How does Jow Forums deal with depression?

drinking like a real man

do you think that i'd be here if i had dealt with my depression

I imagine all the cringe posting gets to you, but yea.

again, i would trade my life for her "depressed" instagram life in an instant.

something i always have wanted to experience is all these normal women, mainly ones online on instagram/twitter, who complain about their mental health, just seeing what their life is like that causes their "anxiety" and "depression"

I wouldn't, just because being female has too many disadvantages, but I get your point.
While the depressed period feels the same, the not depressed period is extremely different.

What a hittable face

>Dumb slut has sex on camera and is now depressed about it

Day of the rope for these slags cant come soon enough

thats how you build a fucking yoke

>have had just a terrible, terrible life
>past my mid 20s as a kissless virgin, no friends for a really long time, a shit job even after attending college, ugly as fuck
>social problems that just snowball on themselves year after year for the past decade in a negative feedback loop and also negatively affect every other aspect of my life as well
>basically the personification of the autistic incel loser from Jow Forums

>have to constantly see stories like the one in OP's photo nowadays where these women who are famous, make their living being pretty models constantly getting positive feedback from strangers every day of their lives, traveling, doing stuff with friends, etc, constantly bring up how depressed, anxious, etc they all actually are

Can someone please explain this to me? I recognize that trying to act like "ANYONE WHO HASN'T HAD A LIFE AS PATHETIC AS MINE HAS NO RIGHT TO BE DEPRESSED" isn't a thing, but I honestly cannot even begin to fathom what in these women's lives can produce such mental health problems.

And not to mention shit exactly like what she said about how "she's no longer ashamed of her mental health and wants people to know" which is another thing that has taken off recently is people expressing their mental health issues and getting support for it. Yet if you're a guy like me, someone who is a loser socially, you will still get nonstop ridicule, insult and denigration from the public

i dont believe tessa fowler has ever had sex on camera, all of her stuff is softcore modeling. in fact is think she barely has ever even shown her vagina if she even has at all

I'm sorry to hear that bro. I too have a difficult time with life. Just try to act positive and the longer you can keep that up the better things seem.

positive visualisation
mindfulness
meditation
supplements

why did she leave me
why couldn't we figure stuff out together
it wouldn't be that hard

Despite how incredibly easy the average woman's life is, I would never in a million years want to be a woman. Imagine being a slave to irrational impulses and desires, your whole life just one big rat maze not even understanding why you do the things you do.

Bike until my legs hurt more than I do. And there is something that feels really good about biking really hard then just coasting and feeling the wind.

Its getting difficult to. Lifting weights is pretty much the only thing I derive pleasure from. I have women that show interest, and I'd love to have a loving relationship. I just don't have the patience to deal with their shit tests.

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Based dubs of truth

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>have a god awful life not just now fbut for as long as i can remember
>basically nothing positive has ever happened in my life
>somehow supposed to remain positive

OK I got a lot of self hatred, self loathing and whatever. My thoughts when going to the gym sound like "you better go, or it'll be worse".

>thot
>relationship with god
What

based incel poster. and let me guess, you still dedicate every aspect of your life to trying to get women even though you hate them so much, right?

Maximum kek

>he thinks only a select few have the opportunity to build a personal relationship with God
Even Christ said that he came to serve sinners and the lost, not to preach to those who already walked the straight and narrow. Luke 15:4/Matthew 18:12

Looks like he touched a nerve.

yeah, the guys saying how "all women are slaves to impulses and desires not understanding why do you the things you do" when his entire life is dedicated to sex and getting women. definitely "touched a nerve" lol

and let me guess he's also a chad with women too huh?

I'm sure she can't begin to imagine how terrible your life is, you brave soul.

>You hate your job and yet, you still go to it

Yeah, humans need to do certain things. Sexual, romantic and familial impulses are strong.

Everyone at fit is a chad larping about being incels

>can't even express having a bad life on damn Jow Forums without getting ridiculed and insulted for it
when the fuck will i ever get the balls to commit suicide

C, if you're in this thread I need you to confirm that you won't kill yourself. Hold out to at least monday. -J
Also fellow Jow Forumsizens, there's a man among us who needs help. He thought that he finally made it but he didn't. Post advice about how to restart from square 1 and life stories about having the floor ripped from under you and having to restart, socially speaking

I'm sorry, but this new interpretation of "You can do countless fucked up things knowing they are fucked up and God will forgive you if you love him" thing is bullshit. New Christianity is cucked, and it adapts to make people feel better and not tell them how it is.

