So my girlfriend is now over 110kg and I'm finding it more disgusting everyday. Im not a bodybuilder or a fit person by any means either, but not fat either (179cm 84kg.) We started going to the gym about a month ago and made a promise to eat healthy. The problem is that she hasnt given up sodas, just drinks diet now. Puts mayo on normal home food and drinks juices with shitton of sugar. Every time i confront her about these things she starts saying she wants to do it her way aka. slowly giving up bad foods. I dont know if she will ever be skinnier. What do?
Girlfriend is a fatty
>but not fat either (179cm 84kg.)
user.....
Give her a realistic but still challenging weight goal one year from now and tell her you'll dump her if she fails to meet it.
The good thing is that if she flips out and call you an asshole you will immediatly know she has no intention of slimming down and can just drop her now.
Drop her you pussy
Fucking beta faggots having no standards
What's wrong with you, are you so afraid of being alone for a couple months or years that you'll commit to a shitty relationship with someone you find disgusting?
Because if yes, you deserve it
Worm
user wants the attention , what u need to do is stop being an attentionWHORE you faggot
OP how much do you love her? My advice is bail. if a heroin addict was slowly killing themselves with their addiction you'd leave, why should food be any different?
bro i'm 183cm and 86kg and i'm only a little bit fat
>what do I do?
Uh, user. You said this is your GF. You're not married and dont have kids, which means you are not stuck with her.
Leave the cow and find a fit girl that respects herself and you.
Listen to this user.
I did the same thing though she flipped out.
Bad part is I never left her.
Eventually we got married and then I divorced her as she kept getting fatter & fatter.
Fuck dude. This is what im scared of the most. Thanks for sharing your experience, this might help me quite alot.
This is my longest relationship (3years) and she is the girl that took my virginity. Also the first girl i have lived together with so theres some love left. Everything is fine except her lazy ass excuses and lazy behavior. It makes me sick.
You ok buddy?
keep letting her get fatter, once you get Jow Forums youll wanna fuck a fatty
I dont think so, ive been fucking a fatty for 2 years now
had experience with this. i honestly lost any sense of attraction and played around on her, then ended up leaving. I felt pretty good once i did even though i know im not a good person. I would say to confront her although i know how hard that is, but honestly it ate away at me and i had to leave. then again i just hate relationships in general.
>having a girlfriend
I shiggy diggy
post body or stop posting
Shut the fuck up faggot
Eh. People don't just magically stop being lazy. Losing weight while in relationship is also unmotivating.
Yeah im afraid thats pretty true.
My first wife was like this, she started ballooing a few months after we got married and pretty much stayed fat for the five years we were together, she resisted all my attempts to get her fit. Eventually i left her and she magically got fit for about a year then had a motorcycle accident and went back to being fat despite the doctor telling her the injury would have been much worse if she want fit.
I have been fit for years and now have a girlfriend 15 yrs younger who had me train her (jealousy cause women are always hitting on me in front of her)
Were both super fit and i couldnt be happier, ex is fat until this day
Why do women think it's acceptable to start piling on the weight in a relationship? If they got with a guy, and for some inexplicable reason he had a condition where he got shorter and shorter, you bet your ass that within months it would be "you're not the man I fell in love with" or "Sorry, I don't see why I should have to settle".
Unless this heifer is The One, or you have kids, or you are majorly financially codependent, take a "break" with a view to probably moving on. I mean, she's already demonstrated 1) she let's standards slip when the thinks she can get away with it 2) she only reluctantly makes a change when you make your feelings known and 3) she's already self-sabotaging doing things "her way" so in a few weeks she can say "see, I tried losing weight, I guess dieting isn't compatible with my genetics".
Move out, say you need "space to find yourself" and strongly hint that if she loses weight it would help get back the spark that you had at the start of your relationship. Meet other women. Chances are this fat pig won't change but at least this way you get a chance of seeing if the grass is greener.
Break up with her dude.
I hate fattys, I couldn't stand being with one
That Noom app is pretty good if she's an emotional eater. Make sure she pays for it though.
Rough dude, I threatened to dump my gf when she hit 55kg.
She hit the gym asap, took a notepad out and wrote down my meal plans. Back down to a better weight now. I'm a lucky dude.
Omg, have sex
>55kg
Are you with a 12 year old?
Dude what are you talking about? If you lift even a little bit that's not fat at all.
>I dont know if she will ever be skinnier. What do?
Get her pregnant and leave her, she's a lost cause.
People rarely succeed at diets, something like 5% will keep the weight off, either be ok with her now or leave.
>Pretty much this.
>if she's not listening, not your fucking problem
Dump the war pig OP, be done with it. Her obesity is not your fucking problem you thirsty cuck.
>120lb
>woman
They don't have much muscle if she's shorter than 5'6 that's significant weight.
>workout with gf
>tell her all the time that when she deadlifts the weight needs to be back on the floor for every rep
>she always lowers it and stops before it touches the ground and then lifts it back up again
>always tell her to stop that shit
>never listens
>complains of back pain
>does decline sit ups like a fucking weird retard
>tell her she looks like a weird retard
>tells me to fuck off everytime
>never changes the way she does it
shes going to strain her fucking neck
how tall is she?
Any tips on a routine for 50kg girl? All I can think of is squats and back extensions. Do I tell her to do any upper body? Pullups maybe?
>having a gf that weighs more than you
How can you even walk around in public with her
I fucking hate people like in OP pic.
Uhhhh I go to the gym, uuhhhhh i have to talk about it after one week of going there, please validate me. Im trying so hard, please someone give me attention.
Having her do memelifts is your fault Faggot. Why she is dead lifting I’ll never know. You stupid faggot.
That was never a problem for me. I even like a little chub but obesity is fucking disgusting. Now when she is too fat im disgusted and i feel disgusted in public too. She used to be like 70-80kg
>110kg
Bro what the fuck most gym goers would be proud to bench press her
Post thicc gf
t.wink
I know a 4'11 girl who works out and she's 47kg, what does that chick look like?
Have a skinny-fat gf who wanted to get slim. Got a treadmill. Shit just collects dust in our house, only been used several times.
this.