25 year old shut in neet

Work your way through this, friend (pic related).

Treat it like a to-do list.

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Thank you.
Hearing that from someone on this board really means a lot to me. Usually everyone is so cruel here.
I hope great things happen for you in this life.

What trade did you pick? And why?

Welding. I did metalwork in highschool and got a kick out of welding. Last construction site I was at I remember watching the welders and really liked the aesthetic of it all, also I've always been attracted to fire, heat, metal.
I figure it will suck like all jobs but I might be able to enjoy it more than electrical, plumbing, hvac etc
basically I just realizd I had to do SOMETHING, anything, so I said "fuck it I'll be a welder"

I had to start working at 15 to help family and not be homeless. Is there any start neet program? I’m tired.

Good choice, welders are always in demand and if you are good you will get paid good money

Confirming this. The welder I work with makes like $40/hr after expenses and taxes

Get a class A CDL and start driving trucks. I have no life but I'm making 75k a year without a degree. I have 80k in the bank at 26 and plan to quit trucking once I have saved up 120k so I can start investing in real estate. If you make it past your first year in trucking you can make a lot of money. A driver with 3-5 years of experience and a clean driving record and a few endorsements can easily clear 100k a year.

>mfw
>early 20s
>living with parents has emotionally crippled me
>every time im about to let go and move on, the pain of memories of me getting fucked up keep me in the spiral
How do i escape, it all seems fruitless, like these niggers killed my enthusiasm and i let them

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roll i guess

This is me. I also got abused sexually and raised fat. I just want out but its so expensive here.

>the pain of memories of me getting fucked up
Elaborate

I'm a 28 year old neet, I plan on getting fit, I live in a very small town.
I have gaps in work history, but I feel if I show up with a nice body, they'll be more likely to hire me.

If that fails I'll get my CDL or something.

Same boat here but i am 20 dropped out of college because I choose a field just for the sake of it but what has always kept me down is being poor and having really bad acne i cant believe im doing this to my parents they barely complete the mortgage every month and im here doing nothing i would legit kill myself if it would not crush my little sister and my mom.

I have keloids scar all over my back and chest and deep scars on my face ive lost interést in girls since my ex and last gf left me for my acne...

It pains me that i grew UP to be this person..

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not a NEET but pretty much.

>lose friends in HS
>become miserable and asocial, push more people away
>go to college, still asocial, do poorly due to misery of isolation
>can't get into graduate programs so working pathetic job while living with parents for nearly 5 years since college but i do pay them rent
>constantly annoyed with people, but want to be with/like them, but then act completely aloof
>friendless and permavirgin which makes me too ashamed and self-conscious to meet people, literally stay in my room except for work or the odd solo activity i do
>miserable and hopeless every waking moment, no motivation for anything, have driver's license but terrified of driving

you find out OP you tell me. i figure suicide is my only logical end. cant wait till i get the balls to do it but im already 27

Well, what hobby are you picking?

bro your 20
your prefrontal cortex still has 5 full years of development left
stop being so hard on yourself and relax
enjoy life, you are still young, you will figure it out and everything will be fine.
don't spend your entire early 20's stressing out about shit, especially shit you can't control. I flunked out of uni when I was 21 and I ended up going back when I was 28. I'm doing fine now.

Just relax and start writing down goals and if you don't have any don't stress, just try to keep an open mind and keep doing shit.

Worst thing you can do is get yourself all bent out of shape and cocoon yourself in your room and not experience life.

It's all part of the ride. Just keep it moving and try to learn from your mistakes. It's what humans do.

what kind of site do you work on?
that's good to know, I have always been able to excel at anything I've dedicated a reasonable amount of time to. that has been a major hindrance of mine actually, I've always considered myself too good to really invest any time into anything; when I get it too quick I give it up as well.
Time to put on big boy boots and embrace the suck

>lie in bed
>good memorie about a girl i liked
>"why did i not try to go for it"
>remember how i didnt stand up to my cunt mom which led to me being unhappy sack of shit which in turn led to me not taking chances
>more and more of such cases keep surfacing up, blood boils
Basicly i hate that i suffered for nothing, all those youth years wasted just cause i didn't have a dad/guidence. Really it boils down to: do something manly (get ina fight i did not start) at home i am told i am at fault and how horrible of a person i am for being testosterone loaded. You know this shit stacks up and at some point i stopped taking risks

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bro, getting stuck in the past is like flailing in quicksand
when you find yourself dwelling in past events snap out of that shit and do something that brings you into the present moment
either meditate, sprint, workout, handstand, play guitar, go for a walk
anything to get you away from the past, or try to figure out where those memories spring from in the first place; study your mind like a fucking scientist, observe every aspect and break down what those feelings you get from said memories even are, what are the sensations you get from them?
detach as much as you can, you are not your memories, your memories are created in this moment
you can reinvent yourself at any point
get a job, leave home, change cities, forget your past identity
don't blame others for your problems, you create them and you create your solutions
you can do it, you're young

>bro, getting stuck in the past is like flailing in quicksand

how is it possible to live a completely worthless miserable life, go through teenage years, early 20s, mid 20s with no experiences, no sex, no relationships, no friendships, and not have that running in your mind every single second reminding you of what a miserable loser failure you are

This is exactly me. Thank you. Normal people will never understand this. I just want to kill myself everytime I think about this.

it isn't, but it's how you respond to it. think of mentally strong you will be if you find a way to get over all that shit. you'd be bulletproof. nothing would stop you.

It's not going to be easy and it might even take years but if you commit to it and perhaps even seek out professional help with the goal of absolving all your trauma (which is legitimate) and learning to deal with it in a healthy way, you can put it all behind you and live a life that you enjoy and feel proud of.

