Sup fags imma give it to you straight: sex ain't that great and if you fap with deathgrip you'll literally never enjoy it. Let me tell you why:
>Be me yesterday, a 24 year old virgin >Have had pics posted online on local hookup forum for my city, I'm 5'11 205lbs but am someone in between strongfat and bearmode, so I don't look terrible >Finally get a bite that pans out >Meet up with mid-20's chubby girl, I'm kinda into it >Massive tits, kinda wild >We talk for like 5 minutes, move to car and start making out, then get a cheap hotel for an hour >Make out some more >Suck on her tits >Finger her She blows me, can hardly feel anything. 2nd blowjob I've gotten, same story both times. >Put on a condom, dick in vag woohoo I'm no longer a virgin >Hardly feel anything >Fuck for almost 1.5 hours, she rides me for a few minutes as well >Can't cum >She cums multiple times and asks my why I can't finish
Don't jerk off with deathgrip bois, it'll ruin the sensitivity of your dick and you'll never be able to cum from normal sex, much less a blowjob. Quit jerking off to porn, and use lotion and a very light grip when you masturbate. Also quit being autistic and just go out and talk to women, talk to ugly ones you wouldn't fuck to increase your confidence and then talk to ones you wanna dick down. ALSO, an emotional connection will probably help much more in enjoying sex, don't get caught up in hedonistic hookup culture because it was unfulfilling af.
Good luck my fellow Jow Forumsizens, we're all gonna make it.
Some of this is true. Most particularly the part about sex requiring an emotional connection; it's essentially trash otherwise, and not worth it.
Please continue to make it, brah
Jacob Roberts
user im sorry, you're gay.
Gabriel Kelly
R u retarded m8
Thanks man, slowly approaching 2pl8 bench and working on rehab for my REKT back. Yeah I've never been in love, I wonder what the sex would be like. I probably still wouldn't feel anything physically from deathgripping my dick. Been doing some research and the only way to fix this is to not jerk off for like 3 weeks and then never deathgrip again.
Only 4 u bb
Jeremiah Howard
Had the same experience the first few times, you keep going it'll get better.
Charles Garcia
I litterally have been jerking off dry for the last decade and I'm a virgin, will I make it??
Austin Cruz
>fap with deathgrip GUILLOTIIIIIIINE YUH
Ayden Gray
...are you circumcised?
Jace Nguyen
This is what I expect partially also, thanks buddy.
Bro. STOP. Holy fuck you'll never make it it'll feel like you're wagging your dick in the wind the first time you get a blowjob stop man get some fucking lotion
trips of french revolution
Yes I'm cut, why do you ask?
Aiden Jackson
Try setting the bar for yourself a bit higher. Having a pixie wheyfu force you to make her be a weighted hip thrust with a pussy that feels like a vise grip clenching your penis is extremely chill.
Isaac Fisher
That does sound pretty good. Given that I was 24 and still a virgin, I saw the opportunity to fuck and I took it. Once I move out I'll have more opportunities, I'm just glad I got some practice in.
Aiden Thomas
>Fuck for almost 1.5 hours, she rides me for a few minutes as well >She cums multiple times I kinda want this part tho
Parker Ross
Op my first time was a condom deathgrip disaster. 70 minutes straight pounding, so I nofapped till I met with her again and came in under a minute. Also you're a virgin until you rawdog a girl
Lucas Adams
Yeah sure that was great, but the problem with that is that I never finished at all, and only felt close to cumming once.
Just learn to use your hands and you can make a girl cum fairly easily, even if you can't fuck her to orgasm. There are plenty of tutorials on youtube or pornhub.
Jace Bennett
Yeah I plan to nofap until I meet her again as well. Your second point makes no sense but sure
John Morris
Hey OP had to go through the same thing don't worry you can over come this. It took me 2 months of consistent no fap and not watching porn then I FINALLY was able to bust in my gf. It took a lot of mental focus too. The hardest part is staying consistent once you finally do cum from sex; don't fap frequently. Remember the ultimate goal is to cum as God intended so keep your eyes on the prize. Cumming from sex feels amazing, so much better than your hand.
Appreciate the encouragement man, hopefully it doesn't take me 2 months but we'll see what happens. Glad things are going well for you in the bedroom.
