Virgin thread

28
Yes
I never put myself out there when I was younger, and now I'm too old to have no relationship experience.

23
YES
at this point is become something of a purity, even though its futile considering how fucked and corrupt the mind is. so in the end its just a excuse to not bother with having to deal with people be intimate get close to someone. Its all so bothersome.

>20
>no
>I've literally only had sex with one person.
When I went to college for like a day I almost fucked a roastie that I had a crush on in highschool. I got
her down to just her panties, but everytime I tried to take them off or finger her she would grab my hand and pull it away. After that night, I gave up on human interaction and came back to my cesspool of anonymity, porn, and alcoholism.

>22
>Yes
I'm bad at talking to, and relating to people, and I don't like myself.
When I was like 14 it started to bug me that I was a loner, so I started, gelling my hair, shaving, showering, being more hygenic, and dressing kinda nice.

After that, I came out of my shell, and got some people at school to like me, as well as coming kind of far with a few girls. And by that I mean, I know they liked me, but I never wanted to take it to the next level, because I was afraid they would see that this confident, guy wasn't the real me.
I've never had any friends, and spent most of my time at home playing vidya, and watching tv, so it's not like they wouldn't find out I was just some loser with a fake personality.
For the same reason I avoided ever spending time with my friends outside of school. I've always kept everyone at a distance.

Lots of people in highschool asked me to hang out, but I always said no. One girl that I really liked even took the innitiative, and asked me out herself once, and I still said no.
I have no greater regret. Even if they would have found out I was a loser, I wish I got to experience of having friends, and going on dates, just for a little while. Just so I could say I've done it.

I guess in otherwords, you could say I'm a virgin because I'm fucking neurotic.

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>26
>Yes
>short
>NEET
>short

At least you get some head. I was with one girl that would lick the fuck out of my dick and balls but wouldn't put it in her mouth or let me fuck her. One night she finally sucked the soul out of me and I fucking came all down her throat.

>23
>yes
>low self-esteem, insecurity, mental illness, awkwardness, shyness, fear, anti-socialness, shame

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>scared of talking to men, but also want to wait for husbando material
that's a good recipe for baking a forever-alone pie

Oh, I know it is. I'm not willing to slut it up, but I will eventually work on the talking to men thing. Eventually.

How about using that welfare check to get a hooker. Fucking leachie.

>19
>yes
>retard when it comes to getting lovey-dovey

Eventually should be in the thesaurus as a synonym for never. What's stopping you from talking to men?

>22
>no
>.
it was a year ago and probably wont have sex for a long time (perhaps never). I don't care about it though, it is overrated as fuck.

eventually means in the next 2-3 years? Oh well, your life

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what's husbando material to you?

So did you ever fucked or not? Cuz if it was the closest you could get, then you're still a virgin, pal.

>21
>yes
>never bothered
I could probably find a 8/10 qt on tinder but I have 3 sisters and all their relationships have been horrible. I'm afraid of being the guy in those scenarios.
Also I enjoy porn way too much for sex to be a real dilemma for me, I just fap those feels away. Now, give me her name.

>22
>yes
>im a 5ft3 manlet

>22
>Yes
>I don't know really

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My "eventually" has gone on for almost 15 years. One of these days...
it's not that easy
t. different

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Low self confidence, trust issues. The usual.

Most people my age right now aren't even interested in a serious relationship. Is what I keep telling myself.

>likes animals
>has ambition
>likes me back
>loyal
>will sire my children

Optional:
>has degenerate kinks

>22
>i am 120kg

what kinda degeneracy are we talkin about here, user?

>25
>Yes
>I was pretty autistic and bullied until the end of middle school. Finally more or less fixed myself during university but my social circle is made up of only men and idk how to put myself out there, flirt with women and stuff.

nothing is easy when it comes to self improving, duh.

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The only person I've had sex with was a girl I was with for 2 years. The college roastie was way after that.

I fit all of that, minus the liking you back because I don't know you well enough. Plenty of degenerate kinks here, yessir!

This is what I'm afraid of. I will be committing seppuku if I ever get old enough though.

You name it, and I'm probably into it, or could get into it.

You wouldn't like me if you got to know me user.

Kek. As if Wojak would associate himself with some faggy emo who wears suspenders.

>18
>yes
>never talk to anyone, letalone girls

would you be into sharing cute furry art?

>You wouldn't like me if you got to know me user.
Don't worry I also think that way and have zero self esteem too! Do you like femdom or are you mostly submissive yourself?

>28
>obviously
>because im a combination of all of the worst possible things you could ever put together in a human and as a result, i don't deserve love

so basically your husbando material is just a functional normal human being with degenerate kinks...?

