I am absolutely addicted to porn and can't give it up, it's just too delicious to me. I have given up practically all vices, and I live a disciplined, sober, responsible and empathetic life dedicated to my family and friends and making the most of my time on this earth, and I feel like the only thing keeping me back from my ideal life is my crack-addict like binging on porn at least once a week. I have gone several months on nofap/noporn, and I've learned how to mostly maintain the benefits of it despite my relapses, and basically I'm stuck in this limbo where I believe I need to stop looking at porn, but at the moment it's not ruining my life and in fact my increased fitness and (most of the time) abstinence make watching porn so much more exciting, decadent, rich, etc. I feel like I've cheated the system, and I can keep myself generally happy and focused despite this vice, but I know that's not how the world works and I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop.
I don't want to hear a word from brainlet 20 year olds who have never even given nofap a try and think they know anything about life, nor do I want to see jamie lewis' shitspam, but I want to know from mature men who have experienced success, raised families and lived life; what am I giving up down the line by watching porn? How is it going to affect my life? Is it really possible to be as addicted as I am to that big ass dopamine rush and still live a happy, successful, noble life? Am I condemning my future children to a life of addiction if I can't prove I can break my own?
The only thing that helped me personally was buying a sex doll. It feels so much better that I just fuck it every few days instead of jerking off or looking at porn.
Jaxon Bell
Imagine how good it will feel when you catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror while fucking it
Chase Gutierrez
One friend put it like this: you watch porn to enjoy yourself. Porn isn’t inherently a bad thing, certainly it’s not ideal and understandably shameful, but it helps to understand yourself from an animal perspective.
As I said, porn isn’t necessarily bad, but it is if you make it bad. Anyways, I’ve personally moved towards more vanilla stuff over the years, more to still pictures of hot babes. I don’t feel weird about these at all. I also try to avoid porn when I can because it helps me feel better about my sexuality.
Be sure to have women in your life too man. Join a club or dance once a week or something. It’s good to crush on hot babes irl.
Once a week is not a fucking addiction are you retarded? 3 times a day is addiction tier, hell the bare minimum would be once a day.
During spring and summer I masturbate twice while at work (8-4 job) and once, sometimes twice home. This is coupled with 2,3 times sex a week in the evening with the wife.
I don't necessary watch porn every time i do it though.
Don't see it as a problem really. I go to the toilet and do my thing for 10 minutes and get back to my day. The problem was when i was living alone and i would have 3 hour long masturbation sessions almost every day, coupled with another 1 hour session. I literally spent half my day masturbating and my dick was legit injured all the time i couldn't even have normal sex.
tl;dr you are fine, still.
Bentley Hughes
i used to masturbate 2-3x a day to porn until i got a gf. then i just started having sex instead and there were no problems. still jerk it like once or twice a week though. glad i never became a self-loathing nofapper.
David Lewis
I actually busted out laughing at this
Henry Ross
Try watching porn and jerking off but without reaching orgasm. You will suddenly realize that by not indulging in the immediate fulfillment of pleasure you can learn to discipline yourself. If you keep this up for a while you will gain a lot of control over your body and your test will rise given that your body doesn´t produce as much prolactin.
At that point you learn to give away this jew induced mentality of watching fucked up shit like incest or cuck things, because you can now get hard just by seeing a picture of a girl.
I believe softcore is okay, mainly nothing that has another mans dick in it. Ideally you should stop, but It's just like alcohol or any other drug really. It can fuck you up, but with control and moderation it won't really do any harm.
Dominic Peterson
i think you are giving this too much thought. i used to jerk off all the time to not hook up with ugly women before going out. if you enjoy it why deny yourself? society is what makes it seem like porn/masturbation is taboo. in reality everyone jerks off, even monkeys.
Jaxon Campbell
There's nothing wrong with looking at porn, just don't get caught. As you age, eventually your body will run out of energy and you won't need to browse porn anymore.
Luke Miller
Same. Cigarettes, caffeine, weed, alcohol? Easy. Porn? Fucking impossible. Even if I make it one week without fapping I’m probably looking at some or edging during that week some nights. The strange thing is that it seems to take over your mind, you indulge a little bit and it tricks you into wanting it so much more. If you go a few days without looking or masturbating, suddenly porn becomes quite disgusting.
I believe that the change comes from there. Afterwards you have to try to eliminate sexual thoughts that could lead to jerking off. I also find I have some personal triggers that make me look at porn, like failure or loneliness. I started looking at porn when I was ten years old, so it’s a bitch to fight off.
Liam Young
That's what we called a life lesson in my day. A real game changer. You're either gonna like it, or you're never gonna do anything sexual for a long long time.
Samuel Jenkins
I would generally agree but for me and most people that are in /noporn/, once a week is enough to give me ED
Parker Hall
tldr; just blue ball yourself
Landon Nelson
It's not that good user, I wish I could be like you but watching porn no longer makes me hard. I'm in 35 day of nofap and it is not worth it. I want to be horny again
Is no fap really not that hard for anyone else? I relapsed like maybe thrice after committing to no fap and have not faltered since. You can do it op just keep yourself busy and tired. Maybe switch up your routine to disrupt your cuck masturbation habit.
you're flatlining you retarded fucking brainlet piece of shit. you are so fucking damaged that not jerking off is fucking up your mind. stop trying to force a boner you fucking idiot
Asher Harris
massage your balls/prostate and do kegels twice a day
Have sex. Unironically. Ideally in a loving relationship.
