SSSSSATURDAY NIGHT FEELS THREAD

>out with friend
>haven't seen her in 2 weeks
>"wow user, have you lost some weight?"
>out walking
>run into girl I like
>"today is the first day all summer of trying to work out. So-and-so has been doing great and lost like 20lb"
>cool, same here
>gets eyed dubiously

Today wound up being pretty shit. Tomorrow will be better

I don't understand your story. Are there 2 different girls? How do you "look great" after only 2 weeks? Did you lose 20 lbs in 2 weeks?

Fuck, come on man. COMPOSITION!

You dodged a bullet user.

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> (You)
>I don't understand your story. Are there 2 different girls? How do you "look great" after only 2 weeks? Did you lose 20 lbs in 2 weeks?
>
>Fuck, come on man. COMPOSITION!
Yeah, there are two different girls. I lost about 20 over 3.5 weeks.

jealousy is the worst, you can do better user, my current gf has never even asked for access to anything of mine
jealousy shows that they think they aren’t good enough for you so maybe you gotta listen to that
/maybe she’s got to put in work to get to your level/address reasons she feels unworthy

qt3.14 Asian girl actually had a convo with me on Tinder. Felt pretty good considering my past experiences on Tinder

I fucking spent my entire day jerking it to rape porn.
FUUUUUUUUUUUU
THIS IS WHY NO GIRL WILL LOVE ME

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Pretty aight anons.

I drove after DDing for the boys. Watch a show, ate sum chicken, did some work, drank a shit (which are giving me dummy farts), went to the gym.

The 6’6” body builder fucks have started to eye me down, esp on the squat rack bc I can actually use my muscles. Haha dumb fucks.

I saw this older woman, very fit, very serious. Not one of those people who’s clawing at something lost, someone who obviously has been improving themselves their entire lives and has been reaping those rewards. I thought about my future and my ideal wife.

Went to IKEA, destroyed a meatball plate and had my 2/3 sweet of the week. Got one left for tomorrow.

Tomorrow, I’m going to the beach with my closest friends. I haven’t been in a long time. I’m excited. When I come back, I have a date with an 8/10 latina queen.

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A lot of work, but i manage to do some very good job, that's good for my future
Tired as fuck, but i'm going to lift in an hour
Godspeed anons

good feels:

>Comfy new job working remotely and making a lot of money for my age
>Went out with frens, social gains. Got complimented for my outfit two separate times. Not really any qts to talk to though
>Found two great albums, Yerself is Steam by Mercury rev and Happy Trails by Quicksilver Messenger Service

Bad:

>Feels like I have early signs of a hernia, surgery is going to be a pain to pay for even with insurance
>Amazon keeps fucking up my one day shipments

Dude hernia surgery is free in canada

just talk to her bro

>drank a shit

>tfw too hungry to sleep

I am not doing so good. The girl I admitted my feelings to is chasing another guy who is like 9 years under than her and I still can't stop chasing after her in hopes she will just find me appealing. I recently started going to the gym again but I can't do more than 2 exercises for each muscle groups because my muscles become fatigued too easily and it is making me want to give up. God I wish I could die in my sleep.

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>managed to turn my life around over the last 2 years
>switched universities, stopped smoking weed etc.
>lifting, cardio and looxmaxing
>realize i'm actually attractive
>mires everywhere
>23yo 0 experience with girls, no clue how any of this works
>never approach or respond to any advances from chicks because i'm a retard
>friends started asking me what the actual fuck is wrong with me

Life is general is pretty good right now. I feel like i'm so close to making it, but my lack of experience is like i wall i can't break through

broke up with gf after a year
thinking to start lifting to escape thoughts

makin' it

good idea user. You're now at a turning point in life, where you either turn out better than before (physically and mentally) or you'll just stay the same, maybe even worse if you decide to drown your feelings in alcohol, drugs, binge eating or other abusive and unproductive habbits. If it helps you, think of your future wife children and what kind of man they deserve, then do everything to achieve that.
Remember we're all gonna make it user.

Thank you
your words meant a lot

Got back into working out about a month ago. Gains aren't huge but strength has noticeably increased. Easily lifting objects I would have struggled with before which feels good.

