Hi Jow Forums, I have something of a problem with a friend of mine...

Hi Jow Forums, I have something of a problem with a friend of mine. We both decided that we were going to get fit together and keep each other accountable, and that we would compete against each other in a constructive way to drive each other to be consistent and work hard.

However, that was three years ago. In that time I've more halved my body fat from 25% to 11%, and also gained 35-40lbs of muscle, which for my height and what I started with is pretty substantial.

The problem is that he never really got started. He kept saying "next week,' "next month," "as soon as I have the time" and so on. The result is that he's gained 20-30 pounds of fat, no muscle, and has wasted the past three years. He is now quite distant and it's difficult to socialize with him. He doesn't want to hang out after work any more and he doesn't talk about wanting to get fit anymore.

How do I get him out of this rut, re-establish our friendship and make him stop procrastinating? I want him to make it, but he just doesn't seem to have the will for it, and the last three years have only made him less and less motivated to even try. What do I do?

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It’s hard to want more for someone than they want for themselves.

suck his dick

hope that helps OP

No

How do you expect things to change then?

Just squeeze it or compliment it geez, you priss. He obviously lacks self-confidence and it means a lot coming from a trusted friend.
His life is in your hands.

issa joke OP. but body issues go deep, so just be nice to him. give him a kiss uwu

this loser is totaly not your level
you are a much better human than him

never talk to him again

maybe fuck his mom

this

if you wont suck his dick, hire a hooker to do so and act like she did it because she was into him. thats what friends do! and then suck his dick afterwards

wtf OP why wont you suck his dick?
Am I supposed to believe you are actually friends???

this. and then suck his dick

Based, maybe he's a secret incel and needs a confidence boost.

He clearly doesn't want it. You can't make him want it.

Just let it go.

you should seek to surround yourself with other inspirational people who can cause change in their own lives. You'd probably find them more interesting anyway.

NO REALLY?!??!!?!?
Do you think so ? Do you think his friend getting unbelievably fit while he swells up like a balloon filled with shit might have something to do with it?
Just let him dominate your ass a little OP. He will feel better. You will be the bigger man. It's just courtesy

OP he feels insecure dude to aging, and maybe other factors like genetics, looks, dick size, personal body issues etc.,
You're basically rubbing it in his face and making him feel threatened, causing him to withdraw to a place of comfort

give us an update OP. You still there?
I think it has been concluded that he suffers from insecurity and might do with some cheering up/validation.
Let us know if you suck him off. All the best.

But he's 3 years younger than me (both mid 20s) so ageing shouldn't be a big factor

Two Pots, one of brass, and one of earthenware floated down the stream. The earthenware pot tried its best to keep apart from the brass one, which cried out: “Fear nothing, friend, I will not strike you.” “But I may come in contact with you,” said the other, “if I come too close; and whether I hit you, or you hit me, I shall suffer.”

Does he seem underdeveloped? meaning that he looks way yonger than he is? Some people have their puberty late and have some strong downer periods and fucks with their impulses. It happened to one of me mates, despite being thrown around as a meme at this point he might LEGIT need testosterone therapy.

its more to do with the feeling of time getting away and increasing powerlessness

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could be, could be. maybe there are other (psychological) factors though

do you even understand hormones?
he feels vastly different unless you are twins with similar lifestyles
working out improves metabolism too, and he is in deficit, let alone compared to you

Just keep talking to him, normally. Tell him you're there for him.

It has to come from within user. Trust me, I had the Chad friend who led me down the right path but I was an absolute faggot about it for years until I was able to come to the same conclusion naturally.