Colton Kelly
I’ve been with a couple average normal looking women but can’t get erect. Even when I’ve given up porn for weeks or months I don’t get aroused. Are the girls not hot enough to turn me on or do I have performance anxiety because of how inexperienced I am? If porn’s killing your sex drive or interfering in relationships then I say give it up. Before I started pursuing women I just watched all the time to kill my sex drive. Nowadays I don’t but still no luck in bed.
Josiah Howard
Porn turned you gay. Just start sticking things in your ass and you’ll be fine.
Joseph Cox
But I jerk off to big booty women twerking.
Jace Price
I’m on nofap and have screamed into pillows until the urges stop
Leo Martinez
if you’re satisfied fantasizing and jerking off to hot women and if you can’t get a hot woman then why stop?
William Brown
Bro, i have the same fucking problem. I had a girl naked in my bed, literally asking me for dick, and my dick did not get hard. At the time, i had a month and a half without watching porn or masturbating. I did not know what to make of it. I thought about going to the doctor, but i feel that i'm too young to start taking pills. What do my bros from Jow Forums have for me?
Christian Martin
>women detected I'm sure you will too feel good too when you realize the sins you do and then compare yourself with saints. I'm sure you will be fine, LOL.
Adrian Anderson
i go months without looking at porn and then for like a week i binge to instathots and tiktok thots. nothing with another dick in it tho honestly compulsive porn use is just a symptom of not getting laid, and the worst thing about it is that it destroys your motivation to go out and get laid. i wouldnt say its life ruining unless youre like this guy
Gavin Barnes
It's because you started respecting women too much. I'm not even kidding it's happened to me. Before you bang her just think about how it's someones daughter, some guys sister, somebody's ex and how you're gonna rail them like a little fucking slut :)
Xavier Ross
And OP, get good at talking to actual women and only fap to bikini pics etc. Your life will become glorious
Joshua Russell
I had kicked my porn habit, that's when I found out about Milfy City(game). It also made me go back to searching porn and finding out there's a ton of quality amateur content that I had no idea of before, which is awful because the fake pornstars had helped me quit it.
Eli Murphy
Yup. Don't think about what she wants. Who cares. Think about what you want and what feels good to you in the moment. You know how when you watch porn you get really into it and think "yeah bitch suck on that dick"? Get in that same mindset when with a girl.
Do that a few times and then you can ease yourself into caring more about what she wants too.
Ian Bailey
Not op, but most women are really fucking boring. The downside is that this made me stop talking with them, and I am now nearly full autist. I refuse to watch a bunch of shitty netflix shows and listen to crap music to appease them, I have self respect.
Nathaniel Diaz
Beta. I forced my girl to learn MTG with me and made her watch Startrek:TNG. If she likes you then she won't care if you don't like watching netflix or listening to rap music.
Benjamin Reed
I’ve taken viagra but it just gave me a headache. You gotta be turned on by her looks or thoughts or words or something. So it’s mental.
Angel Collins
I don't think a lot of people realize this but this is actually a good thing. I've told my girl before that onaholes just feel better than pussy and now it's like she's got something to prove every time we have sex.
Women LOVE feeling like they have men by the balls, so once you drop the hint that you really don't care about getting laid, you control the relationship.
Carter Cooper
Except I don't have a gf, I'm not gonna force random chicks into having acceptable taste. Before you can mold her, she must be bearable.
Leo Wilson
This is a completely normal response, huh?
Brayden Roberts
Your mindset is wrong. Until you consider porn "good" or even "pleasurable". You'll never get rid of it. Also, stop saving pictures of whores, you fucking subhuman retard
Dylan Clark
The same way you rid yourself of any undesirable habit or addiction.
>1. Quit cold turkey. >2. Fight through the initial stages of pain and withdrawal. This may last from weeks to months, depending on how damaged you are. >3. Incorporate your new habits over the course of this time.
The general rule is to starve out any craving with complete abstinence, then stamp out any remaining resistance with your preferred habit or practice. Think of it as a siege against your own biology. Remember, the pain means you are reversing the damage you've done to yourself. It is necessary.
K I L L T H E P A R A S I T E W I T H E M P T I N E S S
>Cigarettes, caffeine, weed, alcohol? Easy. Porn? Fucking impossible but nah porn isn't addictive guyz. Porn is most addictive drug because its normalized and easily available. You still need to buy heroin and people society discourages heroin addicts, but porn? lmao there are plenty of scientists and other authorities encauraging porn addiction.
Owen Cook
The relapse binge. I know that feel bro.