Last night my female friend/fuck buddy, broke it off after over a year of spending time together. I saw it coming for about a month, she was ignoring me, being less intimate etc. I cut off my emotions for her once I saw the signs, so I'm not broken that up about it. She was a terrible person, a hypocrite, repeatedly got mad at me for making jokes and references because "they made her feel dumb for not understanding them" and a fair-weather friend. So its probably for the best. I was starved for affection and she was easy which is how we ended up together. I am lamenting being alone though. No one to cuddle in bed, which is my favorite.

Hope other anons are doing well. Don't stick your dick in crazy and certainly never lend them money.

Phutureprimitive have some good chill music
youtube.com/watch?v=Zy7V5DXUhCM

its lunchtime m8

Sundaycrying on top of a goal post cause childhood crush rejected me and left the country.

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Great job on getting back in the gym bro, keep it up.

>I cut off my emotions for her
How do you do this though? I can't stop getting attached to certain women then trying to hang myself when it inevitably doesn't pan out for whatever reason. Can't seem to get the pressure on my neck right though as it's either too painful and I can't breathe, or I just go light-headed and nothing happens even after waiting like 10-15 minutes. Maybe my neck's too thick if that makes any difference, I don't know.

I know the feeling about being starved for affection etc. Hope you get yourself a new girl soon.

Finally got through the examination, one year left to graduate. Going back to gym after a year of doing nothing, back to square one, but whatever. Stopped raping my lungs with cigarretes.
Just a fucking year and I'm going to make it.
Job is alright, but I think I have to switch it.
I have been working forty hours a week, plus the credits I took was more than average. It's been fucking insane, I suppose I got some kind of permanent anxiety, because in spite of the fact I managed to get through it, I always get the feeling there's so much to be done and I cannot procrastinate and chill out.
Pain in chest, you know.

me picrelated

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M-Marlow?

Thanks man.

As for cutting off emotions. She treated me like shit on a few occasions. Which hurt and made me depressed each time. I realized she would continue to do this and it wasn't worth the trauma. So I used a scene from The Last Jedi. Where Kylo tells Rey "nothing, you're nothing". I replayed that over and over in my head, in regards to her. Sounds cringe and autistic but it worked for me.

I hope you continue to fail in your attempts at suicide. You shouldn't give up everything because of shitty people. You are better than that user. It gets easier over time and you start giving less of a shit.

Who is Marlow?

I'm really glad that worked for you dude, I'll have to check it out but I've tried affirmations like that before and unfortunately doesn't seem to have an effect on me; the sense of attachment is too strong and probably goes back to childhood.

I appreciate it brother, but I've found it seems to get harder over time. Haven't been able to focus on creative hobbies for a long time now, and as I get older and uglier (27 now) it seems less likely to find a woman in order to get that sense of stability back. The only long-term relationship (1 year+) I've had was with an 18 year old a long time ago, and she seemed to put up with my autism for a while due to naivety. Apologies for the blogpost.

>Hypermobility, poor circulation, asthma and underdeveloped lungs since I was born three months premature
>Last year, fractured my spine badly (picrelated) meaning that while there's no nerve damage the muscles are tight as fuck and constantly feel heavy, with the probability of arthritis later in life
>Just getting through the day is fucking exhausting as this never really goes away
>Spine can't absorb impacts for shit any more, not sure if I can get at all Jow Forums
>Crippling insecurity, anxiety and depression since I've finished uni and don't have a job, meaning no money and no social interaction
>I'm only 21
Not considering suicide yet but holy shit bros how do I cope? I'm literally developing an alternate reality in my head as a coping mechanism and it's fucking me up even more, what do I do? I feel inferior to everyone in literally every way and my own body tires me out to the point I find it hard to sit up in a fucking chair since my back muscles get sore

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>I'm literally developing an alternate reality in my head as a coping mechanism
I've done this for a long time too. Completely agree that it just fucks you up more, but it distracts me from suicide sometimes.

I feel inferior to everyone as well, despite having gone from 130lbs to 190lbs lean over the last 5-6 years, so imo it's more about mind over matter than anything else man (I know this is a lot, lot harder for you given your condition).

I have no experience of your condition so I'm sorry but I can only pontificate. Maybe just cycle different pain medications so you don't get too used to / addicted to a certain one (just to get through the day if needed), and try to develop/focus on a hobby such as writing, art, etc, where physical prowess is not necessary.

I sincerely hope you find a path to happiness.

For me, every year I get older I look back and think 'man I was a fucking retard last year' i'm 30 now. When I was 27 I was smoking weed everyday. That chilled me right the fuck out, helped me break some personal barriers and gave me some perspective. Wouldn't recommend that though as time fly's by and you realize wasted most of it.

