Sexual Health General

That’s the other thing: my face is chubby in all my old pics from when my wife and I were still dating. She says my face is more angular now. She also said something odd&disturbing about how she has to fall in love with my new face.

She reminds me of someone I dated, was really cool to talk to, had big tits, and said she was a sex addict. Pissed her off once and she went ice cold, not worth it.

? Are you sure you didn’t mean to write “latex”? Latex is in many condoms, not usually silicone. Silicone is is dildos.
Skyn condoms are nitrile, for those with latex allergies.

Also I forgot to add it's like I've never had sex before and I can't last at all.
So far she's been patient but I'm frustrated

Yeah I'm retarded
Having to go to work after having sex all night and getting like 2 hours of sleep

Normally I'd say the opposite but just jerk your dick off to the point where you get off fast doing that then vagina. Took me a long time to kick that habit and now I bust multiple nuts.

Not related tovsex yet, but im going on the first date of my life tomorrow and im kinda freaking out about it.
The girl has way more experience than me (kissless virgin) and im sure i cant live up to whatever expectations she has and itll be awkward and she'll never want to see me again.

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>can't last at all
>somehow has sex all night long

I'm entering monk mode. Making gains, but due to matters religious in nature, I have not been intimate in a few months.

You don't stay limp forever, retard.

havent had sex in 8 months because i dont put myself in many situations to talk to single women and i dont use tinder. i also find it very painful to talk to women unless they have interests that interest me. i cant pretend i give a shit about most of the things girls are into these days

>the things girls are into these days
Like what? I have never met a girl with a legitimate interest that wasn't involving pets, drinking, travel or spending someone else's money.

My friends with benefits stopped a few weeks ago. I loved her it was great sex almost every night.

I fucking miss it bros

Here's a link to my balls if anybody wanted to look

my dick is harder than ever lads and i havent even worked out much yet, this summer im going to ride my bike and read, i cant wait to rawdog my gf's pussy

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Hot af

I'm that nice guy who makes them laugh while they wait for chad, I don't even beta orbit anymore I just enjoy their company and accept I will die alone.

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going through a dry patch lads, months by now.

That's better than the relationship I'm in currently
It's all
>Well all my boyfriends always pay for my nails
>Well all my boyfriends always pay for the gym
>I always go out of town on her weekends
I'm getting sick of telling this bitch no

>I have never met a girl with a legitimate interest that wasn't involving pets, drinking, travel or spending someone else's money.
I just now realized, same.

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wish my dick was thick like that

This girl at my apt tried to find out who i was through the door man after a conversation we had.. She referred to me as the guy with the muscles. The door guy said he thinks he knows which apt is hers. i'm too much of a pussy to knock on her door.

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Thanks

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Fuck am I autistic?
Please don't bulli me I just want to be better

(OP)
Ask a 35yo fitizen who regularly enjoys
>threesomes
>BDSM
>fetish parties
anything.

Hard Mode: keep it Jow Forumsrelated

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I have the same problem. how to meet women?

we all have to start somewhere. good luck user. once you experience it once you would realize it's not a big deal. remember, it's in your instincts.

Sex on the regular with my gf. ~2/week or so.

Wanna get stronk so I can go for an extended period of time and not be out of breath. And also so I can pick her up and throw her around.

"bump" into her. find out when she leaves (yes creepy but you're an autist so it's fine) and coincidentally meet her in the lift or whatever.

>threesomes
how do I do this without hiring escorts?

Girl at my job (9 years younger than me) keeps telling me that she needs a bf because she has too much to offer etc etc, does she want me to hit on her or I'm just daydreaming? she's always the 1st or 2nd person to check my whatsapp status if that helps, probably she's just with the phone 24/7 tho (she doesn't have IG tho)

How to contact fellow perverts?

meet a latina lmao, most of them are into swinging and degenerate things.

Gross desu

tfw depressed right after sex

started when I was a teenager and has happened with every gf, I'm thinking of breaking up and just never bothering with a relationship again unless it's for kids.

I just do it because I feel like it's what I'm supposed to do, I wish we didn't need sex and that we could evolve past it.

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well the way you painting this she's into you, but we really need more details. does she behave differently to you than others? notice any other signs of possibly attraction?

something wrong with you, man

Like what? it's not like I don't enjoy life it's just specifically with sex I just really wish it wasn't some biological necessity that weighs me down

>does she behave differently to you than others?
I think she's just a nice girl, that's why I didn't try anything but the doubt kills me, I guess there's only one way to know it right? I'm leaving my job soon so who knows, what I can lose at this point...