Jaxson Clark
Dude chill it is literally your first time, the first time is akward for almost everyone in the world, the fact that you are just losing it 24 probably triggered some of your isecurities making it harder for you to enjoy it
i lost it at 20 im 22 right now, yeah the first time i didn't feel that much but by the third time i learned that skinny girls with small breast actually put way more effort into it, i bet the chubby girl just wanted you to do all the work, sex is way more enjoyable when both sides are doing their best
like, yeah it is a good idea to stop fapping, but also don't worry, you will enjoy sex more the more you do it
Thank you. Yeah by the time I finally lost my virginity i had been deathgripping for about a decade so nofap took some time to work. Don't give up, it will be worth it.
David Nelson
I don't use lotion anymore because I can't afford it, last thing I used was toothpaste a decade ago and my dick felt like I was getting an intense freezing sensation, it felt terrible, now I just jerk off raw for at least an hour since I have to find good material and then cum, my dick is already used to it, I've ripped my skin and bruised my dick so many times that I'm used to the pain and no more dick cut open
Jack Watson
>24 decide to go gym to fix my khhv status >26 still khhv but now with 5pl8 deadlift for reps
bittersweet feel
altough lately one super sweet thin and very short girl was eyeing me at gym, body of a underage, but she is 18+
Jackson Miller
Yeah I didn't expect my first time to be rose petals and angelic choirs, I would definitely like to gain experience with different women.
I think a big part of my issue was performance anxiety/deathgrip fapping, but with a partner I'm really attracted to and more comfortable with I could definitely see sex being more pleasurable.
>can't afford lotion >destroys dick Dude you are fucking yourself over big time, also how can you not afford lotion?
Ryan Cook
She’s perfect user
Jackson Torres
>don't get caught up in hedonistic hookup culture because it was unfulfilling af.
very important takeaway. I lost my virginity to a woman I didn't really like, just wanted to do it (late bloomer). Looking back I kinda wish I had that "first love" that I could have done it with, but ironically being a late bloomer helped me avoid a lot of hang ups about sex ppl I know got when they start too young and dont understand boundaries/communication.
Hudson Rivera
>Sup fags imma give it to you straight lol don't. Im 28, rejected by every single girl I have ever approached and recently I decided to try dudes. I have never felt been attracted to men but 28 yo is way too old to be alone. wish me luck fags.
What's your body type, are you in decent shape? Also, if you guys finish your workout at the same time, or you're both taking a break at the same time, just go over and introduce yourself. Do this >Smile, extend hand for handshake >Hi, I'm user >Keep a gentle hold of her hand while she introduces herself >Make small talk about what she's lifting, what lift she's doing, something she's wearing (non-sexual comment), a shared experience (man the music in here sucks right now, who picks this?) >She'll probably laugh, maybe makes a joke back >This is your cue >Yeah, well listen I've noticed you working out a few times and I think you're pretty cute, would you like to go out for a drink/coffee/a bite to eat sometime?
If she says yes, get her number and try to set a date and activity right then. If she says no, say no problem, wish her a good day/night, and fook right off m8.
Isaiah Hernandez
I didnt cum my first time as a 16 year old despite fucking for like 20min, i dont think its that uncommon
Carter Taylor
If you're getting rejected by every single girl you meet, dont become a fag. Better yourself and try again.
Camden Peterson
Don't worry dude my dick still works
Oliver Sullivan
Yeah, it's a mixed bag to be a late bloomer. I do feel like I missed out on first love/teenage love, though, but no way to change it now. Hmm, makes me feel a bit better. Thanks user This. Will it work inside a woman though?
Nolan Garcia
looks wise she is but im afraid shes kinda like a typical gymthot Will do set of x on legpress / cable rows then browse phone for 15min. She is also attempting to become a PT or something in future since she ist assisting / observing PT guys during the 1 on 1 sessions with clientelle
Ive seen her glancing at me all the time, then mimicking same exercises ive been doing and in general hanging out around me. She mired the fuck out of my deadlifts and squats (theres only one guy i have ever seen that squatted more than me, some strong latvian lad, and i DLmog entire gym ez)
I spoke to her once about gym shit, because chain is getting taken over and used it as excuse to talk, so she explained nicely to me how it goes.
