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>i keep failing to amateur or videos where they act like a husband and wife that love each other
Bro, I was deep into some weird shit before i started jerking to the married trad stuff. Like stuff of dubious legality. No cp thank God, but I understand that's what you go for after snuff gets boring.
You are on your way out. Just take yourself seriously and keep your commitment. That fake wholesome porn says something positive about your desires, but it's still poison.

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I never got nauseated. I just felt like shit and couldn't get any motivation for several hours. It's also when I thought about killing myself the most.
And this was before I even knew about nofap. And I had embraced the sex positive propaganda that we got in freshman orientation.

>amateur or videos where they act like a husband and wife that love each other
> fake wholesome porn says something positive

romantic and nice porn is way worse than the openly depraved stuff. close relationships take immense work, discipline and luck, the porn is a fiction of that. even if its an irl husband/wife filming themselves, its their relationship not yours. it's really bad to get accustomed to that degree of affection and intimacy when you are at a point in your life where you are not worth half of it. i can think of no worse way to totally short circuit your brain

Day 26. I feel more energy and more confident but no libido. Im kinda scared cuz without libido i have no crave for pussy/ no game... Help bros im scared

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i am on 20 days streak nofap.
is there any kind of female body art, naked preferably, that is OK to watch?
>i enjoy too much to female naked body images and videos

>back on day 2
>really feeling it this time, hardly any urges as per usual, only desire I feel is to fuck my gf (ldr so not happening but still a change for the better)
>just had a random ad for a tshirt pop up with inspirational text
>mfw 'iron within, iron without'

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I'm just over 60 days now (not counting exactly), and I don't feel shit. But I do know that when I jerk off I feel like shit, so at least I didn't feel that in a while.

I almost fucking teared up (inb4 faggot) reading abt the weird fetishes going away, nofap and noporn starting now

My biggest problem with no fap is I will get three days in and start fantasizing to the point I’m hard and can’t stop and will literally get terribly painful blueballs

flatline, that will pass. I know you're thinking about going back but dont

On my second or third month without any real fuck ups, my dudes, feels good

Ever since I converted to Catholicism and started getting those sacraments I went from screwing up twice a week to now like twice a year

My entire approach to women, life, and discipline has changed. I never even notice until I think back on it

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try nude gymnastics.
they're flying all around, and not posing provocatively.
you'll get bored quick, if you're looking for erotica in that form.

sorry, but if you can go on for more than a week without cumming it means you have low libido and are therefore a low test soiboi. don't do nofap unless you're able to have sex in place of masturbating.

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>this is what dopamine addicted weaklings tell themselves to justify their addiction

I started when I was 20 and got pussy like 1 month into it. Its a lot to do with attitude tho. Girls really want an asshole guy who is dominant that will speak his mind and tell her what to do. If that isnt you then you must fake it. Best of luck to you user.

Now you do as you wish, and if you wanna keep going you're free to, but I'll tell you my experience. I got to precisely 31, an entire month once, but felt nothing. At all! No urges, no desire, no want to improve or more energy to do anything, just "nothing special". Today I do 'cycles' of 1-2 weeks of nofap for that initial wellbeing and peaking test, then just restart when that starts to flatline out into feeling nothing again. (And permanent noporn ofc, that's the real deal anyhow)
As said, just telling you about my experience, you might be different and thrive past 2 weeks, I don't know.

This, basically. Once you make up your mind and "realise" that the only way you will get release is if you pick up a girl or get a gf you start doing all these things just to bed them, no matter if it's approaching a hot girl you would never approach usually or say/do crazy things you normally would be too cowardly to do

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I don’t think I will ever masturbaiting again. I’m about a week in after nearly two years of daily 5-10x a day beating it. I feel fucking great. I don’t understand why it is that if I jack off I get super anxious and negative in general, but I have no problem leaving it behind now. I’ve come close to failing a few times but I refuse to fuck this up. If everything keeps going according to plan I’ll have moved out (23 years old) in about 10 months and be working in my career. One bi gchanhe ive noticed is I’m starting to see women as normal people again, rather than just objects or evil people out to get me. I feel like I can hold a conversation with a chick without sperging.

I realize it’s probably frowned upon in the nofap community, but I am going to test how I do while high in a few weeks. Before the anxiety was amplified, even more so if around other people. Not only did I quit because of that, but also because of the career I’m going into. But since this will be my last time smoking pretty much ever I am going to test to see if I can enjoy the high. Might sound stupid especially because weed makes a lot of guys fail nofap but it’s just something I gotta test out. If I don’t feel all anxious when I smoke (will be around 4 weeks into nofap) then I’ll know this shit is undoubtedly legit.

I lost an 87 day streak today, and literally minutes after the girl I've been waiting on all week messages to say she wants to go out with me Friday (tomorrow) night.