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>25
>yes
>combination of factors, low self esteem stemming from being a 5'5'' overweight manlet mostly.
The few times I was really close to getting it done I fucked it up one way or another.
>sperged out at 18 when a cute goth chick slapped my ass at a party
>sperged out at 21 when a cute latina chick booty called me one night
>almost did it at 22 with a meh looking broad but she was very clearly in love and I didn't want to hurt her as I didn't love her back
>messed up at 24 after going out with this strange doctor chick a few times, completely sperged out and told her I liked her wayy too soon. She ghosted me after that.
So to answer, I'm a sperg.

I don't think that fembot was talking about that kind of love to animals...

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i'm not talking about degenerate art...

>18
>Yes
>Girls tend to not like me

>18
>no
>fucked an egyptian chick and a swedish one just cause they can't get enough of guys like me who are capable of speaking normie

later virgins

21
virgin
All of the girls I get attracted to are already taken. I simply don't socialize enough to meet those few people I can click with
I meet few and far between worthless trash and it discourages me from getting right back on my feet each time it happens.

do you got any interests or hobbies tho?

Are you the flat girl from the other thread?

Lads and gals, I've found a solution for your virginity!

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I actually don't mind furries, but like said, not really what I had in mind when I said likes animals.

I don't like normies. You can be a robit and have ambition.

Self improving is fucking easy.
Self improving, when it requires other people, is fucking hard

No, I have cow tits. But if we're thinking of the same person, I also want to be a doting mommy gf in a similar vein to her.

Wot, there's self improving that requires other people? Please tell me.

*gulps* oh.

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>No, I have cow tits
>I also want to be a doting mommy gf

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Is one of your fantasies to be a hucow?

>oh look, it's another user thinks I'm a larping tranny episode
I have maternal instincts, and I like taking care of people. Not super unbelievable.

>age
25
>are you a virgin?
Yes
>why you a virgin?
Im fat, lack social skills and refuse to have sex with anybody but the woman i love.

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>trust issues
Not trusting people is prudent.
People manipulate and take advantage of others all the time.
The kind of people who would say you have trust issues usually have had their life negatively affected because they trusted somebody they shouldn't have.

>implying I think you're a tranny
I just liked the image and was enjoying thinking about that kind of relationship, no need to be so defensive.

tfw no mummy gf to keep me in chastity

>not really what I had in mind when I said likes animals.
i didn't interpret it that way! i just need a pseudo-furry gf that i can share art with, but it seems like no girls like that exist, at best i could probably hope to find a girl that would simply tolerate it (like you seem to indicate)

it's a hard life, user

>imagine social awkward caring girl with mommy content that is thinking like a not a degenerate person, but has degenerate kinks.

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have ya ever heard about space station 13? There's a degenerate server full of furries.
(there's girls too)

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>>age
27
>>are you a virgin?
yes
>>why you a virgin?
Being a hermit. Low self esteem because of parental neglect. Living in the countryside. I think I'll get there eventually just not yet.

She was supersubmissive, and wanted to be treated like shit, so no not the same person.

That's kinda hot too though actually. Are you fat, or do you just have big boobs?
Post body pics, or someone with a similar body.

No, never heard of it. I don't want e-gfs though, i've played the ldr game before and it's not a fun one, i guess i'll check it out though, thanks for the rec

18
not much longer
her parents came home

>doesn't want an egf
>trying to find gf in Jow Forums
pick one

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>age
27
>are you a virgin?
no
>why you a virgin?
I'm not. Lost it at 16 to a gymnast

Being a NEET isn't actually an excuse to not get laid. I was a NEET alcoholic in my early twenties and got multiple qt gfs to ride my cock and drive me around when I was too drunk to do so. One even gave me weed for free. How short are you? Midgets are fucking all the time, it's probably your personality desu

Pretty much. I don't like having trust issues though, they're very inhibitive to making friends. I'm working on it.

Sorry user, I just get annoyed when people accuse me of larping. Why would I lie here if it's the only place I can tell the truth?

I would very, very, very happily do that for you user.

>tfw concerned I can't be a mommy gf because I'm socially awkward
I kind of am a degenerate person because I have degenerate kinks though user.

I come from a family of top heavy women. I'm on mobile and I can't be stuffed user, just use your imagination.

>25
>yes if you don't count an escort
>very introverted, I don't go to socializing events because they are boring, and there have been literally zero single women in all my university classes and now job so I don't meet anyone suitable.

oh, sorry if i got your hopes up user, i'm not looking for an e-gf or a gf on Jow Forums, i was seeing whether or not that person i was talking to approaches in any way the sorta girl i want, since it gives me hope that i might someday find a girl like that

>very introverted, I don't go to socializing events because they are boring
This isn't an excuse.
> there have been literally zero single women in all my university classes and now job so I don't meet anyone suitable
Just steal them from their bf. It's what everyone else does and is why women seem to never be single.

The skill of interacting with other people.