This thot has a sex tape out. She has fucked God knows how many different men. She puts up pictures of her ass for the world to see. Her "relationship with God" probably consists of asking for forgiveness after adding to her bodycount every weekend and asking for other shit on top of that. You cannot convince me there is a way to heaven by living like this. Repent, an uncomfortable truth does not take away from the fact that it is still the truth. You cannot change God to match your trashy lifestyle.

Do you honestly believe this thot is building a relationship with God, and not just feeding her own narcissistic ego with "holier than thou" level of rhetoric while posting slutty pictures on the internet?

Jeremiah 29:13

okay bro, you have acess to the internet so if you really wanna make it a competition I'm guessing there's some people in the Congo or something that are about to get fucked up by dudes in berets all of whom have you beat by a mile in terms of your glum anime dialogue tier whining. That doesn't mean your life isn't shitty or painful but it's always relative

I don't know the guy but, statistically, it's unlikely.

I'm guessing you're a woman. I'd suggest you stop whining since it's not doing anything to disprove his notion that women are "slaves to impulses".

Or keep playing into him/feeding the troll. Enjoy the rest of your first week on the internet.

You're getting ridiculed for belittling someone else's depression, you big baby.

Would Zyzz want you to sit around and be depressed?

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She would be insufferable irl

Why don't you get into a hobby with a group setting like rock climbing, improv, strongman gym, or even a cooking club? Start going to church, you might end up finding a wholesome girl. She might be ugly, but if she loves you and only you, would you even care?

I'm really succumbing to it right now. I have ibs and I'm at the end of treatment, only one medication controls the pain and spasms and it's not as effective anymore. I'm really starting to feel hopeless and I don't see any reason to get out of bed anymore. I don't find joy in anything now, it's all just bull shit and I wish I could find anything that made me happy.

>expressing their mental issues, no shame
That's a trend of blogs/social media signaling and maybe some female circles. 'Removing the stigma', 'no one should have to be ashamed'. There's a stigma for a reason, if you're a dysfunctional person normal people will not like that.

You can try to avoid seeing and reacting to stories like OPs. The reason these circulate is because they illicit reactions, people know its bs. Encouraging comments on social media isnt real support from other people, its just getting a minute of their time to write something nice to you as if they really cared. Most everything online is fake, even if the people are posting with their real names.

>She might be ugly, but if she loves you and only you, would you even care?
This is exactly how I feel about my dog. she's a good girl.

my gf is ugly, her face is okay buy her body is just unfortunate. It's pretty nice to be the hot one in the relationship desu, never any anxiety and you basically don't have to put in effort if you don't want to.

She got nice big breast and nipples

honestly im so depressed and miserable that at this point, im afraid/apprehensive/unwilling to even try to meet people period. i am so ashamed and humiliated about my life, and how my life has always been, that i dont want to allow anyone to get the slightest bit close to anything about me. both for girls (the humiliation of being a permavirgin at this age and not wanting her to realize it) and even possible friendships

> Start going to church, you might end up finding a wholesome girl. She might be ugly, but if she loves you and only you, would you even care?

honestly i don't even care about trying to find a girl. my life is too worthless and pathetic for one

i understand that social media shit is all just virtue signaling, but it still doesnt make me feel any better. this idea that i can't even be honest about my life with anyone because its been so pathetic that it would immediately draw people away from me if they knew (although i think most people i interact with know what a loser i am) is what has put me in this situation in the first place, every year getting more and more embarrassed, humiliated and self-conscious about what a loser i am that i keep isolating myself more and more, which in turn makes the problems worse, etc.

How to know if I have depression?

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chemical imbalance vs situational is a thing, if you get basically no joy from things you normally like that is a pretty good sign

They are, nice cope though woman/virtue signalling basedboy
t. Married chad

It's all bullshit though. Go get CBT and fully commit to it (don't half arse it like you have done before), your depression will be gone within a year. You won't though, because depression is an identity you created for yourself.

>how do I deal with depression

How about you man the fuck up and deal with your problems however large or small they may be instead of telling yourself you're "depressed" as if you were a weak women?

This isn't fitness related.

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why the fuck would i want cock and ball torture

O fugg

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what if i never liked anything to begin with

>Live in a first world country
>Depressed
Its entirely your fault.

