Okay lifting is going great, but how do you get over that crushing feeling of social isolation?
Okay lifting is going great, but how do you get over that crushing feeling of social isolation?
Camden Murphy
Connor Baker
I don't know man, I'm just so fucking sad all the time. The only moments I'm not are when there's 200kg on my back.
Ian Gray
Gf
Caleb Peterson
either learn to enjoy solitude (godmode) or go get laid kid
Camden Cook
It can be hard but try and make some good friends or even a single friend. Or a girlfriend, very close companions can make a huge difference (if you dont already have them) if you do then maybe try and build better relationships with them doing things you actually enjoy together rather than alone, and that doesnt have to be
>yolo we are going sky diving together!
I've been with my gf (now wife) for ten years and our favourite thing to do together is probably play crash team racing on the sofa desu
Jeremiah Martin
>Need to be happy to get a gf
>Need a gf to be happy
WTF
Dominic Lopez
I dont know faggot, after doing all this meme shit, lifting weight, nofap, cold showers, etc... now im just angry all the time and want to destroy females cunts like a brick wall with sledge hammer raw, i hate people more then ever even tho im social more, and i hate women, but im fucking love myself and im just now acknowledge what a fucking beast im gonna be more few years.
Jordan Brown
Learn friend game
Basically, people want to be your friend, but they don't want to feel like you NEED them as a friend
Some basic ways to fix this:
>Qualification
This is the most important, make people feel like they qualified to hang with you. It doesn't has to be a big thing, just a little "you're cool", to let them know you don't automatically like everyone, leading into:
>Disqualification
DO NOT appear like you just like everybody
To have friends, you must have enemies, never suck up to someone who is an asshole, it's gonna make your actual friends leave you
Xavier Green
Talk to people
Charles Thomas
I have a week off and my entire week is going to the gym and bjj. I have plans to hit the bar tomorrow with a buddy but man it’s been some boring ass days. Gym and bjj only take up like 4 hours of my day. Least my cut is easy this week not having to worry about work.
Jace Wright
You learn to live with it
Nolan Long
I got bored of playing with my gf because I fucking destroy her.
Christian Flores
>crushing feeling of social isolation
Not to be an edgy cool snowflake but anyone else not giving a shit about being alone?
Carson Perez
>he thinks there's a way out
Liam Edwards
You don't get over it. Just like you don't get over the crushing feeling of dying from dehydration when you are dying from dehydration. You get what i am saying?
Dominic Stewart
B&R
Dylan Myers
me. i feel great 95% of the time. if i go out once every two weeks im gucci
William Wright
>undersocialized for so long that it ruins your personality and ability to connect with people at all
i hit it off with qts & don't really have to try too hard to get dates but then i burn out after a few months or even weeks & just stop talking to them at all without even meaning to. is there a way to stop being like this?
Cooper Mitchell
who else
>early morning gym
James Cox
i don't op, i'm not even capable of coping with this shit anymore.
i iust want a friend, tired of being on the verge of crying all that time with that annoying sensation on my throat.
call me a faggot or whatever you people want, i've been friendless for 5 years and this is getting really into me.
Gavin Davis
tik tok for me, watching cute asians always cheer me up
Tyler Collins
By not being socially isolated?
I moved city recently at 31.
Made new friends by getting into a large co-rented house. Also from work.
But yeah co-rental is the shit. You get to meet other nomads like you, you know, people who didn't go the "marry at 22" road.
Isaac Edwards
Anthony Gomez
D&D
Matthew Edwards
You only feel that way because you are depressed and you think the things you lack are why you're sad, such as having no friends.
In reality you just don't appreciate what you have and don't focus on what you like and want to improve.
Go do what you want, improve yourself, be yourself. You don't make friends by trying to make friends, you make friends by being a person they can relate or look up to and you cant be that person until you fill your life with things you like.