Not him but I'll bounce.

I like playing Magic (nerdy card game).
Other than that I've picked up bouldering and running.

Bouldering is probably where I could meet someone yet no opportunities presented itself.

>This isn't an excuse.
Why not?
>Just steal them from their bf. It's what everyone else does and is why women seem to never be single.
I don't have the conscience, and probably not skills, to do that

>>age
25
>>are you a virgin?
Nope
>>why you a virgin?
I'm not, i'm in a dry spell though. I gained weight and i'm not that good looking in the first place.

28
yes
never pursued any female, no natural drive, brain chemistry

>21
>yes
>I think because I'm ugly/is awkward around girls

>Why would I lie here if it's the only place I can tell the truth?
It's not that you'd lie, but there are definitely guys who enjoy roleplaying

would you make me suckle on your mummy tits while fondling my caged cock and telling me what a good boy I am?

>Why not?
Since I turned 20 (now nearing 30) I haven't been to a single party and until two years ago I had zero IRL friends (not counting gfs). Literally zero. I leave the house maybe once a week or two. The longest I've been single is a year. Introversion is not an excuse to be single.

>I don't have the conscience
Why does conscience come into it? So long as you're not stealing girls your friends like or from your friends there is nothing wrong with it and they'd do it to you if they had the chance. Don't feel bad, your happiness comes first.

>and probably not skills
This is probably your only real sticking point and the only way to get better at it is to practice. You'll fail for awhile but that is just part of the territory, don't take rejection personal because these girls likely don't even know you. Oh, and if you're going to practice, don't do it on girls you know.

Hopes up? Eh?

I'm just bein a cheeky cunt user, relax.

>Since I turned 20 (now nearing 30) I haven't been to a single party and until two years ago I had zero IRL friends (not counting gfs). Literally zero. I leave the house maybe once a week or two. The longest I've been single is a year. Introversion is not an excuse to be single.
How did you meet your SOs, then?

>Why does conscience come into it? So long as you're not stealing girls your friends like or from your friends there is nothing wrong with it and they'd do it to you if they had the chance. Don't feel bad, your happiness comes first.
Well, I disagree. My happiness is not more important than the happiness of others, regardless of whether they are my friends or not. I would not be able to forgive myself if I directly made someone else unhappy for my own personal gains.

>This is probably your only real sticking point and the only way to get better at it is to practice. You'll fail for awhile but that is just part of the territory, don't take rejection personal because these girls likely don't even know you. Oh, and if you're going to practice, don't do it on girls you know.
Problem is that practice requires socializing, and I don't want to do that, because as I said it's boring. It's just not worth it even if it means I won't get a gf.

>20
>No
Lost my virginity almost four months ago on a first date.

>How did you meet your SOs, then?
Online mostly.

>Well, I disagree. My happiness is not more important than the happiness of others, regardless of whether they are my friends or not. I would not be able to forgive myself if I directly made someone else unhappy for my own personal gains.
A very questionable decision but so long as you know it's only going to hurt you in the long run and no one will care that you martyred yourself.

>because as I said it's boring
Why do you think it's boring?

>25
>yes
>I'm
I'm to autistic to talk to women about sexual stuff and don't know how to turn a friendship into a relationship without making myself look like a fool.

>Online mostly.
I counted online socialization when I said I don't do socializing, it's boring for the same reasons. I've tried online dating apps a little but the chatting is a snoozefest so the conversations just die before we can get anywhere.

>A very questionable decision but so long as you know it's only going to hurt you in the long run and no one will care that you martyred yourself.
It's not a decision, it's how I am. I cannot choose what makes me guilty or not, just as little as I can choose what makes me sad, happy, horny or scared.

>Why do you think it's boring?
I can't properly explain that either. But I guess nothing other people have to say interests me, and what I have to say (which isn't much, anyway) doesn't seem to interest other people. And this probably sounds arrogant but even if the topic happens to be something I am normally interested in, pretty much nothing gets said that I didn't already know or had thought about on my own, so it doesn't stimulate me.

>But I guess nothing other people have to say interests me, and what I have to say (which isn't much, anyway) doesn't seem to interest other people. And this probably sounds arrogant but even if the topic happens to be something I am normally interested in, pretty much nothing gets said that I didn't already know or had thought about on my own, so it doesn't stimulate me.
At least you know it's your fault. You have a massive ego but it seems like you don't have an ego because you think you're amazing (though you do think you're better than others) but as a defensive mechanism.

>It's not a decision, it's how I am.
It's a decision to make it who you are. People change all the time but you refuse to do so, another choice.

>I've tried online dating apps a little but the chatting is a snoozefest so the conversations just die before we can get anywhere.
Sometimes people are just boring but a conversation is a two way thing. It's just as much your responsibility to engage them as it is yours. One gf I met while working refused to talk to me for 40 minutes. I literally talked to her for for 40 minutes before she said a single word to me. If you want something you have to make an effort or you lose your right to feel bad and complain.

