Was limp first time. Help!

Hey guys, I finally lost my virginity, but was really limp and couldn't get hard. I'm thinking it was just nerves, but I was still able to stick it in and pleasure her for a bit. Its really embarrassing for me. What can I do? I hit the gym on the reg, maybe take vit D?

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Maybe nofap? Or something. I watch a fair bit of porn?

...pls help. She wants to again as well, bit I'm too nervous

Dont know for you but if i fap evens ones on the same day before sex then it becomes really hard to cum when having sex.so its like a timing effort, just dont fap the day you think your getting lucky.

You hate her and are just using her for sex. She is also probably a big slut and hates you

yeah, you take some vitamin D, OP

Fuck man these feels.Ignore the artists telling you that she doesn’t need to be polite.
Fuck me the amount of customers I say “how are you?” And all I get inrely is “yeah, can I get a bag/ how much is this... ect”
I can partially see Elliot’s point about some things.

>this one time
>go to donate blood, been there many time but had a break for a while
>doing the interview and get the 3rd degree during the questions.
>go out and lay on the bed, nurses are laughing and joking with other donors, call them by their first names “see you next time Joe, thanks Mary, ect.
Not me, they do the bare interactions needed without saying or talking. I’m sort of quiet so didn’t say anything
On of them comes in and asks a question (to the room) and I answer it for them. (Thinking it will start conversations maybe) They give me a brief, ok, thanks and leave.
One of them comments on my shirt saying ng she liked it but at his point I was done and just said “ok, thanks” back to her.
After she finished with my blood she said “thank you sir”
She knew my FUCKING NAME. She used others names.
Is it too much to ask for? Could a non autistic person please translate her behaviour for me?
Adding to this, I find it hard to talk to people, strangers mostly but even my coworkers I barely talk to other than responses. If they start talking I can talk but I have rouble starting and carrying the conversation. This is people I’ve worked woth for 4 or more years.
Meanwhile my cousin had 5 seperate conversations with completely strangers that lasted for an hour at least each.
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When she said she liked me shirt (had a funny comment on it) she pointed it out to her friend/coworker.
I don’t understand people.
They spend all day ignoring you and then ask why you don’t talk to them.
They act rude to you everyday but if you snap at them you’re the asshole, you’re meant to magically wash it away

if she wants to go again that's good.
It's just your anxiety. Try to calm down. A little bit of alcohol might help take you out of your head. Take it slow, lots of foreplay.
First time I had sex it was with my first gf(had been together 3 months) and it took me like 3 hours to be able to stay hard. Every time I would try to put the condom on I would instantly go soft. After that I never had a problem ever again.

Boomer here. Same shit happened to me my first time.

Pro-tip: take a dump before you meet up and don't shower afterwards. That way when you're fucking her you'll be thinking about your smelly ass instead of being nervous. Guaranteed to remedy the nervous limp boner issue.

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Thanks for the replies guys. So basically:
1- Dont fap
2- Take vit D
3- Just dont be nervous/take it slow

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word bro, the condom was just killing it too. I would go hard, and then i would reach for the condom and it'd drop again...

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Nerves

I used to be limp my first couple of times too. There's no way out of it my dude, you have to try again until you're comfortable in bed.
I recommend taking a 25mg tab of sildenafill prior to the action. That will do some work both physiologically and psychologically. Secondly, I'd recommend getting on your knees and licking that pussy out for a good while, so both of you can get in the mood while she can't reach for your dick and make you nervous.
Also, if you're trying with a condom, while you're out buying that sildenafil buy the most expensive, thinnest condom you can find. Really makes a difference.

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>Put condom on Limp dick
>Fool around and explore her body, it's not a race
>Enjoy yourself and get hard peeper
>Stick into wet poosay
>You have sex, cuddle and laugh afterwards

Yes, hit the gym more -- but that was your nerves

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wtf relax bro

Lol probably just nerves, brother. Happened to me my first time. Happened to me again with the hottest girl I’ve fucked bc I had just gotten out of a relationship. Just don’t worry about it. Definitely beats lasting 10 seconds. Try letting her suck you off for longer.

If she wants to again, just tell her you get nervous and tell her it's nothing personal, you think she's beautiful etc.

For actual logistical help, next time you're fooling around, during foreplay, go down on her just a little bit normally, then get her up on her knees doggystyle and start eating her out from behind, then, assuming she's really into it, bury your face in her ass (gracefully, seductively, commandingly) and do whatever comes to your mind in that moment. Nature's viagra.

Just did 40mg and it was a great dose because I was nervous as fuck with this girl and had been completely invisible soft 2 times prior.

>She wants to again
You fucked her without even getting fully hard. She wants more. Stop overthinking it.
If you want to vent to her about how you were having trouble, which is fine if she's not an airhead, do it after you fuck her, NOT before.

can relate user. Last girl I fucked with would come over and ask for a root, problem was I'd beat it the night before and had trouble staying hard.

“It is better to be prepared for an opportunity and not have one than to have an opportunity and not be prepared.”

Don't watch porn.

man, this thread makes me glad I lost mine at a young age. getting hard was not an issue at 14, the problem was trying to last more than 15 seconds.

It's okay, bro. I'm always limp. Last time I had a good natty hard-on was at age 15. Nowadays I just pop a pill on a rare occasion I need to fuck a girl.

Imagine being both limp dick and quick shot. My friend told me it's horrible. Like you're not a real man.

As a 29 year old virgin I have this butt fleshlight that I sometimes use. Recently I tried to set it up so I am fucking it realistically. I had trouble keeping hard most of the time and when I finally got it in, it felt too tight and ended up cumming in seconds. I am afraid of what real sex would be like if I can't maintain an erection let alone last more than a minute.

Have the same problem, even though I'm not a virgin I couldn't get hard with the last 2 girls I've been in bed with. Have a date coming up tomorrow with the hottest girl I've known yet and already my nerves are wrecking me. How can I get into that stallion state of mind I have when I don't have an opportunity. It just seems like a bad joke by fate.

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Have you tried fucking men instead?

you tell me

Dont worry for not lasting just pop a condom and you ll never be done with it
T. Former 28 yo virgin

where do you get your condoms? online? i know i should not give a shit about buying condoms in stores and that the cashiers dont give a shit but i know how much of a loser i am and how ridiculous me getting condoms is. i guess ill look around amazon and see what sizes they have

legit advice about condoms, measure yourself and look at the sizes of condoms. The first time I was about to have sex, the fucking condom didn't fit on my dick, couldn't get past the tip.
Just make sure they fit, especially if you buy online, TheyFIt is an amazing place to get condoms pretty much custom sized if you have a bigger donger like me, or even a smaller one and most stores don't have your size. They're cheap as well