Question for females: is being a 30 year old virgin a complete dealbreaker...

You're not pathetic. You should be more proud of yourself and your great achievement.
You're with 1% of the population or even less.
You held your own against this world's agenda.
Now, all that's left is for you to initiate your occult studies. And I'm for real.

Well, I still want to have sex. I want to be loved. This wasn't something I strived for. I don't think I'm intelligent enough to willingly be celibate.

Not sure if this will make you feel better but I lost my virginity at 35 and she knew I was a virgin. It was fairly easy having sex once it happened. I don't think it was noticeable that it was my first time because instinct kind of takes over. You still have hope.

that does make me feel better actually.

unless the woman was gross or something.

Beggars can't be choosers. You take what you can get.

You've just become a wizard and now you wan to throw it all away on some whore? user, just go vocel like me, it's truly an enlightening experience.

She wasn't gross but you aren't really in a position to be picky.

I'm not within most 30 y/o's dating range, but no, not a dealbreaker at all. Especially if he seems kind of shy/insecure since that would largely explain it.

No it's not.
Casual sex is gross and that would be a deal breaker, saving yourself for actual love is positive.
I hope you find someone soon user.
See it as a filter, if someone would consider that a dealbreaker would you really want to be with them?

If you have unlocked the arcane arts, I will date you gladly.
Please use your spellcraft to make me attractive.

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Don't tell her you're an incel, you have to frame it as intentional. Like you're waiting for the right woman.

Not insane or morbidly obese, just ugly and afraid? So how bad is your anxiety? Are you trying to get help for it? Also how is your hygiene? Are you showering and keeping yourself clean and well groomed? Are you rude? Rude is different than awkward, you can still be shy/awkward and sweet.

I would have absolutely no problem with it. I actually think it's cute. It's also less baggage and I would get to teach you how to please a woman and experience firsts with you. That's wonderful. There are some things that go along with being this old and a virgin that might stop woman from getting with you, like mental illness, being a NEET or very ugly while having a bad personality. Those are what you should be worried about.

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h-hey user
so if fap that technicly makes me not a virgin
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Well my anxiety is bad, but it's not like I'm having panic attacks or something. It has fucked me over though. Dropped out of college. Now I have a shit job. I'm trying to work through it on my own.

Hygiene is fine, but it used to not be. My teeth are awful because of it. If being a virgin isn't a dealbreaker, my teeth probably will be. They aren't rotting or anything, just ugly as hell.

I don't think I'm an asshole. Too worried that people will get mad at me if nothing else. My main problem now is a lack of money. I went to the dentist last year and even one crown costs $2500 in the US. Also I'm boring.

Aww user that's the worst thing you could have done. Is it too late for you to go back? It would be really great for you to get a degree you could use to get a well paying job. But good for you for still trying to make things work. You don't always need a degree but from what I've seen it's harder when you don't have one. Technical degrees are just as good.
When you say teeth do you mean your front teeth? If your smile isn't bad then it wouldn't be a dealbreaker. A lot of girls can overlook that stuff too. Can you afford a cleaning? That does wonders for people. If your front teeth are broken that obviously isn't going to help.
Girls are boring. Stacy is especially boring. Do not worry about boring. Be friendly and be willing to listen to her blab about her day and when she says something stupid point it out and show her your intelligence. That's it.

Nope. I'm a virgin too, albeit much younger, and I only want to marry a virgin.

Shit forgot to say, congrats on your wizard powers now too.

I guess I could still go back. Have to look into it.

And yeah my teeth are fucked up all over. Crooked mostly. I do get them cleaned as often as possible, which is necessary. I'm missing a tooth. I can't smile, so yeah it's probably a dealbreaker.

Thanks though.

I demand a qt fembot touch my virgin penis.

Personally i dont get why guys feel like lack of experience is a deal breaker. Every guy is a virgin at one point, your age doesnt really matter. I think the problem is when men have seen so much porn they lose sense of what "real" love making is and what they see on the screen.

honestly if you are a nice guy, and you have good hygiene there are few deal breakers beyong that.

And if you arent dull. i dont mean you have to have an exciting life, but i want to talk about your passions. It could seriously be rocks, i will talk for days on days about rocks if you have a true passion for it. things like that excite me about a man

I do sort of have passions, but a lot my hobbies are typical manchild shit. Not sure how well that'd go over. It'd be nice having a woman listen to me blab about stupid shit though lol.

My own husband is an aerospace engineer, constantly tells me about work.

He just got kingdom hearts and told me all about the confusing lore

he plays osrs and tells me all about when he played it as a kid, and how he plays it now etc.

and i think he watches cartoons closer than our son does.

I can deal with a man child. as long as they still have the man part to them, i really enjoy it. Its like seeing that light that children have but seeing it in an adult. He's happy and fulfilled, never lost that spark. So to me a manchild is someone who was never permanently broken down.

I think women are more willing to put up with that shit from an aerospace engineer than they are from a janitor.

I really need to head back to college.

his job doesnt matter, before this he was a mechanic, before that he work at refineries building scaffolding. he took a pay cut to work in the field he loves actually.

Hell if he wanted to stop working and write a book or something id support it

He's a lucky man then.

>>Personally i dont get why guys feel like lack of experience is a deal breaker.
it takes a long time to become even minimally competent at sex. and for better or for worse the guy is the one who's generally expected to be running the show. If you get the learning phase over in high school when nobody really knows any better, it's not a big deal, but if you're 30, the woman is gonna have to put up with a bunch of bad sex (both bad in an absolute sense, and bad in the sense that she'll have to assume a leadership role that she doesn't want and doesn't find arousing) before the guy is at even the replacement-player level she could get from any random guy.

Like, say instead of having sex you were playing an MMO. Who do you want to group with, the guy who's been playing for years and knows the quests and boss fights and how to handle his character and how to complement whatever it is that you're doing? Or the noob who just started yesterday and doesn't even have the controls down?

Guys are worried about lack of experience because they know that there are few things people dislike more than incompetence.

Females, is being a 19 year old virgin neet a deal breaker?

i dont think its a bunch of bad sex. im sure you will have a couple one or two offs but for the most part sex with a new person is about the dos and donts.

you're doing stuff to them that your ex liked and not all people are born the same so you will get lucky and unlucky with some of your moved. maybe the learning curve will be steeper with the virgin. but theres always the fun in "learning" ;)

OP, it's not a deal breaker if you don't bring it up. Unfortunately, despite what some may tell you, women will judge you that you're still a virgin at your age.

Do yourself a favor, and if you meet a woman, don't tell her you are a virgin. Being a guy and a virgin isn't hard to hide. Do yourself a favor, watch some non-porn vids on how to do proper foreplay, then your first time, stick to missionary, her on top (if she likes that), and maybe doggy (some girls don't like it, some love it, but only in a r-ship, some love it all the time) Those are the most common positions during sex. The first time with a new girl, missionary is usually the preferred method for both people, again, unless she likes being on top too.

If the topic comes up, you have to skillfully dodge it, but the downside is you are giving up your right to know how many she's been with.

You can do the exaggeration method and say "I've been with 10,000, and if I find you worthy enough you'll be 10,001" or something like: "You asking because you're trying to gauge what the odds are of you getting into my pants? I know you want me, but you need to settle down I'm not a piece of meat."

If you don't like these, that's fine, but you have to figure out what you'll say to avoid it and deflect it.