Is it possible to cure bisexuality?

You could just not suck dicks

Different user here but the perception that "bi = fucks anyone anytime" is the part that worries me; I have had a long term bf before (not an LDR either) and we didn't sleep around on each other, but I'm worried that 90% of girls I meet would be instantly repulsed by the slightest hint of an idea that their boyfriend also happens to like guys even if he didn't have a bunch of random gay hookups

Even with gay guys it seems most of them want a boyfriend who is also 100% gay so it feels like I have to either lie about that part to anyone I might date or be honest and live with a much smaller dating pool

I'm with someone who is bi, but we both value fidelity a great deal, so it just comes with the plus side of being able to see the same people as attractive. Feels good desu.

I will say though, he does not identify as such, and I didn't know about it until way later in the relationship. The 20 year old me would have been very put off if he came out and told me that right off the bat, because seeing as he still won't actually pursue a relationship with other guys, it doesn't matter. I don't think you should tell girls you're bi because you don't plan on cheating on them with a dude at any point.

>lie
It's not really a lie, unless you think the person you're with has some moral qualms about homosexuality even if it doesn't actually apply to your or their life. Then you don't really need to be with that person anyway. They don't need to know every person you fapped to, your shoe size, your first words and your blood type on the first date, you know?

I don't come out announcing my sexuality out of the gate but I just feel like it's a bridge that will have to be crossed sooner or later in a relationship, even outside of dating I hesitate to mention it even in the company of people who are fairly left-wing since I don't want to be pinned with some of the more unsavory stereotypes out there about gay/bi men

Bless you both though, it sounds like you have basically the ideal type of relationship that I'm looking for so I hope you two stay together for a long time

>It's not really a lie, unless you think the person you're with has some moral qualms about homosexuality even if it doesn't actually apply to your or their life.
I highly doubt I'd end up dating someone who has a moral or religious issue with gay people in the first place, but it seems a lot of people both straight and gay have issues with trusting a partner who they find out is bi and I can't imagine how just never telling them at all would help that trust issue

No, just don't be a faggot. Recognize that it's a mental disease. There is a healthy amount of shame to have, it probably isn't your fault.

t. in the same boat

I'm so glad I never had sex with a man when I was curious.

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>I highly doubt I'd end up dating someone who has a moral or religious issue with gay people in the first place, but it seems a lot of people both straight and gay have issues with trusting a partner who they find out is bi and I can't imagine how just never telling them at all would help that trust issue
Put it this way, are you so bi that it would affect your ability to commit to a relationship? Obviously the answer is no, so you being bi isn't relevant enough to bring up unless you've already established a relationship where you trust each other enough with that kind of information.

>injection drug use 5%
That can't be real
>male to make sexual contact + drug use 3%
DEFINITELY not real

Why would you wanna cure it? You won the lottery of sexuality. You have so many options.

>You have so many options.
>implying guys on grindr and tumblr are relationship material

>tfw will never be in a poly relationship where the girl and I get railed hard every night by our boyfriend's huge cock. our slutty moans and whimpers getting muffled as we deeply and passionately make out as he pistons his cock inside either one of us
being bi is fun

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People like you are why people like OP can't have nice things.

I guess so, I'm just worried that most people are inherently inclined to look at their partner differently if they find out he/she is bi such that even if it doesn't break the relationship it could still strain it

This. But also a gf that's just cool with me sometimes getting dicked on the side

If you're not hyper-masculine to begin with, whoever takes interest in you probably would either not mind or just assume off the bat you weren't a 0 on the kinsey scale. The only reason most women would be concerned is because of fidelity. It's discouraging having literally everybody hit on your partner and try to homewreck your relationship, even "straight" fat guys. You really learn a lot about people if your relationship can withstand that amount of bombardment from jealous normies.

>cool with me sometimes getting dicked on the side
Good luck finding a girl who wants to be pozzed

>The only reason most women would be concerned is because of fidelity.

No, faggotry is just plain unattractive.

Are you telling me what I think now?

No thats what most woman think though. Faggotry is feminine and woman hate feminine men more than anything else.

>trust me I know all about women I'm a friendless loser who's never been in a relationship!!!!

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I'm more or less an "average guy", not really super macho but not flaming either and I try to take care of myself; I dated one girl who was actually turned on when she learned I was bi but I know that's too rare for me to expect to find another person who's like that, it sucks but is more or less on the mark in my experience

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>63% of woman said they would NOT date bi guys

Go back to blowing truckers at the rest stop you depressing closet case. Some people have taste and don't want to be with some cookie cutter low IQ grizzly adams larper.

