How has getting fit/lifting bettered your dating/sex life?

you should both take MDMA or a psychedelic together

the fitter I get the less people talk to me, I'm pretty much completely socially isolated now except for my family

She is not anymore, sadly. She's been very sick the past two years and had to get treatment with something called Prednisolone (for an autoimmune disease called "Susac syndrome"). The end result is that she put on a lot of water weight and became bloated. A shell of her former self.

I appreciate the recommendation, but I shy away from any type of recreational drugs out of principle.

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i don't date and i haven't had sex in 2 years now but i get mired on the daily with varying levels of lust.

I've been fit my whole life and shitty with girls my whole life. The only way to get that confidence boost now is to get seriously jacked :'(

You've gotta bring the show user. Fuck her in the shower or something?

>bettered

Hahahahahahahahahaha

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See . She's not exactly "manageable" in that regard anymore. I agree with your suggestion, though. I should make an effort to spice things up. I'll give it some thought.

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>it's still the same old, boring sex that I've had for over 10 years now.

Try different positions or locations. I've only been married for six, but our sex is still nice and exciting.

i miss my bf

Our sex life can be summed up as such:

Missionary, lying down sideways doggy, lying down with her embracing me, woman on top.

That's it. We've more or less just ended up going for what used to get the job done before and just never broke the habit once it settled.

Break the habit.

Only difference is that older fat moms put their hands on me when they're trying to get around in a crowded place shaking my head

>Susac syndrome
It's pricey, but any chance she could get on IVIG instead?

Money is not an issue, since we're Norwegians (free health care). I'll look into the substance and ask her doctor if that's something we should look into.

Thank you for the recommendation.

what else would you like to include

Since we're all anonymous here, I don't mind sharing some of my personal preferences. I'd like for her to take some initiative and show that she loves me and my body, like she used to before. At this point we're both just kind of using each other as a masturbation tool (if I can be so blunt).
I think the whole thing with her being sick has taken a greater toll than just her focusing on recovering, but it has also driven us apart somewhat.

I sound like a woman, but I just want to be loved..

>I sound like a woman
No you don't. Nothing makes you more of a beta ass bitch than wanting something and pretending not to want it because some douches think its girly.

If you like vodka drink vodka, if you like fruity drinks then drink fruity drinks and don't pretend to like vodka just to fit in.

why? genuinely curious, not trying to judge or change your belief

i believe that there is nothing wrong with using them if you do not do it out of necessity but self-exploration

based barnposter

I value my expansive mind and intellect greatly and wouldn't want to risk any harm to it. That's basically the gist of it.

I'm glad we understand each other.

Faggot

It makes you fuckable.

What else is there to this question?

I get noticed more by girls and more respect from guys, my partner constantly grabs at me. But we have less sex now. I think i make her self concious

Smart man. Psychedelics are a role of the dice as far as whether or not they'll make you go nuts. Some people do them and don't go crazy, but some take them just once and get their minds screwed up for life. Plus they're a pathway to demons

safe usage of almost any common substance will preserve your mind, and the use of some substances (like psychedelics) with the right intent can expand the limits of your mind by increasing creativity and compassion, but i completely understand and respect your rationale for wanting to stay away

calling them a [roll] of the dice is a bit misleading though

if you have the right set, setting, mental state, outlook going into the trip, and are not predisposed to mental illness, there shouldn't be a problem.

many bad experiences with psychs are from one of the issues i just listed or with people taking too high of a dose for their first/second/third/fourth/fifth time

2x0 is still 0

I want to lick her abs

Not one bit. My girlfriend rarely compliments me and it's oddly enough left me craving attention

Wheelbarrow

Don’t get gassed while fucking. Probably the biggest benefit

>Money is not an issue, since we're Norwegians (free health care)
Spoken like a true communist. Freedom motherfucker, do you speak it?

Girls at work talk to me and squeeze my muscles sometimes. I could be doing a lot better in the fit category. Too autistic to talk to girls, but for the short time I've been on the road to Jow Forums it's changed A LOT for me. Thanks faggots, now all I do is listen to fat retardstalk about keto while losing 0 weight at work.

dont give up buddy, but ye it sound like your blaming alot of other people for your problems everyone is in control of their own life, lifting is a good start, and positive thinking

Ever since lifting, i've become obsessed with ass.
My only taste in girls now is if they got a big round ass. It's like my T levels have grown to African levels.

In the past five months I’ve dropped 25 lbs, put on some muscle and started wearing clothes that fit. I struck out on tinder before and haven’t tried since. I had three shitty dates and two girls ghost me day of the date.

