Feels thread

Been single for 10 years. Haven’t had sex for 4(mostly by choice)
So not bad.

>went on a second date yesterday
>we kissed
>it was my first kiss ever
>i feel like i was pretty bad at it, but it felt amazing anyway
>we're going out again next week
I think i might actually get a gf if i dont fuck this up, lads. We get along really well and she seems to like me so far. Wish me luck

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Nothing chivalrous about pulling dead weight an adult should take pride in being able to take care of herself

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Just got a cat, so far she hates me, and I think I might be allergic. Is sad

Basically i have joint custody of my daughter (5)
My gf threatened to move out last friday, packed all her stuff, broke my daughters heart, but we decided to try to work it out, shes a really good step mom, but sometime she gets cold toward us, yesterday we got into a argument over my daughter watching tv waiting on her mom to get here (joint custody) which evolved into her hitting the door 4-5,times with her fist and scaring my daughter to the point that she doesnt want to come over anymore, so i told her its time to go, plus daughter told baby mama about it and she threatened to take me to court if she stayed around her

Im just trying to be a decent dad anons

>Girlfriend of 5 months broke up with me because I was being a bitch boi
>Completely reshape myself at college and get /fit
>Come back for the summer and find out i'm working with her at a pool
>Hear she has some new bitch boi boyfriend
>She's been sending me pics all day asking what i'm doing and if i'm going to a party friday

Idk if I even want her back, she's still a qt, but kind of a whore and treated me like a bitch until I got back (leaving me on read a couple of times). The breakup was hard enough for me the first time. Should I just go to the party and fuck someone else?

the end goal is to subjugate a good woman, paying for the rent and most expenses is a good way to do that

Proud of you user
You'll get better at it in no time

that bridge is burnt user. there are too many people in the world to come back to the one that thinks she can have you when she wants you and throw you away when she's done

>5 months

it was just a fling, dude. Get your nut in if you must don't waste anymore time with her

nice user, happy for you. First kiss with anyone is always exciting

>girl i like sends mixed signals
>one day she is into me the other she ignores me all day

What do lads? How do i end it? Should I just move on or confront her about certain things and then end it? I feel like I’m in a spiral

Fuck all of you kids who still have feelings. I'm old now and all I do is fuck app thots. An endless smashing of emcels. I can't pair bond...they can't pair bond...it's an endless void of nonsense.

Feeling sadness over a girl leaving. I might kill someone to get that back. So revel in it!

Then when you're ready find another girl and fall in love with her, get married, and have kids.

There is nothing for you, or any of you where I am. Here, in the nothing.

I know that feel bro. You did the right thing. The most important thing you can provide your kids when they are young is the feeling of safety and security.

You did the right thing user, if your daughter loves you then you've already made it.

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> just turned 19
> still virgin
feels like im wasting my youth, so fucking sad getting older and im still like this

Don’t play into her game. U still have feelings for her deep down and she’s trying to manipulate you to make HERSELF feel better.
If you were completely over her you could fug but since your not stay away.

Those trips say you fuck her. It was only 5 months anyway.

your own fault for bringing a child into this world without first finding the right woman

>after years finally forget the feeling of human touch
>completely stopped craving it
>emotions pretty much gone, no pleasure but no pain either
>be at relatives birthday party
>random drunk girl kisses me
>body overwhelmed with feeling for those few moments
>now craving more affection, incredibly depressed

Is this the gains goblin I was warned about?

>have normal conversation with some coworkers at lunch
>feel like i had a successful day

this is your brain on debilitating autism

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i turned 22 year ago and still kissless virgin lol

not even a female friend

was in the same situation as you here's what I did
>buy tinder plus
>set location to a city a few hours away
>swipe on everyone even remotely fuckable
>come up with story about how you were just in the city but headed home but will be back next week
>rent two hotel rooms
>get drunk and meet the roastie
>even if shes not hot and you can't get hard just do whatever you can
>mash your soft cock into her far enough that you can confidently say that you had sex
>leave the room and check out of hotel while she waits in bed that was an awkward mess you do not want to confront again
>go to second hotel and sleep off alcohol then head home

congratulations you now don't have to worry about being a virgin or ever seeing the girl again

get some help user, it's never worth it to die over

not him but im 27 khv. possibly delusionally feel like i could have success conversationally on tinder because ive always been able to make people laugh but my ugliness, lack of friends/shut-in, and the cold sweats i break into thinking of going on a date and having a real ocnversation that exposes what a loser i am has been stopping me from trying online dating for many years

>moved in with gf after only 11 months

fucking yikes

that might work if i was good looking...

