boomer next time