You need to learn that you don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. Focus on improving yourself. Life is generally a slog for most people and you gotta find happiness where you can. The rest will fall into place. The best part of being a guy is you can always date younger woman. You will seem more mature and better looking with age, as long as you stay in shape.

>You need to learn that you don't need to be in a relationship to be happy
Thanks for your post, and you're absolutely right. This is exactly what I need to cement within my mind, but my brain just won't accept it. In terms of my Freudian attempt to rationalise it, I was too attached to my mother when I was a child and I feel like maybe that sense of attachment has now been transposed to adult relationships. Since first being dumped by a girl a long time ago, I've been in a downward spiral since and always looking for the next girl.

Have been going to the gym consistently for 5+ years so staying in shape isn't an issue though. Just wish I could switch the relationship part of my brain off.

About to break up with my gf. We both knew it's happen a few days back, but I guess it's time to face it. Her stuff is still at my house, but won't be much longer. I'd be weird to not text until late at night.

Oh well. Life goes on, and I gotta focus on my master's.

How old are you, and how long had you guys been together dude?

Glad you're handling it well though and have your priorities straight.

The first step is to try find a job. I know, easier said than done, but just think about it.

Having a job will assist in suppressing most of what you are currently experiencing.

Work hard, make money.

>start dating this girl
>the first one to show any interest in me in almost 10 years
>we get along really well, talk everyday and things are going great
>get the feelings for her
>then she disappears a day before our third date
>think she ghosted me and feel like shit
>she shows up 2 days later
>says something came up and tries to act like nothing happened
>i press on it and eventually she spills that she went out with a few friends, got really drunk, met another guy and went home with him
>says she likes me but is not looking for a relashionship right now and we could be friends with benefits
>i feel even worse than when i thought she had ghosted me and said i need to think about it
What do i do, lads? On one hand, its "easy" and free sex, on the other, i still have some feelings for her and the idea of her being with other guys hurts a lot

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If you're young then bang her and seek out other girls too. If you're old like 30 then you don't have the time left to waste your emotions on a dead end.

Drop her, she will only hurt you more

Missing my gf. We met this past February in college. I graduated and I’m living at home for now applying to med school and working EMT. And she’s back home for the summer about 5 hours away from me. When uni starts back this fall, we’ll only be 2 hours apart. I’m weary of distance but I really like this girl.
My mom and sister don’t really like her since she’s half Indian/half Arabic and not white, let alone not Christian. Idk how my dad feels, but it sucks to find out two people you’ve known your whole life care more about my gf’s skin/religion than my happiness.

>put in two week notice at work
>have been there for 2 years, have wanted to quit for 1.5 years
>only have $2000 to my name
>probably going to spend half of it in LA for anime expo
>going to spend $300 on a cable machine for home gym
>kinda scared of getting a new job where I don't know anybody and get paid less
I fucking hate life bros
I just want to workout and sleep, nothing more

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I know the scared feeling bro, I just want it all to end now, I don't even want to work out anymore.

You'll be fine in a new job though, before you know it you'll know your new coworkers and you'll wonder what you were so worried about.

still here

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Oneitis rejected me after one date. Have been swiping on tinder but no one measures up brahs :(

Love you bro, I know the feeling and it sucks. Work on yourself and maybe one day you'll be together with her... that's the only thing keeping me going right now.

>make it
>get a gf
>her sister is hotter

anyone know this feel?
worse, gf is back to cruise mode gaining weight

revenge is a great motivator

They about about you, idiot, b/c they lived a life and know more, kiddo.

based, but you can't lift and sleep if you don't work. So do what you have to do, and then enjoy lifting and sleeping.

>she will be in college you won't be
just break up you imbecile

I still think about her constantly. It's like a drain on my soul. She was the only girl I ever loved, she was great to be around, sexy as hell, constant great sex, I felt like I could trust and talk to her about things. She was by far my closest freind.

Fuck you you fucking whore.

Hit 295 conventional deadlift which is a pr but i could barely get 3pl8 off the ground another like 2 or 3 weeks and i should be good to hit it

Thank you for the response, user, that's kind.
I'm 26. Been together for 3 years. Lost my v-card to her. Been planning a family and shit. But she developed mental issues and it's become a tiresome nightmare.
Feels weird. I've invested a lot into this girl and she's become pretty ingrained in my life.
3 years just poof, gone. All the good memories will soon need to fade away. Some day I'll find our old convo on FB and say to myself, "Shit, it's already been this long?". And every day the date will be further away.
I'm not really sad, more like frustrated.