I intentionally keep myself from entering the relationships. I don't want to drag someone into the pit.
Although I've """had""" sex few times, each time drastic anxiety prevented me to do anything after we're naked.
You know, it feels like you have a heart stroke and a knife in the chest simultaneously.

But have a special talent which means people come to you instead of you needing to make any effort

16 months.

oh so you're saying I'll get girls when I get my Smash Ultimate neutral game perfect?

I know this feel. IDK my current GF is wonderful but I don't feel good after sex or if I'm away from here
So I pretty much only feel good when I'm with her and not having sex.

Finally conquered nympho gf
>have gf that likes sex daily
>have low sex drive
>keep her satisfied but am noticeably not too excited about it half the time
>check test levels and blood panel
>all is well
>on a whim decide to start supplementing items I found boost libido
>few days of supplements and it all kicks in
>start waking her up to fuck her
>fuck her before work daily
>fuck her as soon as I get back from work
>fuck her whenever she takes a shower
>she loves this at first
>other week she told me she's been feeling a bit sore from all of the fucking lately
>tell her I'll use more lube or something
>wake her up two or theee times a night for more sex
>balls hurt from how frequently I cum now
>gf seems more timid around me now
>whispered at me to stop once
I think I've fucked up something in my head anons and I cannot switch it off.
Be careful.

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>go ahead user, have your pick

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next time she says "I need a bf" you say "and I need a gf" but don't look at her and see how she reacts

>have gf
>don't really care for sex
>when i do have sex I think of fucking other women
>from the gym, supermarket, work, etc.
>only get off doing this
>girlfriend not even unattractive
why do i do this to myself?

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What "items"

Iktf bro, except she never wanted to slow it down, so we both just accelerated it forever.

Holy shit I miss that little nymph

My woman is being a cunt and not giving up the pussy, says she wants to feel more of an "emotional connection" from me and that basically I haven't been seducing her and pretty much just going straight for the pussy. What can I do to snap her out of this? Should I just find a new woman? She knows she's replaceable.

you mean besides my ex getting fucked by her new guy?

not that great

I think that's fine, no? do whatever makes you cum. maybe she's thinking of someone else when you're fucking. think of her as the best orgasm simulator there exists. and if she has good qualities, why not keep her?

If that's all you really care about dump her. I'd kill for a girl who wanted more than sex and money desu

I haven't fucked since I broke up with my ex at the beginning of April, but that's okay because I don't like having sex with people I'm not emotionally attracted to. Talking to a few girls through apps right now and focusing on my cut. Hopefully only10 lbs to go, boys.

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don't really think about it, but when the chance comes, I don't miss it

fucking listen to her man, she literally tells you what to do. the real question is why aren't you seducing her? are you even attracted to her? because if not then you're wasting your time and should just end it

Coming up on a year

Bigger dick ?

Had a nypho gf once
Couldn't keep up in the slightest
How'd you boost yourself?

nah, she's with him for him not for herself
i fucked her good though, she told me there's always some kind of attraction between us and it'd be hard to compare other people
she never got choked, i tried it and she was into it because i was into it

we had great chemistry honestly

Holy shit get it together Jow Forums, we’re the only board where chicks actually post for a reason. I have sex near twice daily with my girlfriend of 8 months, feels good man. I want to propose. And if anyone you’re immediate thought is REEE then fucking go back to r9k.

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sitting at 4 months and happy because the last person I fucked borderline stalked me and manipulated me to a point of extreme anxiety I'd never felt before.

Now if it's not a person I actually want to spend time with and be happy with, i'm not gonna put my dick in it. simple as, but I'm gonna be single for a very long time i recon

Chose not to share them because
A. It's kind of a shill thing to do
B. I had to go through like 30 recommended products before finding five that really worked for me so your results may vary
C. I'm not even taking them anymore and still feel like this, its putting strain on our relationship for me to be fucking her past the point of enjoyment/consent several times a day. Don't want to feel responsible for making someone else this way
D. Its probably best for you to do your own research, find what works for your body, and disregard what doesn't even if "everyone says it works"

Went at a party a few days ago, ended up banging one girl and got the number of another which I banged yesterday.

So my problem is: how do I handle both at the same time? Do girls really like to know I see another girl?

no but not the brand or even the name of the specific products, just what was it for (what vitamin, etc.)?

boys please help me out

>have sex with a tinderella
>twice in one afternoon
>use a condom both times
>pull out the second time
>this was about 8 weeks ago
>didn't wanna keep any contact so i ghosted and eventually blocked her
>moved on since
>today felt an absolute dread that there's a chance she's pregnant

am i being retarded? what are the chances that this woman is pregnant?