>Nofap for 2-3 weeks >Start edging because it feels good >Dick too sensitive because no fap and I accidentally relapse >Next day just say fuck it and jerk off to glorious porn like 5 times in 24 hours >Realize the nofap was actually working because I feel like shit after >commence another round of nofap >repeat
Porn can be a literal addiction. Either you know this and accept it, or you are in denial.
Anthony Martin
Porn is hard to quit because the evidence that it is bad for your health isn't as solid as other bad habits. Without that certainty, you return to it.
Thomas Long
hnnnnngggghhhhhh
Josiah Phillips
It is, my prostate sometimes felt swollen after long sessions, so I don't do that shit anymore
Jacob Gomez
facts right here
Jacob Miller
Check out the app Fortify. It's a pretty comprehensive program to tackle the addiction. I've done a lot better since using it
Ethan Morales
You have to replace it with something else. That is the most effective way to "break" an addiction (technically you aren't breaking, just changing it to something else). There is plenty of studies to back this up
Nathaniel Russell
>tfw I will never be bbc860 who literally gets paid by guys (and girls) to fuck their wives, girlfriends, and their daughters
Lucas Moore
>Fortify they ask you to sign up, cuck shit.
Luke Jenkins
Why does Jow Forums obsess over this stuff?
Ethan Taylor
>I masturbate twice while at work (8-4 job) and once, sometimes twice home based
Kayden Ortiz
I forced my gf to learn how to play games on the computer together and when I’m done painting my warhammer armies I’m going to force her to learn and play aswell
Jayden Walker
this grill looks abysmal
Kevin Smith
How about you stop asking us questions and give back for once? Whats your top 5 girls you jack it to that look like the photo you posted?
Aaron Kelly
she's a disgusting brazilian
Josiah Adams
Nah I know the Jews are lying to me about how it isn't bad, I just can't stop.
Henry Cooper
I'm a 35 year old man with two kids and an ex-wife. Porn never affected my social life one way or another. I watch it regularly and masturbate about four times a week and have been since I was about 12 years old. If it isn't affecting your social life, there's nothing to worry about. I don't know who jamie lewis is, but I can guarantee you that Nofap is a virgin cope meme and I've literally never met a socially healthy person who's taken it seriously let alone considered actually trying it.
If you have an actual addiction to porn that's negatively affecting your social life, obviously this is what you're giving up; a social life in its entirety including friends, relationships, potential marriage and children, etc. If you're ok with this fact, and ok with the idea that you'll never have these things unless you seek real help for your addictions, then whatever man. Those who don't want help can't be helped.
Charles Gray
Post body
Tyler Morgan
Don't worry man I am to. I have no idea what to do. I've tried giving up quite literally a million times by now just to continuously fail over and over. It honestly feels like a curse. I don't know how so many guys can claim to get girlfriends and easy sex yet abuse tons of porn. I'm thinking they are either lying or they just aren't getting with high quality beautiful women. I also do think most of us guys want to fuck girls like in these porno's and for the vast majority of guys that just isn't possible. Anal sex isn't as spontaneous as porn movies will depict so its actually near impossible to have a lot of these crazy type of sex acts you see in porn movies anyways. I don't think most girls will want to be mouth fucked until they puke. This is something only really achievable for a guy if you are a male pornstar. Maybe if you are extremely lucky you can get a hot girlfriend willing to do it but as I said, most guys aren't getting this no matter how much they say otherwise. So its so largely fantasy based. It fucks with your head because on one hand you know its possible since porn is about real sex between real people but a lot of it is extremely abnormal fetish type sex that I know for a fact many guys would want. I know I fucking want to experience it that's for sure. This is why porn is so damn addicting. No matter how much pussy a guy says he could slay the point is irrelevant because porn is just so easily accessible, abundant and appealing that it shouldn't be a surprise so many guys are hooked.
I just got done blowing yet another of many loads to Bobbi Starr here. Her alone in the dark scene. In less than an hour I see OP's pic and find myself staring at that ass despite the fact I should feel satisfied with myself. Porn isn't just addictive, its a way of life. A demon I'd even say. And that is why we need to all stop watching so much porn.
>Anal sex isn't as spontaneous as porn movies will depict so its actually near impossible to have a lot of these crazy type of sex acts you see in porn movies anyways. My gf loves anal and sometimes prefers it. >I don't think most girls will want to be mouth fucked until they puke. Gf does lol.
Guess I’m a pornstar now xD
Adrian Wood
Post body
Logan Hughes
Post proof or just STFU. This normie trolling on here is so tiring.
Naa Mmm all I have is videos and pics of fucking, her pussy dripping, some deepthroat, toys in her ass, whipping, hot wax, her being tied up.
That good enough?
Ryder Diaz
Yes good enough. You also need to prove your claim that she is willing to gag until she pukes like some facial abuse whore. These are your claims here now not anyone else.
Zachary Rivera
Damn this feels very relatable.
The only time in my life when I manage to go past 3 weeks was when I had a gf (didn't need porn at all)
I'm quite stable now (1-2 times a week - "regular" porn) but cant seem to get fully rid of it and just the though of being too week-willed to give it up makes me ashamed. I don't think it's that bad but I hate myself for knowing I can't quit and while I can cope I'd love to be able to not have to.