The anti-depressants I'm on have stopped any blues or brainfog. My biggest worry is I'll get ED or just not perform as well as a result of the fucked up shit I watched/read for 3 hours straight today.

Who's been in this situation and can tell me
>a) it's all in your head. The 87 days far outweigh the 1 relapse and if you're confident, you're fine
>b) you'll be an awkward, pathetic mess. You'll stay floppy all night or finish in 1 minute, try to compensate, dissapoint and lose great qt gf material.

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I just play Resident Evil 2 remake with nude mods to scratch that itch (no ejaculation tho)

>my biggest worry
That's your issue right now - worry. Worry will fuck you up, just think about other things, think stuff like "damn I haven't done anything but this fap right now for the last almost 90 days, I can totally get it up easily"

You will be A or B depending on what you decide for. Dance and listen to an epic song while you get dressed, become Chad Incarnate or whatever, you're gonna do this and you're gonna do it well.

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I've done it for months. My t levels came back higher than average. Cope harder, undisciplined bro

Brehs, i've noticed i get longer streaks if i have a day to day routine, i barely fapped when i was going to college but now that i'm free i do it for whatever reason.

Should i go to a bootcamp or something to get that discipline back?

I need to meditate to build focus so I can go to bed without much on my mind allowing me to sleep rather than fap.

For real no fap bros how do you deal with blue balls from fantasies

Stop fantasizing

I pray.

Can you reset while having sex?

Resetting is about avoiding porn for people who are addicted to the dopamine. Just avoid porn and bust a load in your gf whenever you feel like it

but then you are gonna get addicted to your girlfriend
just dump the bitch and focus on lifts bro

Dude I do it randomly even too ugly girls I see after about three days nofap

Never been very religious but I’ll give it a shot I guess

Fucking something makes you feel more dominant which itself will boost test.
user you should dump your girl and start fucking guys at the gym.
Not in a gay way it's just for the test boost

LOL

Why is this written bottom to top? That's not how reading works.

cause you start at the bottom

Thanks for sharing, user! Really upbeat post. Keep going, fren! God bless you!

gave up on not fapping, waking uo with blue balls is no fun. stayed off porn though which has improved ye olde erections

Currently on day 4. Not feeling any major urges today but I know they're coming. Keep up the good work frens, please pray for me. We're all gonna make it

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Even though im flatlining hard i wanna believe i will continue to get more and more confident and be a better me the more i continue to restrain myself

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is this true

anyone ever wonder why virgins and incels are the only people who ever do nofap or take it seriously?

nice thumbnail

Thx fag

>people who have issues with their sexuality do things to fix their sexuality
HMMMM

Anons how do I counteract gym thots distracting me more easily now that I'm on nofap. Hard for me to not stare while resting between sets.

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one secret little trick: look somewhere else

What the hell did you just say about me, little bitch? I will let you know that I graduated as the best of my class in the Navy Seals, and I have participated in numerous secret raids in Al-Quaeda, and I have more than 300 confirmed deaths. I am trained in the gorilla war and am the best sniper in all the armed forces of the United States. You are nothing to me, but only another goal. I'll clean the shit with precision like never before on Earth, mark my fucking words. Do you think you can get away with it and tell me that shit on the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we speak, I am communicating with my secret network of spies throughout the United States. UU And your IP is being tracked at this time so you are better prepared for the storm, worm. The storm that erases the pathetic little thing you call your life. You're fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, at any time, and I can kill you in more than seven hundred ways, and that is only with my own hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its fullest extent to cleanse your miserable ass from the continent, little shit. If you could only have known what profane retribution was about to provoke your little "intelligent" comment, perhaps you would have contained your fucking tongue. But you could not, you did not, and now you're paying the price, you fucking idiot. I'll shit your fury everywhere and drown in it. You're fucking dead, kid.

I remember I was like on a 30+ streak and went on a porn binge. I relapsed and instantly felt like a cancer patient. That feeling lasted for like a week.

Anons (without gfs) who have quit porn but not masturbating, how did you do it?

Wear a ball cap and stare at your feet. I've actually enjoyed ignoring them ever since I became attractive enough for them to peacock for. They drastically alter their workouts to shove their ass in your face. I just keep my ball cap down and move weight. Because I know that they are only looking for validation. If I asked them out, they wouldn't be interested.

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HERE WE GO BROS! DAY 1, AIMING FOR 7 DAYS THEN WE'LL SEE WHAT HAPPENS! WHO'S WITH ME!?

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user no, it's your brain trying to trick you back into porn. I failed several times just like this. You'll search for softcore porn first, then get bored quickly and end up on porn again. Stay strong.

>doesn't know about transmutating sexual energy in other parts of life

Woke up,bought an onahole. They shipped it before I could cancel my order and save money.

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>Day 4

Wish me luck frenz

>day 7
>decide to give up but still resist porn
>'audio doesn't count' methinks
>dig up some dumb hypnosis audio supposed to make you come
>mfw the power of a female voice and imagination was enough to bust my nut
Among some degenerates hands free cumming is a goal they strive for but this makes me just more ashamed.