Not really sexual health but how to get over heartbreak? She was the first and only girl I ever loved, and the happiest time of my life was with her, including great sex. It feels like I will never meet someone like that again. She just didn't love me the way I loved her sadly.

It's been a month I think of her constantly, like a drain on my soul.

Clean yourself up and go to church or a bar same thing really

How did you first find out about fetish parties?

I have had these feelings with my ex from time to time.
It's okay user, it happens, probably isn't true

Finishing inside of a woman, no condom, is about a 1/5 chance of pregnancy on average
Very unlikely you got her pregnant with condom or a pullout

Just broke up with my stage 5 clinger gf, so I won't be having sex for about a good year or so. fml

Add redheads to that list. Just be careful not to get drug into their shitshow.
5 month dry spell here. Fixing that tomorrow.

Don't be that way just tell us. You litteraly have nothing to lose and no liability if someone does something stupid.

Dont be a weirdo, just the next time you see her say something like "Hey, heard you were asking about me?" say it kinda jokingly and see what she says. You'll know immediately by her response if shes into you or not.

how to stop being anxious?

I've been having sex with her for years now without ever having to do any hokey bullshit first like buying flowers, making romantic dinners, etc. I still do these things for her, but on a random basis to let her know I love her and care about her, and not as some transaction to get sex afterwords. For fuck's sake though, there's been times she's straight up yanked down her shorts, bent HERSELF over the bed, and turned around and looked at me to initiate sex. Now suddenly, what, she expects me to initiate by cuddling with her and shit for an hour first and whispering in her ear that her hair looks good or something? Smh

Of course I'm attracted to her, I love having her around, we laugh together, we have a ton in common, we connect with each other pretty well on an emotional level, we spend a ton of time together, we have shared hobbies and our personalities click well together. I love this woman. This is just some weird ass sudden change in her behavior on her end and it is pissing me off and is the most unattractive thing a woman has ever done in a relationship with me. I've only ever been good to her, I don't deserve this. She isn't the only woman I've ever loved, and she certainly isn't the only one in the world. I know I can just go find another marriage material woman with a little work if I had to. I want her to be the one by my side for the rest of my life but goddamn it if this continues she won't.

This seems like actually decent advice

You're overthinking this mang. All you gotta do is enjoy yourself. Don't think about fucking on the first date or any unrealistic shit like that. If you like this girl, relax, take it easy, don't psych yourself out analyzing every possible move and how to be perceived as the most alpha. Unironically just be yourself, and go with the flow.

>day 17 nofap
>so horny I'm considering installing grindr and trying to fuck a trap
I'm losing my mind

Not that guy, but get a gf/regular sex partner and fantasize with her about other women during sex. Also screen for bisexuality or willingness to explore in the first place. It actually makes for a good first date subject. "Ever kissed a girl?" I've had two threesomes, with 4 different women.

On another subject, I've tried lots of libido enhancing stuff, and while some things give me harder erections, what I'm really looking for is that horny mentality of "I need to fuck a woman" and not just harder erections. Closest I got was adding L-arginine on top of the regular stuff like zinc, vit D and fish oil. If anyone has any other recs, in particular, I'd be very interested.

I'm in my prime physically, mentally and sexually with a girl I have been in a relationship for the last 5+ years, yet our sexual life sucks. We have sex twice, thrice if lucky a month and it's maddening. this is due to external circumstances like her and my job, family, etc, and her libido is way lower than mine. Meanwhile, some of my lifting has started showing up and I have been getting advances from female friends and the occasional stranger/acquaintance.
I'm THIS close to cheating on her. Worse, she's almost certainly going far, far away to study at the end of the year for a couple of years minimum, and I have no idea how we're dealing with that. She's gonna hate the idea but I will need her approval for fuckbuddies else I'm going to go behind her back.
I have been so horny and pent up is not even funny.

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Fucked my fiancée's tight little pussy twice today, feels good man.

Dude, if she's going abroad for a long time just end it now or enjoy the remaining ride. You're both gonna cheat while she's away. Also, if your libidos don't match up, there's nothing you can do except cheating. Also, if you're gonna be monogamous, you better make damn well sure your girl is ready to fulfil all your sexual needs.

Not sure what could be spurring this, sounds like y'all get along together very well. If you're already romantic with her without always being sexual or having a sexual endgame in mind, like just telling her she looks nice, kissing her neck while she's cooking or doing dishes, complimenting her dress or perfume, then something major might have changed that she hasn't told you about, but is influencing her.

Maybe bring up exactly what you said here (obviously not anywhere as harsh) and just ask her what changed to make her feel this way

You tried talking to her about it? Like hey, what can I do to help you open up to me or feel more comfortable sexually? Make it about being a team vs just you getting satisfaction