What are some essential part of "making it"?

>people on this website are so pathetic that having a normal life is considered an exceptional accomplishment

your willful ignorance hurts no one but yourself.

A korean softcore porno forgot the name

can you remember the name

Have post, sex body.

Senior software developer at big tech by 27 (currently intermediate 24 at b tier big tech)

What I've been doing to make it
>Only take work that will look good on my resume
>Daily grind 1-3 hour of algorithms questions
>Biweekly two hour study of system design
>On weekends, do mock interviews with a friend
>Putting wife through MBA so she can get a TN visa so we can both move to the states
>Actively networking with people who are most likely to end up at those companies (being friendly with autistic yet smart interns)
>Currently doing a round of interviews for companies, manipulating the dates so that the offers all land on the same week and put me in a favorable negotiation position

All of this with my large amount of responsibilities at my current 9-5er is killing me but I'm going to fucking make it even if it does kill me. Fuark

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>tfw you will never have this girl make you suck her toes while you deep fuck her
IT'S NOT FUCKING FAIR!!!!

>having a gf
>making it
NGMI

People in my life tell me I've made it. I don't know if I have but I am a happy person.

Here are my tips.

>Have good friends and treat them like family. Have dinners where they come over and hangout. Talk with them and try to create new experiences
>Work towards a career that excites when you think about doing it. Money doesn't matter if you're miserable
>Have hobbies and read more, try to learn something new every week.
>Be honest and forgiving with yourself. Be consistent and accept that relapses are part of the process
>Do not rely on other people for your happiness. I wouldn't say you've made it if you're in a relationship where you're unhappy.
>Try to find joy in a rainy day
>See more live music, get involved with your community. Volunteer
>Have goals and talk about them. Aspire to bring people up around you, never shame anyone and try to realize that everyone is on their own journey and you can never know what's going on inside their heads so just try to be understanding
>Don't spend time with people who make you miserable/your mom would hate

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Lel

Have you been tested for autism?

I agree with your statement, but you failed to mention "and a killer body" we're on Jow Forums god damn it does no one here lifts anymore ?

where do you source your algorithm questions friend?

I'm currently living through something similar.

>>post bod

If you leave this website forever, then you have made it

get on rizon, /msg kache and I'll dump a bunch of facebook and google questions ranked by frequency

Source on this Asian, guise?
I'm preparing a routine for my gf and I want some cardio to do indoors.

>have friends
How do I do this?
I got gf, stable job, but I feel soulless enough pretending to be normal at work to also fake it with "friends".

guys please help
i need to make socal gains
a girl is in to me but says i need to bbe more social
i tried to kiss her but she refused and then gave me a kiss on the cheek and said maybe next time

Owning a house

There are a bunch of webms of her here posted from time to time

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create a website for dudes to find wingmen, make a lot of money until it turns into a place for gays and felons to gather to do gay illegal shit

>27. Married. 2 kids (13m and newborn)
>stable job
>no friends outside of work “friends”
>I don’t know how to hang out with people... what do people do now days?

“Making it” can be achieved in 1 of 2 ways.

1) A creative work, invention, or legacy that will have a positive, lasting cultural impact.

2) Creating offspring that will lead to the above

There are literally no other ways to “make it”, if you think otherwise you’re just memeing yourself

>27
>13 year old kid
yikes, get ready to be a grandpa

23
Have GF that I love
Dad died and left me home and a couple hundred thousand in cash (would much rather have dad but that’s life)
In a sales job where I make my own hours, work April-October so I can travel during off-season, have made $27,000 so far in June (Pre tax of course) and my goal of making $100K this summer is easily obtainable if I keep my pace up

Finally getting abs as well and can finally do 20 pull-ups

13m = 13 month

Sounds like you’re winning user. Please please please please make GF sign prenuptial agreements before getting married if that’s what you’re doing. Or put in trust or something. Protect your egg.

Always leave yourself a safety net.

having AT LEAST 3 girls suck your dick at the same time, until that happens you haven't made it

sorry she grew up without you, mate

this is the only true answer. I keep coming back for the keks

Thx man!

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I feel like once you take the Jow Forumspill, you’ll never truly be satisfied with your physique, which in turn translates to you never truly being satisfied with your life. This is not necessarily a bad thing since it forces you to continue lifting heavier to achieve the body you want.

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>Have stable job

This is definitely not "making it"

Making it is a state of mind. You don't need friends, a gf, a job, or even to be fit in order to make it.

I just want to make it to the United States

Why is it so hard to get in legally?

I won't consider I've made it until then

If you wanna go down to the basic actual meaning it sinply is
>Be happy
To me making it is being jacked, being proud of your work when you take your shirt off. Everything else cringe and nu-Jow Forums. Zyzz would be degenerate for the retarded zoomers larping here

What's the matter user, why you hate horses?

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That horse is a manlet

What if it sat outside overnight?

That's unironically really good for your hips.

It wouldn't be worth doing if it was easy, user. You're gonna make it.

But it's bullshit, why is it so hard? I'm hard working, I'm white, I'm Jow Forums, I speak English, I don't understand why Mexicans get in no problem and Europeans can't????????

Maybe because they don't whine in a Cambodian post-op-transgederism forum about it?

g-goddamit why can't they make exercises that are good for your hips but not ultra gay

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>got hot, traditional, rich gf
>got stable, salaried job
>got friends
Still don't feel like there is such a think as fully making it. As you progress as a person you will gradually raise the bar for yourself higher. These continually higher goals represent both the beauty and pitfalls to self improvement and life. As one become greater as a man he never relaxes. This keeps you hungry but also helps you realize that goals you once championed as life changing or guaranteed to bring happiness may not be as satisfying as advertised. The grind of becoming your best self never stops and the second you let it is the second you start slipping

What inspired you to write this? What you wrote is specific.

27k in 22 days? What kind of sales do you do? I’ve never heard of a 23 yo making that much money except for the Wall Street guys

2/3
Fug

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Dyel tho?

Can someone just post a source for the girl already ffs

I have found that training for a sport and not for aesthetics specifically is the way to go long term. If you lift and eat right, the body will come.