she is not receptionist
im 6'2 lanklet , broad shoulders and by normie standards jacked / builtfat, face wise im like uglier Ryan Gosling, and acting like him in Drive movie
Chase Evans
I had the same problem, I would fuck girls for hours and wouldn't be able to cum. Eventually you get used to it and can cum normally, if anything it's given me more control. I'd hate to be those fags who cum 1.5 seconds after duck in vag in comparison
Joshua Davis
Fuck man, I envy you. I blew after like 5 seconds when I lost my virginity. (3 years ago, I was 23, but admittedly with some anxiety issues which have since subsided for the most part.) Never used deathgrip but jerked off to porn A LOT. I wonder which one of these things was the key factor.
Jordan Smith
Yeah, it's just all about the friction, I'll fuck her for an hour or more and then jerk it off quickly and say I pulled out, easy
Aaron Taylor
How to heal dick after years of deathgrip?
Jackson Mitchell
Checked but literally this Keep up the small talk and be friendly, did this to some grill at the gym and now she’s the one to start up a conversation
David Rogers
>Better yourself and try again. I'm the kinda tired sleep can't fix bro. I really don't know what to do at this point. started dressing better, wore clothes that show off my gains, cut my hair nice and decent, i made mad progress talking to girls (yeah !), I got the stare for 2-3 seconds advice down to a science, I'm clear and straight to the point and still 70% "have boyfriends" 30% just don't even acknowledge im there... this picture, it fucking broke me.
one thicc girl i was into even started convo herself but shes occupied
amazing girl btw, id wife that in instant
Ian Kelly
I’ve never had sex but holy shit the other day >taking shower >grab bar of soap >slather some of it in my hand >get myself hard and start jacking it >feels so slippery and so good >go into overdrive, pelvic thrusts and legs are shaking >cum so hard I dented the tub
4real bros, shit was intense asf. Gonna do a week of nofap then try it again for that extra intensity.
All that sounds good user except the acting like Ryan Gosling in Drive part. Girl already likes you it seems like, you have nothing to lose by asking her out. If it goes well just ask her out to your place next time. It doesn't have to be serious.
John Thomas
>I'm the kinda tired sleep can't fix bro. I really don't know what to do at this point. Are you me?
what i mean by that i am quite introverted / neurotic, but im trying to work on that to be little bit more talkative
i just dont talk a lot ok and trying to not draw attention to myself Loud / very talkative people annoy me, especially when all their stuff is empty words that carry zero meaning or information
Isaiah Martin
Yeah but I don't want to have to jerk it with my hand to cum, I want to be able to cum just from penetrative sex, otherwise I'm just jerking off until I finish.
Joseph Long
>Post pic of yourself nope. no point either im just average.
Caleb Parker
I'm a split. Some times I can go for 2 hours chargin away Other times its toasty as fuck and go in 5 minutes There's no in between. I definitely know which one I prefer.
Try not touching your dick for like 2 weeks and see how good that shit feels when you nut after
Robert Edwards
>>She'll probably laugh, maybe makes a joke back >>This is your cue lel what a load of bs. in which planet does this even remotely happen ? chicks at my university gym are extremely guarded. they will give you a tight smile and then pick up their cell phone
Anthony Scott
everyone is fucking for 2 -3 hours holy shit I gotta up my game.
Nolan Hernandez
You're right. Yesterday in the shower i fingered my prostate while aiming the shower head on my balls while i jerked off, vagina hole can't compete man..
Gabriel Nguyen
I know it feels kinda weird to post a pic but I've done it before and it helped, I got good advice. The chance someone on here knows you IRL is vanishingly small. If you post a pic we could probably tell you if your looks are the #1 problem and tips to improve which is info that can only help you.
Zachary Miller
Have you tried Tinder or Bumble?
Michael Reed
>it'll ruin the sensitivity of your dick and you'll never be able to cum from normal sex it happened to me but worse cuz i was unable to maintean the erection. No fap, no porn, and penises stregght excersises.
Alexander Kelly
>sex ain't that great either you fucked a roastie with a loose pussy or your dick is small
Henry White
> It took me 2 months of consistent no fap and not watching porn then I FINALLY was able to bust in my gf.
How did she react? Did you explain things to her? My concern is if I get a gf and this shit happens to me, I am worried how things would proceed