Gf broke up with me 4 months ago meet new girl she's really cute and cares about me but i can't get ex out of my head it's not the same i miss her all the time I get sad everytime she doesn't look at my snap stories or other stupid shit, i need to destroy this false hope that'll she will come back and move on.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=SEy_7dAFlqk

most relationships end and everyone has to deal with investing a lot of time in people and its gone

>be 18, KHHV
>3 months ago qt 9/10 friend shows interest for no reason
>we make out, shit was cash
>thought I've made it cause of how well we get along
>learn she's deploying for air force, she becomes distant
>now I'm left getting mixed signals and we don't see each other much
It fuckin hurts but it feels like a lesson. I trained harder in March to keep her / impress her, but afterwards I had to learn to lift for myself. I wasn't an autist at it before, but now I have more confidence talking to other girls

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>went on a day last week with a girl who's physically my type
>drive her home
>she invites me in and I decline because I felt like shit due to hangover and had already cummed twice that day
>I also don't like fucking on the first date if I'm not too comfortable
>she says it's ok
>talk to her again and she ghosts me
>can't stop thinking about her now, which hasn't happened to me in many years and it's driving me insane

I'm gonna ask her out one more time but fucking hell I blew it.

>girl gets angry at you not letting her be a whore

top lel. let me guess, some tinder slut

No, met her at a club that plays 80/90s and indie music, pretty cool spot.
I don't think she's a whore at all and she's pretty cool but maybe she's not used to being told no? If I hurt her ego or something then I'll let her know I didn't want to shit myself while fucking and that's why I declined.

>ghosts you because you didn't want to come in to fuck her after a few hours on a date
>she's not a whore

lmao

In any case I want to fuck her and this is pissing me off. I'd say I'm in a manwhore phase at the moment so it's a perfect fit.

another stud manwhore on fit, classic

I just slept till 2 in the afternoon

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I'm not too proud, most of them are drunken hookups and I feel depressed about it regularly.
I'd like to have a gf again but in the meantime...

I'm really good. I've finally managed to shake off that crush that was killing my sanity by learning more about her.
Got two tabletop gaming groups that I'll be DMing. And I've got vacation next week, so that's even better.

>hit the city with friends
>2 hours in
>great time
>other friends join
>there is a fatass about 290 lbs
>he has a gf
You lied Jow Forums. The way you look doesn't matter. All that time I was lifting, believing someone gonna love me one day was a waste of time.

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>still live at home with mother and father past mid 20s because worthless incel
>have okay relationship with mother but basically nonexistent with father, barely even talk to him and talking to him just makes me upset
>mother out of town for a few days so it's just me and him at home over weekend
>not speaking a word to each other

MOVE THE FUCK OUT.

Is it pussy to block an ex?
We split a few days ago. It was super long distance so it's kinda been coming but it still hurt pretty bad.
We've known each other for years even before we were together (we started off as close friends), and she told me she still sees me as her best friend and wants me in her life. I don't know if she's telling the truth, obviously loads of exes say this but we do have a history of being very close so it could be true.
Either way, I don't know just yet. Considering the distance, we were probably never gonna work out romantically but she's been an important person in my life for years now.
I just decided to block her while I make my mind up. I don't know if she's going to notice, and I don't know how she's gonna react if she does.
Am I overreacting here? I don't know what to do.

>still live with parents
>admissions to college are putting me in constant state of anxiety and banked all my efforts into one field
>already thinking of plan B of action incase I fail to get accepted which has became a habit of constant failures in my endeavors. Thinking of moving to another country to find work
>everyone is outside and celebrating summer solstice, drinking, listening to music and having fun while i am alone at home, drinking tea and having nothing to do aside from smoking cigarettes in between to pass time.
>gym is closed for 2 days
Fuck... Its not the end of the world, but with each passing day I can feel my self slowly become more colder.. all the search of joys in life have replaced with constant need to work.. Cant remember the time I genuinely felt happy.

Boys, my family are really nice but I'm starting to resent them. Feel like I need to let them go to fully develop as a man.

Even my father is based but his paternalism sometimes irritates me for no reason.