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Why are you watching the videos in the first place?

Fuck off /x/ schizos

m.youtube.com/watch?v=4K1ww9eiovQ

Sexual repression leads to greater creativity and maintaining a civilization. Freud was a fraud. The “have sex” meme is terrible and you shouldn’t follow the advice.

Cheers, lads. Keep it in your pants.

hey can i fap looking at ecchi pics? like no nudity just bikini

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You cant. Content doesn't matter, you're still fapping to a monitor instead being with someone real

What's wrong with cp?

how long did it take for your T levels to recover?

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I keep breaking my streaks the moment I get really depressed (5-10 days in), and then I binge for a day...
Whut do?

Dumb question. Does nofap extend to sex? I'm married but would like to enjoy sex with my wife more.

Yeah doing the same 8-14 day cycle.

Read something about "dead sex energy/jing" that happens after 2 weeks, and I notice it clearly.

Up to 2 weeks i get benefits, woman magnet is on, good energy and feeling invisible, but after that never ending flatline up to +180 days until i have wet dream/ejaculate. And then powers come back as sexual energy will replenish.

2 week cycle is the method from my experience after initial 1-2 month witdrawl from porn.

3 month or 3 year flatline is no more flatline.

People just get too addicted to counting days for future paradise with magic pill mentality and fall into dogma to get probs.
OF couse everyone should test what works best for them with open mind.

Also taking 15 mg P-5-P (active B6 vitamin) to avoid prolactin side effects from ejaculation.

Acting asshole is just as unnatural beta front/role as being nice guy,
both only to compensate lack of the natural state of Esteem that we are all born with. As childs we are all happy, bewildered and talked to everyone.

When you get your inner game right,
and remove the negative self beliefs you created from childhood traumas and connect to the entitlement/core-value/confidence of who you were borned with, its effortles to pull hot chicks when ever you want and you wont see sex as a big deal anymore.

Download RSD tylers Blueprint Decoded or check out their free content to get this shit handled out.

If you cant approach every hot girl in the streets THAT YOU WANT without feeling anxiety, there is fucking work to do!! This your fucking life! Your only fucking change to be alive!

People always try to compensate lack of Self-Esteem/Core-value with superficial things like cool clothes, looks and money, they literally poison themselves to feel confidence and to be social,
without realizing that the feeling you get when you have all those things and that the blisfull feeling of hanging out with your friends and of being in love..

..SHOULD BE OUR DEFAULT STATE ALL THE TIME.
And once you remove ego/painbody and re-connect with your natural state of being: swag and sex will just be natural and automatic afterthought and not some fake social mask to be put only to get validation and sex.

This has been best journey of my life, I hope same for you.

Wont cost you anything more than a commitment that you had enough and this moment is the unforgettable turning point of your life.

Can nofap cure the gay?

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Depend what kind of gay,if you were into men before porn then you're fucked,but if you went by more and more degenerate stuff there might be a chance.It all depend if you are truly gay or just a porn addict

Based and Kingpilled

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Day 14 for me. Not the best streak in the thread, but still admirable. Have been battling this addiction for about 3 years now. Best advice I can give is to set yourself realistic goals. What OP is posting is absolute bullshit for a beginner. Instead of aiming for a naive 30-90 days. Just keep track for low long your steaks are.

>"How many 24 hour periods can I go without fapping"

DOCUMENT YOUR STREAKS [spoiler] I use google docs, but a calendar works too. [/spoiler] and learn the pattern your brain is making. Your average streak ( The sum all documented streaks / number of relapses) should be your goal. If you can go past that great. See how many times you can repeat that goal.

>Ex. My average streak is 4 days. If I go past 4 days I try to go for 8 days, then 12, then 16 then 20....etc
>When I relapse. I add the new streak and find the new average. That should give me a slightly longer goal, or shorter goal if I didn't make the 4.

Encouragement is great, but you guys need to approach this in a realistic and pragmatic manner. Rome wasn't built in a day.

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>People just get too addicted to counting days for future paradise with magic pill mentality and fall into dogma to get probs.
dude you think that your body magically always shut down after 2 weeks of not cumming. thats just your brain tricking you into jacking it again. wake up retard.

Do indulging mentally on fantasies count as a loss?

Maybe not a loss, but a setback. Mental fantasies plant a seed for more fantasy, more looking, more touching, more edging, etc. When you start having a fantasy, kill the thought. But don't look at killing the thought as you losing the privilege to fantasize--look at it as helping yourself. Because all those thoughts, glances, touches do is put you a little bit closer to turning back to your old ways. Best to just keep moving forward to your new, objectively better life.

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I'm 4 weeks in and I just had a fuckin wet dream. Does this reset me? How do you prevent this?

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