28
yes
Because I've never approached a woman or flirted with a woman. It's pointless because I am a 5'6 manlet white guy with a 5 inch dick who is 3/10 at best(/soc/ rated). Women are surrounded by better men than me all day, everyday and can find any guy they wish online. There is no reason for a woman to choose to be with me over any one of her many other options. Why would she be with me when she can be with a guy taller than me, better looking than me, with more money and a better job than me, and can offer her more than I can to her? The answer is that she wouldn't, and even if she did choose me, it would be only a matter of time before she cheats on me with a better man anyway.

>19
>yes
>i'm shy and spend most of my time inside

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19
yes
I had chances, but I'm veeery insecure about myself. it's mostly caused by childhood abuse by my mom and living in poverty the majority of my life. I forgot how it is called, but there is a name for all the symptons you get when you were abused as a child like lack of expressing your own personality, avoiding conflict, being a peoples pleaser, not being able to talk about your own emotions, etc. so from outside I might seem like a joyful, interesting and confident person, but inside I'm deeply insecure.
lack of confidence and self-worth is a death sentence for most men who want a relationship. I can't approach any woman, no matter what. and even when I got close to a woman because she approached me, there is always the feeling that she probably doesn't like me. I tend to be so in denial that I fuck up actual chances to have a relationship everytime.

also getting physically close with a woman just makes me anxious. I would be able to do it if I had a partner who was aware of that and could "guide me through it", but I'd have to find a woman who is willing to do all that shit... impossible

>another 14 eyes data mining thread

I'm going to have to skip on this one, Intelligence Gathering user / IGA!

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>At least you know it's your fault. You have a massive ego but it seems like you don't have an ego because you think you're amazing (though you do think you're better than others) but as a defensive mechanism.
Nah, you are totally misunderstanding me, IMO. I absolutely don't think I am better than others or have a massive ego. In fact to me it sounds like you have a way bigger ego than me, seeing as how you say your own needs are more important than others'. Not to make this a "no u" contest or anything, just to show my perspective. And if I did have a massive ego, I don't get how it's a defense mechanism because I don't know what it's defending me from.

It's also not my "fault" because it's nobody's fault, it's just how things are. I don't think it's bad. I don't socialize because I don't want to socialize, therefore I am not discontent with the fact that I don't socialize (or have a gf because I know socializing is an inherent part of that). And I don't think others have the right to be discontent about me not socializing with them, either.

>It's a decision to make it who you are. People change all the time but you refuse to do so, another choice.
Again, I totally disagree. People can change but they can't change their core aspects of their mind. Do you f.ex. think it's a choice to be gay? Or a choice to like pizza or not? Or a choice what IQ you have?

>Sometimes people are just boring but a conversation is a two way thing. It's just as much your responsibility to engage them as it is yours.
Again, I don't contest the fact that if I wanted to socialize and get a gf, I would have to put in work. But I don't. Getting a gf and socializing is not a goal of mine because I find it boring. Not just the means, but the end too.

By the way, refusing to back down from a conversation from someone even if they clearly show you they are not interested for 40 minutes, sounds like harassment to me.

>I don't get how it's a defense mechanism because I don't know what it's defending me from.
Rejection. If you don't interact with the plebs they can't hurt you and if a pleb does say something who cares because they're a pleb with nothing interesting to say anyway. That's how you come across.

>It's also not my "fault" because it's nobody's fault, it's just how things are.
You have to take responsibility for your own shortcomings. They might not be 100% your fault but you're your own master and it's your duty to yourself to better yourself.

>Do you f.ex. think it's a choice to be gay? Or a choice what IQ you have?
No, and these aren't the same as refusing to interact with people.

>Or a choice to like pizza or not?
Yes. This is a choice. You can force yourself to like pizza if you want. There's no reason to force yourself to like it though so it's moot.

>By the way, refusing to back down from a conversation from someone even if they clearly show you they are not interested for 40 minutes, sounds like harassment to me.
You're not the first person on here to say that but I think it's because you've been inundated with horror stories about bullshit "harrassment" claims. Two hours into our shift we took our breaks together. I got her contact info and eventually I had her dump her bf for me, dated for years. She liked it. You gotta be able to read them to find out if it's appropriate to continue talking though.

>I don't think it's bad. I don't socialize because I don't want to socialize, therefore I am not discontent with the fact that I don't socialize (or have a gf because I know socializing is an inherent part of that). And I don't think others have the right to be discontent about me not socializing with them, either.
I agree with you 100%. The thing is, this started because I told you being an introvert isn't an excuse to be single. Choosing to be single IS a reason to be single though. The argument has shifted so there's really nothing else to say.