What is this "bullying builds character" meme? What character was I supposed to build through bullying...

It really depends on who's bullying you. If it's just the kids at school then it's fine. But if it's literally fucking everyone (including family and teachers) like I was then you're permanently fucked.

>yeah I was raised in a normal loving household like every other normie and you had a shit upbringing like every other robot but that's completely irrelevant to how you turned out bro everything bad about your life is own fault

This is what brainless, retarded, normie faggots actually believe.

I am actually very conservative and voted for Trump. I thought everyone knew the real bullies were on the left these days.

>tried to stand up for myself, teachers and mother immediately shot me down and told me to stop causing trouble
Why do adults do this? Don't they realize they're fucking up society by doing this?

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My mom was too poor and sick to buy soap to keep me clean. So these middle eastern girls would bully me for being so dirty.

Now I can't stand being remotely dirty and I like when girls bully me. It doesn't all have to be bad. I gained some cool characteristics from it other than bad social skills.

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Bullying turned me into an anxious, low self-esteem wreck with a pathological fear of rejection. Anyone who says bullying builds character is fucking retarded lol

Aren't middle easterners dirty?

Not nearly as dirty as I was apparently. I was pretty fucking greasy and gross, but that could be them talking.
I think I did bring that up at some point to whitch the teacher got pissed at me for.

Same boat, OP. Teachers already singled me out because I had another disability. Parents divorced and abusive dad got custody. DSS was called countless times but I never actually got help. Govt refuses to give me autismbux. Got some IT certs but still can't find a job that isn't a call center. I'm absolutely sure that even if I find one and move out of my mom's basement that I'll still always be unhappy and insecure and alone. I cling to my like, 4 childhood friends (who only still live here because they're also mentally unhealthy and don't have jobs) because I doubt I can make more real friends.

>kids started telling me I was obnoxious
No op, you were perfect the whole time! Dont try to imptove yourself, those normies just cant understand you!!

Bullying only built character when you were allowed to fight back. I got suspended for calling a kid a faggot after he punched me. The whole fucking system protects people who are bullies.

Exactly this. Parents and teachers are so damn soft. If I ever had a kid, I'd teach him how to defend himself. If a school had a problem with my kid defending himself, I'd tell them off.

Same here. I got beat up by the football team in my school, ended up breaking a couple of ribs, my arm and my collar bone. My attendance after that never got above 75%. I don't know. It's one of the only memories that really comes to mind when I think of school.

No one gave a damn about my improvement, they just wanted me to be quiet. This includes teachers.

Speaking of which, class was full of niggers and they were allowed to blather on about whatever garbage they wanted to. Funny how that works.

It's all fucking bullshit. All it does is makes you paranoid, destroying your self-esteem. You start to think that there is something wrong with you. I think it's the other way around. It's the adults who don't want to take responsability. Fuck, I went to the fucking principal multiple times because I couldn't do well on classes, I was on the verge of crying, etc. She said she would 'have a talk' with the guy messing with me, and nothing changed. Everyone just said "Eh, don't mind him, he's just messing with ya".

Fat good that bullying did to me. Wish I actually had killed the fucker. I was a kid, could've got away with it. And he fucking deserved it. I don't care if he did because he has lower IQ, bad parents, whatever. If you mess with someone who is quiet, you deserve whatever you get it coming your way.

There are actually very few good adults, mentors, teachers. Most of people don't have any idea how to deal with younger folk. They forget you don't have perspective on life, all your world is school, and that things that happen in your there can and will impact your adult life.

A friend of mine almost got expelled after punching a kid who was stealing his shit. I don't get it either.

It's always the problem pieces of shit who never get punished, while normal people do.

>They forget you don't have perspective on life, all your world is school, and that things that happen in your there can and will impact your adult life.
I wish I was taught perspective at a young age, because I wouldn't have tried to kill myself all those times. Only when i was through uni did I realize none of that shit before I was 18 mattered, and yet it almost killed me. All the shit I went through, all the sacrifices I made, none of that mattered. I kept quiet and took the abuse because all I thought was it would matter more that I had a "perfect record" but in reality I should have beat the shit out of the people. I could have, I knew how to fight, but I didn't because of people like parents and teachers lying to me.

I was raised by a single mother and was the only non-white kid in my class. My mom said not to stand up for myself because I was already going to get targeted because of my race. Now I'm a total basedboy that no girl likes that lives with his mom and jacks off to anime porno all day.

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>The whole fucking system protects people who are bullies.
But why? I've noticed this as well and I can't see why they do this. The only example I can think of is that some guy that did this was on a sports team that I knew, so he wasn't allowed to get in trouble.

They do this to "protect you" but they don't realize you're already getting assaulted.

jesus fucking christ did they get expelled?

I think it's because of bullying laws. Since there is a "no exceptions" policy now, kids who are first time offenders get expelled. And first time offenders are mostly kids who retaliate because they are good kids who have never done anything to hurt someone. Meanwhile there are laws in place to protect "troubled" kids, whole often don't do the worst shit first time and have had a history of small things they did wrong. They are protected by this law.

>normalfags say you should stand up to your bullies
>constantly hates on anyone that takes their advice
???

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Fuck no. It only started because one of their players tried to start a fight with me. I won the fight and the whole team piled in on me. Head teacher told me that they'd have a word with the students involved, only to then tell me that it was basically my fault for getting into a fight in the first place even though I couldn't avoid it. I honestly fucking cried myself to sleep for so many nights in absolute agony.

>I knew how to fight, but I didn't because of people like parents and teachers lying to me
This is the part that pisses me off the most. I was 100% prepared to beat the shit out of people, but they kept talking about getting suspended like it would be the end of my world and I was dumb enough to believe it. All that anti-bullying shit only worked to help bullies because they didn't care about getting suspended anyway.

I don't know man, I got bullied in 6th grade and what I learned kinda changed me forever.
>truth is irrelevant to normies
>being a smartass and being better than others is bad keep down low and only show you're better than others only when needed
>underhanded methods that the person doesn't know your involvement in is better than confronting the person directly
You get the idea. If you make people feel bad for bullying you and make them look like an ass it works great. Or you take hrt and fuck your bully and post it all over his social media like someone in my high school did.

Whenever I tried to make anyone feel bad, I just got called whiny...

Did you just tell them things or did you change who you are? Saying words is irrelevant, I changed who I was. Became a very relaxed easygoing person and made friends with someone pretty popular. Plus I tutored many of the kids in the athletic programs to show how much of a "chill" person I was and told all of them about how this person picked on my and their reputation went down the trash and people pretty much socially isolated him since the kids I helped did so.
Fun shit isn't it?

Not him, but I found changing your personality doesn't work. I wasn't happy at all and people still didn't like me. I'm a friendless autist now, but I'm still happier than when I had a bunch of asshole "friends" following me around that sperged over wrongthink.

It doesn't make you happier as a person but it does stop people from messing with you too much and you can show yourself how good of an actor you are.
But god damn it made me lose all hope I had for the majority of people. I have a best friend who had a really bad break up in high school and he called about 30 or something of his friends asking for emotional support. And I was the only one who was there. Like fuck man adapting to normies is awful but what choice did I have. Thank God I'm out of school and my job the only thing I do is terrorize society.

I remember I got bullied back in elementary and middle school (and a tad bit in high school) really hard because I had no friends. I just wanted friends and I just wanted to be cool so I tried everything I could to get attention and and an I acted lik an autistic little shit.