I stopped going to the bars because I’ve pretty much stopped drinking but the few times I’ve went I’ve had some girls interested and tons of girls turn me down. Best I’ve done is made out with a cutie.
Gonna try tinder again in a month or so after my abs show more. Gonna try full fuck boi mode and not take it seriously. Hoping the girls are messaging me first instead of having to put in all the work.

I went from slightly chubby to a decent frame, and have had so much dating and sexual experiences success that I really can't stop lifting.
It's a good feel to feel confident and have others see it.

It hasn't. I had more sex with more girls when I was a 110 pounds and looked like a girl

seriously wtf guy

Got fit, lost my virginity, Got dumped. I'm still fucking retarded no matter how swole I get, but that's the beauty of it. Always try to become the biggest juiciest retard you can be, and your life will be better than not being a big juicy retarded.

honestly lost confidence bc I'll never be big enough, when I had a dadbod I had more success.

But the opportunities I do land stick around for a long time, until I feel like trying for another one.

I just want a gf but never with the girls I hookup with, feelsbad

>Got fit, lost my virginity, Got dumped

What happened?

>Freedom
That'll be 500 dollars extra a month. Plus tip.

Are you a horse?

Dated a chick with tons of mental issues. Had tons of sex tho and did some other crazy shit so that was fun

are you patrick swayze in Roadhouse?

I went from not wanting to get out of my room at all for anything, ever due to my weight to going out once a week or so to buy something I forgot to order online.

I think in 3 months or so I will consider working

It's not an animal barn. It's used to store farm equipment. Part of the loft was converted into a small apartment, which is where I live.
Dalton had two cars, I have none. On the other hand, no one has tried stabbing me here.

Read Sex God Method by Daniel Rose it has some good ideas.

Are you sure that you getting fit is the problem? Maybe you've changed into an unbearable moodkilling asshole who's always finding a way to make conversations fitness related or spewing some bullshit they just arent interested in.

Maybe not, but food for thought

I can bone any girl I want, but I'm no happier.
Just burying my issues in a shallow women's pussy for a temporary moment of relief.
I've been gone into monk mode to work more on myself, so I can attract an intelligent woman.

Sounds weird, but I don't want women to just see me as a piece of meat, that will buy them expensive shit.
Never have, but recently has been different in that I won't let myself be that piece if meat.
I'm no longer horny either. I just want to lift, run, make money, watch Stefan Molyneux, and go to church.

Things are becoming clearer to me.
Life is good, and women cannot make it better. Only I can.

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It didn't
Maybe I should lift a little bit more, and then more and more again
Surely i will make it in the end

I'm not opposed to Freedom, my dude. I was just letting you know that I don't have to worry about the cost of health care.

I will. Thanks.

it hasnt

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you gotta try and get imaginative, if you can get yourself psyched itll be better for both of you

Norway is the most beautiful place I've ever been in my life.

What crazy shit? Is it true that crazy girls are hot as fuck and freaks in bed?

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"the day you started lifting was the day you became forever small, because you will never be as big as you want to be"- Abraham Lincolnshire sosig

It has actually become worse, I spend my evenings in the gym now, when I was a dyel I went to bars and would generally be mired + slay pretty often.

Cheat on her that'll cure what ails ya

Why do these "based xposter" replies always crack me up
They are infinitely better. I started with 0 and I'm still at 0 :)

None of us are free, user.

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Before Jow Forums
>okay at sex
>5-20 mins duration
>not very athletic, doggy was my favourite cause I was lazy
>monogamous relationships that generally fizzle out

After Jow Forums
>mindblowing athletic sex
>20-120 mins duration
>every position under the sun including supporting her body
>3-4 girls messaging me most of the time
>focusing on my passion, ignoring most of the female attention I get

To be fair Jow Forums only did the physical/discipline side. Game, sexual technique and self-belief took care of the rest.

>sex

Haha lol dude. I've became a total hermit over the last 3 years. Only have 1 friend who rarely has time for me. Only go to work, lift at home and lurk on Jow Forums. Last time i had sex was 15 months ago. I'm 29 now and am more miserable than ever before. Don't really know why I keep lifting or how I should change myself. It seems hard to build a connection to people for me and even if I manage to do that on work, people never want to meet me outside the job. Was born near berlin (east germany) and live in hamburg (west germany) now. Never had these kind of problems with other people from tha eastside. My right wing opinions add up on that. I don't know man, i just want to build social circle and a family, but it seems like an impossible task at the moment.

tldr; Lifting had no positive impact on my sex life.