Why would you want to cure it? On paper you get a whole another gender to chose from, and not everyone has to know, some girls might like the thought of that, and for everyone who doesnt you should know about it by then and not tell them, besides bi people give off a certain vibe and look, so if they dont like that you're bi they probably wont like the way you behave and look

>63%
A
whopping
SIXTY THREE PERCENT!
the facts have spoken

Yes. Insertion of a Pb 82 implant in the cerebral cortex cures it completely.

Be my gf please. I'm not masculine, I like buttstuff, and I'll be loyal in a committed relationship. I'm only bi in the sense that I like internet trannies. They're probably too masculine in real life and I'd be too grossed out to do anything with one in real life, so I'd have literally no reason to cheat.

you sound like you have some repressed feelings my friend, its normal, nothing to be scared of

I said earlier I'm already with someone who's bi and they don't like butt stuff or trannies. RIP you

Go NoFap, adopt a high T lifestyle, avoid shit that make you produce estrogen (certain foods/ hygiene products)
Homosexuality has been linked to Low T and High Estrogen as well as bad life habits, research on this field is pretty censored but it seems logical enough.
It can't hurt to do those things anyway

>no fap
>actually doing something
into the trash you go fucker

>Curing the natural state of humans
What is this supposed to mean, OP?

>dopamine addiction is not real

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Don't try to pull that bullshit on me, I like being bi, but I'm still not dumb enough to have sex with men, its pointless when we have woman. Knowing what the std rates for msm are, you'd be a fool to put your body at risk for an orgasm.

This is a misconception, most bisexuals are still mostly attracted to the opposite sex, just look at bi woman, sex with the other is mostly or fun. So you can have more hookups, but real romantic long lasting relationships will still elude you.

i fail to find any point in anything you're saying, not all gay/bi people go out and get railed in a gas station bathroom

That's another aspect I forgot about until you mentioned it, I'm not really a fan of butt stuff with men or women (my attitude there is basically "if my partner really, *really* wants it then alright but nothing dangerous, otherwise whatever") but it seems that if you tell your girlfriend you're bi then it just makes her worried that sooner or later you'll start asking her to peg you or put her fingers in your ass and other things like that

If you want a relationship: date women or OPENLY gay men who are not insecure or self hating, be monogamous, don't be into degenerate fetish shit that makes you shit your pants and chafe your dick off to men in stockings dressed as anime girls
If you want casual hookups: get casual hookups, it's very easy because people are disgusting

yea lets go live as a monk in the tibet mountains so i dont get tempted by anything, if you dont have that much self control you're retarded

The natural state of humans is heterosexuality because it's reproductive.

>muh biological imperative
Spotted the tard

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This thread is an absolute dumpster fire

point to the post that touched you

True. No actual solutions have been suggested except the nofap meme.

all of it, from the op who is clearly retarded to most of the people posting here

Because it's not a problem. If other people have a problem with it that's their problem.

The solution is obviously 50 cal aspirin.

psh how dare you speak the truth, you know 99% of the people here are closet homosexuals that are too scared their parents might disown them

>too scared their parents might disown them
Sounds like a NEET problem

>not all gay/bi people go out and get railed in a gas station bathroom

Of course not all, but most are on the promiscuous side because its so easy to get sex, and most bi men are into hookups, not relationships with men.

No some of us are just self aware enough to know there is nothing to be gained from fucking a man in his shit hole. Its amazing that we've turned such a silly act into something that must be embraced and never criticized.

yea because girls are always just a romantic interest and relationships with girls are always perfect and last forever

>Because it's not a problem.
Yes it is. I want these deviant faggot thoughts out of my brain.
>If other people have a problem with it that's their problem.
I have to live in society. Maybe those other people are right to not like faggot shit.

So just be a manwhore, what's stopping you?

then dont behave like a faggot, you dont have to wear pink and tell everyone you suck dick

>I want these deviant faggot thoughts out of my brain.
Are you really that easily influenced by shit you see on Jow Forums you can't use filters and just condition yourself to not want a giant fist up your ass? Christ.
>I have to live in society.
Normalfag problems

im a hopeless romantic, i want something to have meaningful talks with and hold hands, and neither side has this at the moment im afraid

Pink is for basedboys though

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>and neither side has this at the moment im afraid
Well that's the downside to being bisexual, you realize humanity as a whole sucks and you can't trust nearly anybody either way, so it's that much more meaningful when you meet someone who you can.

pink is an awful color, and i dont mean its gay, i just mean its a shitty color, true basedboys know that turquoise is the best color, catches the eye yet doesnt make your eyes bleed

They look great together, actually.

sure but thats not bisexuallity's problem, even if you were just gay or just straight it would be the same issue, so we're all fucked equally

Of course not, but I've researched sexuality a lot, and throughout history bisexuality was the result of excessive vices. Just look at most o the faggotry on Jow Forums, most of it isn't even normal guys, but just a fetish for crossdressing boys.