Literally all I want is a girl to cuddle with and tell me she loves me bros. Why is it so hard to find??

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if you swipe on enough girls you will 100% get a match
just fake it bro, go to /fa/ and ask for some help picking out a couple of outfits, take some photos that seem like they've been taken by someone else, you're gonna feel autistic as fuck but then do the different city thing, pretend you're high up in programming or some shit, mash the vag with your drunk soft cock, return the clothes if they aren't too soiled and then you will never have to worry about reaching wizardry again.

good riddance. you're doing well user, keep your daughter safe
ignore her, fuck someone else. exes are exes for a reason
end it and move on, no time for games
you're still young my dude, you have time

Hopefully you've learned from the experience.

how do i get good pictures if i have no friends?

You don't

When you find it you'll just want another thing

Such is the unquenchable thirst of want

user, I also have sole custody of my daughter, but she's about double your age. May I suggest that you not date until she's 18? I know it sucks for you and there will be lonely nights, but focus on caring for your daughter and being the best man you can be. No need for a revolving door of women in and out of your life, especially if it can mean you could lose your little girl.

get one of those bendy tripods and a phone mount and take pictures with self timer

t. 19 year old zoomer with little to no dating experience

Fill it with anime figs
Thats what I did

this man speaks some truth

Broke up with my HS sweetheart gf of 6 years couple weeks ago. She told me she grew infatuated with a guy she worked with and that the feelings weren't going away. We broke up. She started contacting me again cause she was lonely, crying, depressed and stuff. Stupidly I started going over to comfort her and keep her company. Felt good reminded me before all of this. In a convo she told me she had started to go out drinking Fridays with her coworkers after work and was enjoying it (she never drank all 6 years we were together, every time I'd ask her if she wanted to she would complain that it makes her chest hurt). Started to realize what was up. I asked if the guy was there. "Yes..." I asked if she was still infatuated with the guy and this was a way of trying to pursue him. "Not completely....but yeah....". I stayed until she fell asleep then left. It drove me nuts how easy it was for her to fall soundly asleep after saying such a thing. Next day I texted her not to contact me again. She has, I just tell her not to contact me and nothing else. Haven't spoken since. I don't get how a person feels it's okay to have someone who loves them be willing to step up at a whim to intimately comfort them while they're actively trying to hook up with some guy they don't even know much about so she can just drop me when she doesn't need me. Fuck. Whatever. The nightmares and dreams of her are starting to go away. I started taking muay thai now to get my mind off it all. Feels good punching stuff, getting punched, and having my muscles exhausted. Good luck with your situation OP.

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>muh gf
>muh gf
>muh gf
Get a hobby, you faggots.

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>T+6 months without a girl
>install tinder for the first time
>swipe right like 10 girls over an hour
>only 1 actually stands out
>she’d probably drop me after a week even if she was interested
>whatever
>leave it for a day
>feel self-conscious the entire time
>check back
>76 likes apparently (fake premium bait?)
>no matches
>look over my profile and cringe
>delet
>feel better
>still lonely and autistic

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This is what i did after a ltgf, you just can’t get the numbers here and it’s the fattest region in the country so anyone have decent has mountains of dick pointing at them.

>virgin at 26
>wish i could make tinder and just be honest, say that i'm a virgin, i got no friends, im afraid of poor performance which is why i put off sex year after year, embarrassed about my life not having friends, etc, and find some girl who is understanding and willing to help me

>Tfw dating a 23 year old Christian cutie who wants to be a teacher
>Tfw she gets straight A's
>Tfw she's sexually inexperienced but willing to try new things
>Tfw she's a dork who likes LOTR, Harry Potter and star wars
>Tfw blushes HARD when I compliment her great body
>Tfw she's my friends sister

I'm a non religious rude boy and I better not fuck this up.