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yeah this and also can do missionary for a long time where you're holding yourself up on your palms

it's nice to be able to hold a girl and fuck her standing up, but it's an overrated position overall. Intimate missionary with deep thrusts is where it's at

yes, borderline girls will let you cum on their face on the first date, will fuck you back, let you fuck them doggy while you stand on their head, let you slap them and facefuck them, etc. But you should never, ever, ever turn one into your girlfriend

You should suggest a scenario to your wife

Have you considered going back to the east? From your post it seems things were better there.

I managed to pull a girl at a club last month but couldn't get hard when I got back to her house. Still was nice to cuddle with her but I left pretty early in the morning and didn't ask for her number out of shame

Join a motorbike club, normally more right wing and will get you socialising.

I've had the right everything with no predisposition and i still had a bad trip which made me almost fight my best friend because I thought he was an undercover cop. It's a roll of the dice, but set & settings put the odds in your favour.

for reference, I've taken 10g of mushrooms and had a blast. sometimes a tab of acid gives you a bad trip.

dirty fucking hippie.

This is like.. the ideal female figure. Is this achievable without var?

talk to a lawyer and get it all going again bud. this is america there are ways to escape debt slavery

>you’re completely incorrect in your reasoning

>I still respect you reasoning

It’s ok to tell someone they’re wrong user

well theres not really a right or wrong
i guess you could have an actual argument with support as to why you believe its right or wrong but its more of an opinion and most people on this site are retarded and get mad if you go against them

she's not var size. she just has very little body fat.

>Depression
Can be cured. You can be completely happy user. It can happen. Don't take the pharma-jew. Depression is evolution way of helping you stop lifestyle that is wrong. Change things.

Sounds like you should take a sex break and go a therapist together. Don't talk about sex during the sessions - just fix the relationship. When communication improves, the sex will improve. Just pick a White male therapist and YOU meet him first to make sure he isn't some limp wristed democrat tranny lover.

Wishing the best for you, user. I think you have some solid advice in some responses. I didn't want to, but I will go to the gym today in your honor.

Get better, bro.

based

lifting made me more confident about my body, even though I'm still dyel as shit I know I'll make it. The confidence got me a gf and I went from virgin to having sex at least 3 times a week

Sound advice.

unironically has done literally nothing, and has correlated with me getting less Jow Forums
>lifting on and off since 17
>virgin (but not totally inexperienced) at age 21, end of uni
>for an entire year i'd had dissertation and finals, rarely ever drink, gym is my solace
>best shape of my life
>no puss
>1 year later, working in a bar and saving up to go abroad, drink a lot, don't work out enough
>still in ok shape, looked p much the same with clothes on but way worse without
>major social gains but still zero puss
>go to SE asia for 5 months - first two months literally partying and drinking 5 nights a week, body slowly degrading further
>end up pulling some canuck, lost v to her, fugged every day for about 3 weeks
>nothing really changed about me as a result but for some reason i suddenly "got it", as in how to act with women
>2 more months of travel and suddenly it's effortless
>pull 6-7 more girls like it's nothing, have sex with 2 of them
>get home, start actual job, keep getting laid semi often
>1 year later i'm at a body count of 9, two of which are currently regular fwbs i see around once a week each
>and finally approaching the Jow Forumsness i had when i was a virgin
tfw all of the sexual experiences and development i've ever had (to the point where i'm very confident in my ability to please any woman) happened in the year when i was in my worst shape of my adult life

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It's been easier to cheat on my wife when I got more fit. Being married is also a multiplier and gives you access to all sorts of pussy. You guys have no idea how many married women are out there and only have affairs with married men, because it's a Mutually Assured Destruction situation.

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Breh you should seriously look into bankruptcy. It'll change your entire life.

>work more on myself
>attract an intelligent woman
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>watch Stefan Molyneux
you're 15 and larping, or you're retarded

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standing up always seemed to be more of a showing off thing for the dude than an actually enjoyable position tbph, my gf asks me to do it occasionally but i think it's more of her wanting the satisfaction of being with someone who can than it is particularly pleasurable
>tfw have the Jow Forumsness to fug her in any position but her favourites where she cums the most are all the laziest ones for me (her on top, on her belly, doggy, spoons)

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Most confident I've ever been, most attention from women I've ever gotten, actually getting laid once in a while. Fuck all you Jow Forums blackpilled fucks.

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