Pretty much, yeah. It's a very bad time to find people who want to get serious, they either have some alterior motive or they're manipulating you. It fucking sucks, but we're all in the same boat as you said.

>I have to live in society

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What is there to cure? Bisexuality is objectively the best orientation. You have no boundaries, you have the biggest dating pool, and the most variety. In fact I wish my heterosexuality was cured so that I could be a bisexual.

on theory its a whole another gender to chose from, in practice its a whole another gender to ignore you

>you have the biggest dating pool
This isn't true. Both heterosexual women and gay men distrust bi men.

I don't understand where the perception that bisexuals can't be monogamous comes from. Is a straight guy attracted to nobody else on earth besides his girlfriend? No, there's plenty other girls he'll find hot but he can still manage to have a faithful monogamous relationship with her. Same with a gay guy and his boyfriend.

I wish more people saw it that way but is on the mark more often than not, girls don't want the nagging thought of "what if he leaves me for a man?" lingering in the back of their mind and gay guys don't want their partner to leave them in favor of a woman either

I obviously can't speak first-hand about how things are on the lesbian side of things but I've heard basically the exact same logic from a few lesbians I've asked about this stuff

>I don't understand where the perception that bisexuals can't be monogamous comes from

Gay sex is so easy to get its rare to find a bi guy who hasn't been passed around on grindr. And you can't ignore the strong hookup culture in the LGBT community, men don't have high standards like woman do and don't need to vet their options with dates.

This. Failing with both genders = twice the pain of loneliness
That's more of a symptom of the misconception rather than a cause but I do think it's best to stick to just one gender rather than going for both and causing them to find you gross or untrustworthy

Because it's true the majority of them are degenerate, you couldn't even really call them bisexual they're just depraved and desperate for attention. Instead of using the bisexual label just be straight if you want to date a woman and gay if you want to date a man, as stated before, if you don't plan on encouraging threesomes or some other cuck shit then you're not effectively bisexual in the context of your relationship. You don't NEED a label.

too late, already fell for it, my friends use that information to make faggot jokes

>"what if he leaves me for a man?"
They're dumb if they think this and there is no real reason to. If the guy is a porn addict or something or shows some other lack of self control then it's reason to become suspicious, but you should know someone well enough to know better before entering a relationship.

>as stated before, if you don't plan on encouraging threesomes or some other cuck shit then you're not effectively bisexual in the context of your relationship.
This is true but for a lot of people "relationship context" also includes knowing about your relationship history, unless you're dating a nun most girls are understanding about a guy having ex-girlfriends but knowing that he once had a boyfriend doesn't go down as well

>the lesbian side of things
WAY more likely for bi girls to leave a woman for a man. It's gotten people I know fired because his lesbian boss got jealous and nothing even happened. You don't need to worry about that shit half as much if a guy is bisexual but strictly monogamous. You're more likely to land a guy who calls himself straight, but sneaks out at night for gay hookups.

>"what if he leaves me for a man?"

People always mention that aspect but never look at how bi men are viewed by their peers as the reason. What woman wants to tell her family and friends that her bf has been fucked in the ass? I think that's a much bigger deterrent because woman can't handle being with a man who isn't socially approved of.

You're really not trying to waste your time with closed-minded people anyway though, are you?

>I had a boyfriend before
Is acceptable
>I used to spend hours at the bath house getting punched in the ass by strangers
Obviously isn't

If they can't handle a little dose of reality and want a picture perfect image of a manly man, that relationship won't work out any way you try it.

Yeah, most "bisexual" girls will never go past experimenting once or twice in college but they keep the bisexual label because guys find the idea of two girls having sex very hot

>What woman wants to tell her family and friends that her bf has been fucked in the ass?
What woman wants to tell her family about her sex life? Do you want to be with someone who actually cares about your social status more than you?

Some people have a hard time separating the two even if they're open-minded about other social issues in general, you can lay it all out there and if your relationship history includes just one male partner (long-term or not) then they may still suspect that you're not telling them the whole story

>Do you want to be with someone who actually cares about your social status more than you?

That's woman period. That's why the way a man dresses is so important to them, image is everything.

That's illogical, why would you bother to bring it up at all if you were going to lie? Again this is not material for discussion on a first, second or even third date.

>That's woman period.
Then be with a man if you don't want to be with a shitty self absorbed woman. It's a non-issue for you. Just be with shitty self-absorbed men since those are the only kind of people you seem to ever meet.

This. I realized that I was bi recently and now I enjoy every second of it

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>Then be with a man

But I like not having AIDs.

Well you don't like women either so just go straight to hell, then.

Woman are okay as long as you have value. The problem with woman comes from the fact that the less successful you are the harder they make you work for pussy.

user, I think you're pretty much only good for a cumdump. Just leave it at that, at least it's something.