>im afraid of poor performance
Don’t worry about this man. Seriously. My first time was at 22 and it was fine. Didn’t last very long but that’s always a problem for me, and she enjoyed it enough that we were at it for weeks. I’ve also had whiskey dick a few times and that’s always annoying, but every time that’s happened I just made up for it in the morning. Just don’t apologise for not living up to your own expectations, that’s drought fuel. You have to chill and build the confidence to laugh at yourself when you fuck up.

How old are you?

i just wish i could overcome the fear. mostly about my lack of friends. i also have a pretty large penis that would probably perform well regardless

Sorry man. I know that feeling, I’m also all but friendless. If you have the money, a good way to make acquaintances (if not friends) is working or volunteering with other travellers in a foreign country. Check out Workaway and such.

You just need to build up your confidence in general IMO, there’s probably nothing wrong with you physically.

> girl moves in
> "i'm a gentlemen i'll pay your bills m'lady"
> she dates you for a few years and common law kicks in
> she takes half your generated wealth regardless

:^)

If you want a GOOD woman, being an animate meal ticket is the worst way to do that. A good woman will want to contribute.

>tfw 21
>tfw 50 year old man hairline
>tfw going to the lake with friends and when it gets wet it's super obvious and gross
AAAAAAAAAAA
pure suffering
Any attempt to tell me to shave it will be ignored

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Then you get used to it and want space and crave the nights you can finally sleep in your bed alone.

you did the right thing user
be there for your daughter and do right by her, her wellbeing is worth more than any thot’s pussy

I agree w the other guy, move past

Why don’t you stop being an edgy faggot and go meet at the library/gallery/bar/show/theatre literally anywhere besides fucking hinge

>ex left 4 months ago because she wanted to be monogamous and I didn’t
>have a (non-exclusive) gf, a semi-regular fuckbuddy, and a couple of prospects
>losing chemistry with gf, seeing fuckbuddy or a new girl feels like too much effort, essentially falling back into boring monogamy in all but name
>miss ex every day, starting to doubt if the lifestyle I thought I wanted is worth losing her
>but pretty sure that if I’d committed to her I’d be equally bored and unhappy, just with a different person
>but what if I’m wrong
lifting is going well tho

>tfw boss at work is qt
>have crush on her because its probably the most ive ever been around a single woman in my life

lmfao such an incel

Polygamy is degenerate. Break ties with all these hoes and do something useful.

i’m almost sad enough to start listening to you degeneracyfags desu

Extremely wholesome, really, proud of you user you did the right thing.

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This also user, don't really take other woman to your house in that way until she is a teenanger or something

I remember lifting when i was 15 and going back from time to time to the gym, im 22 now, sadly im a manlet 163cm and making a lot of muscle like you guys try to do would look terrible on me, but i do want to hit the gym back a bit to have at least some muscle.

One thing that have always stayed with me since day 1 from gym was the diet, it's been like two years since i don't hit one and i still eat brown rice, eggs, tuna, never fry anything, water and try to always be healthy.

is she single?

Doing alright except one thing happened today when I was out doing things. This white girl saw me and gave me this look

She looked she was spilling spaghetti when we made eye contact but I think it was something else. I have a feeling she was actually repulsed by the sight of me and that's why she made this weird face.

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You realized the faults and went right back to 'em. Course you can live your life fine without the comfort of another you have yourself afterall.

The brevity of companionship of others is cool but always breif cause we're all gonna die. Even your mother and father you don't own em, their not bond to this world in time they will leave us to but do not dispair friend its just the natural order.

I too, think back to a girl I loved like no other. Been 3 years now & no real love life devlopments or meaningful sex. I am holding out for a preferred indifference but if it is not to happen, so be it.

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It's very hard rough to go through that experince user, I've spent too long wallowing in despair before. I commend you for moving foreward when it can be so hard to let go

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