That's my life perpetually. Always working like a dog to get into goods schools and then good work. My friends who chose to drink are now bums at 24. they look like shit, theyre already aged as fuck and they work in retail.

Sure my life fucking sucks, but in the end at least I'm not them.

First pill is to move out. Second pill is to separate your mind from your parents. Sure they're youre parent but it's time to live your life outside of tutorial mode.

Final pill is to have sex, this will crush your Oedipus complex.

Same here but two years behind. Never stop trying and you'll make it

>she invites me in and I decline because I felt like shit due to hangover and had already cummed twice that day

pussy

>Summer has come
>Lost enough fat to see outlines of abs
>Finally run outside without a shirt to get them mires
>Get outside
>Air is full of thrips
>Skin hates these fuckers
>Also oak processionaries
>Body covered with itching bumps after running for an hour
>Even running with a shirt on doesn't do much
>Shit just gets under the clothes somehow
>Realize I'll have to spend the whole summer inside
>No cardio, only home gym
>For three fucking months
Just fucking end my life.

say bye bye

based

I stopped being sad about my girlfriend breaking up with me, now I'm just angry.

How do you cope with knowing it’s all over between you and a girl and you’ll never get her back?

>first semblance of a relationship ever with her, although it was mostly just banging because we lived in different towns and hour+ away
>she’s perfect in my eyes, hot as fuck, smart and every time we’re together is bliss
>out of nowhere she ends it. I always thought she never wanted a serious relationship. I think she might have thought I did and was too clingy
>worst part is she never explained it , and when I asked why and told her how I felt later she never responded and hasn’t since in about 6-8 weeks
>I was doing a lot better and not thinking about it much until last week when I banged someone new.
>new girl was annoying as fuck and the sex was awful, making me think about how great things were with my ex
>been on feels trip ever since

There’s nothing I can say to her since she hasn’t responded to me in almost two months. I also know if by some magic she wanted me back it could never be the same, so it’s all ogre

why did you guys split?

>Stopped going to the gym for 2 weeks because I wanted to binge on vidya during my 4 week vacation.
>Kept eating like I was training but with a ton of salt on everything
>gain 8 pounds
>Start lifting again but feel like I wasted so much

Oh well atleast I'm stronger for some reason but fuck am I sad.

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The first time I was really committed to a relationship and gave my heart completely she decided to end it, even though she was looking for something serious, she just didn't see a future with me. How do I cope with that? I feel like shit, I'm definitely never doing this again, it has been my worst breakup because I did see a future with her.

It's been 2 months, you could send her a message, you have nothing to lose at this point.

We all have that one girl who we will never forget but you need to realize its over and it will never happen again. Girls get over relationships faster than guys. She probably never thinks about you man. Feels really shitty but its the truth. Take it as a lesson to never get too attached again and look for someone else.

Thanks boyos. That’s the thing, it’s more the feeling of knowing for sure that it’s over that sucks.
And I think the problem for a lot of Jow Forumscels who maybe didn’t have much attention from girls when they were younger, is that once you do find a girl and delevop a relationship it’s easy to fall head over heels for her because someone finally pays attention to you. Definitely a lesson there somewhere

Do not text your ex! You'll just make things worse for yourself. Not having anything to lose is bullshit. I've been in your place and can tell you that it'll take much longer to get over her if you desperately try to get a sign of life from her. Even if she responded, you'll have a very distant feeling conversation, and you'll end up heartbroken because you realize that you can't go back. Take my word for it. Let her go and don't look back.
Instead, work on yourself. It keeps the feels at bay and doing something you're good at and where you can see progress is the a great remedy. It'll show you that you don't need her to feel valuable. Having friends around also helps a lot, it gives you a sense of belonging which is exactly what you need now.
Don't date anyone for some time. You'll subconsciously hold your new potential partner up to your ex's standard and set yourself up for failure and heartbreak. If that doesn't happen, you'll just desperately date anything that walks because you want a relationship per se and not a particular person. And there's a very real chance that you might end up with the wrong person that way.

You can get through this, and it will get better. God bless.

Very well said man

In long distance relationship. Gf wants to talk all the time, but is busy and only talks about herself. If she isn't talking about herself she's crying that I'm not there or talking about marriage. I'm not sure if I'm pussy whipped. When I'm with her I never feel this way. Advice?

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Now, my friend, it's time to go lift.