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Tbh I'm in a similar place, just breaking my isolation by visiting another member of my trash family. Taking the human contact that's available, it was either that or taking the loop of isolation to its end.
>people would draw away from me if they knew
Had a similar assumption, as a result couldn't really talk about any of my past life or family to peers. Being so closed off probably drew people away too, so not a successful strategy. The ideal would be to find peace and truly not care, maybe even spin it to something humorous. Its what a chad would do. A chad could spin it to something attractive.

>Being so closed off probably drew people away too, so not a successful strategy.

yes this is exactly what i mean. its all a negative feedback loop. being a weird guy which pushes people away, and because you're weird you end up as a loser so you stay closed off to not expose your loserness to others, but being closed off in itself pushes more people away, which makes you even weirder and less personable, which pushes more people away, etc

The ideal would be to find peace and truly not care, maybe even spin it to something humorous. Its what a chad would do. A chad could spin it to something attractive.

the issue is that making it humorous still wouldnt draw peoples towards you. yeah self-deprecation can show you can take a joke about yourself which people can like, but people dont want to associate with a loser. and no a chad couldn't spin being a loser into something attractive

is she fat or something? take her to the gym with you, bonding time and you get a gf in your league

meh she's not skinny but losing weight wouldn't help I think, she has a very masculine body shape with narrow hips and masculine fat distribution. Tits are mediocre. She has a pretty cool personality though, one of the only women I've effortlessly gotten along and laughed with so that wins me over. Just sucks that there are women way fatter with amazing bodies

living in a first world country drastically increases chances of being depressed

>have massive tits
>adoring fanbase
>Probably making tons of money through porn
>bluh I'm depressed ):

I quit my job which I hated, stopped compulsively playing vidya, took some time off, sat down and thought what kind of impact I wanted to have on the world, what kind of things I wanted to accomplish, and began taking steps to accomplish those things. I've been quite happy ever since.

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Because third worlders have no time to be faggots.
Same reason why there are so many homos and trans in first World countries

>thought what kind of impact I wanted to have on the world, what kind of things I wanted to accomplish
like what?

What this user said, first worlders are mostly crybaby fags who don't realize just how much of their own destiny they have control over because they're used to getting the things they want through crying. When they cry and don't get what they want, they call it depression.

Sounds gay, but helping/serving others is the only thing which has consistently given me joy and a sense of purpose, and I like the flexibility to travel internationally, so I decided to change careers to move towards that aim. My stomach was too weak to be a doctor; I went to law school instead. I now do dispute resolution aka mediation/commercial litigation.

>barely

Still a whore lad. Prob had multiple dicks in her at a time. Any instagram model with a business proposal email is basically a glorified escort/hooker. Just google tagthesponsor. A lot of these chicks literally eat shit for like 10grand.

thats called bipolar

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holy fuck user. I can't tell you how hyped up this made me feel. I'm not OP but I'm 120 lbs, 5' 10", fucking LANKLET, and I've been doing nothing but getting drunk and going out

For some reason, this registered deeply w/ me

Thank you. Tomorrow I will start lifting.

Listen to some David Goggins on youtube

>"people"
>in the Congo
Haha topkek

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>tomorrow
ahhahhahahaa

I used to have friends I confided in. Now? I just keep it all on the inside and let tear me up.

you got a point, it is 3am

today I start lifting

I make less than 4 euros an hour and I have never been depressed.

Bro you fuck your dog?

Have you considered suicide?

Stop showing off asshole!

he would hate to BE a woman
doesnt hate meeting/fucking women
lmao retard

Depression is much more likely when everything is provided for you.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Behavioral_sink
>Some rats just kept isolated from the rest, not interacting with them nor trying to mate, dedicating most of their time to grooming. These were called "the beautiful ones" precisely because they spent a lot of time cleaning themselves.
>Some dominant males made harems, having control over several female rats to mate.
>Some females made groups and created their own territories living together and violently rejecting any male approaching, with no apparent interest in breeding.
Remind you of anything?

>depression
>being able to interact with anyone, let alone on social media

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I doubt living in appearances is a great life

>tfw can see yourself becoming a beautiful one
It's a complicated feel

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We must quit being pussies

Did someone call her a fag at least?

thistbh

Hopefully now, faggot.

>multiple untreatable chronic diseases
>no gf
How is this on me

>muh depression
Basic bitch.

I honestly think depression is self manufactured.

Ive only known 1 depressed guy personally and it seemed like he brought everything on himself. Wanted to shake some sense into him.