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Jow Forums how can I become able to pull a girls consistently when I go out?
I feel like I cant connect with them when im partying, i dont know how to go from talking with them to makingn out etc, otherwise ive been able to go on dates with girls and have some succes.
When i talk with girls at party's the conversation has no emotions,
Also these last couple of months my libido has been dead
How do I learn to properly kiss/make out with girls? Basically it fucks me up every time I go to festies, I can pull girls into dancing on me, but I have a lot of anxiety about going in for a kiss because every time I ever have in my life the girl backs off and tells me I don't know how to kiss. I don't know how to learn, I feel like I can't push for further intimacy until I get it down but I don't know how to practice.
I dont know an immediate answer but keep trying and a lot of stumbeling, falling and getting back up, we'll make it someday
i've decided to try and make my oneitis who probably hasn't even thought about me in years love me. how do i best go about this? become a green beret? a millionaire? extreme athlete?
That's a futile effort. You gotta get over her.
One of the most satisfying things for me was rejecting my former oneitis.
Think of it like gently massaging her mouth with your lips or tongue if she lets you get like that.
Oneitis is stupid and a waste of time
Move on. Theres someone out there for you..
I'm just going to go ahead and say it's very unlikely that anybody on Jow Forums is qualified to give anyone advice on girls. I say this as a 30 year old who has just come to realize the more I read about women online the less I actually know about them in the real world. Hell, I used to give advice to guys on dating forums when I was 19 years old and they actually believed what I was saying was good advice. Go and gain experience, keep gaining experience and reflect on what seems to work and what seems to not work then be prepared for no patterns to emerge at all because women are unpredictable and unique creatures.
But setting your life in order is always a good idea, in any regard.
You must accept that you In the beginning, while you’re still sharpening your game-blade, you’re going to strike out a lot.
DO NOT FEAR REJECTION
>How do I learn to properly kiss/make out with girls?
I've kissed a total of 4 girls. (2 literally last week in the same day) [And one of the 4 was just a lip kiss from a dare years ago]
The key is to kinda just do what they are doing I think.
If they kiss soft, you kiss soft, they go deep, you go deep.
Idk.
I'd say practice makes perfect. But it's hard to practice obviously.
That's the cool thing. I have been talking to other chicks lately and this is quite fucking awesome and an enjoyable experience
Kek. Do not worry about rejection
It's good to be rejected and better yet smile and say yea that's cool etc.. and yea I basically got rejected again but the experience itself by trying and putting yourself out there is the good thing
Dont give up
>You gotta get over her.
no
>Theres someone out there for you..
yes, her
Hahahahhahaaaaa
No fucking way. That is bullshit
Dont do this to yourself
This is what I am talking about!
(Me being Here is a man who admits to kissing 4 girls in his life and thinks he is qualified to give any information on the subject.
As someone who has kissed countless women and had long term relationships where we kissed upwards to a hundred times a day (one transpacific flight was spent kissing nearly the entire duration) I can say that there is no definite advice, every moment is unique. The best thing to do is be present, patient, sometimes yielding, sometimes aggressive, you must be sensitive and empathetic enough to read the moment and know what is right. Never just dive in with your tongue, only bite if it's already incredibly riled up and clothes are off, most of the time just a well placed, confident well held press of your lips against hers is enough, try to place the gap of your lips against the full of her upper lip or bottom lip. Opening and closing your mouth like a guppy is uncomfortable for everyone, sometimes you can grab a lip between yours and suck a tiny bit to create a vacuum, it's a very subtle art and something that can not be properly explained.
My advice is find a girl who likes you enough to want to put her mouth on yours very often and be cool enough to continue spending time with this girl, if she already loves you she won't care if you're a bad kisser and if she's good she'll give you tips and tell you the things that feel bad/good.
user find someone else.
The make the other girl jealous.
If she isn't jealous. Well, she never liked you, but at least you have a new girl.
Win-win.
>festies
my god
sick brag
Guy you are replying to. I said I think/idk for a reason.
I'm fucking clueless.
Luckily no one has said I was a bad kisser. (Or they liked me enough to put up with it?)
>only bite if it's already incredibly riled up and clothes are off,
Some girls like biting even with clothes on, I only know this recently because the girl I was with kept doing it to me, so I did it to her.
No you're wrong here. He doesnt need to make his oneitis jealous especially when there are others out there. If he tries to do shit like that he is wasting his chances with someone who probably actually wants him
Dont do this oneitis shit. It's a waste of time and energy which should be spent on others.
>goes to parties expecting to make out with herpes infested whores
>fails to do so
>go on a Tokyo ricebox forum asking for help on how to pick up sluts
Laffin@uM8
Raise your standards first.
>Dont do this to yourself
make me fag
i haven't talked to her in years. not sure she even remembers me. how do i approach her this time?
>youre not going to make it thinking like that man
>i haven't talked to her in years.
wut
>not sure she even remembers me
double wut
Forget what I said before.
You're just a weirdo if you do this.
But if you go through with it, post convo on her for our enjoyment
>not even sure if she remembers me
>desperately pining over some coal burner who literally complete forgot you existed
>lifting for a girl who will never love
>asking a Haitian Dice Trading forum for advice
Listen to the other people dude. Give this up, you’re going to realize how ridiculous the concept is that just this one, and only one girl is for you.
If you can get on dates you don't need one night stands, but if you really wanna pull girls when going out just get drunk and look for other drunk chicks
1st don't shove your tongue down her throat, matter of fact use lips only if girl stars using hers, you dont use tongue first time you kiss a girl dont be a retard
2.think of kissing like it's making hamburger so your lips are bread and her lip is meat that goes in between
3.CLOSED EYES
4. When kissing please do change between her upper and lower lip dont be a liptard
5. Always be in lead and confident, remember you're man
TIP for practice use your forearm or any other part of your arm
Get over her basically This guy is retarded