Go to the mun.
Or Yoker.
Pick your poison.

im 27. you're right, normal people will never understand. not an insult calling them "normal people", just have no other way to explain it. they are normal people, they have normal experiences and normal lives. thats just the wor di use.

they will give their empty platitudes, their empty advice, "dude if you need someone to talk to im here!" then not be able to relate to anything you say and be able to give you no real advice besides 'dude just b urself". then you get the added bonus of them deciding to stay away from you after hearing about it because they dont want to be associated with a loser like you

im dealing with that shit on a message board i frequent. its normie central, guys with the most incredible lives you can imagine. yet i still have to see them give their bullshit about how much anxiety they get, how depressed they get over literally nothing, like because they are home alone on a saturday night, or because their girlfriend is mad at them, or because they havent had sex with a month long dry spell. then i try to call them out on this, how the shit they complain about is so infinitesimal its infuriating, then they insult me and just call me a pathetic loser. because like always, the social losers are always the ones who get and deserve to be insulted because we are the bottom scum of soceity

Exactly. Normal people because there is no other way calling it. Well said. I just don't even want to meet anyone anymore. I'm 26 years old. The things I've been through fucked me up real good.

No offense, but you're not as special as you think you are.
You're articulate, and smart enough to know you've got a problem. I'm sure you've got other gifts. You are ahead of the game. Stop giving in to feeling sorry for yourself.
Make friends with yourself and get out there. Pick an activity that improves yourself and that might involve other people

im in a similar position. i dont feel like writing out my life story but i understand what youre writing and how theres no one to relate to. im making small changes to my life right now like fixing my diet and about to start lifting so i can hopefully clear my head.

im 30 now and can assure you that this will not get better. life is suffering. i dont have any advice. however, i can say that i havent given up yet. the reason is because i have experienced so much mental anguish for so long, i feel like i can overcome it that i will be unstoppable.

>i still have to see them give their bullshit about how much anxiety they get, how depressed they get over literally nothing,

shit like this reinforces my superiority complex. i think if i can just move on from my past, all this negativity will make the good things in life i have yet to experience so much better

God damn it, take ya ass to /sig/ and then ALL of you dipshits take ya asses off the fucking physical fitness board

This doesn't matter how much it pays you will get 4 things out of it
Cash
Understanding the value of a dollar
A reason to get up (some hopefully most days depending on hours) at a set time
A social group that will literally get reemed out if they don't accept you for "being you ®™"

>how is it possible to live a completely worthless miserable life, go through teenage years, early 20s, mid 20s with no experiences, no sex, no relationships, no friendships, and not have that running in your mind every single second

Easy. You simply think about something else. Take control of your own thoughts and focus them on the things that bring you joy, rather than the things that don't.

At the end of the day there is only here and now. Live in the present and only use memory and foresight as tools rather than dwelling in the past (or future)

Get a job or start working out right this second.

what about my post made me come off as "thinking im special"? about what? is it supposed to be me thinking that im "special" because im a huge loser and no one can relate to me or something? because im not trying to make it sound like im being "special", im just being honest about the situation we are in.

if a girl ever sees that you are a virgin past the age of like, i dunno, 20 or 21, youre dead to rights. everyone already uses virgin as an insult already. you think someone would want to be friends with you if they saw you have no friends? no they wouldnt. when normal people see people in a bad social situation, it draws them away from you rather than towards you. its all just a never ending negative feedback loop

>wwwaaaahhhhhhhhn no one will ever understand meeee
>waaaahhh it's so unfair
>waaaahhhhhhh other peoples probles don't count, mine are much more worse
>waaaaahhh

fucking manchild. stand up for yourself and stop bitching about everything. you are a man and you make your own decisions. no one will comfort you or spoonfeed you to have a good life, you have to take it yourself
B&R

>is there any "starting life" program?
Philosophy

believe me, i am well aware this will not get better. and while i like to think i will finally commit suicide by age 30 like you are now, i know i wont and i'll still be in the same worthless miserable situation.

>the reason is because i have experienced so much mental anguish for so long, i feel like i can overcome it that i will be unstoppable.

i can definitely see this point of view, i just have literally no faith in myself to even get close to overcoming it. in fact, i honestly believe that any chances i could have to overcome it i intentionally sabotage myself to prevent that awkward situation.

sometimes i really sit there and wonder how a normal person would react to having to live my life for a year, a month, hell even a week. just constantly being alone, having no friendships, no relationships, no one to talk to, no sense of purpose in your life. i feel like a normal person would fall into severe depression living like this for even a few weeks

Checked

>DUDE JUST BE YOURSELF YOU WHINY MANCHILD

Scarily accurate, but yes we both got fucked the same way. the scars never go away, just gotta keep moving
I'm a tough guy, its just there are moments, where you are drained and people keep on taking, shittesting etc. You see at work i am surrou ded by real men, it blows my fucking mind that in my age i actually have to work my way up there in manliness to just participate properly. Also i fixed myself as well as you can on your own senpai, this book aint no self help meme scam, its the real deal, still it does not replace the right peoply by your side you feel me
>"release your brakes, by jim newman"

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>if a girl ever sees that you are a virgin

Virginity is entirely conceptual. Nobody knows (or cares) that you're a virgin unless you proclaim that you are. For the lulz I've told a few girls that I'm a virgin during foreplay and all of them though it was funny and didn't even believe it.

>I can't go to the gym, people there will mak fun of me, fucking chads
>I don't talk to girls, therefore they don't like me
>I can't move out of my parents basement, I don't have any money
>I don't have a job because the requirements are to high

keep making excuses, but do us all a favour and neck yourself, or at least stop posting your defetist shit here. you are an educated adult. you could do everything you wanted. the problem is, that you don't go out of your way for it. everyone else is the problem but you.